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Yesterday I saw the post here about military avoiding healthcare (I definitely understand this topic, I also don’t like going to flight med for all the obvious reasons), and there was a comment that really made me feel bad:
“God forbid you go to MH you might as well leave your wings in the therapists desk the second you walk in”.
Literally that is my fear.
This statement hit the nail on the head of one of my biggest fears ever.
I am so scared that just talking to mental health will end my service. I love flying, its my passion, it’s a part of my identity, and the thought of losing my wings scares the sht out of me.
I am a female pilot, and I had my first mental health appointment today.
I was referred by the flight doc to mental health (and women’s health) because I have physical pains related to intimacy. I am a statistic of #metoo, it’s been years…but after years of not dealing with it, now I have to deal with it because it’s affecting my relationship with my husband. That’s only one of the stressors I’m dealing with (family/relationship issues is the other big thing) but it’s the one that got me referred to mental health.
I was honest about my fear with the therapist today, that I don’t want to lose my wings. I want to be healthy, I don’t want to take medicine or get a diagnosis if I don’t need to, the thought of losing my wings and getting kicked out of the military because I have problems associated with intimacy because of a traumatic experience caused by a fellow servicemember many years ago, or that I’m having relationship issues…that those things could ground me or MEB me makes it hard to feel open.
The therapist said she does not want to DNIF me or thinks that will happen, and a lot of the issues I talked about (complicated family/relationship stuff) don’t seem to warrant a type of diagnosis or medicine, and if it ever got to that point, we would talk before it ever got to a grounding type of situation. She also said I have the freedom to stop going to MH, or can also ask for an off base provider.
She expressed something along the lines of…the military is where you get punished for having normal human behavior and responses which isn’t fair, and she is not going to put anything in my record that would ground me, unless something drastic were to change (like expressing harm to self or others).
The flight doc who referred me said this therapist is really good with victims of SA, and wants to help aviators without ruining their careers, and the doc was absolutely right about her.
I have cried several times over the thought of going to mental health ruining my career, and the unfairness that if you seek help you get kicked out. I have been so scared, so absolutely terrified of this appointment. I’m still scared to be honest a little, that fear isn’t 100% gone after this appointment. This is the scariest choice I have ever made, because I know what’s on the line.
The therapist was a wonderful person who just listened to me talk about many different stressors I have had over the past few years, and gave insight into some of those issues. I go back in 3 weeks.
I feel so relieved after this session, that my wings aren’t directly on the line. Sometimes you just need someone to listen to you. I know that there is a risk of being diagnosed with something, but this therapist is very supportive about helping without getting grounded unless necessary, which seems different from the views I’ve seen people go through.
I know everybody’s experiences with health care are all different. Everybody has different stressors, responses, feelings, problems, doctors, outcomes, everything. I wanted to share one small positive story about mental health, and that it could maybe help someone reach out who wants to get help but is scared to. I don’t know where my story will end, but I know everything will be okay.
I have also been using military one source for couples counseling for a few months (and individual counseling for a month) and I highly recommend them too. The off base therapist is really helping my husband and I work through tough issues like communication, especially as it relates to intimacy, and I really can’t stress the importance of giving MOS a try first if you’re scared about going to mental health.
The point is, please don’t suffer alone. I know how much it hurts to feel alone, or to feel like there are things out of your control…but there is always someone who will listen.
It’s scary calling military one source or going to mental health, having to admit there are issues that you’re working through, but it will get better. Take that leap and pick up the phone.
It takes a lot of strength to ask for help. So often we are used to being the person who is strong for everybody else, especially in leadership roles, and it is hard to admit when we need help but help is there. My big big boss said something along the lines of that recently at an all call and it almost made me cry because I had never thought of it that way before, and it’s absolutely true.
You can give help and also need help. You can be strong and feel weak at the same time. You can be great at work, and a mess at home. Or vice versa.
Life is messy. We’re all trying to get through it, and some days/weeks/months/years are worse and some better. This too shall pass.
I know many people, especially aviators, are scared about going to mental health. I am one of those people. It helped me feel better today. I hope if you need help, especially as someone on flying status/controlling/PRP/etc, you seek help. If not MH, try MOS.
Have a great day…It’s almost the weekend. Take some time for you.

I have naturally very dark brown hair (almost black hair) with light brown/almost blonde baby lights. It’s a very lived in color and I still have a lot of my natural hair color all over - I just have some baby lights mixed in all over. I haven’t gotten my hair toned in about 5 months, so it’s a little brassy but I do use blue shampoo. I was wondering if it would be recommended for me to use the keracolor clenditioner between toning appointments? If so, what color? Is there anything bad about this product or anything I should be aware of about it?
I haven’t read any reviews of anyone using this product with my hair colobaby lights. Thank you!

