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Hi,
I am searching for a good PC Monitor. Main purpose is watching KPOP Videos (most of the time Girlgroups especially the band "Lesserafim"). Occasionally I also play games like Warcraft III.
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Features I am looking for:
- 27" - 32"Monitor
- <= 1200€
Besides that I am not sure which of the following properties are the most important and the correct choice:
- 4k or wqhd?
- OLED or IPS Panel?
- Refreshrate is not important, isn't it? Lesserafim have some blazing fast dance moves but I think 60Hz are sufficent.
- Does HDR makes it more realistic?
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Did someone of you already research which Monitor is the best for this purpose?
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Thank you very much for your help!

Is it a good idea to buy a whole phone only for Dragonball Legends?? I was thinking about it since I make my youtube channel around it and I don't want any interruptions when Im recording and maybe using this phone solely for this game I should be able to get the best outta this game if I'm just solely using it for one game

Namesake: Weathering with You, the Makoto Shinkai film
User: “UnDrawn”, Pseudonym Conden Hung Teen Yu, real name Xarger’yeni Hxocoylis Serclicktyeezin-Khorgwynh (“It’s pronounceable, but it looks stupid and I don’t like people knowing it so…”)
Also called the Storm Deity or the Wandering Weather Blade, UnDrawn is a dimensional hopper, having travelled from her home dimension to WTSC to recover a lost artefact that maintains the stability of said dimension.
The stress of such a responsibility and being treated horribly upon arrival has caused her to snap and have a brief evil stint, randomly changing the appearance and description of anyone she sees. She got better, meeting genuinely nice people and Evertree’s insanity field somehow cancelling that ability out. She’s now a bit distant but fortunately nicer than during the evil stint.
She often wears a hood and a Jason Mask (the eyeholes can change shape for her to make expressions) as sunlight destabilises her power (her dimension is always shrouded in moonlight and darkness) (sunscreen and sunblock’s even worse when it comes to destabilisation). She is heralded by rainstorms and tropical storms, and uses her new powers to bring rain to drought-ridden areas.
Appearance: Technically a natural power, but bound to a sword with 6 adjustable gears on the guard and a screen with various weather symbols on the pommel for a visual representation
Stats: * Power: A. It’s a sword. * Speed: The Stand is E, ability is C. * Range: A, Town sized. * Durability: A, bound. * Precision: Area of effect. * Potential: C.
Ability: Weather Manipulating Sword
The gears on the guard, from left to right with the pommel screen facing upwards, each manipulate a different aspect of weather when adjusted: temperature, precipitation, wind direction, wind speed, humidity and pressure. The image on the screen changes after adjusting the gears. Once UD is satisfied with what she sees, she raises the sword to slowly change the weather to what is shown. This occurs between 5 seconds to 5 minutes.
For cloud cover, light levels, thunder and lightning, UnDrawn has special floating balls or energy she can send upwards alongside her raising her sword to change that.
The sword is still a sword, and can be used normally.

Im new to the hobby and Im just trying to understand what equipment is needed for which beers. Like, for example, from my understanding a Lager uses a second fermentation at near freezing or in the case of a hefeweissen it requires part of the mash to be taken out and full boiled, then returned to the mash. Is there a source that could explain all of these difference by beer style?
Second, follow up question: Do these processes actually make a difference? How strictly do they need to be followed to get good results?

Where do you guys think the B1G teams will rank amongst each other most consistently?
I’ll provide my rankings. Full disclosure, I am an Iowa fan, but I tried to limit my bias.
Obviously, there are some questions around certain teams and not every team will play each other. It’s more for fun/speculation.
Tier 1 1. Ohio State (matter of time before Jim goes back to the drawing board, plus best recruits) 2. Michigan (What happens when Ohio State wins again? Jim has tried everything) 3. Penn State (we know why they are here, struggle annually vs top 2 now) 4. USC (I think travel will hurt against top 3. Literal time zones. If Iowa State could figure out Riley’s offense/defense, I think the top 3 can easy.)
Tier 2 5. Wisconsin (New coach/new offense, could be interesting) 6. Iowa (Defense is why they are here, if offense gets good or even average, they can threaten anyone above them) 7. UCLA (I think travel will hurt. Good defensive teams will hurt.) 8. Nebraska (Matt Rhule has a big history, but wait and see if it works here. I think it will, but I thought the same with Frost) 9. Michigan State (very in flux now, but could shoot up)
Tier 3 10. Minnesota (I like where they are now vs the rest) 11. Illinois (improved quite a bit last year, usually good for an upset) 12. Purdue (Spoliermakers thrive here) 13. Maryland (what happens when they lose Tagovailoa?) 14. Indiana (very hit or miss, mostly the latter) 15. Northwestern (they have been hurting and I feel how you are trending is going to be a big factor in this new system) 16. Rutgers (I’m sorry)

