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Question about Report for Summary of Items/Quantities on Order for All Open ESTIMATES
2023.03.30 19:44 dunbah Question about Report for Summary of Items/Quantities on Order for All Open ESTIMATES
Hi All! I have to do a weekly inventory comparison of what items/their quantities on order (we use estimates to send confirmations to customers that we received their order) vs. what we have in inventory (we use the warehouse’s online portal not QuickBooks).
I was wondering if there was a report in QuickBooks that will automatically pull a summary of all items, the respective quantities and due date of the order for OPEN ESTIMATES only. I have been manually going through all of the printed out/open estimates to record what’s on order but it feels like there might be a much better way.
Thank you for your help with this!
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2023.03.30 19:43 bobaicedcoffeelover Is having a baby shower at 32 weeks pregnant too early?
Planning my first baby shower in May. I am not due till June. However, certain family members won’t make it to the date I initially wanted, so instead I am wanting to do it a little bit sooner so everyone can attend. Is too early at 32 weeks? 😅
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2023.03.30 19:42 geniusgenesjeans My hardest heart break.
This is going to be lengthy, and I will try to provide as much context as I can. However, I am sorry if it is boring but this is something I’ve need to tell to a third party for quite some time now. I also don’t want to give too many specifics due to if this was found by this person.
When I (F16)was young I got my first job. At this job I made a huge group of friends. We all would go out together, have occasional parties and just overall had great friendships. Over time I became attached to two other friends, L (F17) and G(F17). Fast forward a bunch of typical teen experiences it really only became L and I hanging out on the day to day experience.
L was there for me through a bad relationship, the pandemic and overall like my sister. I adored her and we spent so much time together. We would drive 45 minutes away just to swipe on tinder or go around the whole city trying to find stuff we found on tiktok.
I spent a lot of time day dreaming of hypotheticals . For example the day L would be my maid of honor, or being able to be like an aunt to her kids. So on so fourth. She was the only stability I had. Over time things started to change. She found a boyfriend and I was just dating, experience life as a 20 year old. We started having different paths. I tried to be supportive in the way she needed but often felt like I was slowly being forgotten.
Of course, we’d have our monthly really great day but it used to be weekly. I picked up toxic communication skills because I didn’t feel like I could be fully communicative of my emotions without pushing her away. I started to become a shell around her. Who I thought she wanted me to be. It was difficult and in hindsight not what I should’ve done.
Fast forward a little bit, I met my current partner. Instantly him and I hit it off. Our first date was 30 hrs long and on the weekends we were inseparable. I kept my weeks free besides work for L. That wasn’t always reciprocated.
The following 3 months is what I call the downfall. We were finally able to set up a double date which ended horribly. It was awkward, there was no communication chemistry amongst the four of us whatsoever. To top it off, during this time I was struggling with some childhood trauma. The waitress had came up behind me and put her hand on my back. Which startled me and sent me into a hyperventilating panic attack. My partner noticed and decided we needed to end the night.
Nothing was ever the same. L and I tried to talk bout what happened but I lied by saying we had plans following the evening and had to go. As I was too embarrassed to admit that I was having a panic attack about what happened with the waitress. We brushed that off and she said some rude comments about how she doesn’t know I could like him, you know with his lack of hair & all.
I had fault in this, I absolutely take responsibility. I got so used to a lack of communication that I didn’t know how to communicate what was going on.
After that day of us talking following up the double date we never saw each other again. She slowly ghosted me which felt like the worlds slowest stabbing. I tried to text once to tell her I missed her and only got a “imy” back. After a month of her silently watching my life, I decided I need to go my own way. I removed her from my social media and deleted her contact from my phone. I couldn’t keep that door open, it was so painful.
It took 6 whole months to stop resorting to drunk crying over L. I missed her so much and had to readjust the image I had of my future with her in it. I cried, cried and cried some more. I never experienced the feeling like this. I’ve had romantic breakups that didn’t feel like a quarter of the sorrow and grief that had stricken me with closing that chapter of my life.
I still to this day miss L. I think I will ALWAYS miss L. However, I am ready to take what I learned from that experience to have healthy and growing relationships throughout the rest of my life.
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2023.03.30 19:41 stacietalksalot Fantasy abortion politics?
I'm listening to the Ruy Teixeira episode from yesterday where he repeats the assertion that Democrats support abortion to the moment of birth, and as always, I, a pro-choice Democrat who supports leaving such decisions between a woman and her doctor, am a little taken aback by this formulation.
First: is there some ur-example of a woman walking into a clinic that provides abortions days away from her due date and declaring that she wants an abortion because she found out her husband is cheating or something? I guess I'm asking for a platonic use case that's in people's heads when they say "Democrats support abortion to the moment of birth," because I don't believe a single person I know in real life from any ideological perspective would support providing an abortion in that case.
Second: is there some ur-example of an abortion provider who, upon learning that our hypothetical 9-month-pregnant abortion seeker with the cheating husband is waiting in the lobby, would agree to perform the procedure?
Third: given the hand wringing about med-mal insurance that physicians' practices are required to carry at, apparently, huge cost, is it conceivable that insurers would continue to cover a practice that was providing abortions to women days shy of their delivery date? I suspect the risk of a lawsuit following such a thing would be enormous. In our example above, not only is the potential patient under the influence of a unique mix of hormonal chemistry, but she's also just experienced a heartbreak in learning of her husband's affair. If I worked for the insurer and reviewed that record, I'd definitely flag it for my bosses to look at. It's hard to imagine such a practice remaining insured if that's how it practices.
Help me out here. Perhaps I've missed some case or series of them, but I just don't think a) humans operate the way Ruy's formulation indicates, b) there are doctors who would be willing to abort a healthy fetus days before delivery where the mother's health or life isn't in danger, and c) that the general structure of surgical clinic operations would allow for that sort of thing anyway. What say my fellow Bulwark listeners?
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2023.03.30 19:39 Frosty_Resolve4102 I (M22) am not sure if I should fight for L (M21) or let it go
L and I have been coworkers since October of 2021. I always found him very attractive. I maybe spoke two words to him until December, then we quickly became very close. We’d go to the movies, get boba, just hang out. It was nice. Everyone at work would even tease us saying we were dating. We both denied it. We went to a park and walked around before seeing fireworks on the Fourth of July. There was a hot air balloon I would use as an excuse to look at you instead of the fireworks.
We went to the beach together for a few days. It was amazing. I wanted to capture that moment in time forever. L and I would walk the beach every morning as the sun rose. While we were there some hotel attendant hit on me and I didn’t realize until you told me. Then you hyped her up and so I talked to her. We went out for lunch it was fine, but I didn’t want to be with her.
Then we came back home and I don’t even remember if it was a full week later but G (23f) texted him. G and L went on a few dates back in November of 2021. He had mentioned her a few times so I was aware he liked her so I tried to do my best to be a supportive friend. I think I did alright until I spent time as a third wheel. I got jealous and began drinking. Going a month barely eating food and having 6-12 drinks a day is not at all healthy. Mentally and physically I was not doing well so my therapist convinced me I finally needed to tel L how I felt.
