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Share your decorations you have outside, ranging from everything like Halloween and Christmas to just normal outside decorations.
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2023.03.22 07:12 mayfair1964 Streetlight Pole Designs by Mayfair Lighting LLP

Streetlight Pole Designs by Mayfair Lighting LLP
Mayfair Lighting LLP is a company that specializes in manufacturing decorative lighting poles, which are designed to elevate the aesthetic appeal of outdoor areas. They offer a diverse selection of lighting pole designs that are crafted using premium materials and innovative production methods. In this article, we'll explore some of the most sought-after decorative lighting pole designs that Mayfair Lighting LLP has to offer.
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If you prefer a modern look, Mayfair Lighting LLP's contemporary lighting poles are an excellent choice. These poles have a sleek and minimalist design that complements urban or industrial environments. Made of top-quality materials like aluminum, steel, and stainless steel, these poles are built to withstand harsh outdoor conditions.
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In summary, Mayfair Lighting LLP's street light pole designs provide a wide range of options for enhancing the beauty of any outdoor area. Whether you're seeking a classic, contemporary, artistic, or custom design, Mayfair Lighting LLP has the expertise and creativity to deliver a lighting pole that will meet your vision. Get in touch with them today to learn more about their decorative lighting pole designs and how they can transform your outdoor space.
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2023.03.22 06:48 salestore Antique Wind Chime Copper Yard Garden Outdoor Living Decoration Metal Wind C*QU

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2023.03.22 06:18 Event-decore 9FT Tall Warm White Lighted Tree - Decorative Waterproof Ginkgo LED Tree - Wedding and Party Indoor / Outdoor Centerpieces Tree 1632 LEDS!

9FT Tall Warm White Lighted Tree - Decorative Waterproof Ginkgo LED Tree - Wedding and Party Indoor / Outdoor Centerpieces Tree 1632 LEDS!

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INTERNAL WIRING! Our trees have easy plug, weatherproof wiring brought though the inside of the trunks and through to each branch. See photos as comparison.
ILLUMINATION! Brighter is Better! The hidden LED’s are 25 watt each! These trees will be admired from far distances! They offer ample lighting to brighten any room or outdoor area.
WEATHERPROOF! That’s right! Leave it outside. Rain is not a problem. The branches are sealed! Just make sure the outlet is not exposed.
Have a Look
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2023.03.22 06:10 zidaan_rishad Hrheh

