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Dopamine/ Wet Brain supplements

2023.03.30 20:03 One_Rule_122 Dopamine/ Wet Brain supplements

Hey everyone! 👋🏼 I’m not really sure how to use Reddit but I’ve been trying to get some information to help my boyfriend out and I was told this is the place to come so TIA for any information you’re able to provide. I’ll start with a little backstory so you can hopefully understand the situation better. When he was younger he really ended up abusing his prescription to Adderall. On top of that he was also drinking very heavily, smoking etc. He got to a point where he would go days without eating anything. Just waking up taking Adderall and drinking with no nutrients in his body to counteract anything. He’s only 32 years old but reminds me of a senior citizen going through Alzheimer’s. It breaks my heart watching him struggle to do simple everyday tasks that we as humans take for granted. He hasn’t drank and doesn’t take Adderall anymore but he does vape now. (Too much in my opinion) but I know he’s trying to break that as well. I feel like he’s caused so much damage to his body over all the years of abuse he’s put it through. We’ll have a conversation and 5 mins later he’s asking the same questions or telling the same story he’s told me 10 times already. He forgets EVERYTHING. He’s explained it to me as it being something called “wet brain”I’m wondering if anyone has more info on this and what I could do to help/ encourage him to make major changes. I know the human body is resilient and I do believe he can make a huge turn around but he feels defeated and I want to help him so badly. He has 0 energy and his sleep schedule is all off as well (staying up all night/sleeping all day) he doesn’t have the best diet either so all around he needs a complete change. Has anyone experienced this in any way or know a loved one going through anything similar? Is there any supplements that could help give him that push he needs?
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2023.03.30 20:02 DogInternational9812 Diesel Truck Causing Intense Medical Issues (I presume). Please read the description.

I currently drive an HD pickup that happens to be pre-emissions, which entails that it lacks modern day regulatory DPF and EGR equipment. Even without a DPF/EGR combination in place, it runs relatively “clean” and doesn’t spew/roll prolific amounts of coal even at upper-end RPMs; in other words, the vehicle isn’t running incredibly rich and outputting overwhelming amounts of diesel soot upon applying throttle.
Ever since operating the truck, I’ve succumbed to symptoms of headache, confusion, and euphoria upon every, single, last, drive. These symptoms appear in as little as two minutes and tend to plateau after roughly twenty minutes (they do not intensify to the point of loosing consciousness). After exiting the vehicle, the symptoms persist for what seems like hours, and even days. Subsequent to each operation, I feel impaired and lack mental clarity, almost feeling as though I have trouble with basic speech and cognitive functions. It’s important to note that while driving I cannot smell/discern diesel exhaust in the slightest, and I often roll my windows down to allow rushing ambient air into the cab to suppress the unknown toxins (which oddly enough, doesn’t lessen the severity of the symptoms). I have purchased many air quality detectors (CO, NO2, H2S, LEL), and to no avail, they consistently read 0-1 PPM.
I routinely have other people driving with me, and naturally, they are completely unfazed and never report similar symptom sets. Two colleagues of mine even operated this vehicle for month-long periods, driving as much as eight hours daily, and of course, they felt nothing out of the ordinary.
If not CO poisoning, then what could this phenomenon possibly be? This is one of the more nebulous problems I’ve ever dealt with, and it’s driving me to the point of insanity. Could I truly be this sensitive to low concentrations of diesel exhaust? After all, I’m an American who lives in smog, and I’ve never experienced anything remotely like this. Could Brain damage be a result of continued operation, even if this case merely demonstrates a piddly allergy? Could I somehow “strengthen” my bodily response(s) by continuing to drive the vehicle.
And no, I do not have a gapping exhaust leak.
I’d greatly appreciate any ideas. Thank you.
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2023.03.30 20:01 rosebuuddd Elon Musk and Nuralink

So I was listening to a podcast recently regrading the Havana syndrome. For those who don't know, you can read about it here. Recent declassified documents have recently proven this to not be a heath phenomenon, yet the result of an unknown electromagnetic weapon. However, this is old news, for those staying in the loop. I have a theory and I would like to know what you all think. José Manuel Rodríguez Delgado, in Spain,1963, used a brain chip implanted inside of a bull to stop it from charging at himself in real time (Source). I think most people can agree that mind control technology such as this have been around since the 60s. My theory then is as follows: I believe Elon Musk did not invent Neuralink. I believe that he is being used as a "guinea pig", to introduce this already existing technology into society, because nobody would trust the Government if they were to do it. I believe it is going to be marketed as a tool to cure mental illnesses, IE: we have this product that can essentially reverse depression without drugs, therapy, etc. However, in order for the DOJ to approve top-secret research grants, they must have both civilian and military applications. The military application, is simply put, mind control to disable the enemy without touching them, causing billions of dollars of infrastructure damage, etc. This military application is what we are seeing today, and have been for some time now with the Havana Syndrome. And the Civilian application; I believe the world is going to buy into this chip as a cure to mental illness, yet only as a plow to get people to have it installed in themselves. I believe Elon Musk is simply too powerful of a person to have gotten their by himself. He's up to something, and I don't like the look of it. I know the Havana Syndrome is not a new conspiracy, however its connection with Elon Musk and Neuralink is the conspiracy which has me tied up right now. Any thoughts?
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2023.03.30 19:52 tlahpalli [RoW] Taravangian - mental health in a way we might not see it

I honestly feel like I have the Taravangian boon/curse. I am an accountant focused on US taxes. Some days I can hammer through the toughest tax code, and other days I don't even know how to read a W-2. There are no daily tests to start the day to see if I am dumb, smart, or dangerous, and I haven't openly ordered the execution of any clients who get on my nerves. So I think I am doing well with my mental health and acuity. and I haven't killed any vessels and taken on the power of a Shard
But I wanted to take a moment to simple recognize how much I see mental health and special needs being personified in these characters, and how much it is helping me understand myself and others. I struggle, daily, with depression, anxiety, ADHD, feeling like an idiot ALL THE TIME.
I first started reading these books cause I wanted to catch up with my friends and their conversations. I soon expanded into the whole ever expanding cosmere of books. Oddly enough, it went from reading cause they're fun and fantastical, to reading because I felt like I understood these characters. I felt seen. I felt like my story was being told in a small fashion. So I kept reading to find answers and hope and support.
Life in the physical realm is tough enough, but adding into it brain damage (I had a TBI as a child and only learned about it 6 years ago and how it has affected my life), emotional trauma from a previous marriage, and on and on. There is something different about the way a fictional character can be a source of help and support than a real person. I get a break from the real world while also facing the things I struggle with.
Do not underestimate the powerful impact these fictional characters have on real world people. While what Taravangian has isn't really parallel to real world mental health issues, this character most of all hit me hard. Especially during his "dumb" days.
I went to a therapist. I started seeking help. I am doing things now to increase the odds of having smart days. Because of him. I am also accepting and understanding how good I am and how much worth I have and how much I can do on my "dumb" days.
TLDR: Taravangian should have a mental health disorder named after him and the whole Cosmere of characters can help us face our struggles in ways we might not recognize.
Edit: changed description of source of emotional trauma
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2023.03.30 19:37 hdnpn Am I overreacting?