At this point it’s early February 2023, I tell him we need to stop making sexual jokes with each other. Which L agreed with, but he wanted the full truth. So I told L I liked him and that I have for a while. We saw each other a couple days later and he told me that he liked me as well. Things picked up we hung out we hooked up. Not in the way I would have wanted it to go. I think we both felt guilty. L more so than me since he said we should probably end things. (At the time I was planning on going back to college.) I thought about it and we talked it through. I told him I just wanted him to be happy and he seemed so happy with me. He was saying how he didn’t even want to talk to his girlfriend anymore.
Then the second hook up. This was bad for both of us I think. I was not in the right mindset and did some stuff I normally wouldn’t have and just felt over all gross afterwards. What made it even worse though was how distant L was right after. L wasn’t sure if he was gay. That’s okay. I want to be there to support him. He starts getting touchy and flirty again a few days later. I ask him if he’s okay and he’s said he worked everything out. A couple weeks later and we’re at last Thursday, March 23rd we go to my therapist. You tell me these were just old feelings that bubbled up and that you care about me as a friend.
Accepting that I try to remain platonic with him. He’s continued to be flirty and touchy even after me telling him to stop. It gets to the point I snap and tell him to stop touching me and he gets the hint. I apologize later and tell him that if I need to move on I can’t have him touching me since it’s something I exclusively feel comfortable with a romantic partner doing. I ask him how he’s doing and tells me he almost broke up with his girlfriend. I asked why but all he said was he almost told her what happened.
I’m terrible with social cues so I’m not sure if he still wants to be with me or not. I’m not sure if he’s just guilty. Is it a mix of the two?
TDLR: L and I flirted for over a year. L got a girlfriend but flirting between us didn’t stop. Due to jealousy I tell him I like him (honestly not trying to be malicious or manipulative just had to tell him due to alcoholism). We hooked up twice. He said he only cares about me as a friend but within the week he’s continued flirting with me. He almost broke up with girlfriend as well.
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2023.03.30 19:37 _moan Gonna be long but worthy post ( not giving tl:dr as I feel it all can't be summarised in a few lines)
Met someone today ( a teenage guy almost same age as me who is earning twice than most iitians/any top college graduates ) and after talking with him, i am having alot of rethinking about life , jee , education, teenage and stuff . Now I do know y'all might have seen tons of teens ranting all kinds of things but I feel this one is actually worth talking about ....
some background about me: a jee24tard currently in kota since class 8th , originally from a small town
Some background about him( ik the specific details but will try to mention the least required for his privacy) : a guy from same state and simple town who is earning approx twice/thrice of iitians and going some country in Europe for college this year all paid by himself, he is also going another developed country in Asia in a few days for a hackathon. He works in a European web3 company ( wfh) full time
Btw I do know that since i met him online he can fake and lie everything so for that- he didn't tell me anything by himself, he joined my discord server from one of subreddits randomly and then I visited all his profiles and pages on various socials like Twitter , website , company profile etc and verified that he is legit , then tried to talk to him and get some tips ....
Now after talking I felt a lot of fomo, like how I didn't even enjoy school life properly neither did much academic wise, I have wasted most of my 9th and 10th due to covid and then 11th due to procrastination, overthinking and worrying about wrong things and ye so pretty fucked in preparation for the only thing I came Kota 4 years ago, Now I was a pretty ambitious child before kota and even in first year of kota, wanted to go MIT , crack olympiads, do coding , my final dream was to start and run a successful startup...I was cheerful, ambitious, hopeful, optimistic, eager to learn etc but starting covid and entering teenage I started worrying about wrong things like not having enough social life, not having girls to talk to, not being attractive, being insecure af about my looks, having fomo by seeing influencer kids on insta , hating my life and fucking my self esteem during those years, barely managing to get out of depression which I got by being isolated af in covid and only being online ( for 2 years of covid I was at home since kota coachings and hostels were closed) and even till this date, I worry about those things sometimes and get insecure , ok the blame goes to bullying...I was bullied for it in school and few times during my first year in kota too but I think it shouldn't have affected me to the level it did, anyways so ye I went from a ambitious, gifted( in studies) , optimistic child to a self loathing, non confident teen . I fucked my studies and mental health and everything , partially but surely because of getting freedom and personal phone at an early age.
While him.....he didn't care about who is doing jee/neet as his parents wanted him to, who is a topper in class, who is attractive, who hangs out with tons of friends, which celeb teen is having what fun, who is being more successful, who is getting sex OR PROBABLY he did think about all that but never let those thoughts affect his work and efforts, he just kept grinding on computer all by himself and working as freelancer from as small as 13-14 , he was so consistent in whatever he was doing that now he gets invited in hackathones all across world, does a full time job as developer in an international web3 company, probably has more social life than me, earns more than any iitian would and also much before them
Mannnnnn like at the age of 10-12 we must be same right? He is also from middle class family who wanted him to do jee, he also was ambitious and optimistic and had big dreams , he also went through teenage , he also must have felt some difficulties and non- validation from his peers because of how he just coded all day
But our lives at present turned out to be so different, like so so so different, I am not saying my whole future is fucked or I can never achieve what I wanted to..a successful tech startup, but man i am far less ambitious now. I have gotten comfortable in being average , I have gotten comfortable in overthinking and not pushing myself , i have ripped my childhood dreams apart because of fear of not being enough, I have gotten comfortable in ranting and complaining more than working, I have...ye it just all seems so impossible now and the thinking of being successful or having big dreams now just gives me anxiety and stress, like what the fuckk
Ps- I asked him to post screenshot of chats while hiding his username but he denied, I also asked him to conduct an AMA for us jeeneetards and people who feels life ends after failing to crack jee/neet, for motivation etc but he denied both and said the ones who truly wanna achieve something would do it anyways and the rest r lost cause....and he probably is right..I respect his decision but I still wanted to talk about it as my head is bursting with thoughts and fomo , so I am making this post .....if u( the og guy) come across this post, I am sorry for talking about u but I made sure I don't reveal any specific details