Character Name Description
Ace Luffy's older brother and former commander of the Whitebeard Pirates' 2nd Division.
Akainu Marine admiral and current Fleet Admiral.
Aokiji Marine admiral and former member of the Navy HQ.
Bartolomeo Captain of the Barto Club and a member of the Straw Hat Grand Fleet.
Boa Hancock Captain of the Kuja Pirates and one of the Seven Warlords of the Sea.
Buggy Former member of Gol D. Roger's crew and the leader of the Buggy Pirates.
Carrot A rabbit mink and a member of the Straw Hat Pirates' temporary allies during the Whole Cake Island Arc.
Charlotte Linlin (Big Mom) Captain of the Big Mom Pirates and one of the Four Emperors of the Sea.
Coby Marine officer who was once Luffy's friend and rival.
Crocodile Former president of the criminal organization Baroque Works and one of the Seven Warlords of the Sea.
Donquixote Doflamingo Former king of Dressrosa and a former member of the Seven Warlords of the Sea.
Dracule Mihawk A swordsman and one of the Seven Warlords of the Sea known as the "Greatest Swordsman in the World."
Edward Newgate (Whitebeard) A legendary pirate and one of the Four Emperors of the Sea who was once the "strongest man in the world."
Eustass Kid Captain of the Kid Pirates and a member of the Worst Generation.
Franky Cyborg and shipwright of the Straw Hat Pirates who has a cola-powered body.
Fujitora Marine admiral who has the power to control gravity.
Galdino (Mr. 3) Former member of Baroque Works and user of the Wax-Wax Fruit.
Garp Marine vice admiral and Luffy's grandfather.
Gol D. Roger Former Pirate King who discovered the One Piece and started the Great Pirate Era.
Helmeppo Marine officer and Coby's friend who was once a coward.
Jinbe A fishman and a member of the Straw Hat Pirates.
Kaido Captain of the Beasts Pirates and one of the Four Emperors of the Sea.
Kizaru Marine admiral known as the "Yellow Monkey" who has the power to move at the speed of light.
Monkey D. Luffy Captain of the Straw Hat Pirates and a rubber man with a dream to become the Pirate King.
Mr. 2 Bon Clay Former member of Baroque Works and leader of the Okama Army.
Nami Navigator of the Straw Hat Pirates who has the ability to forecast the weather.
Nico Robin Archaeologist and member of the Straw Hat Pirates who has the ability to create limbs and eyes from any surface.
Portgas D. Rouge Ace's mother and the wife of Gol D. Roger.
Roronoa Zoro Skilled swordsman and Luffy's first mate.
Sanji Cook of the Straw Hat Pirates who uses kicks in battle.
Sabo Luffy's adopted older brother and chief of staff of the Revolutionary Army.
Sengoku Marine admiral and former Fleet Admiral.
Shanks Powerful pirate and former member of Gol D. Roger's crew who gave Luffy his signature straw hat.
Silvers Rayleigh Former member of Gol D. Roger's crew and the Dark King.
Smoker Marine captain and the wielder of the Logia-type Smoke-Smoke Fruit.
Tashigi Marine officer and Zoro's frequent opponent.
Tony Tony Chopper Reindeer who has eaten the Human-Human Fruit and can transform into a human/reindeer hybrid.
Trafalgar Law Captain of the Heart Pirates and a member of the Worst Generation.
Usopp Sniper of the Straw Hat Pirates and a compulsive liar.
Bepo A bear mink and a member of the Heart Pirates.
Charlotte Katakuri One of Big Mom's three sweet commanders and possessor of the Mochi-Mochi Fruit.
Diamante A former executive of the Donquixote Pirates and user of the Flag-Flag Fruit.
Enel The former "God" of Skypiea and user of the Goro-Goro no Mi.
Fisher Tiger The founder and former captain of the Sun Pirates, a crew composed of fishmen and merfolk.
Gol D. Ace A member of the Whitebeard Pirates and Luffy's older brother.
Hancock Sisters Boa Hancock's younger sisters and members of the Kuja Pirates.
Inuarashi A dog mink and one of the two rulers of the Mokomo Dukedom.
Jozu A member of the Whitebeard Pirates and possessor of the Diamond-Diamond Fruit.
Kuma A former Warlord of the Sea and one of the Revolutionary Army's commanders.
Arlong A sawshark fishman and former captain of the Arlong Pirates.
Bartholomew Kuma A former Warlord of the Sea and one of the Seven Warlords of the Sea who became a Pacifista cyborg.
Bellamy A former pirate and a member of the Donquixote Pirates' Diamante Army.
Big Mom Pirates A powerful pirate crew led by Charlotte Linlin (Big Mom) and composed of a variety of unique characters.
Brogy and Dorry Two giant warriors and captains of the Giant Warrior Pirates.
Burgess A member of the Blackbeard Pirates and captain of the First Ship.
Capone Bege A member of the Worst Generation and captain of the Fire Tank Pirates.
Caesar Clown A mad scientist and former subordinate of the Big Mom Pirates.
Cavendish A member of the Beautiful Pirates and possessor of the Superhuman-Human Fruit.
Corazon (Donquixote Rocinante) The younger brother of Donquixote Doflamingo and former member of the Donquixote Pirates.
Crocus A doctor and caretaker of the Twin Cape's lighthouse.
Dalton A former king of the Sakura Kingdom and a bison mink.
Denjiro A member of the Nine Red Scabbards and former retainer of the Kozuki Family.
Doflamingo Family A powerful criminal organization led by Donquixote Doflamingo and composed of several officers with unique abilities.
Edward Weevil A self-proclaimed son of Whitebeard and one of the Seven Warlords of the Sea.
Fukuro A member of CP9 and user of the Rankyaku technique.
Gaimon A pirate who was trapped inside a treasure chest on an island for 20 years.
Gin A former member of the Baratie staff and captain of the Krieg Pirates.
Hannyabal The vice warden of Impel Down and user of the Devil's Cane-Cane Fruit.
Hawkins A member of the Worst Generation and captain of the Hawkins Pirates.
Ivankov The "Queen" of the Kamabakka Kingdom and commander of the Revolutionary Army's Newkama Land forces.
Kaido's Calamities Three of Kaido's most powerful and feared subordinates: Jack, Queen, and King.
Kin'emon A samurai from Wano Country and a member of the Nine Red Scabbards.
Koby's Marines A group of marines led by Coby, consisting of several individuals who have trained under Garp.
Kokoro A mermaid and conductor of the Puffing Tom.
Krieg The captain of the Krieg Pirates and an infamous pirate who used underhanded tactics to win battles.
Kuina Zoro's childhood friend and a skilled swordsman who dreamt of becoming the world's strongest swordsman.
Marco A member of the Whitebeard Pirates and possessor of the Phoenix-Phoenix Fruit.
Momonosuke The son of Kozuki Oden and a member of the Kozuki Family.
Monet A former officer of the Donquixote Pirates and user of the Snow-Snow Fruit.
Mr. 4 and Miss Merry Christmas A pair of Baroque Works agents who are skilled in explosives and wrestling, respectively.
Nekomamushi A cat mink and one of the two rulers of the Minks.
Oars Jr. An enormous giant and former member of the Thriller Bark Pirates.
Pell A member of the Royal Guards of the Alabasta Kingdom and possessor of the Falcon-Falcon Fruit.
Pica An executive of the Donquixote Pirates and possessor of the Stone-Stone Fruit.
Pudding A member of the Big Mom Pirates and one of Big Mom's daughters, who has the ability to manipulate memories.
Rayleigh A former member of Gol D. Roger's crew and the Dark King.
Rebecca The gladiator champion of the Corrida Colosseum and a member of the Riku Family.
Rockstar A member of the Red Hair Pirates and possessor of the Float-Float Fruit.
Ryuuma A legendary swordsman from Wano Country and possessor of the Shusui sword.
Saboady Archipelago Supernovas A group of rookie pirates known as the Worst Generation, consisting of Eustass Kid, Scratchmen Apoo, Capone Bege, Basil Hawkins, and Urouge.
Saint Charlos A World Noble who was responsible for the enslavement of the Fishman Island.
Sabo's Revolutionary Army A group of revolutionaries led by Sabo, consisting of several individuals who oppose the World Government.
Sabo's Family The family members of Sabo, including his adopted father and brother.
Scratchmen Apoo A member of the Worst Generation and captain of the On Air Pirates.
Senor Pink An officer of the Donquixote Pirates and user of the Nui-Nui Fruit.
Shakky A former pirate and current owner of Shakky's Rip-off Bar.
Shiki A former member of the Roger Pirates and the captain of the Golden Lion Pirates.
Silvers Rayleigh's Crew The crew that accompanied Rayleigh during his time as a pirate, including Zephyr.
Spandam A former member of CP9 and director of the Cipher Pol organization.
Stelly The current king of the Goa Kingdom and Sabo's adopted younger brother.
Straw Hat Grand Fleet A fleet of ships and pirate crews who allied themselves with the Straw Hat Pirates, consisting of the Barto Club, Happo Navy, Ideo Pirates, Tonta Corps, Yonta Maria Grand Fleet, and Beautiful Pirates.
T-Bone A Marine commodore and commander of the 77th Marine Branch.
Tom The shipwright who built the Oro Jackson, Gol D. Roger's ship.
Tsuru A Marine vice admiral and commander of the Navy's Marine Headquarters.
Urouge A member of the Worst Generation and captain of the Fallen Monk Pirates.
Vergo A high-ranking officer of the Donquixote Pirates and undercover agent in the Marines.
Wapol A former king of the Drum Island and user of the Baku-Baku Fruit.
Wapol's Family The family members of Wapol, including his father and brother.
X Drake's Marine Fleet A fleet of ships led by X Drake, who defected from the Navy and joined the Beast Pirates.
Yonko The four most powerful pirate captains in the world: Shanks, Big Mom, Kaido, and Blackbeard.
Zephyr A former Marine admiral and leader of the Neo Marines.
Alvida A pirate captain and the first person Luffy defeated after setting sail.
Baby 5 An officer of the Donquixote Pirates and user of the Buki-Buki no Mi.
Basil Hawkins' Crew The crew that accompanies Basil Hawkins, consisting of several individuals with unique abilities.
Bellemere The adoptive mother of Nami and a former Marine.
Blackbeard Pirates A powerful pirate crew led by Blackbeard, consisting of several officers with unique abilities.
Bonney A member of the Worst Generation and captain of the Bonney Pirates.
Buggy's Delivery A delivery service run by Buggy, who employs former members of the Baroque Works.
Carrot A rabbit mink and a member of the Mokomo Dukedom.
Chaka A member of the Royal Guards of the Alabasta Kingdom and possessor of the Inu-Inu no Mi, Model: Jackal.
Charlotte Amande One of Big Mom's daughters and a member of the Big Mom Pirates.
Charlotte Brûlée One of Big Mom's daughters and a member of the Big Mom Pirates, who has the ability to create and manipulate mirrors.
Charlotte Compote One of Big Mom's daughters and a member of the Big Mom Pirates.
Coby's Mentor A Marine vice admiral who served as Coby's mentor during his time at the Marine Academy.
Dadan The leader of the mountain bandits on Mt. Colubo and the adoptive mother of Ace and Luffy.
Daz Bones A former officer of Baroque Works and user of the Supa-Supa no Mi.
Doberman A Marine vice admiral and commander of the G-1 Marine Base.
Drake A former Marine admiral and captain of the Drake Pirates.
Edward Newgate (Whitebeard) The captain of the Whitebeard Pirates and one of the Four Emperors of the Sea.
Foxy The captain of the Foxy Pirates and user of the Noro-Noro no Mi.
Fukaboshi A prince of the Ryugu Kingdom and a shark merman.
Gaimon's Friend A friend of Gaimon who was stuck inside a treasure chest on an island.
Gatz The host of the Corrida Colosseum and a member of Dressrosa's ruling family.
Gedatsu A member of the Shandia tribe and former priest of the Skypieans.
Gladius An executive of the Donquixote Pirates and user of the Pamu-Pamu no Mi.
Gloriosa The former queen of the Alabasta Kingdom and Nefertari Cobra's predecessor.
Hajrudin A giant warrior and captain of the New Giant Warrior Pirates.
Hina A Marine captain and user of the Ori-Ori no Mi.
Hyogoro A former yakuza boss and member of the yakuza alliance led by the Kozuki Family.
Ikaros Much A member of CP9 and user of the Mogu-Mogu no Mi.
Jaguar D. Saul A giant warrior and former Marine vice admiral who befriended Robin.
Jinbe A former member of the Shichibukai and captain of the Sun Pirates.
Kabuto A member of the Revolutionary Army and a former Revolutionary Army commander.
Kaido's Army The army of subordinates who follow Kaido, consisting of a variety of powerful and unique characters.
Kaid
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2023.03.22 06:07 anbeegod Middle East cultural tour in Christmas

