Aliso viejo concerts in the park

I (22 F) have been with my bf (24) for a little over 4 yrs. Or relationship has been a bit rocky but we want to make it work. In total, we've lived together for a little under 3 yrs (weve lived in 3 different apartments together). Through out living together, we both agreed that some of those times were the best times of our life and we were deeply in love but when he got our last apartment together, we both fell into addiction issues and personal issues so thats what caused our break. I moved back into my parents and he & his best friend got an apartment together. We've had arguments here and there. But one thing we agreed is that we isolated ourselves in each other when we lived together and didn't have much attention for anyone else like friends. We had some come and go but his 2 best friends always stuck around and they'd come over sometimes.
Recently, he started getting paid more and I'm able to save up my money living at my parents.
Now, back tracking again. He and his best friend have ALWAYS been into going to concerts. They'd go to one 1-4 times a year... I've never been invited to a single one.. even for birthday gifts, I've bought both of them tickets for shows they wanted to go to but I've never been thought of to tag along.
Fast forward again, we have this extra money coming in now. He, his best friend, and another friend went to Disney World.. cool, fun.. I wasn't invited cause it was his best friend's birthday. Whatever.
Now, my bf is going out more with friends, which I'm happy for him.
More plans for concerts, going out to a party, planning a trip to Las Vegas for my bf's birthday... I'm still not invited.
I'm kind of more hurt about not getting invited to his birthday trip to Las Vegas. I guess I understand wanting to hang out with the boys but I've never really gotten any big plans with him & ive never really ever been able to travel anywhere cause my mother was sick for most of my life. Ive set dates for us to go to other states and they just never fell through. We went on a very tiny road trip recently and our 4 yr anniversary followed shortly after.... and we did nothing for our anniversary. So his excuse for doing nothing was our... very tiny road trip as a substitute for our 4 yr. I got really mad over this, he apologized, and said he'd make up for it... nope.
I've asked about going to concerts and... he doesn't want to see that artist or drive 1.5 hr away. I've asked about going to raves and that doesn't interest him.
I mention a trip to Washington in 3 months and... he's iffy.
Am I over thinking this? Am I right to kind of view from the sidelines and wish I'd get an invite? I feel like if I ask to go on the Las Vegas trip that he'll feel pressured. I'm happy he's going out with friends but I feel like he doesn't want to include me on big fun adventures.

Hey people, I have a question regarding the visual aid for front parking sensors.
This video is a really good example of my question.
https://youtu.be/zJd_S2pg3OQ
From the start of the video, the car is in reverse so he gets the rear camera + visual/hearing aid for the rear parking senors, but at 1:00 he gets them for the front sensors. What do you have to do to get the front sensors to come up on the infotainment screen?

I’ll keep it short, as the title says: After awhile of being single I think I’m ready to finally start dating again, I’m touch deprived and I’ve got too much free time, I’d like to have adventures with someone, I’ve had relationships with people my age and slighter younger and I’ve noticed a trend of immaturity and toxicity I’d like to avoid so I’m looking for someone older than me if possible
What I’m looking for: I’m not looking for just intercourse, intercourse is great obviously and I like intercourse but I’m looking for something more meaningful, with someone that matters. I’m looking for someone I can’t talk to and never get tired of talking to for hours on end. In terms of looks or race or anything like that I don’t have a preference really
About me: I’m 22 years old, going to online college, I’ve just discovered my love for working out and fitness, I like true crime podcasts, horror movies, shows like South Park, Seinfeld, and Unsolved Mysteries. I love music and can talk about it for hours, speaking of music I love classic rock, hard rock and indie rock as well as bands like the Arctic Monkeys and Daft Punk, I love football, baseball and hockey as well
If interested shoot me a message please