Man in this sub y'all teens might also go through this and become like me lol , please please try your best to keep putting efforts and not loose the spark and ambition in you, not let anyone affect ur self esteem, just keep working
Ok that's all, thanks for reading this long
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2023.03.30 19:36 Then_Marionberry_259 MAR 28, 2023 AAG.V AFTERMATH PROVIDES BERENGUELA PROJECT UPDATE
| https://preview.redd.it/dj1d7qz7xwqa1.png?width=3500&format=png&auto=webp&s=5bc58385e43a8fe12c27c46a9326fc3e71773f90 Vancouver, British Columbia--(Newsfile Corp. - March 28, 2023) - Aftermath Silver Ltd. (TSXV: AAG) (OTCQX: AAGFF) (the "Company" or "Aftermath Silver") is pleased to provide an update on the Berenguela silver-copper-manganese project in southern Peru. On March 2nd, 2023 the Company published an updated and expanded mineral resource for the property (see AAG News release dated March 1, 2023). Drilling in 2021-2 was in part designed to obtain bulk (PQ diameter) core samples from various geological and metallurgical domains at Berenguela. A comprehensive bench-test beneficiation program on selected composite core samples is being designed by Kappes Cassidy of Reno, Nevada, USA, focusing on optimising processing and recoveries of silver, manganese, copper, and zinc, and on potential manganese products including agricultural and battery grade manganese sulphate (MnSO4).The Company currently anticipates completion of the program in Q3/Q4 of 2023. The results will provide key technical inputs for Aftermath's planned Preliminary Economic Analysis which is expected to begin in late 2023. Composite core samples, representing the key mineralized domains, are now being assembled at the Company's core storage facility in Arequipa. They will be shipped to KCA's facility in Reno to facilitate pre-treatment beneficiation testing which will include ore-sorting. As a first step, initial visual evaluations are being carried out on core samples from current and historic drilling focusing on the distribution of various minerals and their relationship with assay grades. Fieldwork is expected to recommence in June with exploration and mapping east of the known mineralisation on potential extensions indicated by outcrops, historic drilling and existing underground workings. The work will also investigate a potential intrusive centre to the east of the main Berenguela mineralization. Bereguela Mineral Resource The Mineral Resource at Berenguela, reported in accordance with National Instrument 43‐101 ("NI 43‐101") and completed by AMC Mining Consultants (Canada) Ltd. ("AMC") contains 101.2 Moz Ag + 589 Mlbs CU+ 2.45Mt Mn in Measured and Indicated Resources and 38.8 Moz Ag + 204 Mlbs Cu + 0.8Mt Mn in Inferred Resources detailed in the table below and in Aftermaths news release dated March 2nd, 2023 (linked here https://tinyurl.com/mrxhckk3). Table 1. Berenguela Ag-Cu-Mn deposit Mineral Resource as of 31 January 2023 https://preview.redd.it/y3j0w228xwqa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=dd7ab7df9b303d2b3006a355304ffbf57daac945 Notes: - CIM Definition Standards (2014) were used for reporting the Mineral Resources.
- The effective date of the estimate is 31 January 2023.
- The Qualified Person is Dinara Nussipakynova, P.Geo., of AMC Mining Consultants (Canada) Ltd.
- Mineral Resources are constrained by an optimized pit shell using the assumptions in Table 2.
- No dilution or mining recovery applied.
- Silver equivalency (AgEq) formula is AgEq = Ag+ Cu%\121.905+Mn%*22.809+Zn%*41.463 based on the parameters in Table 2.*
- Cut-off grade is 80g/t AgEq.
- Bulk density used was estimated and variable. but averaged 2.30 tonnes/m\*3* for mineralized material and 2.25 tonnes/m\*3* for waste.
- Drilling results up to 13 October 2022.
- Mineral Resources that are not Mineral Reserves do not have demonstrated economic viability.
- The numbers may not compute exactly due to rounding.
- Mineral Resources are depleted for historic mined out material.
- The relative value in the Mineral Resource by metal is as follows, Ag=26% Cu=26%, Mn=44%, Zn=4%.
Source: AMC, (2023) The assumptions for the open pit optimization exercise to constrain the Mineral Resource and confirm reasonable prospects for eventual economic extraction are shown in Table 2. Table 2. Assumptions for pit optimization https://preview.redd.it/uqptq938xwqa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=acc7dc04b68b0fc9e47e2ffa0ad4645f929f892a Source: AMC, (2023). Geology Mineralization at Berenguela is hosted principally in thickly bedded, folded limestones and dolomitized limestones of mid-Cretaceous age. Several large bodies of black massive, patchy, and fracture-controlled manganese oxide replacement mineralization occur, with associated silver, copper, and zinc enrichment. Mineralisation is stratigraphically localised above a regional detachment zone particularly where footwall horsts coincide with more intense folding of the carbonate hosts. The bulk of the mineralisation is typically preserved as eroded synform remnants, usually exposed at surface and trending 105-120 degrees. Mapping and resource modelling shows the mineralisation to extend for roughly 1,300 m along strike (including a 100 m discontinuity) with a width of 200 to 400 m. Drilling has shown the mineralisation to extend to up to 80 m below surface where preserved. Berenguela is interpreted as a carbonate replacement deposit (CRD) of an unusual hypogene Mn-oxide style localised above a regional detachment zone in a low temperature, oxidising setting. Qualified Person Michael Parker, a Fellow of the AusIMM and a non-independent director of Aftermath, is a non-independent qualified person, as defined by NI 43-101. Mr. Parker has reviewed the technical content of this news release and consents to the information provided in the form and context in which it appears. About Aftermath Silver Ltd. Aftermath Silver Ltd. is a leading Canadian junior exploration company focused on silver, and aims to deliver shareholder value through the discovery, acquisition and development of quality silver projects in stable jurisdictions. Aftermath has developed a pipeline of projects at various stages of advancement. The Company's projects have been selected based on growth and development potential. - Berenguela Silver-Copper project. The Company has an option to acquire a 100% interest through a binding agreement with SSR Mining. The project is located in the Department of Puno, in southern central Peru. A NI 43-101 Technical Report on the property was filed in February 2021 (available on SEDAR and the Company's web page). The Company is currently drilling at Berenguela and planning to advance the project through a pre-feasibility study.
- Challacollo Silver-Gold project. The Company recently completed the acquisition of a 100% interest in the Challacollo silver-gold project from Mandalay Resources; see Company news release dated August 11, 2022. A NI 43-101 mineral resource was released on December 15, 2020 (available on SEDAR and the Company's web page). The Company is currently permitting road access in anticipation of an upcoming drill program.
- Cachinal Silver-Gold project. The Company owns a 100% interest in the Cachinal Ag-Au project, located 2.5 hours south of Antofagasta. On February 15, 2023, Aftermath announced it had signed a Share Purchase Agreement an agreement to sell Cachinal to Honey Badger Silver Inc. On September 16, 2020, the Company released a CIM compliant Mineral Resource and accompanying NI 43-101 Technical Report (available on SEDAR and on the Company's web page).
ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS " Ralph Rushton" Ralph Rushton CEO and Director 604-484-7855 The TSX Venture Exchange does not accept responsibility for the adequacy or accuracy of this release. Cautionary Note Regarding Forward-Looking Information Certain of the statements and information in this news release constitute "forward-looking information" within the meaning of applicable Canadian provincial securities laws. Any statements or information that express or involve discussions with respect to interpretation of exploration programs and drill results, predictions, expectations, beliefs, plans, projections, objectives, assumptions or future events or performance (often, but not always, using words or phrases such as "expects", "is expected", "anticipates", "believes", "plans", "projects", "estimates", "assumes", "intends", "strategies", "targets", "goals", "forecasts", "objectives", "budgets", "schedules", "potential" or variations thereof or stating that certain actions, events or results "may", "could", "would", "might" or "will" be taken, occur or be achieved, or the negative of any of these terms and similar expressions) are not statements of historical fact and may be forward-looking statements or information. These statements involve known and unknown risks, uncertainties and other factors that may cause actual results or events to differ materially from those anticipated in such forward‐looking statements. Although the Company believes the expectations expressed in such forward‐looking statements are based on reasonable assumptions, such statements are not guarantees of future performance and actual results or developments may differ materially from those in the forward‐looking statements. Factors that could cause actual results to differ materially from those in forward‐looking statements include, but are not limited to, changes in commodities prices; changes in expected mineral production performance; unexpected increases in capital costs; exploitation and exploration results; continued availability of capital and financing; differing results and recommendations in the Feasibility Study; and general economic, market or business conditions. In addition, forward‐looking statements are subject to various risks, including but not limited to operational risk; political risk; currency risk; capital cost inflation risk; that data is incomplete or inaccurate. The reader is referred to the Company's filings with the Canadian securities regulators for disclosure regarding these and other risk factors, accessible through Aftermath Silver's profile at [www.sedar.com*](https://api.newsfilecorp.com/redirect/1z4jwFLxRM).* There is no certainty that any forward‐looking statement will come to pass and investors should not place undue reliance upon forward‐looking statements. The Company does not undertake to provide updates to any of the forward‐looking statements in this release, except as required by law. Cautionary Note to US Investors - Mineral Resources This News Release has been prepared in accordance with the requirements of Canadian National Instrument 43-101 - Standards of Disclosure for Mineral Projects (''NI 43-101'') and the Canadian Institute of Mining, Metallurgy and Petroleum Definition Standards, which differ from the requirements of U.S. securities laws. NI 43-101 is a rule developed by the Canadian Securities Administrators that establishes standards for all public disclosure an issuer makes of scientific and technical information concerning mineral projects. Canadian public disclosure standards, including NI 43-101, differ significantly from the requirements of the United States Securities and Exchange Commission (the "SEC"), and information concerning mineralization, deposits, mineral reserve and resource information contained or referred to herein may not be comparable to similar information disclosed by U.S. companies. To view the source version of this press release, please visit https://www.newsfilecorp.com/release/160007 https://preview.redd.it/tg2t0b48xwqa1.png?width=4000&format=png&auto=webp&s=75ba6995fe8de459dbc7cac1455e566f30b1482a submitted by Then_Marionberry_259 to Treaty_Creek [link] [comments] |
2023.03.30 19:32 filipyoo How My Startup Raised $150,000 With 0 Employee 0 Cofounder
From the first line of code, to having the money in the bank, it took me 4 years of side hustling while having a 9 to 5 job, and 9 months of working on it full-time.
I spent hours digging Quora, Reddit, startup stories trying to find answers to “how to fundraise as a solo founder without a team”. There were more arguments against doing so than success stories.
Things like:
- find a cofounder
- if you can’t even convince someone to join you, how can you convince investors?
- single point of failure: what if you get hit by a bus?
- you can’t possibly do everything by yourself
Those are all valid and justified concerns.
I end up finding the answer myself by going through it for my startup SewaYou after lots of moments of self-doubt.
I’ll walk you through my journey to reach this point.
I hope my experience can help you go through one of the darkest moments in a startup founder’s life - fundraising, because many of us (wrongly) associate our personal and company value or worth with the Yes or No from investors.
Please read until the end to learn how I did it.
Timeline
Quick personal background: I started my career as a software engineer in Japan 5 years ago, and was building on the side my, now startup, SewaYou, an app to help you find language exchange partners in your area.
During 4 years here in Japan Tokyo, I’ve worked for 3 different companies while side-hustling, quit twice my full-time job and finally get the Japanese Permanent Residency to allow me to legally open and run a company.
I quit my last corporate job in October 2021, so almost a year now.
In December 2021, so 2 months after I quit my job, I got invited to speak at a small event to share my experience as a solo founder.
That talk then helped me get introduced to a few people, and I ended up being introduced to a VC in Tokyo. That was the first time that I got my first step into that whole startup ecosystem.
Got an in-person meeting with one of the general partner of the VC, and then got introduced to another general partner over email.
That was right before the year-end holidays, so you can guess that it was not the best timing to start an investment discussion or business deal.
During the holidays, I also took time to reflect and see whether it’s the right choice to raise VC money at this stage of my project, or should I go with Angels investors instead, or wait a bit more.
Then around mid January, so a few weeks after the introduction email, I sent a follow up email, without much follow up.
Social momentum is real: you’ll be forgotten if you don’t keep that momentum and try to quickly get to a potential agreement.
I also incorporate my project into a real company, a 株式会社 for those who know, which is a joint-stock company in February 22. (2022/02/22).
An easy date to remember and to prepare the legal side in case I might receive investment in the near future.
I know that I needed to raise money at some point, as soon as possible and I can’t possibly grow the project with just my 1-year-ish savings and stay as a one-man show.
Startups is about growth, and fast growth.
So, after that, I started to dig into finding and talking to like 4 or 5 potential angels investors instead, and attended one pitch event online.
Btw, making a pitch slide deck is also pretty time consuming but that helps to understand your business better and think of thing like financials, and go-to-market strategy.
At first, I was pitching angels with the mindset of “I need funding”. This will show in your words as you might sound desperate without you even realizing it.
So as expected, I didn’t get much out of it neither. It’s better to hear a clear No so that you can move on.
But mostly, I didn’t hear neither a clear No nor a clear Yes. That’s a difficult situation you can find yourself in. So I appreciate investors saying straight No.
It’s pretty common to find angels or investors who only invest if there’s a bigger player who leads the round so they can follow.
It also doesn’t help to be a solo founder without a team, nor prior track record of exiting a previous startup.
I wasn’t working neither on trendy projects of the moment to get an extra excitement from investors.
I mean language exchange/learning doesn’t sound that trendy or hot the way NFTs or web3 projects seem to be, right?
So instead, I took all the valuable feedback and just focus on improving the product. That’s a good thing to talk to investors even though you don’t get any investment, they still kindly give you valuable feedback!
So I stopped trying to look for investors, and spent the next 5 months in focus mode just building and improving my app, code, talk to users, code, retain users, rinse and repeat.
I spent time testing hypothesis, adding new features, deprecating features that are not used, improving the app performance, make it more user friendly, get feedback and so on.
I played to my strengths and focus on building the best product possible that people want. Better build a beautiful product than beautiful pitch slides.
Then I started to implement a payment system and try to charge users.
To my surprise, I realized that there’re people who need your product enough to be willing to swipe their credit card. That was a big validation and leverage.
At that time, my app SewaYou, which is a social consumer app, had only around 5000 users with around 700 Monthly Active Users.