There is a public post on IG that includes my picture and full name with a caption that is slandering me. I have been reporting the post for “harassment and bullying” ever since 2020 but keep getting rejected. IG eventually sent me a link to appeal it to the Oversight Board. It has been over a month and I’ve received zero updates. I can’t tell if it’s because this is a process that takes a while to resolve or if the Oversight Board decided not to review my case. Has anyone had any experiences at all with this?
Sidenote: I’m new to Reddit and still learning how to use it. If there’s a better subreddit to post this question in please let me know.

We are in our 3 years and our relationship is getting tougher. I still want to try make it work bit my bf seems to be at his limit. We were planning to have a trip together in May but now it seems it's going to be a break up trip instead...
Should we still go even if there are chances we are going to breakup anyway? Or just cancel the trip? If we're going to cancel, I'm willing to pay him back my share of tickets/hotel but would that be rude intead?
I'm really so lost right now, I want to make it happen but I also know that he feels more and more suffered with our relationship. How can I fix this relationship if he's not sure about us anymore...

The WiFi on my MacBook Pro Unibody Mid 2012 15'' stopped working a few weeks ago and shows "Wi-Fi: no hardware installed". After searching online, I found this post here https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/277153/macbook-is-displaying-the-message-no-hardware-installed-when-i-click-on-wi-fi
Now, here is the problem.
When the WiFi stopped working a few weeks ago, the bluetooth also stopped working. So both the WiFi and bluetooth did not work. Then, I ordered a replacement WiFi cable because I thought that the issue could come from there, and then I followed the steps here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tg5gNop2Cos&ab_channel=GRIBSOFT to replace the old WiFi cable. Surprisingly, the Bluetooth started working again, but the WiFi still showed "Wi-Fi: no hardware installed". I then ordered a second WiFi cable from a different seller, and again replaced the cable. But the outcome is still the same, the bluetooth works but the WiFi not.
After searching online, the issue could come from the Airport Card. Before ordering one, what I don't understand is: if the issue could be due to the Airport Card, how is it possible that the bluetooth works again after replacing the WiFi cable ? I even put back the old WiFi cable, and when I did, the bluetooth stopped working again. So the bluetooth works with the two new replacement WiFi cables I ordered, but not with the original cable. And the WiFi doesn't work at all with any cable.
This seems really strange to me. Either the issue comes from the Airport card, and then the bluetooth should not be working when the WiFi cable is replaced, or the issue comes from the WiFi cable, but then the WiFi should be working again after replacing the cable.
By the way, I tried any other way I found on the Internet, including resetting NVRAM and SMC, removing NetworkInterfaces.plist, reinstalling OS X, Apple Hardware Test and other possible fixes I found online. Nothing worked. So if the issue really comes from the Airport cable, how do you explain that ? If it doesn't come from there, and the above fixes didn't work, what else could it possibly be ?
I haven been searching for several hours, but did not find any explanation on this, so I thought I might as well ask. Thank you so much for your help

I'm 7 weeks po and I've hit my first stall. It's not even a stall, it's Thursday and I'm the same weight I was on Saturday. I know it's not technically a stall unless it's been two weeks. I know I'm eating at a huge deficit (less than 1,000/day). I know it's only been a few days and the weight will come off eventually. Rationally, I know all of this. Rationally, I know I need to chill out and trust the process.
However, I've lost weight on my own so many times before. I have never gotten below 275. I always end up stalling, losing steam, and regaining. I'm 281 now. There is a part of my brain that is telling me that this is it. This is when it all goes haywire because it always has and always will. I desperately want this time to be different. It is different, because I have the surgery. It is different because I have lost an average of over 5 lbs a week instead of 1 - 2 per week. It still doesn't feel fast enough.
I still feel like the same old fat person. I feel like I've missed out on so much potential for my life because I held myself back with my weight. My brain is telling me that this is me and I'll never clear this arbitrary hurdle.
I don't know why I posted this. It's just a rant. It sucks when you have 10+ years of repeated failures as proof that every attempt to be a better, healthier person is futile.