Hi there!
I'm from Hong Kong, thinking about a trip to Turkey and the Middle East during Christmas period. I would likely spend 2-3 weeks there.
Which countries and cities do you recommend the most for a history nerd and admirer of architecture both ancient and modern?
For my traveling experience, I have only been to the relatively safe and rich countries in Europe before. As for my budget for the whole trip, I'm thinking about US $2500-$3500.
I've done a bit of basic research. For Turkey, I would likely spend 5 days in Istanbul and 2-3 days in Antalya. But I'm not sure about Izmir and Selcuk.
I'm interested in Egypt, but not MUST GO interested, and Reddit is doing its hardest to discourage me from going there. Besides, I'm a solo traveler who isn't used to group travel and having a guide, which is recommended by the people here?
I'm highly interested in Israel, but it seems it can only be reached from Istanbul. I'm also not sure about its safety, particularly in Jerusalem. Google says it's very safe, but online articles have the reputation of painting everything in sunshine and rainbows. Besides, it seems it's not easy to navigate the city and the surrounding region using public transport, as I can't drive.
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2023.03.22 06:05 Paigelainey297_ Is the cambo being sold, re-branded or just shut full stop? had no idea till I decided to check my spam folder today

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2023.03.22 05:41 saidpiece Discovering the Beauty of Tashigang, Bhutan: A Journey to the Eastern Himalayas

https://www.saidpiece.com/post/discovering-the-beauty-of-tashigang-bhutan-a-journey-to-the-eastern-himalayas
Tashigang is the easternmost district of Bhutan, located on the banks of the Gamri River. It is a beautiful and peaceful place with a rich cultural heritage and breathtaking natural scenery. If you are planning to visit Tashigang, there are plenty of things to do and see. In this article, we will explore some of the top activities and attractions in Tashigang.

