Maika monroe boyfriend 2022

Hello, I’m 26(F) and I just got my Kyleena IUD removed earlier today (currently 4 hours post removal). I wanted to share my experience and updates because I know these types of posts helped me a lot and hopefully I can help someone too.
Background: I got it inserted March 2019. Originally I wanted non-hormonal copper IUD but my gyno basically forced me (in a way) and said she doesn’t insert those … And if I don’t want hormonal I don’t get an IUD lol. Anyways, I caved and got it inserted.
Fast forward to Oct 2019, i had my very first random panic attack at work. From then I was stuck in a constant state of depersonalization/derealization (DPDR). It was this constant DPDR + constant anxiety (a lot of it stemming from the fear of this feeling. This continued until honestly to this day. It would get better and worse. And in Oct 2021 it got really bad. To the point where I felt severely depressed and s**cidal. I finally got the courage to start on Zoloft (a SSRI) which really helped me from Jan 2022 to now.
Why I wanted it removed? I spoke with some people and they mentioned hormonal BC really messed with their mental health. And i thought back to my life pre-IUD and I was never like this. The only anxiety I had was from school/work. Never got bad to the point where i couldnt leave the house or work or socialize. I wanted to have it removed in 2021 but I couldnt build up the courage. All of 2022 i thought about it too but I couldnt get over the fear of going back to that dark place.
Now that I am in a better supportive relationship I finally said enough is enough, fuck it, we can do it.
Removal: Pretty simple and quick. The pain was probably a 2-3/10 nothing more than a small cramp.
How I’m feeling: I cried a lot in the car after. Not because I was sad but because I was so proud and overwhelmed that it actually happened. I honestly felt lighter and I kept screaming IM A FREE WOMANNNNN. Because it felt like these thoughts about the IUD had such a chokehold on me. I do feel a little sleepy but I’m always tired so. Anxiety wise I feel like it’s a little less than usual but I’m also currently spending time with my boyfriend and that usually helps co-regulate me.
Anyways I hope to do an update soon and I’m happy to answer any questions!
Tldr: i finally removed my iud after 4 years for mental health reasons. Feeling okay so far thankfully

My boyfriend is the most amazing person i’ve ever met. He’s the only person i’ve ever felt comfortable around and he’s my only friend. He was diagnosed with leukemia (AML) in june 2022 and not even 2 weeks ago they said he wouldn’t make it longer than 3-4 more weeks because the leukemia was doubling even with all the chemo. I stayed in the hospital for so long and I left for a second to give his mom space to say goodbye to him, I had already been saying my goodbyes so I let her have her privacy. As soon as I get home I get a call saying he passed away in his sleep. I don’t feel like i can breathe without him i’m just too attached to try to live without him and I just don’t know what to do and I really need some serious advice.

Hello everyone. I’ve made a post in the past about my boyfriend. I’ve been trying to work through some things with him for awhile. We’ve start dating for about 7 months in 2021. We broke up and got back together in 2022 in November. The reason we broke up in 2021 was because he said I was too negative. He said I would complain about my job a lot, issues with my family, and personal issues of my own. He would try and give me advice and say that I need to stop complaining and just work through my problems. I took he’s advice actually and got a new job. (Which I hate but the money is good). So this year he said I complain a lot about my job, and my family issues again like I did when we was first together. I honestly didn’t realized that I complain that much.I honestly thought our relationship was going good. He told me he was happy. So when he said I was negative I did not expect it at all. I want to try and fix my issues but I’m not even sure how to please my boyfriend anymore. Complain less and be more positive? Which I didn’t think it was that bad till now. Any advice would be great thank you!

I (22F) met Jack (21M), in May 2022 through mutual friends of ours. At first our relationship was just casual, this lasted for about a month until we decided to make it official, because whilst being “casual” it was like we were already dating- going out together, him saying I love you first, and meeting his family etc. It was wonderful. He was my second boyfriend and he treated me with love and care unlike anyone else, I truly thought he was just as crazy about me as I was with him.
That was not the case. Around December time he met Katie (21F), through some of his friends. She was seeing someone and her and Jack had a normal friendly relationship until she broke up with her partner. Katie had met me at this point, had met me alongside Jack’s family where they called me their “future daughter in law” and introduced me to others as Jack’s girlfriend, so I believe she knew what I was to him.