I hate when there's always that one person that prolongs class time by asking a million questions at the end of lecture.
I'm taking a summer class online that has a few Zoom lectures in the evening around 7p and our cameras have to be on so they can make sure we're paying attention. Around 8p tonight, lecture concluded and the guest speaker + our instructor asks if anyone has questions. This girl pipes up with something like 4 or 5 questions that have us sitting there an extra 30 minutes. Plus, this girl was typing in useless comments in the chat to...idk, get participation points or something? I had to make a concerted effort to not roll my eyes or make a face cause I was thinking "stop kissing ass so we can all go already."
Honestly, I shouldn't even blame the girl. I'm just complaining because I'm in a bad mood and annoyed at having to stay longer after a hell of a long day. During the summer, I have to drive 2 hours from home to my intern job on campus so 4hrs of driving + working all day to train the new hire and ending it with an evening lecture meant I was just exhausted and ready to stop "performing." I felt like I was being held hostage towards the end. I really wish instead of trying to force a discussion at the end of class, they would just open a forum we could type questions to so if anyone cares, wants to see the answer, they can read it at their leisure instead of having to stay afterwards.

So I just went on this date with an incredibly beautiful girl and I think it went pretty well.
We’re both 23 and went to high school together and just matched on tinder and decided to go for a walk at a park downtown by the river.
We both smoke the kush so we were just puffing on the dab pen and talking about life, she had moved away for a few years since we graduated and I was talking to her about what it was like living in another city etc. We had planned on getting a drink but the place we wanted to go to was closed so I walked her back to her car because she said she had to go meet her friend.
At this point we’d only been walking around for like an hour and when she said she had to go I thought It might have been a bad sign. I hadn’t even mentioned anything about a second date because I wasn’t really sure how the last hour really went and didn’t wanna put her on ther spot.
She then asked me if I was free after work in a couple days and wanted to have a drink with her somewhere and I totally said yes!
Since we were already at her car she asked me if I wanted to sit for a second and smoke so I did that too and then she left.
Afterwards I texted her and said hey I had a nice time and she said she did too and she was looking forward to the next time!
Feeling pretty good about it so far.

So I’m in a bit of an unfortunate circumstances as I had accidentally spent around $200 on my mom’s credit card and didn’t know it on a VPN.
So to try to make this as quick as possible I like watching anime and of course since I don’t wish to spend my mama’s money as I respect her and she already is doing a lot to get me a ticket to my first ever concert I use VPN free trials instead so if you can already expect the free trial expired and automatically got paid (really wish it didn’t do that). I thought the trial wasn’t over yet and I was planning to check it but I fell asleep and thought I had another day but no so here I am asking for some advice on how to get $200 in a short amount of time but just to add a small disclaimer I am underage not old enough to get any sort of major job yet other then paper route but I’m also not very experienced with earning money either.
I’ve put up a GoFundMe so hopefully something happens but definitely no promises at all.

Hi! So I live pretty near Detroit. I guess the whole metro detroit area. And since i see many people asking for the local scene here, i thought I’d ask too! I don’t really see any goths around where I live. Besides other few kinds of alt people at hot topic lol. I was wondering if there’s any goth clubs or places around my area. Or anyone else who’s goth around here. I don’t have that many friends and I’d like to get in the scene. I try to go to concerts, but I barely have the chance unfortunately.
Thanks!

I got a parking ticket in February and now has been sent to a parking enforcement agency in Wisconsin lol. Any way to not pay the $169 parking ticket?

I'm currently in pop up jail for the AMEX Green, and also already have the Platinum and Gold.
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The thing drawing me to the card is the 3x on hotels, car rentals, taxi/rideshare, tours and parking. I don't really for see myself *needing* to spend $3,000 in the next 3 months, but I think my travel over the next 3 months with the categories above would be a nice boost to my points and the Plat/Gold ecosystem.
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But, maybe I'm naive, would you still go for it?