Visit the Tashigang Dzong

Tashigang Dzong, also known as Trashigang Dzong, is one of the most important and historic buildings in Bhutan. Located in the easternmost district of Bhutan, Tashigang Dzong is situated on a hilltop overlooking the Gamri River. It is one of the largest and most impressive dzongs in Bhutan, and it is a must-visit destination for anyone interested in Bhutanese history and architecture.

Tashigang Dzong was built in the 17th century by Trongsa Penlop Chogyal Minjur Tempa, who was one of the most powerful rulers in Bhutan at the time. The dzong was originally built as a fortress to protect against invasions from Tibet, and it has played an important role in Bhutanese history ever since.

Hike to the Rangshikhar Goenpa

Rangshikhar Goenpa is a beautiful Buddhist monastery located in the district of Tashigang, Bhutan. Perched on a hilltop overlooking the Gamri River, the monastery offers breathtaking views of the surrounding landscape and is a popular destination for visitors to Bhutan.
The Rangshikhar Goenpa is believed to have been founded in the 18th century by the famous Bhutanese saint, Lama Gyalsey Tenzin Rabgye. According to legend, Lama Gyalsey Tenzin Rabgye had a vision of a white horse carrying a religious text up to the top of the hill where the monastery now stands. Inspired by this vision, he decided to build the monastery on the same spot.
The monastery is a beautiful example of traditional Bhutanese architecture, with its white walls and colorful wooden roof. Inside the monastery, you will find a central prayer hall, which is decorated with elaborate murals depicting scenes from the life of Buddha.
The Rangshikhar Goenpa is also home to a community of monks who live and study within the monastery. The monks follow a strict daily routine of meditation, prayer, and study, and visitors are welcome to observe their activities and learn more about their way of life.
One of the most popular activities at the Rangshikhar Goenpa is hiking. Visitors can take a leisurely hike up to the monastery, which takes about an hour and offers stunning views of the surrounding landscape. Along the way, you will pass through lush forests and small villages, and you may even encounter local wildlife, such as monkeys and birds.

Visit the Radhi Village

Radhi Village is a charming rural village located in the district of Tashigang in Bhutan. It is known for its traditional weaving techniques and beautiful textiles, which have been passed down from generation to generation for centuries.
The village is home to many skilled weavers who continue to practice their craft using traditional methods. The textiles produced in Radhi Village are famous throughout Bhutan for their intricate designs and vibrant colors. The weavers use locally sourced materials such as cotton and silk to create their textiles, which are then sold in markets across the country.
Visitors to Radhi Village can take a tour of the village and learn more about the weaving process. You can observe the weavers at work, see the various stages of production, and even try your hand at weaving your own textile.

Explore the Merak and Sakteng Villages

Merak and Sakteng Villages are two remote villages located in the district of Tashigang, Bhutan. These villages are known for their unique culture, traditional way of life, and stunning natural beauty. They are located in the easternmost part of Bhutan and are situated at an altitude of over 3,000 meters above sea level.
The Brokpa people, who are the inhabitants of Merak and Sakteng, have a distinct culture and way of life that is different from the rest of Bhutan. They have their own language, dress, and customs, and have managed to preserve their traditions despite the influence of modernization.
The Brokpa people are known for their traditional way of herding yaks, which they have been doing for centuries. They also practice subsistence agriculture, growing crops such as potatoes, barley, and buckwheat. The villages are situated in a pristine natural setting, surrounded by snow-capped mountains and lush forests. Visitors to the villages can witness the Brokpa people's traditional way of life and experience the beauty of Bhutan's natural landscape.
One of the most popular activities in Merak and Sakteng is hiking. There are several trails that lead through the villages and into the surrounding mountains, offering breathtaking views of the Himalayas and the valley below. Visitors can also explore the villages themselves, which are filled with traditional Bhutanese homes, decorated with intricate carvings and colorful paintings.

Take a tour to Sakteng Wildlife Sanctuary

Merak and Sakteng Villages are two remote villages located in the district of Tashigang, Bhutan. These villages are known for their unique culture, traditional way of life, and stunning natural beauty. They are located in the easternmost part of Bhutan and are situated at an altitude of over 3,000 meters above sea level.
The Brokpa people, who are the inhabitants of Merak and Sakteng, have a distinct culture and way of life that is different from the rest of Bhutan. They have their own language, dress, and customs, and have managed to preserve their traditions despite the influence of modernization.
The Brokpa people are known for their traditional way of herding yaks, which they have been doing for centuries. They also practice subsistence agriculture, growing crops such as potatoes, barley, and buckwheat. The villages are situated in a pristine natural setting, surrounded by snow-capped mountains and lush forests. Visitors to the villages can witness the Brokpa people's traditional way of life and experience the beauty of Bhutan's natural landscape.
One of the most popular activities in Merak and Sakteng is hiking. There are several trails that lead through the villages and into the surrounding mountains, offering breathtaking views of the Himalayas and the valley below. Visitors can also explore the villages themselves, which are filled with traditional Bhutanese homes, decorated with intricate carvings and colorful paintings.
To sum up, Tashigang is an enchanting district that boasts of a splendid cultural legacy and awe-inspiring natural landscapes. Whether you are drawn to history, culture, or the outdoors, Tashigang has something to offer. So, gear up for an exciting adventure and make your way to this hidden treasure in Bhutan, where you are bound to be captivated!
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2023.03.22 05:22 bored_gossiper Apparently coastal cowgirl is in

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2023.03.22 04:43 TryingtoGetWell28 My N-Mom during the holidays yells at me across the house: “we’re decorating the Christmas tree, it’s now or never!”