They started sleeping together end of January, with my lovely boyfriend going over and buying condoms and wandering down to house for a fuck. He had told her we weren’t serious, that we were just friends with benefits and that we’d told our families we were dating to avoid the awkwardness of explaining it was a casual relationship. He said “We (me and him) aren’t serious, she knows I want to sleep around before I go to join the Marines, I can’t help it, I’m a very sexual guy”. He’d told me at the start of our relationship he didn’t want to sleep around and wanted to date me exclusively.
They slept together frequently, to the point of they don’t know how often it was, and it was happening as recently as last week, when he was telling me how happy he was I was coming to visit him. He’d been telling her how much freakier she was than me, doing things to her (knife play) that I had boundaries against.
She made him tell me what he was doing, about all the cheating, I don’t think he would have ever come clean if we hadn’t spoken about it.
He told me after myself and Katie had a conversation at a nightclub at 2am last night and connected the dots. He told me he was a sex addict, that he’d been getting help from a helpline for two months and that’s why he couldn’t always finish during sex without his hand helping him out. I think it’s horseshit, even if it was true it’s not an excuse to cheat, but only sleeping with one woman intermittently? Doesn’t seem like an addict to me.
I was staying at his, he slept on the sofa downstairs. I got the earliest train I could and left without ever seeing him, I’ve blocked him on everything and told his mum what he did. She has allegedly kicked him out and keeps telling me how disgusted and disappointed she is by him.
It just doesn’t feel real. I keep thinking about the memories we made were happening whilst he was fucking our friend, lying to my face about how much he loved for and cared about me. It’s like I’ve been dating a completely different man to what he’s been doing now.
Apparently he’s been crying his eyes out. He should be. I just don’t know how someone can so easily through something like this away. He’s a coward, a compulsive liar and a sociopath.

2022 I spent abroad exploring the world. It was a blast. Being away from my Nparents solved so many things in my mind. But people without abusive parents will never understand the trauma and why we have certain reactions. I dated a guy who had a really good relationship with his parents, that's great, just not my experience. He would talk a lot about his family and i would talk little about mine. I don't tend to rant about my trauma to people, mainly the internet or my best friends. He kind of picked up on that when he would ask things about my parents and my responses were pretty mute. For my birthday he asked me if I was going to call my parents. I said probably a quick call. He said he wanted to be there and listen in. I didn't feel comfortable with that. I was ok with my parents sending a Happy Birthday text but since I'm still for some reason trying to please my mother I was going to give in to a call. Quick and emotionless. Like ripping bandaid. And my boyfriend couldn't understand my reactions to this. He would say things like "but why don't you want to talk to them, they're your parents, they live you", "all a parent wants is for their kid to be happy". He just couldn't get it. To be fair to him I never explained that my parents laughed in my face when I tried to commit suicide or that they've repeatedly told me I'm ugly and worthless. We got to talking about kids and I told him I didn't want any. I don't want to be like them in the slightest and I fear I will be so. I. Trying to spare a child trauma because I don't think I can be a good parent. I never seen one up close so how would I know what to do. He found my reasoning absolutely horrible. He said being a good parent comes from within but I beg a differ. No one is taught to be a parent. They just mimic what they know. My Nparents come from abusive homes themselves, so of course that's all they know. How am I supposed to be different. I know, I acknowledge it atleast but still, too much of a risk. I'll have dogs. I know how to raise them.
He insisted I call home for the holidays and NMom birthday. Instead I sent a text and told them I was busy with work and the time different made it difficult to call. He wasn't so happy about that.
Anyways they guy and I broke up for various reasons but it amazes me how oblivious people are to trauma and abuse when they haven't experienced it.

TLDR; He cheated frequently, lied about it, I told his mum and he was kicked out
I (22F) met Jack (21M), in May 2022 through mutual friends of ours. At first our relationship was just casual, this lasted for about a month until we decided to make it official, because whilst being “casual” it was like we were already dating- going out together, him saying I love you first, and meeting his family etc. It was wonderful. He was my second boyfriend and he treated me with love and care unlike anyone else, I truly thought he was just as crazy about me as I was with him.
That was not the case. Around December time he met Katie (21F), through some of his friends. She was seeing someone and her and Jack had a normal friendly relationship until she broke up with her partner. Katie had met me at this point, had met me alongside Jack’s family where they called me their “future daughter in law” and introduced me to others as Jack’s girlfriend, so I believe she knew what I was to him.