This is going to be a long post but here I go anyway. My name is Liam, I have never been in a romantic relationship before. I literally have no love life whatsoever, I’ve tried Tinder but I hardly get any matches and I got rejected by my crush when I was 16 but that’s a story for another time. I’m quite desperate at this point and I’m really lonely. This will sound cliché but when I was younger I always imagined that I’d get married to a beautiful woman, have one or more children, go on holidays to different countries, own a nice car and live in a big house. Fast forward to today and that idyllic lifestyle is more of a dream that probably won’t ever come true. Life isn’t a stereotypical romcom as much as I wish it were true. I know I’m young and I might get lucky one day, no one knows what the future holds. Anyway moving on. I’ll be honest and say I’m not that good looking but I am mature for my age. To describe my appearance, I’m white, 5’5, average build, blue eyes and have black hair. I’ll be happy to share pictures in chat if anyone is curious. I’m very shy and introverted but I do try my best to have a conversation. I’ve been told I’m funny and nerdy but also have a nice personality as well. My star sign is Capricorn but that’s all I know about it. My favourite hobbies (if you could call them that) are playing video games, watching movies/tv shows and occasionally reading books. I’m a very big Star Wars fan and my favourite Netflix show is Wednesday. This might be embarrassing to admit but my celebrity crush is Jenna Ortega lol. My music taste is pretty much just anything mainstream but I like Lewis Capaldi. My favourite Pixar film is WALL-E. Call me lazy but I love to just chill and relax at home in my pyjamas. I’m a family oriented person and an animal lover with two cute dogs who I adore. I’m looking for a woman who will love me for who I am, to build a special bond with and to have a future together. As cringe as it sounds, I just someone to love me as much as I’d love them. I guess I’m a hopeless romantic lol. I don’t know if I should say this here but I do really want to have children one day but that would be something that would happen in the long term and I’m no rush anyway. I am a great uncle to my niece and nephews and fatherhood is something that appeals to me. I’d like someone who is close to my age but that wouldn’t be a deal breaker. I don’t want a long distance relationship as I can’t travel and I want someone who is not too far. I’m not bothered about appearances as personality means much more to me but my “type” would be a white, petite, hot, curvy woman with black or blonde hair and blue eyes. I want us to get to know each other first and then possibly meet up for a date. Hopefully we can “click” right away but I understand it might take time. Anyway I don’t want to keep on rambling so this goes out to any women out there, if you want to talk or ask me questions then feel free to DM me. I look forward to hearing from you all and thank you for reading my post
Liam x

I wanted to share something with all as not having many financial mentors. I literally want to share my heart out . I've recently started earning, salary is not that high , but decent enough. I'm going home for first time, it's my parents anniversary also I want to gift them something good, but after that I'll have very less money left. I want to know how to save money for future, I want to do these things but also save. How could I do that. I have recently been online scammed and it was almost a month's salary🥲. I don't know how to properly mange my money where to invest what to do, I feel silly. Please guide.

Just had the car in for and oil change (56K miles) and the dealer says I’m due for tires.
Quoted me about $850 for Bridgestone Dueler 225/60R18 100H.
Is that a) a decent tire and b) a good price?