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2023.03.22 04:16 Hb55555 Emotional cheating by wife (31F) to me (32M), 6 years together and 1 year married

My wife (31F) and I (31M) have been in a 6 year relationship and married for the past year. We moved to New Zealand together around 4 years ago to start a new life, as we both loved the country, outdoors and lifestyle. But we have no family or prior affiliations here.
In the past 2 years, my wife made a friendship group with work colleagues whom i then befriended. One of the colleagues (32M) and my wife appeared to get on really well, and my wife said she felt there was a close friendship there.
Over the past few months, we have moved jobs/ area and bought a house. We have struggled with communication at times, and this has led to our sex life becoming less frequent- although we didn't make steps to address it.
I noticed my wife becoming quite distant since we bought our house. I also noted that she was spending a lot of time texting, switching off her phone screen when i entered the room, changing her phone password. It was around this time that she had recently spent a few times with the other guy in the group, once going to a concert with him. I felt secure in our relationship and i knew the guy pretty well- he is also in a relationship (with another girl in the group) and so initially i trusted that nothing was going on.
As my wife became more distant however, i started to suspect. I saw early one morning that a text came through from the guy, which i thought was odd given the timing. As the days passed i couldn't help but think that something had happened between them- so i checked her messages and saw the conversation between them. They both confessed feelings for each other, my wife confided in him about our marriage issues, she spoke about how she missed/ appreciated him. They both said how they were close to kissing each other on a few occassions.
I confronted my wife about it, and she admitted to the emotional affair. She was initially apologetic and felt ashamed, and i forgave her quite quickly. I said how i needed time for things to cool off with the guy before she spent time with this group again, but i asked that she would not meet up with him one on one. She agreed. We agreed to work on our marriage, and that night we had intimate sex with each other which felt great.
But later the next day, she mentioned how a girl in the group was planning a group activity this month, and my wife saw no problem in going (with the other guy being there). She then minimised and denied the emotional cheating issues, stating that i had misinterpreted things and they were just friends.
I told her that going back to this group so soon, could jeopardize our marriage, and she responded by saying that she did not want to feel socially isolated. She said that i shouldn't give her ultimatums. I ended up storming out the house, as i felt betrayed and disrespected.
TL;DR- my wife had an emotional affair with a man in her main friendship group. She does not want to avoid seeing the group (with the man present) for the near future, despite me clearly stating that this could jeopardize our marriage. She does not want the rest of the group (including the gf of the other man) to know. Would really appreciate some thoughts/ opinions.
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2023.03.22 04:12 dontgiveaderp 32[M4F] Houston, Texas. Hoping to find a relationship. [Relationship]

I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation, friendship or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
I love a number of things, and hate very little. I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone some day. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though. I like to check out new spots around me, but I mostly fish on the beach. Do you like to fish? What are some of your favorite places to go?
I also enjoy the shooting sports. I primarily target shoot. I take part in a little bit of everything, including rifle, pistol and shotgun. It would be nice to find someone who is into shooting or would like to learn/become more familiar. If you shoot, what do you like to shoot mostly? What's been your favorite gun to shoot so far?
PC games are also a enjoyable pastime for me. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game. What are some of your all time favorite games? What are you currently grinding on that you can't put down? One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I probably would never have found MtG, if it were not for my best friend. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of. Do you play any kind of card/table top games? What's been your favorite so far? If you play Magic, what are some of your favorite deck themes?
Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more. Do you have a favorite band? What has been your favorite concert you've been to?
I'm honestly an ambivert. I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds. What would the perfect day consist of for you?
As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am somewhere in the middle between loud and excitable, and shy and quiet. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and free. Do you open right up to people, or does it take a while to become comfortable with someone new?
All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me. Do you feel satisfied with your social life? What kind of connection are you looking for?
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I appreciate it. I hope you can identify with something I wrote. If you do, please reach out.
P.S. Please feel free to check my post history, and check out a few pictures of my cat if you would like.
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2023.03.22 04:12 dontgiveaderp 32[M4F] Houston, Texas. Hoping to find a relationship.

I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation, friendship or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
I love a number of things, and hate very little. I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone some day. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though. I like to check out new spots around me, but I mostly fish on the beach. Do you like to fish? What are some of your favorite places to go?
I also enjoy the shooting sports. I primarily target shoot. I take part in a little bit of everything, including rifle, pistol and shotgun. It would be nice to find someone who is into shooting or would like to learn/become more familiar. If you shoot, what do you like to shoot mostly? What's been your favorite gun to shoot so far?
PC games are also a enjoyable pastime for me. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game. What are some of your all time favorite games? What are you currently grinding on that you can't put down? One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I probably would never have found MtG, if it were not for my best friend. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of. Do you play any kind of card/table top games? What's been your favorite so far? If you play Magic, what are some of your favorite deck themes?
Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more. Do you have a favorite band? What has been your favorite concert you've been to?
I'm honestly an ambivert. I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds. What would the perfect day consist of for you?
As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am somewhere in the middle between loud and excitable, and shy and quiet. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and free. Do you open right up to people, or does it take a while to become comfortable with someone new?
All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me. Do you feel satisfied with your social life? What kind of connection are you looking for?
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I appreciate it. I hope you can identify with something I wrote. If you do, please reach out.
P.S. Please feel free to check my post history, and check out a few pictures of my cat if you would like.
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2023.03.22 04:12 dontgiveaderp 32[M4F] Houston, Texas. Hoping to find a relationship.