They started sleeping together end of January, with my lovely boyfriend going over and buying condoms and wandering down to house for a fuck. He had told her we weren’t serious, that we were just friends with benefits and that we’d told our families we were dating to avoid the awkwardness of explaining it was a casual relationship. He said “We (me and him) aren’t serious, she knows I want to sleep around before I go to join the Marines, I can’t help it, I’m a very sexual guy”. He’d told me at the start of our relationship he didn’t want to sleep around and wanted to date me exclusively.
They slept together frequently, to the point of they don’t know how often it was, and it was happening as recently as last week, when he was telling me how happy he was I was coming to visit him. He’d been telling her how much freakier she was than me, doing things to her (knife play) that I had boundaries against.
She made him tell me what he was doing, about all the cheating, I don’t think he would have ever come clean if we hadn’t spoken about it.
He told me after myself and Katie had a conversation at a nightclub at 2am last night and connected the dots. He told me he was a sex addict, that he’d been getting help from a helpline for two months and that’s why he couldn’t always finish during sex without his hand helping him out. I think it’s horseshit, even if it was true it’s not an excuse to cheat, but only sleeping with one woman intermittently? Doesn’t seem like an addict to me.
I was staying at his, he slept on the sofa downstairs. I got the earliest train I could and left without ever seeing him, I’ve blocked him on everything and told his mum what he did. She has allegedly kicked him out and keeps telling me how disgusted and disappointed she is by him.
It just doesn’t feel real. I keep thinking about the memories we made were happening whilst he was fucking our friend, lying to my face about how much he loved for and cared about me. It’s like I’ve been dating a completely different man to what he’s been doing now.
Apparently he’s been crying his eyes out. He should be. I just don’t know how someone can so easily through something like this away. He’s a coward, a compulsive liar and a sociopath.

I (22F) met Jack (21M), in May 2022 through mutual friends of ours. At first our relationship was just casual, this lasted for about a month until we decided to make it official, because whilst being “casual” it was like we were already dating- going out together, him saying I love you first, and meeting his family etc. It was wonderful. He was my second boyfriend and he treated me with love and care unlike anyone else, I truly thought he was just as crazy about me as I was with him.
That was not the case. Around December time he met Katie (21F), through some of his friends. She was seeing someone and her and Jack had a normal friendly relationship until she broke up with her partner. Katie had met me at this point, had met me alongside Jack’s family where they called me their “future daughter in law” and introduced me to others as Jack’s girlfriend, so I believe she knew what I was to him.
They started sleeping together end of January, with my lovely boyfriend going over and buying condoms and wandering down to house for a fuck. He had told her we weren’t serious, that we were just friends with benefits and that we’d told our families we were dating to avoid the awkwardness of explaining it was a casual relationship. He said “We (me and him) aren’t serious, she knows I want to sleep around before I go to join the Marines, I can’t help it, I’m a very sexual guy”. He’d told me at the start of our relationship he didn’t want to sleep around and wanted to date me exclusively.
They slept together frequently, to the point of they don’t know how often it was, and it was happening as recently as last week, when he was telling me how happy he was I was coming to visit him. He’d been telling her how much freakier she was than me, doing things to her (knife play) that I had boundaries against.
She made him tell me what he was doing, about all the cheating, I don’t think he would have ever come clean if we hadn’t spoken about it.
He told me after myself and Katie had a conversation at a nightclub at 2am last night and connected the dots. He told me he was a sex addict, that he’d been getting help from a helpline for two months and that’s why he couldn’t always finish during sex without his hand helping him out. I think it’s horseshit, even if it was true it’s not an excuse to cheat, but only sleeping with one woman intermittently? Doesn’t seem like an addict to me.
I was staying at his, he slept on the sofa downstairs. I got the earliest train I could and left without ever seeing him, I’ve blocked him on everything and told his mum what he did. She has allegedly kicked him out and keeps telling me how disgusted and disappointed she is by him.
It just doesn’t feel real. I keep thinking about the memories we made were happening whilst he was fucking our friend, lying to my face about how much he loved for and cared about me. It’s like I’ve been dating a completely different man to what he’s been doing now.
Apparently he’s been crying his eyes out. He should be. I just don’t know how someone can so easily through something like this away. He’s a coward, a compulsive liar and a sociopath.