I haven’t said all of this in years so forgive me if it’s hard to follow. But lmk if it is so I can fix it. And I am on a cell. But..Here we go..
When I graduated high school in 09 I started going down the wrong path. Honestly I was doing the most.. My aunt stole my new car, which was a graduation present, in order to convince me to leave our hometown and move in with my sister who lived in another state.
I ended up dating her husbands brother. He gave me a box of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too was a gift.
I was a naive 18 year old. I could not fathom someone would cheat on me. Much less cheat on me at the degree this man did.
I admit I took drugs. However he would get me to take more drugs than I had originally so I would pass out and he could go out.
On one occasion I woke up to find him and my car gone. I called a coworker in the middle of the night to help me. We drove around for a bit and found my car parked at a grocery store. He had been arrested for drinking and driving. The thing is my sister and his brother bought me this car so I could get to school and work and bring him to work. He was not allowed to drive it. He also worked for another family member so the next morning I called and lied saying he was very sick so no one would know what happened. I don’t remember why but one of his family members looked up the jail roster, told my sister and then my sister proceeded to sell my car. (Even then I understood their reasoning. If he were to hit someone they could be sued.) Eventually he got fired from his job because they found him passed out on drugs. All of our bills were suddenly on me, while I was in college working part time. Without a vehicle.
Somehow I managed to keep us from being homeless.
Then one night he has a sort of party at our home. For some reason I pass out. When I come to he is fist fighting a strippers boyfriend. Years later I realized he was doing inappropriate things with stripper while I was unconscious on drugs. Anytime I questioned his actions he always had a solid excuse. This man had the audacity to tell me he should cheat on me because I accused him all the time. Anyways the cops were called. We got evicted. His best friend came to drive him back to their hometown to party and continue to be a POS and I ended up moving into school housing. I hated how unfair it was.
It is quite embarrassing how I did not realize what was going on. We did break up for a while due to LDR. But got back together and lived together again for a short time.
That summer I took time off school to be with him. While both of us were staying with his best friend I found girls’ panties in his room. Best friends girlfriend tells me they’re hers. So I calm down. (Best friend doesn’t remember this) This is just an example of how things were always explained away.
One night his phone went off in the middle of the night. Not my best moment but I went through his phone. He could not deny the cheating anymore. I left the next morning. I think we were together for two years maybe three all together. Even though we have family ties we had not even spoken since.
Fast forward to 2017. Best friend ended up working in my hometown. I seen this on social media and invite him to hang out. Best friends ask ex if he cares. Nope. Did not care. But his girlfriend, the same girl who texted him the night before we broke up almost a decade previously, she cares very much. They don’t talk for 6 years. They broke up after she found evidence of cheating on his phone.
My now husband contacts him and they start taking again. Husband wants to fly him out here (we moved across the country less than a year into our relationship. For married a year later and now we have a 4 year old).
Here’s the thing. I planned to not be around when he visits. I don’t mean rent a hotel or anything. But I don’t plan on hanging out with him. My husband says he’s in a very bad place after the break up and that might make him feel unwelcome. I’m not one to ignore the elephant in the room. I’m going to name that motherfucker. So forgive and forget and hangout. Or forget and make myself scarce?