My mom told me over 40 years ago that she had tossed/pushed her firstborn onto the bed and she hit her head. I always assumed the infant “bounced” and her head hit the headboard causing a head injury and caused her death.
While still my moms fault I was able to process and see it as unintentional. I know she felt guilty so I always felt bad for her.
I stumbled on internet archives and found out she died of a hard blow to the head causing severe brain damage, broken ribs and multiple bruises. She died after 4 days in ICU. She was charged at first for aggravated assault, then after the child died, indicted for murder.
I feel lied to and I felt bad for her under false pretenses. I am very angry and having trouble processing. I can grasp that postpartum depression was very likely in play.
This happened 60 years ago before I was born so wondering if I should be this angry or should be able to let it go.
My mom is now 80 so really no point of bringing it up decades later and she’s had kind of a crappy life.
Am I blowing this out of proportion or is this a normal reaction?
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2023.03.30 19:36 Professionalpotatooo Just found out

It took me 26 years to solve the case of what the fuck is wrong with me. I hate knowing I have what I have. No offense to anyone but I just hate knowing that I was so broken and damaged at a young age that my brain resorted to splitting into multiple personalities….. I feel so gross and violated… that my whole life was a facade this whole time
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2023.03.30 19:20 CartographerKnown220 PCS and Isolation

Three years past second TBI I am noticing a downward shift as if my post concussive syndrome is worsening again. The migraines take longer to get rid of, I spend whole days on the bathroom floor in the dark, can barely make it to the kitchen to feed my dog. Depression makes work a struggle even though I love what I do. I intentionally isolate and have cut everyone off.
I don’t like to talk about the TBIs or PCS with people. They offer the stupidest unsolicited takes and completely irrelevant advice. I understand why others do not understand that PCS and associated problems leave me with little to no energy for socialization.
My partner makes jokes/remarks about how I’m brain damaged (I addressed this) and is heavily affected by my depression which has led me to exert energy I don’t have pretending to have feelings and emotions when I do not. I adore him but do wonder if I should leave him for his sake. I don’t want to go out - don’t want to drink or socialize - don’t want to be friends with his friends - and I don’t want to explain why.
Just wondering anyone’s thoughts or advice on this. I love my friends - but I don’t ever want to see or talk to them. Same with family. People don’t understand & it hurts their feelings. I don’t want to make new friends. I have unanswered texts from 3 months ago from people I love. I don’t know what to say or do. I want to get back in touch with people for their sake, but at this point I’m not sure how because I’ve ignored them for months on end like an asshole. Just me?
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2023.03.30 19:18 Sig000 (REPOST, since i made a mistake with the last one) #TOPSLASHERS "Run... Hide... It does not matter, I shall find you all in time."