Hey all,
My boyfriend M28 had his annual MRI as he has Multiple Sclerosis (dx 2022). I was reading the results and no new demyelinating lesions but I noticed that it says increased T2 and STIR and I don’t know what that means in this context or what it’s signaling. Can someone explain? Results pasted below. TIA :)
MR thoracic spine wo/w con 3/21/2023 2:09 PM
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS: Multiple sclerosis, annual follow-up PROTOCOL: Multiplanar multisequence MR images of the thoracic spine were Obtained with and without IV contrast CONTRAST: 12 mL of intravenous ProHance COMPARISON: 3/20/2022
FINDINGS: The bones of the thoracic spine are in anatomic alignment. There is preservation of vertebral body heights and intervertebral disc spaces. There is increased T2 and STIR signal to the right of midline at C7-T1, on the left at T2 and T3, and to the right of midline at T7 and T8. These are similar to the prior exam. There is no abnormal postcontrast enhancement. No new demyelinating lesions are visualzed. The marrow signal is within Normal limits. No epidural or paraspinous fluid collection Is appreciated. The visualized paraspinous soft tissues are within normal limits.
IMPRESSION: There is increased T2 and STIR signal to the right of midline at C7-T1, on the left at T2 and T3, and to the right of midline at 17 and T8

Buckle up, because I've been holding this loooooong story in for a loooooong time, and when I tell you this is a hot mess, this is a hot, steaming, bubbling mess of a mess! My sister-in-law (SIL) has cut all ties with me and hubby, telling us that she wants nothing to do with us ever again because their mother (MIL) asked her for $10 and we had the audacity to side with MIL when SIL refused. Sounds petty? It is. Sounds simple? Not exactly...
Hubby has three siblings. Brother #1 (BIL1) will watch you drown to save some rope. Brother #2 (BIL2) is the sweetest, but a bit naive. And SIL? Oh, boy. I don't have anything to compare her to, but I think the title should hint at how bad she is...
FYI, SIL is the baby of the family and the only girl. She was spoilt rotten before their parents split up, and things only got worse once the separation became permanent. SIL would play parent against parent and throw her brothers under the bus regularly. Hubby and I watched SIL's behavior get more and more toxic as she grew into an adult, but there was no talking to MIL or FIL. Both parents felt guilty about the fact that, of the siblings, SIL was the one to grow up in the "broken" home, so they excused every tantrum, every snarky remark, and every selfish act. Once when she was 12, SIL stole a pair of my sexy panties from the dryer (hubby and I lived in the same duplex as MIL for a while). I actually thought the panties had been sacrificed to the dryer instead of a sock that cycle. That was until a month later. I saw SIL throw the panties into our kitchen through the open backdoor. When I went over to their apartment to ask SIL why she stole the panties, MIL got upset at me and told hubby to make me apologize to SIL for accusing her of something I saw her do with my own eyes! SIL had the family wrapped around her little finger.
Fast forward to 2020. All the siblings were in their early to late twenties. BIL1, BIL2, and SIL decided to remain living with MIL because she only had them pay $200 each a month for rent, utilities, and groceries. MIL still felt guilty about "breaking up the family", so she sacrificed her freedom and needs to take responsibility for more than half the monthly expenses while her kids partied the land down. I mean, they literally partied the land down. One summer, MIL couldn't even afford shoes for work, but SIL went on a week's vacation abroad! But something else happened in 2020, right?
Enter the pandemic. MIL was laid off permanently from her job, so she looked to her adult children for financial support until she could find a new job. I emphasize "adult" because, at some point in our lives, children will have to help their parents. We just had to start a bit earlier, but it wasn't going to be for the rest of MIL's life just yet. The four siblings just had to hold down the fort until MIL found a new job. Simple!
Well, BIL1 wasn't pleased, but he's reasonable once you get him to sit down and listen to sense. BIL2 rolled with the punches. SIL, however? After five months, SIL moved out to live with her boyfriend without warning. All SIL said as she packed her things was, "I'm too young to take care of you, mummy. I have my own life to live." Never mind her BIL1, BIL2, and hubby were all chipping in equally. Apparently, SIL had been carrying the load all by herself, and she'd just had enough! She was so tired that SIL left her dog for MIL to take care of with no money!!!
We were all speechless. Not only had SIL been living with MIL for almost two years paying practically nothing, but MIL called in a favor with a friend to get SIL a job right out of high school - SIL didn't even have to apply! What's worse, MIL (with the help of me and hubby) bought SIL a car with no expectation of ever being repaid, and you better believe SIL never offered to pay us back either. Without MIL's help, SIL would've had nothing, but SIL left MIL up shit creek without a paddle, and MIL lost her apartment.