We have left a couple of days empty on purpose. I know the risk of having an itinerary that is too tight so those days are for last minute or overflow :) Have tried to make a mix of busy days and quieter days.
Welcoming all feedback and suggestions. Don't know what I don't know 😂
June 12 - Day 1 Land at 4.50pm, immigration, forward luggage to Kyoto accommodation. Skyliner to Nippori. Train to Komagome. Make way to Air BNB in Komagome.
June 13 - Day 2 Explore Ikebukuro/Sky Circus – Morning Harajuku & Shibuya Shubuya Crossing Shibuya Sky Observation Booking - Evening
June 14 - Day 3 Asakusa Nakamise Street Sensō-ji Ueno Park Harry Potter Café @ 7pm
June 15 - Day 4 Activate JR Pass - Take the shinkansen to Kyoto – check in to accommodation.
June 16 - Day 5 Visit the Fushimi Inari Shinto Shrine Visit the Arashiyama Bamboo Forest
June 17 - Day 6 Take a day trip to Nara Visit the Todai-ji temple and see the Great Buddha statue Early night!
June 18 - Day 7 Osaka Castle Osaka Aquarium Dotonbori at night
June 19 - Day 8 Day trip to Kobe
June 20 – Day 9 Day trip to Universal Studios
June 21 - Day 10 Day left empty on purpose for unplanned things.
June 22 - Day 11 Travel Kyoto to Tokyo. Check in at Ueno.
June 23 Day 12 Akihabara Go Karting Arcades and Shopping
June 24 Day 13 Potentially a day to Kawasaki/Yokohama.
June 25 Day 14 Tsukiji Outer Market Joyopolis Teamlabs
June 26 - Day 15 Sensō-ji Kirby Café & Skytree
June 27 - Day 16 Day trip DisneySea
June 28 - Day 17 Day left empty on purpose for last minute unplanned things and buying gifts for friends and family.
June 29 - Day 18 Flight home at 6.30pm
Thank you!

For some context, my mom s best friend has been in my life forever. since the beginning. It wasn't until recently that are dynamic started to change. We always innocently hug and kiss each other whenever we see each other. We are a Hispanic family so it's pretty normalized.But around May last year my mom came over with a couple of other friends and started drinking as the night went on people started to leave and eventually, it was just the three of us and I started drinking as well. We danced and drank all night and finally, my mom went to bed. We are still dancing and drinking and my back is turned toward her and then I spin and face her and she just looks at me. idk how to explain it but she just gave me a look and we started making out. Mind you we are both pretty drunk. so eventually I pull away and tell her we are gonna get in trouble and that we need to go to bed before we do something that we are going to regret. She walks me to my room and gives me a look again and we make out AGAIN. We then start feelin' each other up but then we go to bed nothing more happens. We woke up the next day and promised each other that we will never tell anyone what happened.I spent the next 1-1.5 months thinking about this. What does this mean? Why couldn't I stop? Am I into her or am I just attracted to the risk factor? SOOOO many questions. Eventually, I come to terms s that it's not that serious it won't happen again and not to overthink or feel too guilty about liking that feeling of "I shouldn't be doing this".Fast forward to last weekend. Im home for the summer and I am staying with my parents I get a call from my mom that she and her best friend need a ride from the restaurant to the club because they drank too much. So I Uber over there to pick them up and my mom's bsf comes out of the bathroom and she gives me that same look she gave me a year ago. so while my mom is in the bathroom she pulls me aside and holds me tight and says she still thinks about what happened and has been having a sexuality crisis. We finally get in the car and while my mom is talking to someone right outside the card she playfully starts touching my leg and then looks at me. I gave her a look that she needs to chill out. Honestly, tho it was such a rush. Anyway, I finally get them to the bar and then we get inside and they beg me to have a drink so I tell them ill just have one and then ill go home. while I'm figuring out the tip she grabs me by the waist and pulls me closer and pretends to ask me what I'm tipping and I laugh. I then tell my mom I'm headed home and of course, her best friend offers to walk me to the car and because life is a test I say yes and she walks me to the car and then gets inside. She tells me that she has an "affinity" towards me and that she's attracted to me and doesn't know what to do. I'm in shock so all I say is I'd noticed and to not worry about and then she says to me that if I had parked the car around the corner she would already be making out with me. I was in shock!!! And extremely turned on and confused!!!! I then pull out of the car and head back to the club to drop her off right as my mom is coming to the car to look for her. She leaves the car and comes around to say bye. 

Yall wtf is going on?? am I disgusting?? I feel disgusted by it one second and turned on the next. I have no idea wtf to do with this situation---
TL;DR; Yall wtf is going on?? am I disgusting?? I feel disgusted by it one second and turned on the next. I have no idea wtf to do with this situation.

Moved to Tx recently and I don't really want people to see me smoke. I can't smoke at home but I can smoke in the car (no tints) but it's all highways or heavily populated parking lots. Any tips for finding secluded areas that won't raise attention?