I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation, friendship or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
I love a number of things, and hate very little. I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone some day. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though. I like to check out new spots around me, but I mostly fish on the beach. Do you like to fish? What are some of your favorite places to go?
I also enjoy the shooting sports. I primarily target shoot. I take part in a little bit of everything, including rifle, pistol and shotgun. It would be nice to find someone who is into shooting or would like to learn/become more familiar. If you shoot, what do you like to shoot mostly? What's been your favorite gun to shoot so far?
PC games are also a enjoyable pastime for me. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game. What are some of your all time favorite games? What are you currently grinding on that you can't put down? One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I probably would never have found MtG, if it were not for my best friend. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of. Do you play any kind of card/table top games? What's been your favorite so far? If you play Magic, what are some of your favorite deck themes?
Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more. Do you have a favorite band? What has been your favorite concert you've been to?
I'm honestly an ambivert. I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds. What would the perfect day consist of for you?
As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am somewhere in the middle between loud and excitable, and shy and quiet. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and free. Do you open right up to people, or does it take a while to become comfortable with someone new?
All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me. Do you feel satisfied with your social life? What kind of connection are you looking for?
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I appreciate it. I hope you can identify with something I wrote. If you do, please reach out.
P.S. Please feel free to check my post history, and check out a few pictures of my cat if you would like.
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2023.03.22 04:12 dontgiveaderp 32[M4F] Houston, Texas. Hoping to find a relationship.

I'd like to find someone who captivates me. Someone who I can talk with effortlessly. I want to meet a person who I can include in my daily tasks, and talk with throughout the day. I just want to find someone I can be open with. Platonic conversation, friendship or romance. Whatever you are looking for, don't hesitate to message me. I hope to hear from you.
I love a number of things, and hate very little. I'm fairly open to trying new things, but some of the things I enjoy are as follows. I love the outdoors. I've never been camping, but I would like to try it with someone some day. I also love to fish. I mostly fish salt water. I do occasionally fish freshwater though. I like to check out new spots around me, but I mostly fish on the beach. Do you like to fish? What are some of your favorite places to go?
I also enjoy the shooting sports. I primarily target shoot. I take part in a little bit of everything, including rifle, pistol and shotgun. It would be nice to find someone who is into shooting or would like to learn/become more familiar. If you shoot, what do you like to shoot mostly? What's been your favorite gun to shoot so far?
PC games are also a enjoyable pastime for me. I have a variety of games, most of which are on Steam. I have other games on various other stores/services. I enjoy a wide variety of different kind of games, so I'm sure we can find something to play together if you game. What are some of your all time favorite games? What are you currently grinding on that you can't put down? One hobby I discovered later on in life is Magic the Gathering. I probably would never have found MtG, if it were not for my best friend. I play both online on MtG Arena, and with physical cards. Magic has become something I am particularly fond of. Do you play any kind of card/table top games? What's been your favorite so far? If you play Magic, what are some of your favorite deck themes?
Music has always been a part of my life. My tastes are varied, ranging from country, death and black metal, electronic, classic rock, folk, pop punk, and more. Do you have a favorite band? What has been your favorite concert you've been to?
I'm honestly an ambivert. I enjoy doing things outside, as well as spending time indoors. I can veg out all day under the covers curled up in my bed, or I can take a trip somewhere and experience something new. I think my personality is a mix of the best of both worlds. What would the perfect day consist of for you?
As far as my personality is concerned, I would say I am fairly relaxed and laid back. I feel like I am somewhere in the middle between loud and excitable, and shy and quiet. Around people I don't know, I tend to be fairly quiet and to myself. In the company of someone who I am close with, I am more open and free. Do you open right up to people, or does it take a while to become comfortable with someone new?
All I hope for is a connection. It could be platonic, or it could blossom into romance, and commitment. I'm not putting a limit on what I am looking for.
With the prior being said, I am single. I may be interested in changing that with the right person. The idea of commitment excites me. Monogamy is appealing to me. Do you feel satisfied with your social life? What kind of connection are you looking for?
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I appreciate it. I hope you can identify with something I wrote. If you do, please reach out.
P.S. Please feel free to check my post history, and check out a few pictures of my cat if you would like.
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2023.03.22 04:10 oceanicArboretum I still have recurring dreams about LOST.

I was 22 and in grad school when LOST came out. In the months leading up to it, the ads on ABC made it seem like it was a cheesy Jurassic-Park-for-television venture that was bound to fail. People commented on its "Michael Crichton vibe." I wasn't interested.
But then my friends illegally downloaded *ahem* taped the first two episodes, so I joined them in watching it anyway, expecting the worst. "Pilot, Part 1" didn't do much for me (because of the ads, I was still convinced it was just a dinosaur), but everything changed the moment the polar bear arrived.
After that I was obsessed.
I taped every episode, and was so paranoid that if one tape broke I'd be SOL until the DVDs were released, so I gave every episode its own tape. I literally have 100+ VHS tapes of the original airings of the show.
Every Wednesday, I'd watch the new episode. Then the next night I would watch it again. And then the following week, I'd watch it again the night before the new episode aired. Then I would binge the current season once or twice around Christmas.
Because I was obsessed.
The only regret I have is that I'm not a LOST University graduate. I wish I had participated in that, but I had a shitty summer job that year that I hated and was constantly stressed about, so I didn't do it.
The mystery of who the Others are was solved on the show, but somehow it's remained in my subconscious. I still have recurring dreams about who they are and where they come from. The dream goes like this: I'm on the Island, and I key into this ultramodern, air conditioned building. Then I take an elevator downstairs, but when the doors open, I'm not in any building anymore, I'm outdoors in some kind of extradimensional world, yet another sunny beach island that is somehow in the basement of the building on the first Island. It's here where the Others live.
Does anyone else who was a fan from back then still have recurring dreams about the show? I get them about twice a year. I've watched LOST through only twice since 2010, and the last time was in 2017.
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2023.03.22 03:29 PlanktonBoring4441 Moving to Big Sky - Questions