While hubby and his family have learned to take SIL's abuse with a steups and an eye roll, her boyfriend was no such sucker. SIL's boyfriend dumped her after a year (the saint! I'm surprised he held on that long!) and told SIL to scram. And guess who she came bawling back to? MIL. And guess who took her in without a peep? MIL. I was disgusted. Because SIL had abandoned the family, BIL1 had moved in with his girlfriend, and BIL2 had been forced to find an apartment and take MIL in. Yet there SIL was, sleeping on BIL2's couch! But I'm only the DIL. I can't tell a mother how to handle her child. I tell hubby my thoughts, of course, but he's such a softy. He and MIL helped SIL find her own apartment (since BIL2 couldn't accommodate SIL long-term), and when she gets evicted after a year for being a brat to her landlord all the time, MIL and hubby help SIL find another apartment. I even gave SIL $700 from my personal savings so that she could pay the deposit on the place.
Now we're finally getting to the real story!
So, we loaned SIL the $700 in the summer of 2022 with the expectation that she pay me back at least $100 a month. The operative word is "expectation", but the reality was that SIL didn't pay us back at all. Every month, she had an excuse for hubby as to why she couldn't pay us the increments.
"Oh, I had to buy a new battery for my car!"
"Oh, I had to go to the doctor, and it was so expensive!"
"Oh, I had to buy a new battery for my car!"
Wait, didn't I say that one about the battery already? Yep, SIL actually used that excuse twice...
I had already resigned myself to the cold reality that I'd never get that $700 back. We're not well-off by any means, hubby and I, but we're not stingy. If the family needs help, we help, but rarely do we receive any thanks or compensation. I've grown used to it, so when SIL slunked on paying us back, I didn't make a fuss. Yes, I knew she was splurging money on SHEIN every week and $20 lunches every day that she would flaunt in front of MIL (who was still without a job two years later because the economy got so bad), but what could I do? I was more upset that SIL would actually leave work every day to eat her $20 sushi bento box at MIL's place without ever offering MIL a bite, let only a plate.
But this is how the $10 debacle started. MIL was still living with BIL2, and BIL2 was getting tired. See, even though the three brothers were equally supporting MIL until she got her life together again, BIL2 had to live with her. That meant his social and romantic life had come to a halt. Not to mention he was responsible for MIL's pets and SIL's dog. BIL2 had the added pressure of paying for extra utility use and the responsibility of transporting MIL and the pets around. Notice, I never said anything about SIL helping out. Well, that's because, in SIL's mind, she provided a different kind of support...
Every purple moon, SIL would "let MIL crash" on her couch. No, she didn't let MIL live with her. She'd essentially invite MIL over for a sleepover every once in a while. Then the next day, SIL would ship MIL back to BIL2's place. Never mind BIL2 was already taking care of SIL's dog. Never mind BIL2 already supported MIL financially and kept a roof over MIL's head. But the sad thing is that MIL adored her "sleepovers" with SIL. She looked forward to the "mother-daughter" time, even though we all knew that time was spent at home on the couch watching Netflix. BIL2 wasn't pleased with the favoritism.
Anyway, MIL was at SIL's apartment for one of the rare "sleepovers", and she was strapped for cash. She needed toothpaste and dog food for the critters. So, MIL asked SIL for $10. Hubby and I found out because half an hour later, hubby got this phone call:
SIL: "[Hubby], something's gotta give with Mummy."
Hubby: "What? Is Mummy being stubborn about something?"
SIL: "No. I just can't deal with her asking for money anymore."
Hubby: "Okay, first of all, that's not what that expression means. Secondly, what do you mean? You don't support Mummy financially. We boys do."
SIL: "Excuse me? I do a lot for Mummy, okay!"
Hubby: "Okay, okay, whatever you say. What happened?"
(SIL proceeds to tell hubby about the $10 request. He puts his phone on speaker so that I can hear this utter rubbish.)
SIL: "Honestly, [hubby] I'm done! I can't deal with this anymore! Mummy's gonna break me!"
Hubby: "Really, SIL? $10 is gonna break you?"
SIL doesn't take too kindly to this retort, so she proceeds to list the following excuses as to why she doesn't have $10 to give to MIL, followed by hubby's rejoinders:
SIL: "I have a car loan to pay!"
Hubby: "No you don't. We helped Mummy buy the car for you in full...
