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2023.06.07 04:56 Short_Algo $HOOD Awaiting Buy Signal based off 10 signals $1,412 net profit 5.32 profit factor 90% win rate on a 15-min chart. Free trial at https://t.co/yI1SPnacSZ https://t.co/xKxH68bD5Q

$HOOD Awaiting Buy Signal based off 10 signals $1,412 net profit 5.32 profit factor 90% win rate on a 15-min chart. Free trial at https://t.co/yI1SPnacSZ https://t.co/xKxH68bD5Q submitted by Short_Algo to StockTradingIdeas [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:55 BoneMarrowButter On Xbox Old Gen, What card should I get for under 50k MT

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2023.06.07 04:54 lilspoon5 I’m an introvert Gemini. Does my chart show this?

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2023.06.07 04:54 Chr0macide Mark’s family was in the house with him during his alternate encounter

I commented about this on someone else’s post but I wanted to make a separate post to elaborate on the theory. Most people question why Mark was home alone, but what if Sarah and his parents were just in the house with him all along?
We know Mark got the call late at night, so everyone else was probably asleep when he went to Cesar’s house, so they couldn’t have seen the alternate following him back inside. However, we also know the alternate was camping outside his bedroom door for 3 days, so why did his parents not realize there was an alternate attacking Mark and try to do something about it? They probably did realize. The problem is that the alternate is invulnerable, so removing it by force is not an option, and it is doubtful that they would have been able to get close enough in the first place. The alternate was inflicting M.A.D. severe enough that Mark wouldn’t even open his door to try and leave, so we could probably assume that the same thing is keeping Mark’s parents away. His parents then likely tried to report the alternate to the police like Mark had, but no officers responded to them either because of the same reason (they were instructed not to respond to alternate reports). Mark ended up shooting himself.
About Sarah: she was probably in the house as well when everything happened. It would explain why she knows that the police were called but no officers were sent. If Mark was alone in the house throughout the encounter, then he would have been the only one to call the police. This would have enabled the MCPD to deny that they had even received a call and avoid the backlash they got from ignoring Mark’s call. The police training tape instructed phone operators not to send anyone out to deal with alternate reports, and the tape was not supposed to be seen by the public. It was supposed to be a secret that the police was ignoring calls about alternates, so how did Sarah find out that they were doing that unless she witnessed it firsthand? She witnessed her parents calling the police and saw that no officers ever arrived, that’s how she knows the MCPD specifically is at fault for Mark’s death. Not to mention, in the restored edition of Vol. 1 the alternate days to Mark “your little sister is so afraid. She’s waiting for you.” Easy to say it was just lying to mess with him, but it might be telling the truth, his sister is nearby and knows that Mark is dealing with an alternate in the house, that’s why she’s scared. What could ever hurt more than the truth? She was waiting for Mark to escape and come back to her, wanted so see that he was okay. But we know what happened in the end.
And I know somebody is gonna mention that the school called the police about Mark’s absences. If his family knew about the encounter from the beginning then why didn’t they call the school to tell them why Mark was absent? Well Mark was getting squared up on by an alternate, look me in the eye and answer me, if your child is running hands with a demon then is notifying his high school about his absence really going to be a priority for you? Or are you going to be hyperfocused on saving your child’s life?
Finally, the aftermath, when the school finally called the police to do a welfare check on Mark’s house. We see it was empty after he shot himself. His parents had already left with Sarah because, after calling the police, they eventually realized thy were not going to show up. They may have been scared out of the house as soon as they realized an alternate was there or they may have left the house at some later point to try and find someone else to help, since the police weren’t going to. Either way, it makes sense that the house was deserted when Thatcher arrived.
Anyway that’s my theory, Mark’s family was there during the alternate encounter. If this is true then it might seem weird that there is no mention of Mark’s parents in Vol. 1, but then again, there was no mention of Sarah in Vol. 1 either (except for in the restored edition) and she still eventually became highly relevant. Plus, it explains why Sarah blames the MCPD so strongly when their scheme to ignore alternate reports was meant to be a secret and removes the weirdness of 17-year-old Mark being alone in the house for 3 days before his absence was noticed. If you made it this far then thanks for reading lmao.
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2023.06.07 04:51 Autismetal After nearly completing a shakedown that got me back nearly 200 keys, I decided I'd finally show you all my new prison!