You cut flowers for our home now instead of cutting me with the words and silence that always left scars there’s still time left to smooth them over
Open the blinds let’s see each other in the light our sins refracted, our sorrow diffused not mediated by the cryptic and the abstruse just me and you, green like chartreuse
I make us tea, you make our bed let the sun rays reflect there’s ugliness here but that’s okay dear it’s no match for the beauty that flows when we’re near
All your sharp pieces on the floor your heart’s sore and I’m wore glass crunches under the broom while you play piano in the other room a delicate duet meld them back together with gold cradle it til it sets
We can leave our love on the vine a little longer I know it’s mine but time can make it sweeter, make it softer haste would only leave the bitter taste of a love unripe, a dream that wastes
Still time lunges toward us like a hound a peach grown so soft that it drops to the ground let time mar us as one, don’t face gravity in solitude it’s still the spring of our lives but when I rot I better rot with you
//
Sorry this poem is kind of all over the place, I keep adding more as I try to refine/rework and I’m not sure what else to do with it at this point but it also doesn’t feel like a final product lol. Posted yesterday but reposted after I made a few changes
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What is proper etiquette on this question? Was using 1 out of the 3 pulldown machines at my gym & was approached with this. There was still 1 pull down open for use at the time.

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so i got x4 a few weeks ago, admittedly messed around and got carried away with mods for a bit, and about 2-3 days ago i decided to actually play the game and make a mostly-vanilla save file (i still have the reaction force mod installed, but thats it)
admittedly as well, i did start with a custom start since i kind of wanted a self insert instead of playing as val selton (its mostly the same as the "young gun" start, but i used the nova as the starter ship instead of the elite, and i forgot to add the docking and energy production blueprints to my character so quite a bit of time was spent getting the former thus far lmao)
onto the actual post though, as it stands right now i have a fleet of 3 mining ships that provide constant silicon to the teladi stations in grand exchange, and im planning to expand that fleet to 6 or 8 soon. i have my first medium ship, the cerberus vanguard, with a decent loadout, and my aforementioned nova repurposed as an interceptor for it, and i currently have the HQ with Boso Ta in it.
as for faction relations, i have both argon and antigone relations at +10 right now, and my teladi relations are approaching the same number, currently at +8 right now. besides that, im not sure of who else i should befriend, though when i have the resources to do so, i might try fighting the scale plate tact
along with expanding my mining fleet, i soon plan to add energy production to my PHQ for even more passive income, and probably start the "Argon vs Pontifex" questline soon. is there any advice or such that would be useful for me to know? or is there any suggestions as to what i should do for my current early game? i would like to learn as much about this game as possible so i don't end up screwing up my save later

I plan on going all over Ireland sometime in the fall this year. I've heard Guineas and Murphy's are supposed to be even better in Ireland, because it's fresher or something. However I'm not a fan of beer for the most part. I'm more into cocktails and the zaza really. The most I'll do is a Corona with a lime from time to time hahah.
What kind of drink should I order from the pubs? Or even other drinks that are worth trying too! Im still gonna order Guineas and Murphy's for the sake of trying it. But I need recommendations for what I should order the other 6 days during my trip lol

I(22F) am a full-time college student and work part time as well. My parents (44F) and (47M) stay at home and don't work. I pay rent, ultities, food, etc things we need. I recently noticed but didn't pay mind to how the acted with me. I tend to buy food when coming from work and buy for them usually a family pack or bundle. Yet whenever they do go out (which is almost every other day) ,they never get me anything, again I didn't pay mind at first as they claimed to not have much money. One time a friend of mine came to study with me and got me some Chinese food that I was unaware about until the came over. I was happy but my step-dad was pissed and bad mouthed me to my mom about me buying food for myself, that is until he runs his mouth about that's why he doesn't buy me food too. It kind of clicked he doesn't like me much to buy food, but lying about it hurt when I wasn't even the one buying food that evening, it was my college study friend. My mom swears he didn't mean that and I tried to let it go but the signs showed more. I've noticed he eats and drinks all my stuff (he's diabetic so I get him sugar free stuff), my stuff runs out fast while he still has his sugar free food and diet cokes. I was out for a couple days with my friends at their house, came back to the new 12 pack of coke and my snacks gone. I've asked them before if they take my stuff to ask or let me know ,yet it seems they don't care. My mom shrugs it off while my step-dad (Stephan) hordes all the food and drinks. My mom tries to say Stephan contributes and buys me food but he never does actually, it's my mom that sometimes buys for me. My last straw was yesterday when I bought food for them and got a bundle from weinerschitzel. I had a coupon for 8 chili dogs, 4 corn dogs, and some fries, I even get a few more on the side to kinda last us. In total ur was about 12 chili ones, 8 corn dogs and 5 small fries. I had one chili dog as I was tired from school and work then went to bed. I asked if they would save me a couple chili ones since I wanted to take some to school to munch on. The following morning, I saw the big bag of weinerschitzel in the fridge and happily went to reach in it. It was empty...all was left was ketchup packets and a couple of fries I guess fell to the bottom. All I wanted was at least one chili dog but they didn't save me anything and rolled their eyes when I asked if perhaps the placed a dog for me in the fridge somewhere else. After constantly getting chewed out about being selfish and not to touch or waste other people's food, I just lost it. I broke down and cried. They didnt care about me, and after all these years it makes sense. It wasn't the first time they've done this to me but it Was The final blow that woke me up. They were the greedy ones and I was so foolish to believe them. I don't know what to do, I just don't want to be home with them anymore.