SIL: "I have car insurance to pay each month!"
Hubby: "Since when does anyone pay car insurance monthly? That's an annual fee."
SIL: "Well, I have utilities to pay!"
Hubby: "No you don't. Your rent is all-inclusive."
SIL: "Not Netflix! I had to pay my Netflix bill, you know!"
You had to pay for Netflix? Are you fucking serious? That's your excuse? At this point, hubby has had enough, but he knows SIL by now. If he rails on her like he wants to, she'll shut down. So, being a good big brother, he offers advice instead.
Hubby: "Okay, SIL. It seems like you're having trouble budgeting your money. MIL isn't wrong for asking for $10--"
SIL: "But I need gas in my car!"
Hubby: "Listen, I get it. You don't have $10 (rolls eyes), but the issue is that you never seem to have money when the family needs you, but you seem to be able to find money for frivolous things like bento box lunches and SHEIN orders."
SIL: "What I do with my fucking money is my fucking business!"
Hubby: "Calm down! I'm just saying that you need to manage your money better. So, how much is your weekly salary?"
SILENCE. Hubby repeats the question. SIL finally answers very, very quietly.
"Like 4-something..."
Hubby: "You mean like $450?"
SIL: "Yes."
Hubby pulls out the old Excel budget file we've been using for years. He sets up a budget for SIL. Then he asks her how much money she has left for the coming week.
SIL: "Not enough to give Mummy $10!"
Hubby: "Please stop being belligerent."
And this was the straw that breaks SIL's back! SIL pops off. She won't stand for this treatment. Hubby has no right to make SIL feel bad for not giving MIL $10. If SIL says she doesn't have $10, she doesn't have $10. Why is everyone always so mean to her? Why is everyone always attacking SIL? After all SIL does for MIL, no one respects her! SIL let's MIL sleep on her couch! SIL let's MIL use her Netflix!
Hubby: "Oh, bravo! You let Mummy sleep on your couch and soak up the internet your landlord pays for! Thanks to you, Mummy doesn't have to sleep on the street tonight!"
SIL: "You know what? Maybe she fucking should! I'm not the mother! I have my own money and my own life to live. If I want to buy fucking sushi every day for lunch, I should be able to!"
Hubby: "Yeah, you can afford to eat sushi every day, but you haven't paid OP back a single cent of the $700 she loaned you in the summer for the roof over your head!"
SIL: "You know what? Fuck you, fuck OP, and fuck Mummy! I'm done with this family!"
Then she hangs up. People, within two minutes I get a notification from my bank. Remember how SIL had soooo many expenses and couldn't afford to pay us back that $700? Remember how she had soooo many bills that month that she couldn't give MIL $10? Well, rassclat, SIL sent me the full $700!!! She had it the entire time! She'd simply decided for months that she wasn't going to rush to pay it back. Hell, she probably thought she'd never pay it back at all! But that's not the worst of it.
MIL calls. She wants to know what happened. SIL called her minutes before to tell MIL that she'd transferred $50 into MIL's account, and that would be the last $50 MIL was ever going to get from SIL. SIL then told MIL to have a nice life and to never contact her again. By damn!
Of course, hubby is furious. The scheming brat had been cheating all of us. She'd taken the entire family for a ride. He tries to call SIL to reprimand her for being so evil to MIL, but guess what? SIL has blocked hubby everywhere!
MIL and hubby talk about the situation. After all this, Hubby is still concerned about SIL's well-being. Hubby tells MIL about the budget he'd worked on for SIL to help her. If she's only making $450 a week, SIL needs to be more careful with her money.
MIL: "$450? SIL doesn't make $450 a week. She makes $650."
Reddit, I literally fell to the floor! This bitch!!! SIL lied to hubby about her weekly salary just to get out of giving MIL 10 fucking dollars!!!
At this point, MIL realizes SIL doesn't care about anyone but herself. It hurts because SIL is MIL's only daughter, but MIL agrees with hubby that this behavior can't be accepted. Hubby makes a pact with MIL to go no contact with SIL since SIL believes that she doesn't need her family.
So then tell me why BIL2 calls us a week later to tell us that MIL is babysitting SIL's new dog!!! You heard me. New dog. Not the dog BIL2 is taking care of. SIL got a new dog, and the moment MIL saw SIL's name on her phone screen, she took the call.