Hey,
First time actively trying to connect with someone over the web. My name is Brandon, I'm freshly 32 and probably an average white dude. I have a beard that is usually tame and I'm 5'11. Currently living in Pittsburgh. I'm a little heavier but I am currently doing IF and working on that. That shit takes time yo. Kind wish it was faster but whatever.
Hobbies -Cycling - Picked up riding my bike during COVID(3 years back) because sitting inside all the time was depressing AF -Hiking - Same thing as above but I started hiking before Cycling. I take LOTS of pictures on my hikes so let me know if you want to see them -Gaming - Varies. Currenting working through Diablo 4 and I occasionally play OSRS. My favorite fantasy RPG is Divinity Original Sin 2, that shit is amazing. -Anime - I watch anime occasionally but I'm not really into it normally. I generally only watch when friends suggest it. What I am looking for While I haven't figure it out 100%, I think the remainder is not exactly the most important. I'm not exactly too picky with age but if you are younger then hopefully there is a good bit of maturity. I don't really care what you do for a living, for the most part...and as far as looks go...As long as I dig you, that's all the matters. Physical attraction just needs to be there as I am far more concerned with personality vibes. As far as kids go, I'm on the fence if I want them or not...However if you want them, then I'd be open to it. Same with not wanting them. I sorta don't want to deal with kids just yet so my pref is women without kids currently.
I am def into nerdy women. Cosplay, anime, science, RPG, video games, books and whatever else is considered to be nerdy...I'm into it. I'm also cool with women who enjoy doing stuff outside, as I do like to bike/hike. Not really interested in talking to women outside of the US. Don't really want to keep adding here cause I don't want to make it into a resume lol. If you want to know more, here are some things you can open the convo with.
1) Funny/scary outdoor adventure story 2) Favorite videogame/anime/nerdy topic 3) Most outrageous thing you have been apart of.

Hello there , I'm working in a company for more than 7 years and I had an official meeting with my employer about a salary raise with a transition to become a manager of the section I am right now and I found the offer not good. On that point I m thinking to ask about my Zwischenzeugnis to really see written on paper how my employer sees me in the company to understand the way of thinking. When I mentioned that to a coworker who s also a friend of mine , way older than me and also German, he suggested me not to do that because it could backfire? So what s wrong with that , since everyone is entitled to ask about the Zwischenzeugnis

Hey guys, I’d like to share a rebirth case that happened to someone that I know in Canada. It’s a story that was just shared to me via WeChat a few hours ago. I’m gonna keep this brief lol. So on Wednesday, the husband of a Pure Land Buddhist that I personally know has passed away.
A bit of context: This Pure Land Buddhist was the leader of this Nianfo cultivation centre/group in Montreal for over 20 years. We are part of Master Chin Kung’s Pure Land Buddhist Association. Even though I no longer join their Nianfo group sessions, I still keep contact with them occasionally. Anyway, her husband was not a Buddhist, but he was a good husband who would help his wife manage the cultivation centre. According to her, even though he was not a Buddhist, she suspects that throughout the 20+ years of him witnessing her practice and dharma discussions with other fellow Pure Landers, he kind of developed some faith and chanted discreetly sometimes.
So when her husband passed away, she was very worried and immediately held a support chanting with everyone for him. I couldn’t attend but I did help by dedicating merits to him. The support chanting was held for the entire day or two. Many of the people present saw light shining from his head as they were chanting! When funeral services went to pick up the dead body today, they noticed how soft and warm the body was as though it was still alive, and they’ve never seen something like this. Our leader was so happy witnessing these signs. What a way to end the week, right? We plan to keep dedicating merits to him in the next few days to level up his lotus grade.
Namo Amitabha 🙏

Obligatory: I’m not locked in here with you. You’re locked in here with me!”
Sorry I’m in a fun mood today.
Now to business. So many posts I see here have to do with lgbt and affirming them and the evils of not. And I would like to ask some questions out of curiosity. Don’t get me wrong, I disagree with everything I’ve heard to date. But I have some questions it would be nice to have answered.
If this is too offensive for you understood. It’s not meant that way. My word on that. Downvote all you like. I see that as so childish. But I’d appreciate the responses.