We have been living in Salt Lake City they last 8-9 years and thinking it might be time to move on. Only a few places in the country look appealing and Big Sky area seem really appealing. I listed a couple things I am looking to get away from / enjoy about my current area, any additional insight from locals in the area would be awesome! We have spent a lot of long weekends over the past 5+ years visiting, so we have a general sense of the area for a quick trip but would really love a locals insight on what its like full time.
Dislikes about SLC:
Likes about SLC:
I know I’ll probably get a ton of “don’t move here” responses but hoping to get any other insight I can
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2023.03.22 03:06 swankycelery OP cheated on his wife while she was dealing with the post-partum depression he made worse.

I am NOT the OP, this is a repost!

Trigger warning: Infidelity, Post-partum depression, spousal neglect.

Original post, on relationship_advice (March 13th 2023).
I (28M) don't know how to tell my wife (24F) that I cheated on her while she had post-partum depression
I know I'm a POS and I don't deserve my wife and our two beautiful sons (4 and 2). I know that by telling her this will be the end of our marriage. She will not forgive me, there will be no talking through it. She will tell me to pack my bags and leave immediately. I can't live with the guilt of not telling her, but I can't live without her. I don't know what to do.
Basically, my wife and I always wanted a traditional family. I would go to work and she would stay home with the kids. We both always wanted a large family, a house in the suburbs, a dog, the whole thing. We got married when she was 19 and I was 23. She got pregnant right away and our first son was born nine months to the day after our wedding. He was such an easy, happy baby. We were all so happy. My wife was super passionate about cooking, arts and crafts and home decor. Our home was always spotless, despite having a baby and dog. We had a great marriage and a healthy sex life. We were both naive enough to think that being parents was always going to be easy.
We started trying for another as soon as the doctor cleared us. It took about eight months for her to get pregnant, which stressed her out a lot because she got pregnant so easily with our first. This pregnancy was different. She had no energy. She gained a lot of weight and was unrecognizable. With our first son, she only had a small bump and you wouldn't have even known she was pregnant if you saw her from behind or if she was wearing an oversized shirt. With this pregnancy, she blew up like a balloon. Her face and feet were swollen. I sound like an asshole for saying this, but she looked like a monster. We didn't have sex for the entire pregnancy. Sometimes she would try to initiate, but I always turned her down because I was repulsed by her.
She had a difficult birth and our son was born with some health issues (relatively minor, thankfully, but enough to give us a scare). My wife blamed herself for our son's health issues. In the heat of the moment I told her that if she had been more active during pregnancy then our son probably would have been fine. She just kept sinking further and further into depression. She stopped brushing her hair and it started to mat. I would come home from work at 5pm to find our older son still in his pyjamas. The dirty dishes were piled a mile high in the sink. She stopped showering regularly and she refused to go on a jog to lose the baby weight even though I tried to encourage her by saying I'd cook dinner if she did. Our sons physical needs were being met, but emotionally she was checked out.
I started fantasizing about being single and not having a wife or kids. I started going to the gym and the bar after work instead of going home to them. I met "Cassidy" (19F) at the gym and we really hit it off. She was vocal about never wanting kids and when I would complain about my wife to her, she would pile on too. I was happy at the time because I wanted someone to validate me for being such an asshole, but looking back I'm disgusted. Pretty soon Cassidy and I were dating and I was having a whole separate life behind my wife's back.
After a few months, my wife slowly started to return to her old self. She started taking more pride in her appearance and started cooking from scratch again instead of ordering takeout or frozen food. Our home was clean again and our younger son's health issues were improving. I fell in love with her all over again. I started to realize that Cassidy wasn't as exciting and interesting as I thought she was. She was actually quite dull and stupid and had no real opinions or interests outside of partying and TikTok. I started to suspect that she didn't actually like me either and was just flattered by the attention of a married man and I stupidly enabled it by making her feel special and better than my wife. I ended things with her a few months later and she didn't even seem to care. All in, I was cheating on my wife for just over a year.
My wife has recently started asking to try for a third baby and the guilt all just hit me at once. I feel paralyzed. I have nightmares that she finds out from someone else. I've stopped eating and sleeping. I'm starting to get aches and pains from the stress. I don't know what to do. I know I'm an asshole. I know I don't deserve her. But I don't know how to tell her without breaking her. She's amazing and she never deserved this.