This was about four months ago now, and SIL and MIL seem to be right as rain with each other. Even though SIL said point blank that MIL should sleep on the street, MIL accepted see her back with no request for an apology.
As for us? SIL still has hubby blocked on all platforms. I guess we're the bad guys after all. How dare we call SIL out on her shit and make her feel bad for not giving MIL $10, right?

Rachel Bilson and Nick Viall are revealing the truth about their relationship.
Back in 2019, it was reported the 41-year-old actress and the 42-year-old Bachelor alum briefly dated after they flirted on Instagram.
While appearing on his podcast The Viall Files on Tuesday (March 21), Rachel and Nick admitted that they faked their relationship for “attention.”
“No, Nick and I never dated,” Rachel admitted while Nick added, “We did troll the internet.” Rachel clarified that she and Nick were just “messing around—not together, but I mean with the internet.”
Nick explained that they were both “epically single and we wanted the attention.”
Rachel then added that their fake relationship never “got to a point” where they developed feelings for each other.
Nick explained that the fake relationship idea popped into his head after they “became good friends” following her appearance on his podcast in July 2019.
After that, Nick and Rachel thought about developing a spinoff podcast together.
“It was going to be called Making Love With Nick and Rachel,” Nick shared. “I had an Instagram saved already for it. Then she got some gig, and then she bailed on me.”
Once the spinoff podcast idea fell through, so did their “relationship.”
“It was literally to get attention for the podcast,” Rachel revealed. “It was like, ‘OK, it’s a tease-up to what we’re doing.’ Even though it didn’t come to fruition, that was the intention.”
Rachel confirmed in August 2022 that she’s in a new relationship and Nick is currently engaged to Natalie Joy.
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in the mid of 2022 i(M20) met this girl(F18) from a dating app. i was her first “boyfriend” and with her everything feels perfect and in place. we love the same music, had a similar childhood and is interested in my interests. i basically met my mirror self. she was pretty, has a good attitude towards life and i can see a future with her. our relationship ended after 2 months because she is going overseas for her school. she asked me if it would be okay if we get into a long distance relationship and for me seeing eachother for like once a year is not preferable. so i pretty much broke her heart by saying that i cannot do this any longer and told her she was the right person at the wrong time. she tried contacting me a few times after that but i kept strict of the no contact policy. i deleted my playlist i made for her. but to this day i still stalk her spotify to see what she is listening to. everytime i see her listening to a song i introduced to her, i always feel i want to cry. before we went our seperate ways, i told her to contact me again after she is finished with her school and back in my city. fast forward a few while after that i meet this amazingly beautiful girl that is now my current gf(F20). we have been dating for almost 6 months now. the start was very very smooth but now i feel like the honeymoon phase is over and i dont feel as connected to her as i was with my past fling. our interest is totally different, different music taste, different sense of humor but thankfully same alignments in life. she is truly amazing and i would give everything for her. but, deepdown inside i feel that i will be happier if i was with my old fling. this feeling started about a week ago where everytime me and my current gf has a problem i always think that this shit will not happen if i was with my old fling. they have a totally different personality. my current gf is very possesive and controlling and very dominant. while my old fling is a very timid nods to everything i say and very submissive. i think i will be more compatible with her since i too am also very submissive. i always take the blame in my current relationship problems just to not stir more problems and sacrificed things to not get my current gf angry. please help me gain back my sanity reddit. i cannot break up with my gf and get back with my fling because she is already overseas. and last time i check before she went overseas she already has a boyfriend.

Background: I've been dating him for about a year and half from Nov 2021 to present. I'm a 20 year female sophomore at college and my bf is 23 y/o Male as senior. my bf is in school orchestra.
+ when we first dated we agreed that he should not meet a girl one-on-one and i cannot with a guy one on one. Or text girl/ guy personally
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In June 2022, a girl from his orchestra, who I'll address as B, asked my bf to practice violin duet at her house over the summer break before fall semester. My bf told me he won't go. and I believed that he didn't go until the following:
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I suffer from domestic abuse in home, and i had a hard time even opening up to my bf about it, and i opened up to him after like 10 months of dating, vaguely too.
I had gotten into another trouble that could lead to abuse a few days ago, and i was at school at the time and i was crying next to my bf. my parents told me to not come back at home bc they were mad at me for not picking up their call right away. i still went though, and told my bf its fine probably. he knew that it probably wasn't going to be, because i was crying buckets as i walked.