Unfortunately we aren’t able to attend the concert but would love for someone to enjoy them! The seats are in section 218, row z, seats 6 and 7.

I (22 F) have been with my bf (24) for a little over 4 yrs. Or relationship has been a bit rocky but we want to make it work. In total, we've lived together for a little under 3 yrs (weve lived in 3 different apartments together). Through out living together, we both agreed that some of those times were the best times of our life and we were deeply in love but when he got our last apartment together, we both fell into addiction issues and personal issues so thats what caused our break. I moved back into my parents and he & his best friend got an apartment together. We've had arguments here and there. But one thing we agreed is that we isolated ourselves in each other when we lived together and didn't have much attention for anyone else like friends. We had some come and go but his 2 best friends always stuck around and they'd come over sometimes.
Recently, he started getting paid more and I'm able to save up my money living at my parents.
Now, back tracking again. He and his best friend have ALWAYS been into going to concerts. They'd go to one 1-4 times a year... I've never been invited to a single one.. even for birthday gifts, I bought both of them tickets for shows they wanted to go to but I've never been thought of to tag along.
Fast forward again, we have this extra money coming in now. He, his best friend, and another friend went to Disney World in California.. cool, fun.. I wasn't invited cause it was his friend's birthday. Whatever.
Now, my bf is going out more with friends, which I'm happy for him.
More plans for concerts, going out to a party, planning a trip to Las Vegas for my bf's birthday... I'm still not invited.
I'm kind of more hurt about not getting invited to his birthday trip to Las Vegas. I guess I understand wanting to hang out with the boys but I've never really gotten any big plans with him & ive never really ever been able to travel anywhere cause my mother was sick for most of my life. Ive set dates for us to go to other states and they just never fell through. We went on a very tiny road trip recently and our 4 yr anniversary followed shortly after.... and we did nothing for our anniversary. So his excuse for doing nothing was our... very tiny road trip as a substitute for our 4 yr. I got really mad over this, he apologized, and said he'd make up for it... nope.
I've asked about going to concerts and... he doesn't want to see that artist or drive 1.5 hr away.
I mention a trip to Washington in 3 months and... he's iffy.
Am I over thinking this? Am I right to kind of view from the sidelines and wish I'd get an invite? I feel like if I ask to go on the Las Vegas trip that he'll feel pressured. I'm happy he's going out with friends but I feel like he doesn't want to include me on big fun adventures.

I don’t care if it’s Pantera, Disturbed, Linkin Park, System of a Down, Korn, whatever Nu Metal band was popular in the early 2000s. I really want the Hi-Fi Rush DLC that’s been teased to have at least ONE boss fight where you’re fighting him to the beat of a Nu Metal song.
Nu Metal has always been one of my favorite kind of music genres and since the game is probably getting a Story Expansion, one boss fight with a Nu metal song in the background isn’t too much to ask, is it?
Is it?

Hi .. Just logged in here, whats up?
ABOUT ME: I mostly do me time after work, which includes me going to grocery for the food I want to cook or walking to parks with my headphones on. I wanna do something extra with this routine, maybe an online chat friend would be great!
I'm into usual stuffs like movies, series, memes, kdrama, anime.. I like cooking and cleaning, especially when stressed.
Hmu if you are in NY or USA. Im online until midnight NY time :)

I suppose this would be applicable to any country not in NA. I'm hoping to eventually backpack Europe and visit several countries. I am aware of how possible it is thanks to the public transportation system. However, I feel most travel bloggers stick to big cities and landmarks as opposed to a respective country's national park system. Several EU countries have a few and beautiful NPs (Slovenia, Portugal, Andorra, Luxembourg, Belgium, etc.).
I was wondering if anyone has experience or insight on visiting national parks in Europe. Did the country have public transportation close to parks? Or, is the likely end-choice to rent a vehicle or book one of those packaged hiking excursions?