At around the same time, after getting my first organic paid users, I got introduced to another VC. One Zoom meeting, one in-person meeting demoing SewaYou app, showing some traction KPIs, talking about the big vision.
They decided to invest. A month later the money is in the bank.
That’s what I take: 2 meetings and an app demo, no pitch deck, and small due diligence.
At the seed stage, you know when a VC or investor wants to invest or not after one or two meetings. If it takes too much time for them to decide, that might not be a good sign.
I was asked questions like:
- How much I plan to raise
- How I’m gonna spend that money
- How much % am I willing to give for the amount raised.
We agree on a % that is less than 10% for this first seed round.
In term of the due diligence, it was pretty basic:
- I wrote a small report summarizing my app usage metrics, like monthly download progress, MAU and other basic metrics.
- I wrote a one page Business Plan with projected revenues and user growth for the next year
- and copies of legal papers like the Company Articles of Incorporation. Fortunately, since I already incorporated my company back a few months ago, this step was quick
Then we started to draft the terms for the investment, with the help of a lawyer that they also introduced. Everything was written in Japanese, even though I can speak fluently Japanese, I still need some time to go through it.
The whole process took around 3-4 weeks, from the terms drafting and having the investment money wired to my company bank account.
That was a good thing to incorporate my company and opening a corporate bank account beforehand, so the investment process can go smooth and quick, because at a seed and early stage, there are teams working on projects without having a company ready.
Recap
To recap a little bit my journey:
- it took me 4 years of side hustle and 9 months full-time to build from scratch my app as a solo founder doing everything myself (dev, design, marketing…)
- I had no prior credentials or track records such as second time or exited founder
- time spent from “I want to fundraise” to “the $ is in the bank” was 8 months
- numbers of investors pitched: 2 VCs and less than 5 angels
- pitching event attended: 1 (and it was online due to Covid)
- amount raised: 20 million JPY (which is roughly $150k) for less than 10% of equity
I’ve seen stories where people pitched 98 times at events, reached out to 146 investors, and got 145 “No” and a single “Yes”. How much energy and time were spent on that effort? Fundraising is really hard.
My journey is a bit different, and I hope that can give you more data and founder stories.
Here are lessons I learned and some takeaways:
- as a solo founder, there’s nobody else to hedge against or hide behind, you’re completely out there in the wild
- your army is your product, your execution power and you as a person
- show why you’re the best person to build your specific product
- when your personal story aligns with your startup vision, it resonates.
SewaYou is on a mission to help people unlock and multiply opportunities in life, relationship, and career by reaching an advanced level in foreign languages.
And that’s what happened to me: a foreigner who learns Japanese, landed in Japan, mastering the language and finally quitting my 9to5 job to pursue my dream to build a startup and contribute back to Japan that makes me grow as a person while building my startup.
So what now?
So that’s it, my journey from side hustling to fundraising as a solo founder with zero employee or cofounder.
But like they say: “Alone you go fast, together you go far”, it’s now time for SewaYou to go beyond a one-man show, so I will spend the investment money to start recruiting and build a small team.
I also have this in a
video version if you prefer to listen, and also other stuff (like How I built my app part-time for 4 years etc) around building and growing a startup as a solo and foreign founder in Japan.
Thanks for reading so far! 😀
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2023.03.30 19:28 Booba-licious Concerns re future of the relationship (27F) (49M)
I(27F) have been with my partner(49M) for nearly 6 months. Most of the time I/we forget about the age gap between us, and I'm honestly the happiest I've been in a long time, if ever. The relationship feels very healthy and sweet. We have a lot in common. I just can't help but worry that we might have an expiration date on the relationship. Right off the bat I made it very clear that I was not going to start a relationship with him if he had made up his mind about never having kids (he has none) or getting married (he's never been married). After some deliberation and a few days apart, he told me that he was not completely close minded to having kids, just that he was concerned about his energy and whether he wasn't too old and still felt like he hadn't gotten his life together to provide for a family. 6 months down the line and the fear has crept in again- mainly due to some comments by my family as to when/if we were going to get married, as they were concerned I'd be with a partner who's not going to be around long enough or that he might not want kids at his age. I never imagined myself contemplating these things at my age- nor have I ever felt pressured to get married and kids- but age-gap relationships seem to expedite things.
I can't help but feel like I've been dealt a cruel hand by finding the love of my life in such an older man. I try and remind myself that I am privileged and that no one knows how much time they have, so I can't just assume I'll grow old or not with someone. I try and take things day by day and to surrender to bigger plans and let things run their course, but today feels more difficult than usual.
Can anyone relate and how do you go about dealing with the above?
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2023.03.30 19:23 _moan Gonna be long but worthy post ( not giving tl:dr as I feel it all can't be summarised in a few lines)
Met someone today ( a teenage guy almost same age as me who is earning twice than most iitians/any top college graduates ) and after talking with him, i am having alot of rethinking about life , jee , education, teenage and stuff . Now I do know y'all might have seen tons of teens ranting all kinds of things but I feel this one is actually worth talking about ....
some background about me: a jee24tard currently in kota since class 8th , originally from a small town
Some background about him( ik the specific details but will try to mention the least required for his privacy) : a guy from same state and simple town who is earning approx twice/thrice of iitians and going some country in Europe for college this year all paid by himself, he is also going another developed country in Asia in a few days for a hackathon. He works in a European web3 company ( wfh) full time
Btw I do know that since i met him online he can fake and lie everything so for that- he didn't tell me anything by himself, he joined my discord server from one of subreddits randomly and then I visited all his profiles and pages on various socials like Twitter , website , company profile etc and verified that he is legit , then tried to talk to him and get some tips ....
Now after talking I felt a lot of fomo, like how I didn't even enjoy school life properly neither did much academic wise, I have wasted most of my 9th and 10th due to covid and then 11th due to procrastination, overthinking and worrying about wrong things and ye so pretty fucked in preparation for the only thing I came Kota 4 years ago, Now I was a pretty ambitious child before kota and even in first year of kota, wanted to go MIT , crack olympiads, do coding , my final dream was to start and run a successful startup...I was cheerful, ambitious, hopeful, optimistic, eager to learn etc but starting covid and entering teenage I started worrying about wrong things like not having enough social life, not having girls to talk to, not being attractive, being insecure af about my looks, having fomo by seeing influencer kids on insta , hating my life and fucking my self esteem during those years, barely managing to get out of depression which I got by being isolated af in covid and only being online ( for 2 years of covid I was at home since kota coachings and hostels were closed) and even till this date, I worry about those things sometimes and get insecure , ok the blame goes to bullying...I was bullied for it in school and few times during my first year in kota too but I think it shouldn't have affected me to the level it did, anyways so ye I went from a ambitious, gifted( in studies) , optimistic child to a self loathing, non confident teen . I fucked my studies and mental health and everything , partially but surely because of getting freedom and personal phone at an early age.