(REPOST, since i made a mistake with the last one) #TOPSLASHERS

![img](j6ywhe6itwqa1 "(uh I have to include this story, one of my friends made a sick story for him from is original backstory, so here it is) ")
William was a man of good intentions and an overall happily married husband. He adored his wife, Alice, and she was the love of his life. They lived in a nice home in the suburbs and plans to start a family. In the meantime, as an anniversary gift, William got Alice a pet white rabbit as a joke because “Every Alice needs her white rabbit” and the fact that Alice was always late and in hurry for work, for the white rabbit in wonderland was always in a hurry. Alice worked as a psychiatrist and William was an engineer who had a passion for writing books. He was writing a horror fictional piece on Jack the Ripper and had high hopes it would be a best seller. Except, his happy life was about to drastically change. One night, William was running late and arrived home at night, past his usual time. It was overly quiet in his home and all the lights were out, which was further unusual as Alice wouldn’t go to sleep without him. He called out to her and no voice returned his worried calls. William attempted to walk over to switch on the lights, but slipped on something wet on the ground. He stood up and collected himself, then turned on the lights. His mouth was wide open and no noise came out as he was struck with fear. The wetness he had slipped on was blood, and in the middle of it, the poor white rabbit William had bought Alice for their anniversary, dead. Now, a vastly frantic William, started crying out for Alice as he stumbled across his kitchen on his way to the living room. He flipped on the lights to see Alice’s lifeless body in the middle of the floor, covered in blood and disfigured from the damage that killed her. On the wall, smeared in blood, read “She decided to go down the rabbit hole, so I sent her to Wonderland. Ha ha ha”. Before William could come back to reality from his shock, the room filled with police lights and the door broke down, police swarming in. Fast forward to weeks later, William was convicted of the murder of his wife, Alice. Everything pointed towards William being the killer and this crushed his soul. No matter how much he pleaded and swore his love for Alice, no matter how much pain he displayed in her loss, whomever framed him, got away with it. William was sentenced to death row in prison. William did not belong in prison and it was evident. From day one, he was picked on and beaten by inmates. The guards harassed William relentlessly and teased him with Wonderland jokes due the murder of his wife Alice, the message on the wall, and the poor slaughtered rabbit. William was shown no mercy and his life became a constant struggle for survival, a pure hell. It wasn’t until a Doctor came in the night to the prison that William may be saved. She offered certain luxuries and promises to whichever inmate offered his services for an experiment. While every inmate was desperate for this opportunity, the Doctor, Dr. Queen, saw the beaten and disheveled William in the corner. She approached him and offered to him specifically. In question as to why, she said that William looked like he was beaten to his last card to play in survival, he deserves a break due to his admirable survivability. With enough convincing, he was willing. The beginning of the end is what was in store for William. Little did William know, he was about to be used as a disposable tool in unethical experimentation. Dr Queen suddenly became cold and apathetic towards William. She told him she was looking to study to vast complexities of the human mind and look to cure or better understand one of the most enigmatic disorders of the brain, dissociative disorders. Since she can’t use actual people who suffer from such disorders in experiments due to ethics, she was allowed to use one of the inmates on death row in a covert program. “What does this have to do with me?” William said in a fit of anxiety. “I don’t have any such disorder!” “Not yet you don’t.” Dr. Queen said sinisterly. “Now, unfortunately for you, the disorder I’m focusing on, DID, or, Dissociative Identity Disorder, is something developed in young developing minds that have endured horrific trauma.” She continued. “It isn’t heard of for an adult to suddenly develop DID from relatively current trauma, as when it manifests in most adults or young teens, it’s from a suppressed trauma from their childhood years. So we need to somehow get you to develop the disorder.” “W…well…wh…what are you, er, how are you going to do that?? William panicked. “Well, William, we are going to put you through any and every bit of possible trauma, damage, and pain possible until your brain decides to do what it does best, survive, and create an alter to handle the pain for you. Or you die like you would out in the prison environment anyway.” Dr. Queen said as she brushed her red hair from her face with a sadistic smirk. “Shall we begin?” William was hauled off to a secret part of the prison where he could be put through Hell without anyone ever hearing him, and Hell he was definitely put through. William had just about every sort of pain, humiliation, trauma, and distress casted upon him for around 2 months without success. If anything, it was remarkable and near uncanny how much William was capable of surviving. It was even further impressive how well his body was capable of healing and retaining itself. Dr. Queen went to do her research on William’s childhood and early life, to which she discovered she could hardly find anything. It was as if he didn’t have a childhood as his records were so vague and seemingly constructed, fabricated. Dr. Queen dug even deeper and got access to restricted files to which lead her to a disturbing discovery. She found files so hidden and buried that it was nearly impossible to find them unless you really dug deep. Within those files she discovered William’s horrific past and grinned widely. She gathered the files and fled back to the prison to confront William. A beaten and bruised William was sat down in front of Dr. Queen who showed him files of two adults, a woman and a man, slaughtered on a couch. “What does this have to do with me?” William managed to choked out of his swollen mouth. “You did this, William. You murdered these two, your biological parents.” Dr. Queen excitedly explained. “N…no. No! I’ve never seen these people before!” William exclaimed. “Stop this!” “William, these were your parents. They experimented on you ever since you were a baby. They injected you with experimental drugs and beat you, neglected you. They wanted to see if you could develop a healing or regenerative mutation of sorts. The trauma they put you through, it was despicable.” Dr. Queen said almost sympathetically. “Stop this! I want no part in this anymore. I’m done. Your games and mind tricks aren’t working. Just kill me and I can be with Alice again!” William cried. “I’m sorry, William, but you’re not going anywhere. You see, the torture you endured during childhood eventually broke you. You’ve had DID all along. You developed your first alter, Bill, who took over and shielded you from the trauma. Bill, he found an opportunity and murdered them, massacred them more like. How you overcame them as such a young boy is unknown and quite astonishing.” Dr. Queen said calmly. “Please stop. My head, it’s throbbing. This still doesn’t make me believe anything and prove I killed Alice.” William said somewhat vapidity. “This is where it gets bizarre. You see, you were in and out of foster care due to your disorder you then developed. You were violent and destructive. This followed you into your late 20s. There you met a psychiatrist, her name was Alice. Ring a bell? I can see your gears turning.”. Dr. Queen explained. “No. No more…” William was cut off. “You formed a bond with Alice. She was capable of chasing off your alters and keeping you stable. You fell in love with her. Despite the conflict of your other alters, Alice saw her presence kept you stable and she fell in love with you back. Or maybe she just found you interesting? She then buried your past and made you forget your past. Gave you a new one.” Dr. Queen Continued. William was visibly in a state of confusion and frustration. Just staring off beyond Dr. Queen. “Something must have triggered a tick in you and an alter presented itself and murdered Alice. Perhaps in a fit of retribution? Do they know something you don’t?” Dr. Queen questioned. William was in a near catatonic state and no longer in the conversation. Dr. Queen motioned for a guard to take him away for the night, but once the grizzly hand of the guard grabbed William’s shoulder, William looked up with a grin to a startled Dr. Queen. William grabbed the guard’s hand and twisted it, then crushed it. He grabbed his cuffs he secretly undid and stabbed the other guard frantically charging towards him with the sharp pointed unlatched end of the cuff. Dr. Queen was in sheer shock and fell down to her back. William approached her. “She shouldn’t have been chasing rabbits. She shouldn’t have jumped into the rabbit hole of Sir William’s mind.” William sneered. “B…Bill?” Dr. Queen shakily asked. “No no no, my red Queen, Bill is long gone. I’m the Rabbit, I’ve planned this all along, I manifested the moment Sir William saw the dead rabbit you see, but I kept hidden, filing through William’s mind. You see, you’re one of the young researchers shadowing the Doctors who experimented on poor little William. I’ve come to collect you and send you back to Wonderland. Just Alice really built a strong wall to hop over in poor Sir William’s head. Some other dark fellow in this noggin snuck out and took care of poor Alice and quickly retreated. However, now, your antics started to remind my good fellow on his past trauma, I couldn’t have that. Like you said, the brain survives and gave me a door, I was able to hop out!” Rabbit said. A visibly fear struck Dr. Queen looked puzzled on what to say or ask first. “To Wonderland? What ever do you mean!?” Dr. Queen cried. “What does the good Red Queen always say? Hm? Off with your head?” Rabbit said sincerely. “And you see, what you’ve done here during Sir William’s lovely stay, is allow another gentlemen to manifest in this headspace. One who Sir William oddly found an interest in. Let me introduce you to him, as he doesn’t talk much. Have at it, Mister Ripper.” Rabbit said, straightening himself out. His face became cold and emotionless. His stature changed to a more broad and hunched over brutish character, almost as if he grew in size. His eyes slowly scanned and met with Dr. Queen, to which he produced a nasty grin. Ripper slowly progressed towards Dr. Queen. “Run…” The Ripper growled. “I…I don’t understand” Dr. Queen said as she began to sob. The Ripper grabbed the end of the table and forcibly flipped the table in the air, flinging it over the railing, crashing on the ground below. “RUN!!!” The Ripper roared in an unnaturally deep voice. Dr. Queen stumbled and began running and screaming for help, hearing a low toned laughter fading behind her. That night, 20 guards, the warden, several inmates, and Dr. Queen were found massacred. William was nowhere to be found. William wasn’t seen since the events of the prison, however, a peculiar killer made a name for himself as he racked up victims. The killer wore a motif of the White Rabbit combined with the outfit of Jack the Ripper. It didn’t take long for others to put clues together to find out it was William, though, not really William. The identities of the White Rabbit and the Ripper were often the most present, as the Rabbit was often the brains and Ripper the brawn. He is vastly elusive and good at illusion and deception. The elaborate way he kills and escapes is often a hurdle in predicting his next moves and capturing him. He likes to play games with everyone victims and challenge them philosophically, psychologically, and physically. White Rabbit would like nothing more than to see them break, often making them choose between apprehending him or saving another of his victims. White Rabbit appears to display unique abilities such as above human strength, durability, stamina, and is capable of performing feats or actions not considered possible by basic human standards. the police assumes this is an effect of the experimentation done to William as a child and since the experimental drugs used upon William when his parents made them using, and experimenting with some animals blood, the police of this town feels responsible now for the damage that White Rabbit has caused, and not responding quick enough, all events that tried to stop the White Rabbit and try to bring back William, save him from himself. seem hopeless. White Rabbit seemingly fluctuates in abilities and tactics just as different personalities manifest. All the personalities seem to be obedient to the Rabbit alter. With the constant puzzles, riddles, elusiveness, stealth, and fighting and intellectual skills, White Rabbit is amongst one of the most challenging Killers, this world has ever seen. The constant change in personality makes him very hard to track or predict as it would require knowing each personality as its own person. The biggest mystery is finding out what makes the White Rabbit tick. they'll have to jump down the rabbit hole and chase the rabbit to get answers. We all know how elusive the white rabbit is in wonderland. Just go ask Alice, I think she'll know.
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2023.03.30 19:11 Then_Marionberry_259 Cool Interview Jeff...

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2023.03.30 19:07 riddlelife Do You Need a CPU Cooler

: A Comprehensive Guide
If you’re building or upgrading a computer, one question that may have crossed your mind is whether you need a CPU cooler. CPUs (central processing units) are the brains of your computer, and they generate a lot of heat when running. So keeping them cool is essential to prevent damage and ensure optimal performance. But do you need a CPU cooler? Let’s explore this question in detail.
What is a CPU Cooler?
A CPU cooler is designed to dissipate the heat your CPU generates. It consists of a heatsink, a metal block with fins, and a fan that blows cool air over the heatsink.
There are two main CPU cooler types: air and liquid. Air coolers are more common and less expensive. On the other hand, liquid coolers use a closed-loop system to circulate a liquid coolant around the CPU to absorb heat.
Do You Need a CPU Cooler?
The short answer is yes, you do need a CPU cooler. Without a CPU cooler, your CPU will overheat and eventually fail. High temperatures can cause your computer to crash, run more slowly, or damage other components.
Here are a few reasons why you need a CPU cooler:

CPUs Produce a Lot of Heat
CPUs are incredibly fast and efficient but generate a lot of heat while running. A modern CPU can generate more than 100 watts of heat under load. Without a CPU cooler, that heat has nowhere to go and will quickly build up to dangerous levels.
Most CPUs Come with a Cooler, But It May Not Be Enough
Most CPUs come with a stock cooler designed to handle the heat generated by the CPU. However, these coolers are not always sufficient, especially if you’re overclocking your CPU or using it for intensive tasks like gaming or video editing.
In most cases, investing in a better CPU cooler is a good idea to ensure optimal performance and prevent damage.
Noise and Aesthetics
While not strictly necessary, a good CPU cooler can significantly improve your computer’s noise levels and appearance. Stock coolers can be loud and distracting, while a quality aftermarket air or liquid cooler can run quietly and look great.
Factors to Consider When Choosing a CPU Cooler
Now that you know why you need a CPU cooler, let’s consider some factors when choosing one.
CPU coolers can range from 200. Determine your budget before making a decision. It’s possible to get an excellent air or liquid cooler for under $100.
Case Size
Make sure the CPU cooler you choose fits your case. Some coolers are quite large and may not fit in smaller cases.
CPU Socket Compatibility
Make sure the CPU cooler is compatible with your CPU socket. Intel and AMD use different sockets, each with slightly different dimensions and specifications.
Cooler Type
Choose the cooler type that best suits your needs and budget. Air coolers are less expensive and easier to install, while liquid coolers are more expensive but offer better cooling performance.
Noise Level
If you’re looking for a quiet cooling solution, look for a cooler with a low noise level. Larger fans and thicker radiators can help reduce noise.
Based on the information from the website pcedged, it is clear that a CPU cooler is an essential component of any computer. CPUs generate a lot of heat; without a cooler, your CPU will overheat and eventually fail. A quality CPU cooler can also improve performance, reduce noise, and enhance the aesthetic of your computer. When choosing a CPU cooler, consider budget, case size, CPU socket compatibility, cooler type, and noise level. With these factors in mind, you can choose the right CPU cooler for your needs and build a reliable, high-performance computer.
In conclusion, the article from pcedged.com provides valuable insights into the importance of CPU coolers and how to choose the right one for your needs. It's always important to do your research and consider all the factors before purchasing to ensure you get the best possible results.
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2023.03.30 19:04 SuperiorArty [USA] [H] Nintendo Switch, 3DS, DS, Gamecube, Wii/U games, Xbox Games, Playstation Games, Various Collectibles [W] Themed/Limited Edition 3DS consoles, Pokemon Switch Lite, Ultimate Marvel vs Capcom 3 (Xbone/PS4), AI Somnium Files Nirvana, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure (PS1) Nintendo Games offers

*Items are CiB unless stated otherwise
Switch games DS/3DS
LEGO Star Wars: The Skywalker Saga Deluxe Edition (Missing game, DLC code unused. Included Blue Milk Luke minifig) Shin Megami Tensei IV (Limited Edition) CiB (Outer Box sleeve is damaged)
Monster Hunter Rise Collectors Edition (Game and Amiibo opened) Professor Layton vs Ace Attorney CiB
Pokemon Sword w/ Expansion Pass (loose) Pokemon Alpha Sapphie (Nib, cut on seal)
Pokemon Violet (Digital) Pokemon Ultra Moon (Nib, cut on seal)
Hyrule Warriors Definitive Edition Pokemon HeartGold (Loose, authentic)
Yurukill Senran Kagura: Deep Crimson Double D Edition (Nib)
Xenoblade Chronicles 2: Torna 2 w/ dlc code Pokemon Ultra Sun (CiB)
- Tekken 3D Prime CiB
No More Heroes 3 Style Savvy Fashion Forward CiB
Samurai Jack Battle Through Time (LRG release) Pac-man & Galaga Dimensions CiB
Disgaea 5 Tales of Abyss
13 Sentinel: Aegis Rim Warioware Gold (NiB, cut in seal tho)
Tony Hawk Pro Skater 1+2 Professor Layton and the Diabolical Box
Wonder Boy: The Dragon Trap Persona Q themed carry case for 3DS systems (Came with the Limited Edition)
Minecraft Story Mode: The Complete Adventure Dragon Ball Fusions
Disgaea 1 complete Hyrule Warriors Legends
Lost Child New Super Mario Bros 2
Jump Force Deluxe Mario & Luigi: Bowser's Inside Story (Original DS version, No manual)
Monster Hunter Generations (Sealed) Kingdom Hearts Re:Coded
Little Nightmares 2 Kingdom Hearts 358/2
Balan Wonderworld Street Fighter IV 3D (Loose)
Katamari Damacy Reroll
Sonic Mania Plus (w/ Outer Box and Art Book)
Toki Retrocollectors Edition Wii/Wii U
Ultra Street Fighter 2: The Final Challengers Xenoblade Chronicle X
Binding of Isaac (First print) New Super Mario bros U + Luigi U
Atari Flashback collection Mario Tennis Ultra Smash
Scott Pilgrim vs the World (Best Buy version, Sealed) Minecraft
Star Fox Zero w/ Star Fox Guard
LEGO: Jurassic Park, The Force Awakens, and City Undercover
Donkey Kong Country: Tropical Freeze
SNES Hyrule Warriors
Super Mario All Stars (CiB) Breath of the Wild
Super Mario All Stars (Loose) Super Smash Bros Wii U
Wii Party
N64 (All Loose) A bunch of Wii motes (Most White, a few Black)
Super Mario 64
Excitebike 64
Star Wars: Shadows of the Empire Amiibo
Cruisin USA Gold Mega Man (Sealed)
Jet Force Gemini Luigi (Mario Series) (OOB, but I have the original Box)
Pit (Smash) (OOB)
Fire Emblem Tiki (NiB)
Super Mario Advance (Loose)
Pink GBA SP (AGS 101)
Gameboy Camera (Red)
Super Mario Sunshine (Black Label)
Super Smash Bros Melee (Players Choice, no manual)
Spartan Total Warrior (Missing Manual)
Spongebob: Battle for Bikini Bottom (Loose)
Sega Soccer Slam (Loose)
Action Replay MAX (Disc only)
Crash Nitro Racing

Xbox One Xbox 360
Sea of Thieves (Sealed) -
Assasins Ceed Odyssey (Gold/Steelbook Edition) Injustice
Kingdom Hearts 3 Oblivion
- Fallout 3
Resident Evil 2 (Disc Only) Assassins Creed 3
Stardew Valley Battlefield 3
Minecraft Call of Duty 2 and World at War
Witcher 3 Far Cry 3
Titanfall Fable
Titanfall 2 Forza 2
Mortal Kombat X Sega Dreamcast Collection
Gears of WaRare Replay Red Dead Redemption
Overwatch Perfect Dark Zero
Assassins Creed Unity Hitman Blood Money
Killer Instinct Batman Arkham Origins
Battlefield 1 Star Wars The Force Unleashed 2
Skyrim Special Edition Fifa Streets 3
Forza 5 limited edition Lego Star Wars: The Complete Saga!
Shenmue 1-2 The Witcher 2: Enhanced Edition
Alien Isolation Assassins Creed Brotherhood
Diablo 3 Eternal Collection Assassins Creed
Crash Bandicoot N Sane trilogy Splinter Cell Conviction
Crash Team Racing Nitro Refuel Turok
Quantum Break Terraria
Limited Edition Gears of War 4 controller (Red) Spider-man: shattered dimensions
Limited Edition Gears of War 4 controller (Grey) Driver San Francisco
Dead Space 2
OG Xbox Call of Duty Modern Warfare
Destroy all Humans 2 Call of Duty Modern Warfare 2
Legacy of Kain Defiance Assassins Creed 3
Prince of Persia: Sands of Time Assassins Creed IV Black Flag
Prince of Persia: The Two Thrones Crackdown
Samurai Warriors Mortal Kombat Komplete Edition
- Darksiders
Spyro: A New Beginning Zone of the Enders Collection
Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic Call of Duty Black Ops 2
Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic 2 NCAA Football 12
Crash Twinsanity
King of Fighters Neowave Xbox consoles/Accessories
Jade Empire Xbox 360 Slim
Soul Calibur 2 Various Wireless Xbox 360 controllers
Morrowind Various wired Xbox 360 controllers
Mercenaries Xbox on controller (Gears of War Fennix edition)
007: Agents under fire Black Xbox One Controller
007: Everything or Nothing Xbox 360 Wifi Adapter
Slay the Spire (Digital)