After nearly completing a shakedown that got me back nearly 200 keys, I decided I'd finally show you all my new prison! submitted by Autismetal to prisonarchitect [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:51 Full-Principle3432 I am so proud of the last one

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2023.06.07 04:50 Discuslover129 [USA-TN][H]Razer blade 15 advanced 3080ti gaming laptop [W] Paypal, local cash

Razer Blade 15 (2022) 
Screen 15.6 inch, FHD 1920 x 1080 px, IPS, 360 Hz, 2ms, matte
Processor Intel 12th-gen Alder Lake Core i7-12800H, 6C+8Ec/20T
Video Intel Iris Xe + Nvidia GeForce RTX 3080 Ti with 16GB of DDR6 VRAM (80-105W)
with MUX, without GSync on this variant
Memory 32 GB DDR5-4800 (2x 16GB DIMMs)
Storage 1x 1TB M.2 NVMe gen4 (Samsung) + extra M.2 slot
Connectivity Killer AX1690 Wifi 6E with Bluetooth 5.2
Ports left: DC-in, 2X USB 3.2 Gen 2 Type A, 1x USB3.2 Gen 2 Type C, headphone/mic combo
right: lock, HDMI 2.1, 1x USB 3.2 Gen 2 Type A, 1x USB Type C with Thunderbolt 4, UHS-II SD Card reader
Battery 80 Wh, 230 W charger
Size 355 mm or 13.98” (w) x 235 mm or 9.25” (d) x 16.99 mm or .67” (h)
Weight 2.01 kg (4.4 lbs) + charger
Extras backlit keyboard(RGB), FHD webcam with IR, stereo speakers, vapor chamber cooling

Asking price, 2200 shipped or 2100 local cash
Pictures and timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/oPuLYeo
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2023.06.07 04:50 Desperate-Mark-1692 Rendir dólares en Cocos

Rendir dólares en Cocos
buenas, basicamente eso.. me llegó un mail indicando esa posibilidad, tengo usd para invertir que no voy a utilizar por bastante tiempo y aunque sean dos empanadas no me molesta, obvio siempre y cuando no sea un riesgo.. y si, se lo pedorro que es cocos, si existe otro fondo en otra app es bienvenida
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2023.06.07 04:47 StandinIJ Looking to upgrade from G29 after 2 years. Enjoyed a lot of racing and I want to feel the track more. Don't want to break the bank either. Is this a good intermediate player setup? Will probably get a round wheel later for other series too.

Looking to upgrade from G29 after 2 years. Enjoyed a lot of racing and I want to feel the track more. Don't want to break the bank either. Is this a good intermediate player setup? Will probably get a round wheel later for other series too. submitted by StandinIJ to simracing [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:45 Loverofallthingsgood Poo Poo Head (literally)

💩 storm below-
I have a very bad roommate who has set up camp downstairs in the living room and never leaves aside for when he has work (part time). He leaves trash everywhere downstairs, and has not been contributing to house chores (sink is full of dishes and trash has not been taken out for 2 weeks).
He has been using the downstairs toilet frequently, and leaving his poop marks ALL over the toilet. I would attach a picture but it's truly disgusting. I have left several notes for him to clean up after himself, as well as texts. (and before you ask, no I do NOT want to talk to him in person, I want everything in writing for legal purposes).
He throws away my notes and ignores my texts, and I just found out from my other roommate he has been PURPOSELY leaving the poop there so once he leaves (at the end of the month) I WILL HAVE TO CLEAN IT UP.
This truly enraged me. My other roommate said she would clean it up, but that is not going to make me feel better.
He has also been bad-mouthing me to my property management, and even went as far as filing a false police report. I found out from my other roommate. Allegedly I went into his room and "did a blood spell on him with my period blood and he knows because he found dried blood in his room". NEVER have I ever done such a thing but supposedly he went to the police and filed a report anyways. I believe he did this so he could try to get out of the lease early, but all he ended up doing was putting a lock on his bedroom door. He also doesn't know that I know any of this information, he has been telling my other roommate and she tells me afterwards.
Please give me any advice you have on how to not let this idiot affect me and my mental health. I try to be the bigger person but this has gone too far and he needs to stop.
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2023.06.07 04:41 thejdam3256 I have severe driving anxiety and it's ruining my life