So I'm in the philippines and I joined this club on x poker that a local contact recommended. Because I'm a huge whale I dusted off like $200 playing PLO 4 and 5 at various stakes but mostly at like $100 buy in games. Games seemed decent, and a nice thing is with x poker u can buy "rival data" for only $6. Anyway, as part of my deposit I got them to send like $20 worth of chips to my fiance. yesterday I got her into a free roll tourney, which was decent cause ur short stacked the whole time so its pretty easy to tell her push / fold standards.
anyway today she asked me how to make some pesos in the club so I got her into a cash game. the game is .10/.20 but that is in pesos, so 100 big blinds (20 pesos) is actually equivalent of like 37 cents. That's right, substantially lower stakes than $0.01/$0.02. And since she has basically zero experience playing poker it is perfect, she can play and learn and make mistakes while losing practically zero real money. And she was really grinding it. Still a total amateur, I've been trying to teach her about position and RFI standards and what not. But I think she is learning a lot just playing and I'm teaching her and showing her how to play hands. Plus she's up like 40 pesos (200 bb) so it is going alright anyway. As you can imagine the games are pretty soft, with lots of short stackers and people randomly stacking off pre with air.
Does anyone have any good resources (youtube video? or other) for absolute beginners?

How long does it take for your periods to be less intense? I had my first shot and still have debilitating cramps with sharp pain that isn't helped by analgesics. Is it worth it?
I hesitantly went along with my Dr recommendation for the Depo provera shot about 3 weeks ago. She assured me that mood swings and depression are not common with the shot (I knew that was a lie). I thought maybe it would be different because I am sober and on anti-depressants.
I was fine until my PMS which had me almost walking out of work because of an imaginary slight by one of my co-workers. I have dealt with paranoid delusions as part of my myriad of mental illnesses before but not since being medicated. I also grew extremely depressed with suicidal thoughts.
I thought "Well if I mentally prepare better I can resist acting on delusional thoughts. As long as it reduces my pain it is worth it!"
Does it ever actually reduce pain and stop your period? Will it ever be worth it? The doctor said the first month there would be "spotting and breakthrough bleeding" but I had a full on normal period.

First post, long, seeking advice. My husband (42m) and I (38f) have been together 13 years. He works full time, I’m home with the kids and work part time.
He’s always been quiet, but in recent years hardly speaks to me. I can get him talking about his favorite team, but that’s about it. If I don’t initiate, he can go days without saying “I love you” or offering a hug or kiss. I’ve been turned down so often for intimacy that I rarely initiate anymore.
I’m the only one who plans dates, even then he hardly shows interest in me. Not just intimacy, but conversation as well. It just feels like I’m the only one trying to connect.
He’s a good person, never says a mean word to anyone. He is more involved as a dad than his or mine ever were, although that bar was set pretty low. Unless I specifically ask him to do an activity with the kids, he tends to scroll his phone or watch TV than join us in whatever we’re doing.
We have separate bank accounts, he handles a larger portion of the bills, I cover less but still several. I handle the bulk of household and kid responsibilities.
I’m pretty direct in communication, he bottles things up and hopes it resolves itself. Postpartum was rough on my mental health, and I’m actively taking steps to work on myself. I’ve tried talking to him, extra dates, making the house more welcoming.
I just feel so disconnected. He agrees but says it’s just our “stage of life” with kids and work. I asked him to join me for marriage counseling, but he refuses. To be clear, I don’t want to leave. I want us both to enjoy life together again instead of just existing next to each other. Any ideas welcome.