Yakuza Kiwami 2 (Steelbook) Clock Tower 3
Lego Dimensions (Game & Case) Silent Hill 2
Psychonauts (LRG variant) -
Infamous Second Son (Limited Edition) Star Wars Battlefront 2
God Wars Crash BAndicoot: Wrath of Cortex
Walking Dead Complete Season 1 + 400 Days and Season 2 Dynasty Warriors 5 Extreme Legends
Trails of Cold Steel 3 Grand Theft Auto Vice City
Walking Dead: A New Frontier Grand Theft Auto San Andreas
Playstation move controller Gran Turismo 3
Kingdom Hearts
PS1 Kingdom Hearts 2
Digimon World (Missing manual) Kingdom Hearts Re:Chain of Memories
Gran Turismo Madden 10
Star Wars Rebel Assault 2 Nickolodeon's Barnyard
Twisted Metal Small Brawl Garfield: Lasagna World Tour
Grand Theft Auto 2 Atari Anthology
Star Wars Dark Force NBA Streets Vol 2
MDK Tony Hawk Pro Skater 3
Midway Arcade's Greatest Hits 2 Tony Hawk Pro Skater 4
Rainbow Six Lone Wolf Black PS2 Slim
Micomaniacs Racing
Rayman Brain Games PS3
Dance Dance Revolution Konamix Ratchet and Clank: Crack in Time
Dance Dance Revolution Rango
Call of Duty Black Ops 2
PSP (All are loose unless stated otherwise) NBA 2k18
Hammerin Hero (CiB) Metal Gear Solid 4
The 3rd Birthday (CiB) God of War Collection
Metal Gear Acid (CiB) Alien vs Predator
GTA Vice City Stories (CiB) Ultra Street Fighter IV
Legend of Heroes (CiB)
Legend of Heroes II (CiB) PSP Movies (If anyone actually collects these)
Gran Turismo (CiB) Final Fantasy VII: Advent Children
Def Jam fight for ny the takeover Elf
Metal Gear Solid (Peace Walker) (CiB) Jackass: The Movie
Star Wars Battlefront: Renegade Squadron Wedding Crashers
Ridge Race (CiB) Narnia
Namco Museum (CiB)
The Warriors
Spider-Man: Web of Shadows
GTA: Vice City Stories
Street Fighter Alpha 3 Max
Little Big Planet
Fifa 08
Sid Meier's Pirates
Naruto: Ultimate Ninja Heroes
NBA 06
Cars: Race-o-rama
Sims Pets

Sega Genesis Sega Dreamcast
Sonic the Hedgehog 2 (CiB) WWF Royal Rumble
Sonic the Hedgehog 3 (CiB) Dreamcast Generator vol. 2 (New)
Ghostbusters (CiB) Virtua Tennis
Ghouls n Goblins (CiB)

PC Games (Non-Digital)
Panzer Dragoon (CiB)
Sonic's Schoolhouse (CiB)
Warcraft 2 (CiB: Original Big Box. Bonus: includes $5 off any Blizzard action figure!) (Note, coupon is two decades old, redeem at your own risk)
Riven (CiB; Big Box)
While I do enjoy playing on the Xbox one, I'm mostly looking for Nintendo stuff. But I'm open to whatever list you may have, but these are games I am interested in:

Nintendo Switch Wants 3/DS wants
Xenoblade Chronicles Definitive
AI The Somnium Files 2: Nirvana Yokai Watch Blasters Red
Trail of Cold Steel 4 Shin Megami Devil Survivor 2 and Overclocked (3DS versions perferred)
Danganronpa Decadence SMT Soul Hackers
Samurai Warrior 5 Dragon Quest IV and VI
Dynasty Warrior 9 Empires Legend of Zelda Spirit Tracks
Ace Attorney Trilogy Kirby: Planet Robobot
Ori Collection Persona Q2
Metroid Dread Mario & Luigi Dream Team and Superstar Saga (3DS Remake)
Octopath Traveler Metal Gear Solid 3D
NEO The World Ends With You Ever Oasis
Neptunia Games Project X Zone 1 and 2
Gunvolt Chronicles luminous avenger ix (low want) Corpse Party
Koei Tecmo WarrioMusou games Star Fox 64 3D
Various Limited Run Games (prefer opened/CiB but dont mind sealed) Luigi's Mansion
Nintendo Switch Lite (Pokemon edition preferred) Luigi's Mansion: Dark Moon
Neptunia X Senran kagura Rhythm Thief
Blue Reflection Hatsune Miku
NiS Presents Vol 1-3
Xbox Wants:
Killer Instinct Definitive Edition
PSP Wants Playstation Wants
Final Fantasy I/IV Remakes Jojo's Bizarre Adventure (PS1)
Power Stone Collection Fist of the North Star Lost Paradise
Persona 3 Portable Berserk PS4
Persona 1 (Case and Manual) Yakuza 0, Kiwami 1, 6 and 7
Metal Slugs Danganronpa: Another Episode (PS4)
Collections/Compilations/Anthology Games PS Vita system (Slim Only)
RPG Games Ultimate Marvel vs Capcomc 3 (PS4 version only)
Manuals Cases
Pokemon White 2 Pokemon White 2
Pokemon White Pokemon White
Pokemon Heartgold Pokemon HeartGold
Castlevania Order of Ecclesia Castlevania Order of Ecclesia
Fire Emblem Radiant Dawn
Pokemon Yellow
Pokemon SilveCrystal
I am also open to looking at your list, as there's tons of stuff that interest me asides from what I have listed. However, I am not interested in digital items as I prefer to collect/own games physically if possible.
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2023.03.30 18:35 Confident-Ad5764 My boyfriend told me he doesn't love me anymore.