I (22M) live in a photogenic, good ol' western American suburb, still rocking my childhood bedroom in my parents' house (thanks rent prices). Growing up, I never needed to worry much about transport (or even thought about it at all, really), my elementary school is literally next to my subdivision, and any other place I visited regularly was either a 10 minute walk or 5 minute ride in my parents' cars; there was no inbetween. But, I'm not a kid anymore. I'm in my twenties. I have my own life (even if it doesn't feel like it), responsibilities and expectations. Problem is, I'm severely stunted by my stubborn, infuriating inability to operate a car. I started feeling it a little bit before I got my permit, but I chalked it up to just me being nervous. When I actually started driving, though, I never shook it, never "got used to it," never felt the godawful stress symptoms or negative opinions on it fade in any way. They only got worse and worse and now they're crippling, despite my effort and hours upon hours of forcing myself to do it.
I got my license out of pure spite and luck, and sometimes I seriously consider giving it up and just having a state issued ID so there's no expectation of me to drive. But I shut those thoughts down because I wouldn't be able to completely escape the horrible feelings anyway. In the years since, my intrusive thoughts and nauseating anxiety has bled into simply riding in a car in general, so having the ability to legally drive in an emergency situation would be nice, I guess.
It's difficult to describe how I feel when driving in a way that makes perfect sense to other people because my anxiety (fear? phobia?) is inherently irrational, and that makes it all the worse because the non caveman part of my brain recognizes that. So I guess I'll just ramble and push enter a couple of times when I'm done and maybe it'll make sense. I need to try and justify myself in a medium where I can think about what I'm saying so I don't sound absolutely insane and completely embarrass myself like I've done before.
Cars feel too big. I could be driving the smallest little Beetle or Mini, and the thing would still feel as big as a fucking continent. Even imagining driving one of those huge fuck off death machines called a pickup truck sends me into a spiral. The wheel being off center makes me feel like there's this, like, mass that's stuck to my side and I'm afraid I'm gonna smash into something whenever I turn right. You know that vertigo effect they do in movies? Where they move the camera backwards and zoom in at the same time when looking down a long hallway? That's similar to what it feels like looking across the hood of a car from the driver's seat to me. Like, the hood is so fucking long and it could be hiding anything behind it even though I know it isn't. I guess it makes me look at the road at least. Not to mention backing up, Jesus Christ backing up is a nightmare. Thank god for back up cameras.
Going at any decent speed makes me feel sick. Thinking about how fast I'm going on the highway, especially since I've been outside of a car on it and have seen and felt just how fucking fast a car going 60-80 mph is is insane to me. It feels so wrong. My gut feeling is that I should not have the ability to move something this stupidly big weighing literal tons this fast. I cannot fathom the idea of purposefully going over 100 mph in a car. That feels unreal to me. I genuinely don't think I could make myself do that. I get intrusive thoughts of unwittingly slamming into a median or someone materializing in front of me all the time. Imagining the aftermath of those scenarios make me want to puke. Obviously I try not to do that, but sometimes your mind wanders towards it anyway.
There's also just the general symptoms of anxiety and panic I feel when shit gets really stressful (i.e. the highway or traffic jams). My heart beats a million miles an hour, I sweat like a pig and hyperventilate, the works. I've gotten very good at grounding myself and focusing when it gets bad but fuck me it is always an awful experience.
I guess my brain chemistry is just not built for driving. At least I have a robust, efficient and affordable public transportation network in my city, right? No. This is America, baby! Of course, there's no other transport options near my home. The nearest bus stop is a convenient two hour walk away and the bus routes are shit! :) There is a train station somewhat nearby, but guess what? The route is shit and goes nowhere near where I need or want to go and in other cities no less! :) Biking around the stroads here is a fucking deathwish! There's also no bike lane or even a fucking sidewalk on 90% of the roads here! :) So essentially, I'm fucking landlocked. We bulldozed our cities for these dangerous, obnoxious, expensive machines and that is existentially infuriating.
My life has been completely fucked by this stupid, stupid thing I have. I can't get a job that's even a decent distance away, so I'm stuck doing gig work online and odd jobs around the neighborhood for money (and seasonal work for events that set up near my home). Shocker, it isn't much. I save what I can, but I am very poor because I insist on paying my own way for the things I use. I cannot afford a car and I don't even want one in the first place, but I kinda need one. Hey, at least I'm known as the neighborhood handy man? My parents both work jobs where they can be potentially called in at any time, so I need to schedule car use with them and I need to complete trips fast. My parents are very sweet and understanding and I love them to death, but I hate myself every time I need to go somewhere with one of their cars. Not only does it feel like I'm potentially jeopardizing their livelihoods if I get held up for any reason, but with my rambling you read above, it also feels like I'm signing up to get shot in the gut.
My dating life has been nonexistent since high school. I'm sure it makes a great first impression on someone when you can't go out to see them or if you ask them for a ride to the coffeeshop! :)
My group of close friends, god bless their souls, are also 100% understanding of my situation and have been so sweet by offering me rides to their apartment they share to hang out on the weekends. They're like siblings to me (we've all known each other since elementary school) but, again, it feels so wrong to have to rely on them to go places.
It is viscerally embarrassing when I ask them to go somewhere or to slow down on a back road because I feel gross, so I rarely do.
Honestly, I don't know what to do. I have no clue how to approach or start getting over this outside of just driving. But I think it's fairly obvious that I shouldn't be doing it just to do it. I feel like an insufferable leech and I wish I could just make myself go places. I'm not spending $50 on an Uber to the fucking grocery store. Any advice is very welcome because I'm getting really tired of feeling like a child in an adult man's body. I genuinely want to get better and start my life way after I should've. I want to stop telling my friends, "I'm okay," when I'm clearly not. But I'm very happy to have finally said this out loud to someone in a way I wanted. Thank you. God bless the suburbs.
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2023.06.07 04:41 gigi_jellyfish Scam?