While him.....he didn't care about who is doing jee/neet as his parents wanted him to, who is a topper in class, who is attractive, who hangs out with tons of friends, which celeb teen is having what fun, who is being more successful, who is getting sex OR PROBABLY he did think about all that but never let those thoughts affect his work and efforts, he just kept grinding on computer all by himself and working as freelancer from as small as 13-14 , he was so consistent in whatever he was doing that now he gets invited in hackathones all across world, does a full time job as developer in an international web3 company, probably has more social life than me, earns more than any iitian would and also much before them
Mannnnnn like at the age of 10-12 we must be same right? He is also from middle class family who wanted him to do jee, he also was ambitious and optimistic and had big dreams , he also went through teenage , he also must have felt some difficulties and non- validation from his peers because of how he just coded all day
But our lives at present turned out to be so different, like so so so different, I am not saying my whole future is fucked or I can never achieve what I wanted to..a successful tech startup, but man i am far less ambitious now. I have gotten comfortable in being average , I have gotten comfortable in overthinking and not pushing myself , i have ripped my childhood dreams apart because of fear of not being enough, I have gotten comfortable in ranting and complaining more than working, I have...ye it just all seems so impossible now and the thinking of being successful or having big dreams now just gives me anxiety and stress, like what the fuckk
Ps- I asked him to post screenshot of chats while hiding his username but he denied, I also asked him to conduct an AMA for us jeeneetards and people who feels life ends after failing to crack jee/neet, for motivation etc but he denied both and said the ones who truly wanna achieve something would do it anyways and the rest r lost cause....and he probably is right..I respect his decision but I still wanted to talk about it as my head is bursting with thoughts and fomo , so I am making this post .....if u( the og guy) come across this post, I am sorry for talking about u but I made sure I don't reveal any specific details
Ok that's all, thanks for reading this long and do share your own rants , experiences or anything u feel after reading it. :)
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2023.03.30 19:23 SirBanterClaus [PAID] (/u/ilanarodham) - (£500), (Late, Extension agreed)
This borrower has a solid history in this sub. On our first time working together, midway through our loan he unfortunately went through redundancy so changed jobs - which is of course out of his control. Credit to the borrower though as it must've been a difficult period but he still proactively got in touch with me before the original due date and was open and honest about his situation.
I was empathetic and we agreed a 1 month extension - he duly delivered and repaid the loan in full, and also added a bit on top for the inconvenience. Hats off to the borrower! Communications were top notch throughout and I didn't feel like I needed to worry. Would be happy to lend again. Thanks for your payment!
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2023.03.30 19:23 Silent_knight_1712 Tired of getting used
I can't believe it happened to me once again. Always been friendly and helpful to others, but many continue to take advantage of this. I'm sick and tired of people manipulating me to get something from me. I am aware that this is a problem, but I am unable to distinguish who is genuine and who is not. So I reconnected with my former neighbour and friend around a month ago. We had a close friendship before she moved away a few years ago. She was really flirty when we first met, holding hands and clinging on my arm while taking a walk. The issue is that she is quite attractive, and I used to have a crush on her.
I interpreted these as signals that she might be interested in me. I did ask her to "hang out" together again and continued chatting with her. It turns out that she needs my help to complete a project. I assumed it would be something small, but she wants me to do a significant portion of the job on her part. Due to my busy schedule with my own examinations and projects, I did suggest her some websites where she could possibly get what she wants. All of our communication over the past two to three days has been about doubts regarding her project. She didn't mention our daily topics of conversation—talking about each other's days or anything else—even once.
I am so angry and depressed right now, and just want to confront her directly but don't have to courage to do it. I have just given up on people now. I am just avoiding her messages and blaming my exams because I don't want to help her. If she just wanted help why not ask straight away, what was the point of pretend dates and being overly affectionate and playing with my feelings.
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2023.03.30 19:19 mashallahbruzzah Question about remote working (FSW)
Hi guys, I just received my ITA under FSW. I had a question about the eligibility for work experience.
I was working in my country for a local employer around 2020. I applied for a two week holiday in March to go to Dubai (bad idea in hindsight), and was supposed to have been back home after that. I entered Dubai on a tourist visa.
However, COVID happened and there was a national lockdown so I couldn’t leave the country on the date I was supposed to have left. My company allowed me to continue working remotely for them from Dubai. I worked with them for 1 more month before being laid off due to COVID.
My question is now, since I was working remotely for an Indian company from Dubai, as an Indian citizen, especially during COVID where I couldn’t return back, would this pop up any legal issue, as IRCC would be able to verify things using my personal and travel history. I wasn’t aware of any issue at the time since it was lockdown and I couldn’t get back home, and my company was also fine with me working remotely, but I was just wondering now.
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2023.03.30 19:17 Zealousideal-Mix2338 Can My (26F) relationship with my boyfriend (24M) be saved?
So, for some background, we have been together for nearly 3 years now. I was living alone in my apartment at the time we got together, but he moved in fairly quickly in the beginning. There have been financial issues due to covid, so we ended up losing the apartment to move back into his family's home.
Now, for a small portion of time I was not working, and he took up some of the responsibilities. But as our relationship has gone on, I've realized he expects things from me that he would flat out refuse to do for me himself. He, during my period of unemployment (roughly 5 months, 2 months into which he also became unemployed) would not help me pay my car insurance, my electricity, my phone, car payment, or my rent. It built up and we lost the apartment. I admit I am leaving out some context, and yes part of these losses is my own fault for not being financially literate enough to save money for these types of scenarios. They are not his responsibility to bear necessarily, but that's where some of the resentment between us has come from. Once I began working again, I have been paying for every single thing. All the food. Our recreational activities. the insurance on three vehicles. The payments on one. I even give him money to go get beer and gas to hang out with his friends. for almost 2 years now. I pay for his drinks and food when he comes into my work. I have worked full time and went back to school for a bachelors online. I bought him a motorcycle. I pour my heart and soul into this. he even uses language like "we" when hes telling ME i need to pay the car payment. but "we" is nowhere to be found when I have a surprise bill or emergency. (I own my vehicle so no payments for me) I know I have listed out the things that involve money, but that is not why I am worried about our relationship.
He treats me, like he cannot stand me. I can be loud, I like video games and anime, and I get a little heated about internet drama. I am very much a homebody. I used to be extremely social, but since I've gone back to school and gained 30 pounds I really only exchange memes with friends and have one single girl friend that I see probably 4 times a year. I try to have conversations with him, but he acts like he can't stand the sound of my voice. He will roll his eyes or ignore me while he scrolls on his phone. Sometimes, he will even shut me down, not by saying anything directly but through tone of voice, like when you say "i know" to stop somebody from explaining. all the time. It's become so distressing for me that I've just decided it's best not to engage. However, when I do this, he is suddenly interested in how I am feeling, asking if something is wrong. I have several times tried to communicate that he makes me feel as if he views me as annoying or intellectually inferior, which bothers me immensely as I have been attending school for a psychology degree. So the idea that i cannot communicate properly really sticks with me. The problem is, when I converse with others outside of my home (I am a bartender) people seem readily engaged in conversations about anything and everything. I just don't understand what I can do to reconnect with my boyfriend. even when he is happily describing his day or a moto ride he went on, as soon as I speak, he shuts the conversation down. and gets back on his phone. It HURTS girl. I have tried numerous times to converse about his interests. Make the same jokes he does to me back to him. I want him to laugh and smile at me. But he really just seems to glare. I have tried to break it off with him a couple of times, but each time he profusely admits an undying love for me and begs me not to go. I stay because I love him, and I have never had anyone who understood my traumatic childhood like he does (he had one as well). But I just do not feel emotionally or intellectually stimulated. To me, at this point in my life, Intimacy is something more than just intercourse.