He had class to go to, so we parted ways and i headed home. I thought he would at least checkc on me when the class was over, but he didn't call me or anything but told me he was going to eat 10 minutes after class ended with a message "I hope everything is alright" I got upset that he never really makes an effort to call me when i really am in a distressful situation and told him about it, and he was really sorry and told me that he will next time. I called him to talk to him after i got home, but he didn't pick up like he usually does and called me back 15 minute ish later. I heard wind in the call, so i asked him what he was doing, and he said he was taking a walk outside and was having a "reflection" on the stuff that happened today bc he feels sorry. i said ok.
Yesterday, I slept over at his dorm and he left the dorm while I was sleeping in the morning to attend his morning class. his iPad, which he left on his desk, kept ringing notfs and i was woke up by it because i am not a heavy sleeper. i don't use apple products, so i didn't know how to silence it. what's weird was that there was so many message ringing sounds, but not a single notification bar popped up besides the ones that were already there. i didnt think much at first but just wanted to silence so i opened his imessage didn't and saw the name of the girl(who ill address as B) that he wanted to practice violin together one on one on his recent messages.
I asked him a few times before, if he still talks to her, because it just bothered me, and he said he hasn't ever spoke to her since june 2022.
I couldn't see what the girl messaged, probably because he deleted every single of them whenever he read it, but i saw what he messaged. Basically, he's been seeking emotional support from her whenever we had an argument or whenever he feels frustrated with me and complained about me to her.. from what i read, he also told her about my family situation.... and i also found out from that, that he actually wasn't taking a walk for a reflection but was at a club event to see he and friends and saw that he said he wished he could have stayed longer and talked to them more-
when he came back to the dorm, i told him honestly about what i saw and asked him to tell me anything else if he was hiding something. he said there truth was, in the june 2022 when she first asked him to play violin together at her place and my bf told me that he didn't go, he actually went, and that he's been actually meeting up at her place to play violin from time to time... and even on Christmas break i practically begged him to make more time for me because he was so "busy".
he told me that he never really agreed with me about stuff we discussed and basically didn't why hes never done stuff and complained to B when i asked him to but didnt wanna create a problem and that he loved music but didn't wanna lose me so he was lying to me for my sake. since its better for us he said.
to me, its clear that the girl wants to get with my bf for a while and is also contributing in setting us apart because i saw that there was very long passages of text my bf sent her when ranting abt our relationship and my bf replies in the same length as the other person usually.
when i pointed that out to him, he stated that she has a boyfriend and that she is just trying to help us... i try to tell him that shes just telling him whatever he wanted to hear like "its not his fault" everytime he says something to her. my bf admitted, because he said that she not even once told him something was his fault...
my bf just thinks shes a good friend.. and is hesitant to set things right again and cut ties with her.
its almost enraging that they both knew that i wasn't aware of their secretive meeting to play violin or whatever and the girl even asked him "how should we tell your girlfriend that we've been playing violin together",.... its the fact that my bf sees almost nothing wrong with her, and thinks that the blame is just all on him for not "rejecting her" when in reality both of them set this up against me-
its s frustrating that he keeps defending B, and disagrees with me that she might have feelings for him, just because "she has a bf" according to him- i thought that was worse, but my bf said her bf "lets her" . . .
and my bf keeps telling me that he techically didnt do anything as bad as cheating bc he technically have any physical interactions with her and i just cant convince him how much this hurt me and is hesitant to cut her off and even feels sorry for her or something...
He also says that he has no friends (i think to be mostly true) and that he doesn't wanna lose anyone. and i don't even know how to get this straight in his head that what he did was more terrible than what he thinks.
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basically: my boyfriends been going over to a girl's house for about a year to practice violin, the girl he said he doesn't talk to anymore, and on top of that, he's been talking about my relationship with him with her and seek emotional support and complain about me and offer her honesty that he didn't offer me. he even told her about my family situation(domestic abuse) and went to attend a club event with her when i needed him and lied to me that he was just walking outside. he's convinced that this girl didn't do anything wrong , and defends her even though its both of them and hesitant to cut her off. and he also feels that this just happened because he wanted to play music with someone... can someone please point out why both the girl and him are at fault?
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also, I've had other conflicts with girl problems between me and him that i didn't mention before too which went against the boundary i established with him in the relationship and i also found that he is habitually lying to me too.
TL;DR! my boyfriend had been meeting up with a girl at her house for his hobby and has been seeking emotional support from her about our relationship.