Ok, so rewatching ATLA, I started thinking about the chapter about Guru Pathik and the Chakras and ended up with a theory.
We were told the Fire Chakra was blocked by shame, and powered by willpower. Iroh also told Zuko that pride was the source of shame, and that true humility was its opposite.
With that in mind, I ask: did Zuko have his Fire Chakra blocked for 5/6 of the series ?
My argument is the following. Zuko was a late bloomer, which means that his bending was developed later than expected, but has nothing to do with it being higher or lower. By being the first born of the FN Prince, him being a late bloomer was a shame for his nation, and for that his father, grandfather and the Fire Sages doubted him since his birth. That means that when he developed his bending the damage was already done. Zuko felt shame since he can remember, and he tries to counter it with his pride, which only increases that shame and that causes his inner turmoil, weakening his firebending and preventing him to master Lightning bending. Only when he finally snaps and decides to join the Gaang, learning the true drive of firebending, he cleansed his fire chakra and developed his true potential. That would explain why he manages to bend Dragons Fire only seeing it once, or why he is the first firebender to properly fly with jet propulsion without Comet amp and carrying the Earth King (as Azula never properly flies). This doesn’t mean he has a higher potential than Azula, because Azula’s may be the highest potential ever seen in a firebender; but that Zuko’s potential was higher than we thought. In the end, he still is product of that prophecy of powerful rulers born from the combination of the Avatar’s and the Fire Lord’s bloodlines.

I (19F) had an experience with an ex of mine B (19M) 3 years ago that haunts me to this day.
When we were 16 and were still attending secondary I had started a relationship with a close friend of mine B. B was nice and seemed to have similar interests as me and we also shared some mutual friends and classes.
Everything in the relationship seemed fine from a surface level, no arguments, never an awkward moment together however it was never really like that. He would consistently refuse to talk to me to play destiny 2 (of all fucking games) and didn't seem interested in talking to me outside of seeing me in person, However this is where it starts to turn for the worse.
Just for some context he has admitted to me he has a porn addiction, however being 16 years old I didn't realise the extent this would mean. After just 2 weeks of being together I was at his home as usual watching some videos and eating some food when he started to pressure me to have sex with him. After I said no continuously, I gave in as he would grow cold and wouldn't talk about anything else. This continued the entire relationship where every time I saw him it was just for sex or sexual actions after I would continuously say no, I would feel pressured to say yes every time and believed this was normal in a relationship although it took a toll on my mental health.
Yes I am aware I was the one who gave in and I beat myself up about this every day however I cannot unsee his room every time I close my eyes to go to sleep, nearly every night he is in my dreams trying to manipulate me and it scares me, I feel almost alone. My parents tell me its my fault for telling them years later and blame me for not saying "no enough", my ex friend knew the situation and still would drink with him and post photos together while telling me how terrible he is for doing that to me. The only person who knows the FULL truth is my current partner as he heard my ex admit what he did on a phone call we did not record as well as text messages I deleted during a mental breakdown.
I am scared and unsure where to go from here. I don't know if this is SA, Rape or me being delusional (another thing he called me frequently even though he was asked to stop)
Thank you for reading.

I seem to remember someone complaining a while ago that the AI doesn't change its actions based what pokemon you have it disguised as, and thus the ability is useless. Is this still true? Just wanted to check before I made a fusion with it.

Bluestacks 511.40.2001 N32
When attempting to play an ad in game the client attempts to load the ad but I get hit with the games response saying the ad is still on cooldown etc.
Basically it seems like the client is unable to be served why the ad server for some reason. I don''t get this issue on mobile.
Google Play and Google Games are up to date, the game is up to date and I have ads enabled in the preferences tag of Blue stacks.
Any ideas?

Unplug any devices that are connected to your computer, except the power adapter. Hold down the Command and Control keys while you press the power button to restart the computer. Let the battery charge to at least 10 percent before plugging in any external devices and resuming your work.
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I’m trying to create a AAD Dynamic Group that includes only users that have an M365 license. I don’t care what kind of license they have, only that they have one—i.e. they are an active, current employee.
I came across this article (link below) which seems to describe exactly what I need, but when I create the dynamic membership rule as described, the group is picking up all my departed users who still exist as shared mailboxes, but importantly, are unlicensed.
The rule is from the article is:
(user.userType -ne "Guest" and user.accountEnabled -eq True) and not (user.assignedPlans -all (assignedPlan.servicePlanId -eq ""))
I’m not yet familiar enough with the rule syntax to know whether the rule is being expressed correctly, if Microsoft has a different definition of “unlicensed” than I do, or if the rule is in fact correct but there is a glitch in AAD that’s preventing it from working as intended.
If anyone has any guidance on how to create a rule that will include only M365 licensed users and NOT unlicensed share mailboxes, I’d be grateful. Thanks!