1. The Bible is explicit in its condemnation of lgbt. Think sodom and Gomorrah…

Then the Lord said, “The outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is so great and their sin so grievous 21 that I will go down and see if what they have done is as bad as the outcry that has reached me. If not, I will know.”
Leviticus 18:22 ~ You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.
Leviticus 20:13 ~ If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
Jude 1:7 ~ Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire, serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire.
Romans 1:26-28 ~ For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.
Mark 10:6-9 ~ But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
Quite simply it’s indisputable. These affirming churches heretical. You cannot change the truth. God’s word does not change no matter what society says and to what is being preached in some of the churches today.
“For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book:
“And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of the book of life, and out of the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book.” (Rev. 22:18–19.)
The arguments I hear for such things hinge on god needs to be loving and affirming. It hinges on the personal desires cast onto the Bible. God is loving but no fool.
Revelation 21:8 ESV
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death
That is one aspect of God. The other is love and forgiveness
Ephesians 1:7 In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace
But many take that idea of love and take it to mean acceptance of anything. It doesn’t work like that. There are rules. Discipline. These things are real. The Bible tells Christian’s they will suffer. It is explicit in that.
1 Peter 2:20 For what credit is there if, when you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? But if when you do what is right and suffer for it you patiently endure it, this finds favor with God.
So my questions: I understand my experience isn’t universal but bear with me.
1.I have never seen an lgbt harassed in church. That is abominable to me. They are still gods creations. Christian’s should be loving showing them the godly path. Now lgbtis++%#?{£ says these things are innate. I disagree with but cannot disprove gay or lesbian claims. The rest my eyes, the Bible, and science tell me so. It’s immaterial. It doesn’t matter. What matters is the biblical response to it. Am I wrong? How so?

1. Much of the sin in the world I see today is a product of a lack of structure and discipline. look at all the arguments being made. They boil down to I WANT regardless of consequences or wise precedent. I hear many former Christian’s say they were against a particular stance. They are rebelling. That appears to be the outward manifestation. A bucking of the rules? I do what I want? I and everyone else must affirm me?
   
2. What good has the diminishing of the church done? I’m not blind to the evils within. That is the nature of man. Deserving of worldly punishment and if unrepentant gods. But the bitterness I see has mutilated a key institution of American society that at its core did much good
   

These are my curiosities. Once again yes they come from a place of disapproval but they are honest questions in and of themselves. I will honestly consider your answers.
I thank you for your time
God bless

I’ll (24f) start from the beginning. So I have questioned my sexuality a few times (first time in high school). Growing up I only ever had crushes on guys. I honestly don’t think I have ever had a crush on a girl- there definitely were some that made me insecure and some that were good friends I enjoyed hanging out with but I really don’t think I had crushes on them. I was also never a very sexual person and I was always super nervous around guys. I went through one phase of watching “porn” on twitter (lol cringe) in eighth grade that aroused me. But beforehand and after that very short experience I never had a sex drive (libido) and I don’t think I experience sexual attraction. I never had the desire to watch porn anything either, and sex scenes in shows/movies made me feel uncomfortable (but this may be just because I was questioning)
I think the part that is most confusing to me is that I think I have very strong aesthetic attraction to women. I definitely see women I think are pretty all the time, especially in media, but I don’t think I ever had the thought or feeling like I wanted to touch them sexually. I have also been aroused by women’s bodies before, not a lot but a few times. I don’t have this same strong attraction to men, but it grows a lot with romantic attraction. I don’t get repulsed by the idea of sex with a women but I don’t particularly desire it either and I don’t think about it unless I’m anxious or stressed about me questioning my sexuality, like the idea only comes to my head during those times.
Since being sexually actively with past boyfriends, the idea does stress me out, since I’ve had issues with pain for most of my time being active and having to stop sex in the middle of it leaves me feeling guilty and I hate that feeling. So many people say to experiment, but I genuinely have no desire to. If I never had sex again, I’d be fine with that. Don’t get me wrong I enjoy pleasing my partners and sex is fine with me as long as it doesn’t hurt, but it’s not something I particularly crave. I’ve been horny once in my entire life (idk of it was triggered by something), but my bf at the time was who I wanted to have sex with and I was fulfilled so idk. Idk i feel like I’m asexual and that identity gave me peace for a while but then sometimes anxiety kicks in and I feel like I’m lying to myself and I can’t pick a side bc romantically I fall for men, but in the past I definitely notice women’s bodies more. I’m also single so the idea of not knowing what to tell future partners stresses me out

Hey my name is Tegan and I’m 16 and I would love to make some friends on here or if you want to just chat to pass some time I’m down for that as well dms always open. I will not respond if you don’t mention your age. Thx for reading have a good night or day xoxo