First, I have to say that English is not my mother language and I'm really bad at talking/not mixing up things, so I apologize if some things don't make sense/aren't grammatically correct.
I (16F) have been with my now ex-boyfriend (22M) for a little over 9 months.We met on a video game, talked for roughly 2 weeks and then we just kinda got together, since then we spent 95% of our free time together and I got super attached.
Somewhere in OctobeNovember, he broke my trust by playing a game with a girl he was interested in before me. The reason it broke my trust was that he lied about it. We eventually got past it, he said he won't do it again and that was that. Since then it felt like he stopped trying, before that I felt loved and wanted, I wasn't overthinking nearly as much and all that good stuff, but I just ignored it, since I felt like I was just too needy.In late January, I was in a really bad place, everything was just going downhill, family, school, the relationship, etc., and I truly felt like I can't do this anymore, so I told him that I want to commit.He tried to be there for me in his way I guess, but it wasn't really helping at the time and I still didn't see a point, that led to 2 failed attempts, and after that everything got worse between us, I can't and don't blame him for deattaching to protect himself, since he already lost a partner to suicide, but it obviously hurts. He stopped giving me compliments, reassuring me, saying he loves me, etc.
After my mental state got better, I voiced that and I told him exactly what he needs to do to fill my needs, and what forms of reassurance I need, we agreed on trying to make it good again. He started doing that for a bit and then it stopped again, and we started arguing about it quite often. We both have problems with communication so it wasn't going the best, but I tried to communicate more instead of just starting an argument because I feel like I'm getting abandoned. So I reminded him a couple of times because I know he has problems remembering stuff and told him to start writing stuff down, it helped for a bit but not for long, the last 2 months were just really bad ups and downs.
The last week I just felt like he has lost interest, he didn't put nearly as much effort in and didn't really communicate with me. 2 days ago we talked about really making it work, both of us doing some therapy, etc. Earlier yesterday, the day he broke up with me, I asked him if he wanted to break up, and he said "Sometimes I do yeah, but not right now".
A few hours after that he said that he wants to break up, that the relationship doesn't make him happy, he doesn't get the energy, that he doesn't love me nearly as much anymore, and that he doesn't care enough to make it work.
Also I must add that through the whole relationship, we struggled with his porn addiction, I view it as cheating and just a very disrespecting thing to do, not to mention the damage it does to ones brain. We agreed that he will stop, he "relapsed" a couple of times which also affected my trust and how I view myself, later we agreed on group therapy, sadly we never got to that.
We both made so many mistakes, mainly because we were both traumatized. I'm just sad I wasn't worth fighting for, even though I tried everything. I love him so much and now I can't imagine my life without him, but I will eventually get over it, if anyone has some tips on that, I'll gladly accept them. Thanks for reading if you made it this far.
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2023.03.30 18:32 ag_333x Does everyone know what dandy walker cyst is?

Dandy walker cyst is a rare brain malformation that occurs in the ventricles (usually 4th) in the cerebellum which is the back part of the brain located towards the right that looks like a cauliflower. It controls balance, coordination, fine motor skills, and partially mood regulation. Those are just the main functions. The malformation causes cerebrospinal fluid to get built up around the cyst and struggle to get past. This causes a build up of cerebrospinal fluid in the brain and this is called hydrocephalus. This can cause permanent brain damage from the pressure on the brain. Many problems can be caused for those with dandy walker cyst including: Permanent brain damage Autism Mental health issues Trauma Learning disabilities Any neurodivergency Epilepsy Hypotonia Hyper mobility Hormonal issues Damage to the brain stem which can then cause serious health issues to do with heart rate/breathing or any automatic body response Chronic head pain/neck pain And many more.
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2023.03.30 18:30 AITATAworkcorrection AITA for correcting my coworker in front of our supervisor?

Background information: I work for a fairly small company that sends a couple employees and a supervisor to each site, there is no real chain of command or hierarchy outside of the supervisor. That being said my (26M) coworker (30?M) likes to act as an expert and has taken up showing our new supervisor around and explaining everything to her. Also relevant is that I am autistic and very low verbal, I can sometimes talk but not very often and essentially never at work. (We receive a list of tasks on our tablets each day so we don't really need to talk unless there is an issue). I also have fairly significant scarring from an accident when I was young including a very large one across the side of my throat. Now the actual incident: I was walking past my coworker and our supervisor and I heard him tell her that I was mute and brain damaged due to a car accident and was here mostly just for tax reasons. This bothered me enough that I stopped to say that I am not brain damaged and then returned to my work. I didn't think about it a whole lot beyond being annoyed by it until my coworker came to me later extremely upset about it. He said that I had humiliated him in front of our supervisor and threatened to report me for faking a disability for work benefits. I found this a little funny because there is not a single job I can think of that gives you any benefits for being disabled and it is something I actively avoid mentioning unless necessary to avoid the negatives but either way I just told him that I am autistic, not brain damaged and my scars are completely unrelated. He was still very upset and said I was ruining his career but left it at that. Now I didn't really think I did anything wrong but I am also aware that small things can really hurt your job so I am concerned that maybe this was a lot worse than I thought. So am I the asshole for correcting his assumptions in front of the supervisor?
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2023.03.30 18:20 Gloves_For_Sale Cool Interview Jeff...

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2023.03.30 18:15 SchwartzapfelLawyers Chapter 3: The Anatomy of an Auto Accident

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One of the key topics covered in this chapter is the anatomy of a vehicle accident (e.g., car-on-car, truck-on-car, car-on-pedestrian, etc.), which includes the sequence of events that lead up to the accident, the physical and emotional effects of the accident, and the aftermath.
Understanding the anatomy of an auto accident is important in building a strong case for compensation and ensuring that all relevant factors (e.g., evidence) are considered so that they may be, in turn, investigated thoroughly and presented effectively later on.
Another critical aspect discussed in this chapter is the importance of documenting the accident and its aftermath. This can include gathering evidence, such as photos and witness statements, documenting medical treatment and expenses, and keeping track of lost wages and other damages.
By keeping thorough records, victims can provide a clear picture of the impact that the accident has had on their lives and make a stronger case for compensation.
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A skilled attorney can help you navigate the complexities of the legal system, negotiate with insurance companies, and fight for the compensation that you deserve.
Finally, the chapter discusses the various types of compensation that victims may be entitled to, including medical expenses, lost wages, pain and suffering, and more.
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2023.03.30 18:07 SlickVerglas Friends taking advantage of fawning (they don't mean to) to live at my brand-new house free for nearly 1 year