Notable comments:
Do you understand that you were the primary cause of her PPD? When she told you she felt that it was her fault your son had health issues, that was your cue to console her and tell her that there was no way for her to have prevented it. I can't even imagine the guilt spiral that comment must have sent her on you selfish, inconsiderate piece of trash.
Don't you fucking dare knock her up again without telling her what you've done. She can't count on you and you know it [link]

You’re a horrible man. You can see that she’s drowning but you’ll only help if she jogs so you won’t be repulsed by her?! Then double down on that shittiness by staying away even MORE so she doesn’t even have the minuscule help you were giving? Then decided to fuck a teenager 7 years younger than you instead of helping your wife? And then when you were no longer repulsed by your wife you turned your woman hating energy on the teenager you sought out?
Let your wife go, don’t fight on giving her a fair settlement - she deserves more than half of your stuff as well as you helping her get training for a job - and let her find a man that’s not horrible and doesn’t conditionally love her.
And for fucks sake don’t have another kid. You’ll just do the same shit to her again. [link]

No advice just hope you never have even a single good day ever again. [link]

You didn't end your affair because it was wrong. You ended it because your wife found the strength to crawl out of the pit you left her floundering in alone. When she needed you most, you bailed. She's a strong woman but you are a weak man. The guilt is what you get to live with for the rest of your life. [link]

You are an absolutely abhorrent person.
Your wife was so depressed her hair was matted.
I want you to think about that for a few minutes. Think about how low and terrible she must have felt to get to that point.
Instead of being a kind compassionate caring partner and helping her get better you went out and found someone barely legal to sleep with.
I hope she leaves your ass and finds someone who will love her because you do not. You love what she gives you. You love what she does for you. You do not love her. [link]

Did you even try to get her help with the PPD? Good lord...
If the guilt is eating you alive, tell her. Everything. All at once. No trickle truthing. No downplaying or minimzing. Apologize, commit to therapy, offer a post-nup, whatever you think would help HER to get through the implosion.
Then the ball is in her court, and it's her choice whether to kick you to the curb. [link]

here’s what you do: pack some your bags and THEN tell her so when she tells you to fuck off you don’t have to stick around for as long.
maybe stock up on essentials for the house first as well so while she’s dealing with her heart being fucking broken she doesn’t have to severely worry about it affording essentials without you on top of hurting due to you.
also fuck you, you’re part of the reasons why women get so worried these things will happen to them. [link]

There is nothing here that demonstrates you love your wife and plenty that shows you never did. My mouth was hanging open the whole time reading this. I feel so disgusted by your actions and so terrible for your wife that I have no advice to give. [link]

Update post, on relationship_advice (March 15th 2023).
UPDATE: I (28M) don't know how to tell my wife (24F) that I cheated on her while she had post-partum depression
I really didn't expect the last post to blow up so much and even reach TikTok. I'm just going to post an update and then I'll probably delete this account.
As per somebody's advice, I took the day off work, dropped our two sons off at their grandparents' house and sat my wife down. I came fully clean. I made no excuses, told her I didn't expect forgiveness and that she had every right to say or do whatever she wanted. She didn't respond for a while, but then very softly and quietly told me that she wanted me out of the house the next day and that we were done. She didn't scream or cry or show any emotion. I asked her if she wanted to say anything else and she said no. I told her I was sorry and she said she didn't want to hear it. We sat in silence for what felt like forever while she stared blankly into space.
When our sons came home, seeing how expertly she was able to put on a brave face and not let them know anything was wrong broke my heart. It hit me like a ton of bricks that she was used to doing this, and it was all my fault. I slept in the guest room that night, but didn't get much sleep. The next morning, our older son asked me why mommy was crying again last night and said he wanted to cheer her up.
My wife refuses to speak to me, look at me or acknowledge me in any way. I heard her on the phone to her best friend who lives in another country. She told her that she thought she had found a good one and that she was going to break the mold. Her grandfather walked out and left her grandma with nothing. Her dad walked out and left her mom with nothing. I'm a piece of shit, just like every other man in her life.
I left today and she didn't even look at me or say anything. She just continued watching TV and crocheting as if nothing was happening. I'm staying at my parents' house and they are disgusted with me. My mom cried when I told her. They love my wife like their own daughter. I let everybody down. I deserve everything coming my way.

Notable comments:
Get some therapy, try to act like a decent person during the divorce, and focus on being the best co-parent you can be.
You hurt her, seriously and unforgivably. What little control she gets to have now is how she chooses to deal with this. [link]

Well, congrats. You lost your wife and will see your sons 50% of the time at best.
"I'm staying at my parents' house and they are disgusted with me."
Were they supposed to congratulate you?
"My mom cried when I told her."
Poor woman probably thinks how she messed up for her son to cheat on his wife while she had PPD.
You destroyed your wife, your parents and your kids with your cheating. I hope that "Cassidy" was worth it. [link]

Aww everybody look at the sob story from the guy who does, in fact, deserve all of this. [link]

Wow you couldn’t keep your dick out of someone else while your wife was suffering with PPD after birthing your child? What a stand up guy! Look everyone! He’s sad his now ex wife didn’t cry and beg him to stay. Gross dude. Really fucking gross. [link]

You aren't sorry. You are reveling in being the "worst person in the world."
Your entire focus continues to be on yourself. Your entire post is about how her response made you feel.
Nowhere do you state that you intend to make amends, a critical component of true contrition. The only remorse you seem to have is on bad this is making you feel. You made the utterly selfish choice of telling your wife to alleviate YOUR guilt, not for her sake.
Why weren't you willing to live with the guilt - because, just like your decision to cheat, you were only thinking about yourself, what you wanted, and what felt good for you.
Although your marriage is obviously over (or should be), if you wanted to begin to be a decent person, you'd be focused on how to make amends, how to make the situation easier on your ex-wife, and most importantly, how to ease the transition into a broken home for your children.
How good of you to runaway to your parents and leave all the hard work for your wife. [link]

NOTE: Please remember the brigading rule and do not reach out to the OP!

Friendly reminder that I am NOT the OP, this is a repost.

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