This sounds like a scam and I got really excited about it :( what do you guys think?
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2023.06.07 04:40 Few_Needleworker_131 Storefront 😅💀

Storefront 😅💀 submitted by Few_Needleworker_131 to emiliekisersnark1 [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:38 tannerd96 For all drivers experiencing app issues!!!

For all drivers experiencing app issues!!!
This is what I recieved after being on the phone with Doordash support.
It seems there was a security update, and any phones that can't log back in have been marked for either being 1) jailbroken or 2) accessing your account through a 3rd party app.
I was literally told to just use a different phone...
So, for now, if this is affecting you, either get a new phone or stop driving are your options.
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2023.06.07 04:38 bleepingboop Need some help with first home

Need some help with first home
My sister and I are trying to purchase a potential new home. The floor plan for the house we’re interested in feels clunky. I would appreciate some opinion or feedback on simple renovations (preferably DIY) to make it flow better ?
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2023.06.07 04:38 Throwway-support Ya’ll have a passenger cancel on you because of something like this?

Ya’ll have a passenger cancel on you because of something like this? submitted by Throwway-support to uberdrivers [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:37 Active_Importance278 Should i use this new ultimate i just forged?

Should i use this new ultimate i just forged? submitted by Active_Importance278 to eatventureofficial [link] [comments]