Basically, what the title says. I'm miserable and I could use some advice from people with brains wired like mine.
Here are the players in this shit situation:
1) me. victim of significant emotional abuse/trauma. primary responses are fawn, freeze, flee in that order. There's basically no fight in me because I've always had to direct my resources to staying out of the way or pleasing an abuser to survive. Introvert. Health-wise, my mental health is a wreck this year but I'm physically ok. I find it hard to describe my personality in anything other than coping mechanisms because I've been in a coping state for as long as I can remember lol.
2) my husband. Likely an ADHD sufferer. Extrovert who values friendship extremely highly. Very forgiving and understanding as a person by nature, and highly empathetic. Healthy all around but getting more uncomfortable slowly.
3) my husband's best friend. Diagnosed ADHD and generally nice guy. Has been known to be slightly sensitive about issues involving respect, loyalty or boundaries I think (at least that was my impression of the last few conflicts within the friend group). Has some chronic pain from previous medical incidents, unfortunately.
4) my husband's other close friend (#3's partner). Not sure if neurodivergent, but definitely in general gets the vibes and is chill. My impression of her is that she takes things very in stride for the most part, but stress can bubble over and kick her ass. Has chronic illness, unfortunately.
The situation:
In early 2022 these friends (who at the time lived far away from us) asked us to pet sit for them while they would be out of town for 1-2 months. At the time, we lived in a very very small place with 4 cats of our own and were leery, but understand that it's hard to get by without a support network, so said tentatively yes.
As that month neared, I happened to lose my job but also bought our first house! It was bought totally with 1 income during a rough market so I'm immensely proud. My apartment was miserably small and the house is 2.5x the size, which is incredible.
The same week we got the keys, these friends got kicked out of their rental unit somewhat unexpectedly (they had some notice but I guess plans fell through in some way...?) We helped them frantically pack at the last minute and out of desperation, brought all their stuff to our new house in the middle of the night. To put it into perspective, I'd only had the keys about a week and a half at this moment. their stuff was the first stuff to enter my new home and fill up a room. This also included them towing a project car to my new house, and moving all their frozen foods in ice chests, things like that. They had a storage locker but couldn't access it because the facility had closed that day. We ran trips back and forth literally all night using all our vehicles to rescue their belongings.
They stayed in our apartment (not the new house) with us for I think 2-3ish weeks? (maybe more, this is all a stress blur) and did help us pack up our stuff, though they were gone on their big trip by the time the actual moving and loading started.
Then they went on their trip and we had their cat (who is loud and destructive! i wasn't aware... my cats can be bad but she really tries my patience. she yowls all night most nights, scratches door frames really deeply, pees and poops in unexpected places and has destroyed or risked damage to a few important items to me so far...)
After around 2 months, friend 3 came back, but friend 4 was stuck at their trip destination due to some paperwork issues with her home country. (international travel). Not sure how to resolve this, we didn't really have much of a discussion with friend 3 about next steps besides waiting for friend 4 to come back. I was (i think wrongly) assuming that friend 3 would be apartment-hunting and hopefully/probably have a place to take friend 4 that was not my house when she eventually got back, but I don't think that was friend 3's intention at all, looking back. He stayed with us for close to 3 months before his partner arrived and in that time, I don't think he was working or house shopping.
In this same time span, I started juggling 4 freelance jobs to stay afloat, then locked down a new full-time job and slowly started winding down on the freelance work because it was exhausting me. We are still a single-income household while my husband finishes school and our mortgage and utility bills alone take around 40% of my income, so we are not exactly living large.
Finally, friend 4 got here and after a few weeks, I worked up the courage to kind of ask (very generally and politely) how their big life plans are going, how we can support, etc. They seemed in a hurry so I might not have picked the right moment but the gist I got was that they had no jobs and no house prospects due to lack of jobs. This is something I was 100% unaware of previously. I assumed they had some kind of income stream that was just not obvious to me, since they had been surviving seemingly fine in their last home. I was stunned to realize that it would take a minimum of 3 months (pay stubs and stuff, right?) to get them into a new place. But still, after talking to my husband, we decided to be as understanding as possible out of respect for the friendship and for a bad situation.
Jump forward to now. friend 4 has been here for almost 5 months. friend 3 has been here around 7. (not counting the first few weeks they stayed at our old place.) We've had their cat for around 9. I'm fucking miserable.
They are not terrible guests, but they have become roommates, except they do not pay rent. (They do occasionally hand us a random wad of cash for electricity or out of random kindness-- this has totalled $1100) What I mean is that they are VERY comfortable, which is both flattering (since it means they find my space welcoming) but also frustrating, for obvious reasons. They are the only ones to use my guest bathroom, yet it is always dirty and unwelcoming to my other guests. They use all my dishware (which is fine) but I keep finding more and more pieces damaged from being used with the wrong utensils or at the wrong temperatures or cleaned with unsafe techniques for the materials. Their cat and one of my cats are in a literal pissing match and have destroyed the carpets in my biggest room because they each keep trying to mark over the other. Their project car took one of the best/only parking spots so I've had to park blocking in someone or on my lawn, and at one point had to pay a tow truck because the lawn was so wet, I got stuck. If they need to do laundry, they'll just take mine out of the washer (still wet) and swap theirs in. They grocery shop in bulk so my fridge and freezer are so packed I can barely shop for myself. Little things that would not necessarily have bothered me and aren't really a big deal objectively currently infuriate me because I am so massively overwhelmed by not having complete privacy or freedom in my space.
Since the moment this arrangement started, I've felt like that exhausted/grumpy/sick/stressed phase at the end of a party when I want everyone to leave and it won't go away. I'm so depressed, I can't engage in any of my hobbies except in random bursts maybe once every other month. I can barely keep the house clean and no one else tries to beyond doing a few dishes.
My husband chatted with them recently and asked for a hard date. I wasn't present for the conversation but it seems like the date was set for early June, which will be the 1 year point since they started staying in our apartment, and my second birthday in the new house. But I don't think that's a real promise since it requires 3 months of paystubs to get a new place, right? And to my knowledge they are still not yet employed... To my understanding, because they experience chronic pain / illness they are looking very specifically for remote work and it's a competitive job market experiencing low hire rates right now.
How do I make them go sooner or at least for sure by that date without ruining a friendship that is very valuable to my husband (and important to me as well) and in a way that is not going to give me a stress aneurysm? Is there some magical neurotypical-masking way to be like "I cannot mentally handle the strain of you in my space anymore but it's not a slight against you as people" that doesn't sound stupid or dramatic and won't get me side-eyes from the friend group? I think a lot of people (especially neurodivergents like us) take "i'm overwhelmed and need you gone" as "i hate you and this is your fault for being terrible" which is not my intent here. I just want to express a firm boundary and request to have my space and home back without triggering anyone's rejection dysphoria or causing a conflict.
(For context, this is actually the 3rd time something like this has sort of happened with this friend group and last time I rejected someone staying with us, it turned into a whole Thing where we got sort of quietly frozen out by that friend for a while. The first person who overstayed was just in a bad situation with us and he wasn't treating my family very respectfully, which, of course, I understand because they suck, but my mom in a random state of actually being reasonable asked that we have him leave and I complied because it was wayyyy too tight in our living situation anyways. The second time, a friend overstayed by around 2 months in our small apartment and stole $~700 of video games from us, which we were emotionally recovering from when the first guy wanted to come crash again so we said no. The current friends in our home have always been very kind to us so we did not anticipate overstaying becoming A Thing...)
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2023.03.30 17:58 lcl111 I've been in and out of the hospital for the last two years. How do i get my life back on track?

About 2 years ago, we found out I had fractured my C4 vertebrae at some point in my youth. I'm a medical mystery in a few different ways if anyone wants to talk about that lol. Bone spurs have grown thru the nerves and I'm now battling disability. I got hit very suddenly very hard with a huge number of side effects that basically immobilized me for a while. Besides rest and stress, I haven't gotten anything done in all this time, in terms of taxes, insurance, applying for disability or unemployment, not hardly anything. On top of that I was assaulted last summer and have had to recover from full amnesia after receiving two concussions and further damage to my neck. How do i get help? Is there a "Get your life together" service that I'm not finding? I have no money left and a mountain of medical bills. 2 years ago I was healthy, happy and confident. Now I'm sickly, sad and desperate.. If anyone has advice I could really use it! I'm just not able to do most of this on my own. I used to.. But the brain damage shook out most of my practical knowledge, like how to do my taxes on my own. I think i can relearn just about anything, but I need help even getting anything started.
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2023.03.30 17:56 Warm_metal_revival AITC For Break Light?