My wife has a son (just turned 11) and a daughter (she's "basically 13" if your listen to her) from a previous marriage. I'll call the son Nick for this. He has some sight, but is legally blind. My wife and I married in January and moved in together at that time. Everything was good until mid April. Nick started having panic attacks whenever there was a bug in the house (he's always had an issue with bugs, something about not being able to see them makes him uncomfortable, but this was extreme). He got much more clingy with my wife, even though he's at that age where most boys start to distance themselves more from their moms. Then a couple weeks ago, he started having attacks right before bed, he shakes and can't fall asleep. He says he thinks he hears noises, despite the fact that we're in a very quiet neighborhood and their previous neighborhood had tons of traffic noise and weekly gunshot noises. He feels like someone is watching him, so we put a light in his room so he can see no one is in the room and we've been putting the dog in his room who will bark if anyone comes in, but he still feels too triggered to sleep. He basically stays awake until exhaustion makes him pass out. He otherwise can't point to anything specific, just bad feelings. We've tried doing what we can, reassuring him that he's safe, that nothing bad has happened to him in the house, using logic about the kinds of noises he might think he's hearing, calming music/stream noises, and more.
My wife had anxiety for years any time her ex communicated with her, which was a lot for about 8 years, apparently. She still gets PTSD symptoms when he messages her about something that isn't scheduled, like pickups for the kids. So she understands some of what he's going through (I don't, my life has been very blessed so I'm completely out of my depth here) and she has tried to explain everything to him and use that knowledge to reassure him.
We're trying to get him into therapy. He sees a speech therapist weekly to help with communication skills (there is so much to raising a blind child that you don't even think about, and communication issues are a big one) and part of that involves communicating emotions and describing your feelings. So my wife asked the speech therapist to go over some of that with him. After a couple sessions focusing on the anxiety, she decided he needed a dedicated therapist for that. So she put in a referral and the insurance company approved it. All that's left is for my wife's ex to sign the consent form, but he won't do it. He's a narcissist and was abusive towards my wife and he's always been against the kids going to therapy, partly because he still likes to exercise control over my wife whenever he can and partly because he's worried what the kids might say as child therapists are mandatory reporters in my state. My wife is currently talking with her lawyer to possibly file a motion with the court to force the matter, but that takes time. So, in the mean time, is there anything we can do for him?
Some things that might add useful context for his anxiety:
Because of a combination of my wife living in a small apartment and his infirmity, Nick slept in my wife's room until a couple years ago. My wife had a bunk bed for the kids that she found out after the purchase she couldn't assemble on her own, so I assembled it for her after we started dating. After that, he would sleep occasionally in his sister's room. I would usually visit on weekends when they're with their dad, so it wasn't a priority to move him permanently until we moved in together. But, despite him at first being worried about having to sleep in his own room regularly in a new house, he was doing fine until April.
My wife was rear-ended with both kids in the car in March of 2022. He was hurt fairly badly (some muscle bruising, no broken bones, but hit his head on the back of the driver seat), had to go to PT, and had low-grade anxiety about riding in the car for several months after. But he was doing well since about August/September, and he was never this bad while he was going through all that.
The first time he was unable to sleep, he had come back from his dad's house (they go there Friday morning to Monday night). I'm convinced something happened there, but that he doesn't have the context or vocabulary to understand what that might be.
He's nervous about going into middle school next year. He's been in a special class for blind children for the past 3 years and had a blind teacher and only like 7 kids in the class. His sister has been telling him about middle school and how hard the classes are and how many kids are in each class and how there's all these fights (she went to a pretty bad school, but they're both going to a much better middle school next year) and how he will have to go to a bunch of different classrooms throughout the day. So he's concerned about all that.
He's a, frankly, pretty weak kid. Physically, mentally, emotionally. He's always overreacted to teasing from his sister. Whenever you give him any amount of criticism, he shuts down. Whenever he encounters anything that is the least bit difficult due to his blindness, he just gives up (rather than cut his chicken or whatever, he'll take like two bites and then ask if he can be done with dinner). If you tell him that he can't have dessert or seconds or candy or whatever (he's overweight and eats like shit at his dad's house so my wife is trying to help him lose weight), he shuts down and looks like you just kicked his dog. He has trouble lifting things that an 11 year old should have no problem with (he takes swimming lessons and can't pull himself out of the pool).
His dad and stepmother basically ignore him. He sits in his room at their house and just watches/plays stuff on a tablet. Nick says he puts on YouTube on his projector in his room there until he falls asleep from exhaustion. The dad claims that he hasn't noticed any anxiety, but Nick and his sister say their dad hardly pays him any mind over there. They almost never go out and do any sort of activities, and half the times their dad did decide to go out, Nick gets left behind.