2023.06.07 04:36 Sad_Onion_3385 Tủ Lạnh Cũ Hitachi R-FR48M3 475 lít đời 2013

Tủ Lạnh Cũ Hitachi R-FR48M3 475 lít đời 2013
Tủ lạnh nội địa HITACHI R-FR48M3 475 LIT đời 2013 hút chân không, đã qua sử dụng còn mới 98%, chưa qua sửa chữa, còn nguyên zin cực đẹp, siêu mới.
❄Mã hàng : R-FR48M3
❄Hãng sản xuất : Hitachi
❄Xuất xứ : Nhật bản
❄Kiểu tủ : 6 cánh - cửa chẻ
❄Dung tích sử dụng : 475 lit
❄Kích thước : 685 x 643 x 1818mm
❄Trọng lượng : 93 KG
❄Công suất tiêu thụ 1 năm tối đa : 260KWh
❄Loại gas : R600A siêu tiết kiêm
❄Làm đá rơi tự động
❄Chất liệu khay ngăn : Thủy tinh chịu lực cao
Đặc điểm nổi bật của Tủ lạnh Hitachi R-FR48M3
♻️Thiết kế sang trọng đẳng cấp : Tủ lạnh cũ Hitachi R-FR48M3 6 cửa sản xuất tại Nhật Bản với nhiều tính năng công nghệ mới: thiết kế đột phá. Là sự lựa chọn đẳng cấp cho gia đình bạn, Chắc chắn bạn sẽ cảm thấy hài lòng khi bời sự tiện nghi mà chiếc tủ lạnh công nghệ cao này đem lại.
♻️Ngăn chân không : Với thiết kế đặc biệt, tủ lạnh Hitachi kết hợp hút chân không bảo quản khoảng ở áp suất 0.8hPa sẽ làm giảm khả năng quá trình oxy hóa các chất dinh dưỡng. Khay nhôm lạnh có độ sương giá cao sẽ làm lạnh thực phẩm nhanh hơn, ngăn nhỏ giọt, giúp giữ lại hương vị và chất dinh dưỡng như lúc ban đầu.
♻️Công nghệ làm lạnh Frost Recycling : Được ứng dụng trên các dòng tủ lạnh dung tích lớn, công nghệ làm lạnh Frost Recyling đến từ Hitachi là một sáng tạo vô cùng độc đáo, cho phép tái chế khả năng làm lạnh mà không cần máy nén.
♻️Cụ thể, khi tủ lạnh đạt đến độ lạnh phù hợp, máy nén sẽ tự động được tắt, khi đó, tuyết trên dàn lạnh sẽ được tận dụng để giữ nhiệt độ luôn thấp. Sự kết hợp giữa máy nén hiệu suất cao và hệ thống cách nhiệt tiên tiến bằng tấm chân không giúp tủ lạnh hoạt động hiệu quả mà vẫn tiết kiệm điện năng.
♻️Cảm biến ECO thông minh : Các điều khiển thông minh Eco sẽ giúp tủ lạnh Hitachi tiết kiệm điện năng hơn nữa nhờ các bộ cảm biến, bộ điều chỉnh dòng máy nén. Chế độ tiết kiệm điện được thiết kế để giảm tối đa điện năng tiêu thụ: chuông sẽ báo động khí cửa mở hơn 30 giây, đèn sẽ mờ đi, tốc độ làm mát giảm đáng kể để giảm hoạt động của máy nén.
♻️Thân thiện môi trường : Tủ lạnh HITACHI sử dụng gas R600A với sự cam kết bảo vệ môi trường của Hitachi, tủ lạnh Hitachi dòng C-series kết hợp một loạt các sáng kiến ​​môi trường tiên tiến để đạt được hiệu quả sinh thái hoàn chỉnh.
♻️Trong quá trình tái sử dụng hơi lạnh, máy nén sẽ tự động tắt khi các điều kiện ướp lạnh được tối ưu hóa, giảm tiêu thụ điện năng đáng kể
♻️Công nghệ làm sạch Nano : Công nghệ Nano khử mùi và diệt khuẩn Công nghệ Nano tiệt trùng là một tính năng mới có chứa Titanium carbon có kích thước nano để nắm bắt và diệt các vi trùng và khử mùi hôi
♻️Alarm Door : hệ thống cảnh báo thông minh cho người sử dụng khi cửa tủ chưa đóng📷
✅Bảo hành 12 tháng
✅Tặng biến áp
✅Miễn phí giao hàng tận nơi trong TP HCM
✅Có giá siêu tốt cho cửa hàng và ae thợ
☎Quý khách hàng có nhu cầu mua tủ lạnh cũ giá rẻ liên hệ:
⏩Địa chỉ: Đường Vĩnh Lộc, Xã Vĩnh Lộc B, H. Bình Chánh, HCM
☎Hotline Zalo : 0932139117
⏩Email: [email protected]
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2023.06.07 04:35 gmillerjr [PC Server] - PVE [A1] - Gaming Community Ark Cluster