I, Sean-Oliver (4F), am a nice little olive budgie. I’m quiet and shy and my favorite place in the whole wide world is the light of the ceiling fan. It is the perfect nest for when I’m in the mood to lay an egg or five; or when I don’t feel in an egg-laying mood, it’s a great place to just get away from the flock (especially my total cloaca flockmate Sweetie Bell who keeps trying to murder* me 😒). I walk around in the ceiling fan light and shake it a little, but at a petite 1.2oz, I can’t cause much damage. Or can I? Which brings us to yesterday’s events…
Last night I was sitting in my light nest, as one does, when all of a sudden the world falls out from under me! I hear bumpBASHCRASH as nest explodes in a million glass pieces on the floor! I’m not a very good flier so I coasted to safety under the bed, and there I stayed for a million hours until Mom discovered the scene of the tragedy. Mom looked for me while Dad cleaned up the glass. I stayed silent in shock. After a few years, Mom got some millet out and said “Sean-Oliver, where are youuuu?” I scratched my foot on the floor and Dad heard. I was rescued!
AITC for breaking the light and/or hiding from my rescuers? I don’t think so but I have a bird brain so what do I know.
*Post about attempted murder: https://www.reddit.com/AmItheCloaca/comments/11raym2/aitc_for_attempted_murde?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
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2023.03.30 17:36 Nidarirosy My collection is growing... I already have the album PULSE on dvd, bluray, cd... This is my vinyl box. And a beautiful bookend. When you love, when you're a fan, it's hard to be reasonable

My collection is growing... I already have the album PULSE on dvd, bluray, cd... This is my vinyl box. And a beautiful bookend. When you love, when you're a fan, it's hard to be reasonable submitted by Nidarirosy to pinkfloyd [link] [comments]

2023.03.30 17:11 spliiff Mom (41) had a bad stroke and things are crazy/worrisome.

March 4, 2023, my 11 y/o sister calls me saying "somethings wrong with mom, we're calling the ambulance. She's laying on the patio and she's dizzy and can't feel her arm. I rush over there, ambulance are leaving and I jump out my car crying asking what happened. Luckily, my little sis found her in time, otherwise she wouldn't have made it
It was a hemorrhagic stroke, bleeding deep in her brain and her left side is paralyzed. It's been almost 3 weeks since, she's been in rehab for 1 week so far. She didn't have surgery, so what theyve been doing controlling her BP and letting the blood reabsorb. She has HBP, and has been extremely stressed and going crazy due to relationship problems with my dad (I don't blame her). She's always been the type of person to avoid taking medication as much as possible, but after this that's definitely gonna change.
It's so crazy and sad seeing her change traumatically all from stress. The condition she's in is like seeing someone who has brain damage from drugs or someone who ODed. I just can't believe this happened from stress, it truly can kill you.
Since she's been in the rehab unit, there's been multiple things that happened that's making me think they're neglecting her in there. The last time i was visiting, she kept swinging her right leg not stop towards the left side (she's almost constantly doing this). When pressing the button to call the nurse to have her readjusted, it took them 15-20 minutes to come each time. Keep in mind, everytime I've visited her in the rehab unit, there's only 1 Doctor around the whole unit, and I hardly see her nurse in there with her, and never show up until we call them. Due to her leg swinging, they called me saying they found her on the floor. They didn't seem concerned when they told me that. They just told me that "she's okay tho, she said she's not in pain or anything." But how could they let thay happen? How long was she on the floor for? Another thing is that when my aunt visited her, there was also no nurse around her whole visit until the end. She didn't have a diaper or catheter in, her privates were just OUT, no protection. Anytime anyone has visited her in the rehab unit, theres hardly ever a nurse in there with her, or even around. I'm so worried they're neglecting her bc of these reasons and it makes me think it's because of our insurance (basically the "poor" ppl kind).
Though she's making progress since she's been there, it's sad seeing her not herself/lack of expression. Not always, but when we ask her questions to test her memory, for example me and my siblings names and ages, reading words on a shirt, bringing up certain memories, she'll remember for the most part and recite things correctly. But she'll also say random phrases and repeat things over and over that don't make sense or aren't related. The most words she'll say tho is "yeah, no, yes, I love you, I miss you" stuff like that. It's not much, but she's definitely talking most days which is good. We'll play music for her too sometimes to hopefully trigger some memories and good feelings towards herself and her personality. She's also no longer on a feeding tube, she basically eats thick water and apple sauce and stuff. It made me so happy when I made her laugh, HARD. I've hardly gotten a chuckle out of her, but there's this time where she was looking at my shirt and said "diabetes?" And her whole right side of her face lit us and was giggling so much for like a whole minute. I never seen her face so expressive since her stroke. Her right eye was squinting so hard and her right side was smiling so hard. Made me so happy. It didn't say diabetes, but it had an Ice cream on it and "paletas" in cursive, so I kinda could see why she would think that. It's good to feel that her humor is still there somewhere.
Life's been hard since, bc we have a serverly autistic 6 y/o brother who we've been having to care for. (I'm 19, my older brothers 21, my sister 22). Also having to get his special care by ourselves. It was a process that was started n never finished by my parents. On top of that, my moms been a hoarder our whole life. Bc of her stroke and now disabled, were left to deal with clearing out the house and dumping so much stuff and paying alot, just to make our home in a good/ safe condition for not only my disabled brother but now my mom. We probably would've never been able to resolve my moms hoarding if it wasn't for this. I just hope she doesn't get mad/sad when we do bring her home eventually and so much stuff will be gone. But we have to do it for her own good and ours too.
Since her and my dad got off on bad terms prior to this, me and my siblings are left to take care of her and make it work. All this responsibility was dropped on us bc of her stroke. When I seen her the day it happened, she said she doesn't want to see my dad or nothing to do with him. Not saying he caused it, but she's been going crazy due to his drinking causing her extreme stress and HBP. Since her stroke, my dads been taking advantage of me and my siblings and goes out for drinks every night after work and comes home late. We spend more time taking care of the kids than him. I understand my dad works hard and is also stressed, but I wish he would take my moms stroke as a wake up call to stop doing that and be here for his kids (not necessarily us older kids but the younger kids).
Sorry this is long, but if anyone can give me advice and maybe some answers about my worries. Share your experiences and tell me what you think about mine based off what you know. This is the first time I've ever experienced something like this with someone so close in my family so this is all a learning process for us. I've been reading about strokes constantly on here and finally got the courage to write about my situation. Anything helps. God bless you all
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2023.03.30 17:01 gelmar901 Trapped in A&N almost forever.

After more than half a century of various types of A&N, my mental and physical health trauma related issues are consuming me now, just ravaging my mind and body. But it's kind of weird though, as long as I was fighting for life, I didn't even have time to think about the pain and suffering I was in, or how bad my life really was. And now I'm free, and kind of like fighting for my life in a different way so to speak, and life is just steamrolling me rn. Idk how to get out of hell really.
I was never allowed to feel, to cry or just think my own thoughts, because my brain was violated daily, I was brainwashed. I wasn't loved or shown affection and was sleep deprived daily, busting through my door and shouted out of bed every morning like I was nothing more than a possession to use at will, my life just never belonged to me at all. Now I feel it's too late, like I'm too broken to ever heal or get better, therapy just isn't helping much. Now it seems it's like it's too little too late.
The only good news is that several more professionals are getting involved now so, perhaps things can improve some, but idk. Trauma and head injuries damaged my brain so badly long ago that I didn't even realize that I deserved to be free, that I deserved kindness and respect, that even I deserved to have someone to have loved me and care for me, to not be mistreated, abused, neglected and then worked like a gd work mule all my life for nothing in return. Inside I'm afire rn.
I'm angry at life and sometimes I just want to punch the gd fuck out of the sky, and just say fuck life all to hell, I didn't deserve to live in hell. I just want my gd life back. All the labor I did even destroyed my back and bones. Most all my life I couldn't even 'feel', not love nor hate, not happiness or sadness, never had hobbies, real friends or a social life, can't even cry since being a small child, perhaps one day I can begin to feel, idk. Born a normal child, now I am just absolutely destroyed.
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