As for my own problems, I have changed immensely since we met. I have taken up weightlifting, went back to college, etc. I am trying to lose weight and slim down, but I am worried that even if I improve my appearance, that he still will not respect my mind (I am not obese, just a little muffin). Today, before I wrote this, we had a small disagreement because he described somebody who was displaying repetitive movement as psychosis, to which I responded that it didn't sound like psychosis. His response was "you have no idea what you're talking about." I am literally 2 years into an associate degree on track for a four-year degree in psychology. The majority of my electives have been 200 psychology, sociology, and personality courses. I have worked late into the evening to get up at 6 am for schoolwork for months on end. I guess the point of this mini rant is to flesh out my feeling but also get advice. At one point we had talked about children and buying a house. Now when I try to bring it up, he acts like there's no point in talking about it, because it won't happen now. I want to travel to Europe, he shrugs it off as an unattainable goal. I want to vacation at the beach, he doesn't want to drive. He recently got a job last week, and since he started has been acting especially superior to me. The other day he told me I should keep track of my money because he wasn't going to "pay for a bunch of random stuff", meaning food and gas for me. I was taken aback and questioned why he would make a comment like that. I could not believe after years of me selflessly spending money so he could live comfortably at home (and ride motorcycles and go out a lot, leaving me at home much of last summer) that he would say something like that to me. It made me realize that the relationship as it is, is not the relationship I want in 10 years, five years, heck even next year. I realized that he invests a bare minimum effort but is overtly upset when he does not receive top of the line treatment. I will share a bit and say that I assume this is because of his childhood, his mom is not a great lady. But I digress, I don't think that is an excuse to treat the people who spoil you poorly.
My question for reddit is, Is there anything to stop this ship from sinking? Is there a perspective I maybe just can't see from my position? Should we go to couples therapy?
At the end of the day, I am dating for marriage. I don't want children right now; I want to party and travel and work for the rest of my twenties. But this time living together has made me feel trapped in a relationship where I am simultaneously the problem and the person trying to fix the problem and I'm incredibly exhausted. How can this be love?
(P.s: I am not in a position to move out immediately. I personally have a dog and cat here, and my car in its current state cannot be registered so I can't just up and leave. I have invested a ton into this relationship, to the point where I do not have savings.)
(p.p.s: sorry this post is a garbled cluster mess of thought. It is the first time I have been able to describe the nature of our relationship as I usually keep things like this to myself.)
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2023.03.30 19:15 Diet18 I (21M) am uncertain whether girl (20F) likes me or not
So basically, I've met this girl (let's call her Laura) in late January, at the occassion of a camp for tutors for children on holiday. Right off the bat, we got along nicely and there was a kind of click. At the end of the project day, she asked for my ig so we could stay in contact. Whilst I did see she was somewhat distraught at the fact that I studied at another university (and thus two hours removed in commute time) we agreed to stay in touch.
Eversince, we've stayed in contact daily and mentioned we have to meet up in each other's cities at one point. Now, the problem is that I had put forward two dates to meet up already, and each time she said it didn't work out due to her agenda, whilst not proposing an alternative time. I feel like she fears committing or something of the sort, and as such always backs off when it is mentioned. At the same time, I kind of let conversation die out on purpose, only to have her continue to try and revive it every time.
So, my question is.. what do I do in this situation? Do I 'confront' her about her evasiveness, or do I simply make one last attempt at meeting up before calling it quits? I enjoy chatting with her, but feel it's a bit idle if it isn't taken to a 'next' stage.
Thanks!
TL;DR chatting with girl for over two months, she is evasive about meeting up and has only made innuendos to it without taking action herself.
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2023.03.30 19:15 DiscombobulatedAir23 Do exes ever come back after initiating the breakup? 26F dating 25M, was long distance
Summed down, I'd dated my bf for 2 months (after being friends for almost a year), we just broke up. Partly due to it being long distance (though Im moving to his state in a few weeks), and partly because he grew distant and stopped giving any kind of affection. Got to a point where I was begging for even a scrap of affection..
He called things off and said he lost interest in the relationship That he still wants to be friends and maybe start over for a relationship after I move Conflicting ig.. Anyone on here had a similar experience? Did they end up wanting you back?
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2023.03.30 19:12 throwRA_attached Did my (M25) anxiety end my relationship with my ex (F23) or was it out of my hands?
This will be a little long but I would greatly appreciate anyone's opion on my situation, it's messed me up. The timeframe of the relationship was 2 months.
I (m25) was broken up with just over two and a half months ago by my ex (f22). The relationship was very fast and intense, my friends think I was love bombed.
We had seen eachother around for years and when we finally talked she told me she had fancied me for years, tried to find me on social media etc.
At first I was a bit put off by how forward she was, she would shower me in compliments and tell me how perfect iam, my personality and how comfortable I make her. On our 2nd date I met her best friends. It was fast moving and intense, she seemed willing to do anything to attract me.
We would text at all times of the day. As we spent more time together my hesitancy relaxed and I developed feelings for her, she was kind and supportive, absolutely beautiful and her complimentary nature gave me some needed validation.
32 days in I asked her to be my gf and she happily accepted. A week prior she told me she was willing to wait to be exclusive for as long as it took, but by this point I liked her a lot and wanted her as part of my life.
As time went on her communication behaviour changed, we would converse much less, it didn't bother me at first but it gradually lessened more
I should clarify I suffer badly from anxiety, past relationships have caused this and I also had a lot going on in my life, things she had been supportive over. The stark difference in conversing caused me to overthink despite everything seeming okay in person, she continued to compliment me and show me affection. I began to notice her being online on social media while taking hours to reply to me, and while looking back I dislike the fact this caused me issues, I felt it necessary to include.
She also had things going on, she was struggling with her studies and considering quitting school, something I offered her support with as much as I could. She seemed to have trouble opening up about issues, she would often say blunt things about how she felt and wouldn't elaborate until I had asked repeatedly what was wrong. She had some complications taking the pill which affected her badly.
We spent a nice day together and were set to meet again the day after but she cancelled saying 'she didn't feel herself' and 'weird'. She was blunt over what was wrong and my anxiety flared up, I asked if everything was okay between us. She appeared confused by me questioning this, asking why I would think that. I apologised and she asked for some space as her anxiety was an issue. I gave her space and we began to talk for the rest of the night, she apologized for 'letting me down' to which I assured her she hadn't.