Hi all, EUROPOOR here, I was getting interested in your sport soccerball, and I was looking for interesting MLS teams to support. Actually, I have good ties with the United States. My great great great great grandfather used to live in the US of A (PULIGOAT DNA🦅🦅), so I have great ties with the country. I once owned a Ford Focus, and I am looking forward to acquiring my first firearm (tired of stabbing). Anyways, I stumbled upon this club, and I a have a couple questions, because it got me interested.
What is your history?
I heard there is an interesting gang scene in Miami, who do we cheer for?
Is Beckham the devil?
Can I join the ultras of this club?
Do we participate in fun meetups with the opposing ultras?
Why should I support AC Miami?
Thanks y’all yehaww Puligoat baby US of A the greatest DNA 🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷

Hello! Any help is appreciated (before and incase this sub goes dark)
1- Anyone swapped their MBP's logic board (with the defective dgpu) for the 2012 equivalent? I personally love my 8,2 but am not fond of the limitations imposed by switching to igpu, and am not ready to give the laptop up yet. If you have swapped, what is your experience?
2- Any common issues for the 9,2 logic board to note before go for the swap?
3- Do you think it is a good idea/would you recommend the swap? Why/why not?
For reference, I might be able to get my hands on a new 9,2 logic board for the equivalent of ~$150 (in local currency)
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Looking to start a group and make friends
What’s up everybody I just started taking YouTube pretty seriously and am looking to not only start a group but make friends that have the same goal I have which is play video games for a living. I’m 25, my niche is horror games kind of like Cory, dashie, poiised, berleezy, etc. but I’m also down to play other games like apex, Fortnite ( I’m trash at that but I’m funny lol), 2k, whatever. I got a pretty good set up (I play on pc) and hope you guys have the same but if not no big deal just have a good mic. Let’s talk/play some games and see what happens 🤷🏾‍♂️

(Repost from AITA Subreddit but reposting as it has become relevant again. New Information added )
I (20F) am no where close to getting married, not in a relationship of any sort and don't plan to until I at least get my Bachelors. My friend, (M23) David however, is starting discussions with his longtime gf (22F) Lisa about settling down and such. They've already agreed to getting married, splitting finances, and I'm completely happy for them. We're all just waiting for a proposal in the coming year or two.
About two days ago, Lisa started flooding our group chat with different wedding ideas. This wasn't a problem, we all loved it and started discussing what we all liked and such. There was one Tik Tok of a bride showing off her bridesmaids' dresses, all within the same color range but not the same style. Lisa commented that she really likes the idea, to which we all agree. This leads to a discussion of what bridesmaids dresses we all like, and they all ask for my opinion.
"Oh! Haven't really thought about it since I don't plan on having any bridesmaids."
Absolute. Radio. Silence. Keep in mind this is a groupchat of hyperactive 20-something college girls. Silence isn't good. Maybe 5 minutes later, Lisa asks "you don't want any of us there on your day?"
I, of course, am confused by this. I respond by saying "of course you're all going to be invited to my wedding, I just don't plan of having a big wedding party."
For context, I am Mexican-American, and the weddings I grew up seeing did not have bridal parties. At most, we had padrinos which are sponsors for different parts of the wedding. I am the only child of immigrants or person of color in this friendgroup and I get that American wedding traditions are different.
Lisa says something along the lines of "I guess I consider you a closer friend than you consider me" which really isn't true. Before I can tell her, everyone else in the group chat tells me they're just as hurt. I've known these girls since middle school so I know that this isn't a flippant petty thing, they genuinely mean it.
So, AITA for telling my friends I don't want a bridal party, making them think I don't value them as friends?
Updated Information: another friend of mine, Ashley (F23) has gotten recently engaged and has asked me to become a bridesmaid which I accepted happily. The conversation of my own bridal party has come up again and even though I was able to let my friends know that I absolutely value them and want them there on my wedding day, I could tell they weren't happy still with my decision of not having bridesmaids.
What they told me was that it was their way of showing me how much they appreciate me being in their lives and that they're uncomfortable that I'm not willing to give them the same gesture. But I won't; not only because it doesnt hold the same cultural significance to me but also because I simply don't want a bridal party. They eventually relented, but I'm still being called inconsiderate. AITA?

Hi all,
Pretty much like the title says, is there anyway, as killer, to ensure I have a good ping before committing to a lobby? I feel like a bad killer ping makes the match terrible for myself and survivors.
Thanks!