Freshly wiped Cluster! Hello Everyone! Welcome to the A1 Gaming Community. We're a cluster that's built with our community's input. All our admins started as players and have been involved in Ark and our group for years. Our goal is to provide a fun place where you can leave any baggage at the door to your digital world. With that in mind, we also provide a safe haven for your creatures and resources. While other maps will wipe every 6 months, Haven will remain a homebase that never wipes as long as possible.
Season 6 has gone live with a fresh wipe of maps. All our maps are hosted on bare metal servers with high-speed storage and enterprise-class specs. This provides the most stable and flexible gaming experience.
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Thanks for reading <3 Here are some links to some of our pages, of course, if you have any questions or need and help, hop on our Discord and we'll be there!
TLDR: Join us for shenanigans!
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2023.06.07 04:32 cheater00 PLEASE make reload and use/interact different buttons (energy reloading bug)

Every time i miss the door the stupid zap gun wastes an energy cell. It's soooooooooooooo annoying because then I have to reload. This game is difficult to play on the deck for that reason alone.
So I use the R4 button on my deck for interact by remapping it to the X controller button. I thought about maybe somehow mapping these two to keyboard buttons instead so that I can make this distinction myself: back paddle to interact, X to reload. But then I remembered that when I save, I press X to create a new save, and once that's done, the game buffers the input and makes guns reload as well. So that absolutely sucks arse. And if I wanted to make the X button do reloading only, then I'd have to bind it to something on the keyboard, and then that would mean that I can't create new save games anymore at all with the X button.
So here's my suggestion:
this way, unwanted reloads will be a thing of the past.
it's less of a problem with bullet guns, but with energy guns it wastes a cell for no reason (whereas i want to keep it for when i really, really need it) and given that the zap gun is what you'll be running most of the time, that's just intensely annoying
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2023.06.07 04:31 blackhawkmomma 2nd Bug- unfortunately visual

2nd Bug- unfortunately visual
I did not receive the SP
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2023.06.07 04:31 ThrowRA246813 I (26f) have no libido and I think it's causing my relationship with (26m) to fall apart

Idk what I'm even looking for - hope? Wisdom? Words of advice? Opinions?
Short version: our relationship (8yrs) has been.... rocky.... for a few years. His job is stressful. We have toddlers. I'm in school. You get the picture - everything's high stress. Lately though, I'm starting to feel like things are just wrong. I described it to a friend as being "burnt out on life" and I feel like that's pretty accurate. There's just so much happening and I'm losing my grip. I'm not sure if this is a personal issue or a relationship issue or what.
Basically, some of my current stressors include: -I'm in the final semester of a high stress degree. I have class, on site training, capstone, etc -I am responsible for 80% of childcare. They have a daycare/babysitter when I'm in class but as soon as that's done, I pick them up. From there, all cooking, cleaning, bathing, and activities related to the kids are my responsibility. -I am also responsible for all household chores (cooking, cleaning, laundry, household shopping, etc) -I manage our finances (like budget/making sure bills are paid) -my partner and I have been arguing more lately about how I'm not raising the kids/caring for the house to his standards and he wants to stay home once I graduate so he can do things the way he wants them done (he feels like he doesn't have a say in things currently) ....there are other things but that pretty much covers the big points. (Worth noting - he is the sole financial provider while I'm in school so he has plenty of stress too)
Now, it's also worth noting that I've had NO sex drive lately. Like, none. At all. Possibly related to the previously listed stressors but idk. My partner, however, would prefer to be intimate at least once daily. This has caused some tension to say the least. Basically - he tries to initiate, I say I'm not in the mood, he gets upset because we never have s*x so he's not sure why he bothers. I get upset because I feel like he's trying to make me feel bad for saying no. Rinse and repeat. We have sex 1-2x/month probably but have this fight probably 2+ times/week. It's killing our relationship. He has mentioned wanting to "open the relationship", I think that's a horrible solution.
At this point I feel like I'm losing it. Part of me thinks this is my fault and I'm failing as a partner but the other part thinks there's no way.... I keep telling myself it'll get better when we move (we live with relatives while I'm finishing school) but I'm starting to worry it won't.
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