Over the next few days our communication plummeted and when I tried to arrange to meet, she would shoot down every offer. The mood had changed a lot and my anxiety over how she felt got worse.
I believe in open communication and I felt my anxiety was negatively effecting everything so I opened up and told her I was struggling with it. She assured me it was okay.
We met for about an hour a day later and the mood was completely off despite having moments of normality. I told her I wanted to spend some more time with her and she recoiled at this. When she discussed my anxiety she seemed annoyed by it.
After that the communication lessened more, we would converse briefly each morning and briefly before sleep. After she shot down a few more suggestions to meet, I asked her how she felt about everything. She blew up that she was very busy. I folded and apologized even though I felt my question was valid. She next day she left me.
She claimed she couldn't juggle her studies and social life, that it was definitely her, she liked me a lot but didn't want anything. I asked if it was due to me asking how she felt and she said no, she had felt this for a little while. I was upset and asked for more clarity, to which she ghosted.
Around a month later I apologized for my anxiety and if I had rushed things, she told me not to worry and that she hoped I was well. Around this time I was out with some female friends, images of me and one of the girls I'm very close too were on social media and my ex proceeded to unfollow me on everything. It frustrated me as the break up made it seem as if there were no feelings on her end. I saw her a few days later for the first time and she sped past me looking at the floor.
Which brings us to now, I saw her briefly today and she acknowledged me with a smile, I saw her look at me a few more times but I did my best to stay away.
Truth is though I want nothing more than to understand what happened, she never explicitly said what was wrong, I'm aware my anxiety is a huge issue but it felt like a foregone conclusion. I still have feelings for her, it was a short time together but it was the happiest I'd been with a partner. She went from telling me she was happy and complimenting me constantly to leaving within 6 days, it hurts to think I wasn't worth her trying or what the things she said to me weren't serious or felt. I don't know what to think.
TL;DR: Had a 2 months relationship, started very intense from her end, I commited and she seemingly pulled away causing me anxiety, relationship deteriorated and ended. Confused as to what caused the end.
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2023.03.30 19:11 brockchancy Hi am I retarded or is game is broken?
2023.03.30 19:10 DiscombobulatedAir23 Do exes ever come back after initiating the breakup?
Summed down, I'd dated my bf for 2 months (after being friends for almost a year), we just broke up. Partly due to it being long distance (though Im moving to his state in a few weeks), and partly because he grew distant and stopped giving any kind of affection. Got to a point where I was begging for even a scrap of affection..
He called things off and said he lost interest in the relationship That he still wants to be friends and maybe start over for a relationship after I move Conflicting ig.. Anyone on here had a similar experience? Did they end up wanting you back?
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2023.03.30 19:09 throwRA_attached After opinions on if my (M25) anxiety ended my relationship with my ex (23F) or if it was out of my hands
This will be a little long but I would greatly appreciate anyone's opion on my situation, it's messed me up. The timeframe of the relationship was 2 months.
I (m25) was broken up with just over two and a half months ago by my ex (f22). The relationship was very fast and intense, my friends think I was love bombed.
We had seen eachother around for years and when we finally talked she told me she had fancied me for years, tried to find me on social media etc.
At first I was a bit put off by how forward she was, she would shower me in compliments and tell me how perfect iam, my personality and how comfortable I make her. On our 2nd date I met her best friends. It was fast moving and intense, she seemed willing to do anything to attract me.
We would text at all times of the day. As we spent more time together my hesitancy relaxed and I developed feelings for her, she was kind and supportive, absolutely beautiful and her complimentary nature gave me some needed validation.
32 days in I asked her to by my gf, she told me she was willing to wait to be exclusive for as long as it took, but by this point I liked her a lot and wanted her as part of my life.
As time went on her communication behaviour changed, we would converse much less, it didn't bother me at first but it gradually lessened more
I should clarify I suffer badly from anxiety, past relationships have caused this and I also had a lot going on in my life, things she had been supportive over. The stark difference in conversing caused me to overthink despite everything seeming okay in person, she continued to compliment me and show me affection. I began to notice her being online on social media while taking hours to reply to me, and while looking back I dislike the fact this caused me issues, I felt it necessary to include.
She also had things going on, she was struggling with her studies and considering quitting school, something I offered her support with as much as I could. She seemed to have trouble opening up about issues, she would often say blunt things about how she felt and wouldn't elaborate until I had asked repeatedly what was wrong. She had some complications taking the pill which affected her badly.
We spent a nice day together and were set to meet again the day after but she cancelled saying 'she didn't feel herself' and 'weird'. She was blunt over what was wrong and my anxiety flared up, I asked if everything was okay between us. She appeared confused by me questioning this, asking why I would think that. I apologised and she asked for some space as her anxiety was an issue. I gave her space and we began to talk for the rest of the night, she apologized for 'letting me down' to which I assured her she hadn't.
Over the next few days our communication plummeted and when I tried to arrange to meet, she would shoot down every offer. The mood had changed a lot and my anxiety over how she felt got worse.
I believe in open communication and I felt my anxiety was negatively effecting everything so I opened up and told her I was struggling with it. She assured me it was okay.
We met for about an hour a day later and the mood was completely off despite having moments of normality. I told her I wanted to spend some more time with her and she recoiled at this. When she discussed my anxiety she seemed annoyed by it.
After that the communication lessened more, we would converse briefly each morning and briefly before sleep. After she shot down a few more suggestions to meet, I asked her how she felt about everything. She blew up that she was very busy. I folded and apologized even though I felt my question was valid. She next day she left me.
She claimed she couldn't juggle her studies and social life, that it was definitely her, she liked me a lot but didn't want anything. I asked if it was due to me asking how she felt and she said no, she had felt this for a little while. I was upset and asked for more clarity, to which she ghosted.
Around a month later I apologized for my anxiety and if I had rushed things, she told me not to worry and that she hoped I was well. Around this time I was out with some female friends, images of me and one of the girls I'm very close too were on social media and my ex proceeded to unfollow me on everything. It frustrated me as the break up made it seem as if there were no feelings on her end. I saw her a few days later for the first time and she sped past me looking at the floor.
Which brings us to now, I saw her briefly today and she acknowledged me with a smile, I saw her look at me a few more times but I did my best to stay away.
Truth is though I want nothing more than to understand what happened, she never explicitly said what was wrong, I'm aware my anxiety is a huge issue but it felt like a foregone conclusion. I still have feelings for her, it was a short time together but it was the happiest I'd been with a partner. She went from telling me she was happy and complimenting me constantly to leaving within 6 days, it hurts to think I wasn't worth her trying or what the things she said to me weren't serious or felt. I don't know what to think.
TL;DR: Had a 2 months relationship, started very intense from her end, I commited and she seemingly pulled away causing me anxiety, relationship deteriorated and ended. Confused as to what caused the end.
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