For the past few months I've been looking for 1bhk apartment/flat anywhere near Yelahanka, Sathnur, Hennur and areas nearby. Can someone please help me and let me know if there's any flat available for rent in these areas and how do I contact these owners.

My nex became ridiculously abusive towards the final 1-1.5 years of our relationship. It was clear I was miserable and unhappy, and I had tried to talk things out unsuccessfully several times as I hadn’t figured out they were a narc yet.
Near the end our breakup seemed inevitable, I was almost completely discarded, just not officially as I think they realized it would be easier to paint themselves as the victim if I left.
Right near the end of our relationship they were very insistent on getting a tattoo of something related to me e.g name, b-day etc. but I talked them out of it.
What would have been the of doing something like this when they were discarding me anyways and also abusive? It doesn’t make sense.

Went into a local E&S trading. They advertised split systems on their website (want a Mitsubishi model) but it turns out 1) customer service was shit, 2) they really didn’t want to help me 3) apparently they mostly sell online but maybe they have them on the floor at one store but they don’t know. So I walked out. Can anyone recommend a place in Melbourne that sells split systems AND installs them?? Cheers

My wife and I live near a trail next to Philadelphia which we would like to bike on. We will be on gravel almost 100% of the time. We will pull our kids on the back with some type of trailer. We aren't fast riders, but will use it for exercise regularly. We stopped by the Trek store which was nice, and also have a Costco membership so heard good things about Priority Bikes. Their eBike is about $1600. We are in-between deciding whether to get eBikes or not eBikes, so open to suggestions on any and all. Thanks for your help!

My wife and I live near a trail next to Philadelphia which we would like to bike on. We will be on gravel almost 100% of the time. We will pull our kids on the back with some type of trailer. We aren't fast riders, but will use it for exercise regularly. We stopped by the Trek store which was nice, and also have a Costco membership so heard good things about Priority Bikes. We are in-between deciding whether to get eBikes or not eBikes, so open to suggestions on any and all. Thanks for your help!

I've recently began a real attempt and becoming sober from alcohol and drugs. I've been going to 12 step meetings (although not all of it connects with me) and it has been about 41 days since I began this journey, with a minor slip near the start.
I've never had anything to hide with my use and it was never really a secret. So my recovery is following the same suit. I've told many people in my life where I'm at and what I'm doing so that I cannot hide from my addictions anymore. The majority of people have been supportive.
The realisation in the title that I'm refering to is that some people just don't have my best interests at heart and it's not personal, they seem to be just caught up in the addiciton cycle.
An incident happened the other day where I met a friend for coffee and was updating her on where I was at and how I was struggling with everything. This would have been a friend I would have used a lot with. There was a band I wanted to see and had a ticket for on the same day but I chose not to because there just would have been drink and drugs everywhere. Anyway I'm talking to my friend about how I'm struggling especially on this day when a lot of people I know are going to this gig. We finish our coffee and go separate ways for the evening.
I get a text at about 3am (but only saw in the morning) from that friend and in her text she asked me to drive across to a smaller town, pick up some drugs and then bring it down to the lake where she was staying for the weekend. Thought it was a bizzare text because I've never been a pick up/drop off type of person and that friend has never asked me to do that sort of thing ever.
I had a realisation that this friendship may have only been built on drink and drugs. I felt the text was equivalent to spitting in my face. Not a nice feeling. As much as it angers me I do see that its not personal but I am most definitely in a different place than she is.
One of the many excuses I used to tell myself before I started my recovery journey was that I didn't want to do it because I, me, would have to remove people from my life. I envisioned a painful process where I would just stop talking to people and ghost them forever. That hasn't been the case and I've been pretty chill around many of my friends and some have been supportive. But I feel like this friend as given me no choice but to make sure I keep my distance from her as she is not really listening to where I am at. Again I don't fault her because she's in her own shit. But yeah just very rough.
Change is fucking hard but I'm having many good days, aswell as bad ones. I do feel like I have to reinvent how I live and behave now which is tough. Losing friends was something I feared and although I wouldn't say this friendship is lost, it's definitely be on hold until I feel stronger in myself to be around that friend.

I'm very tired and sore today and slightly nauseous but it was very worth it. I started running a little more than two years ago during peak covid boredom and loneliness and it has helped my mental health a lot. I could never run when I was younger due to pretty bad exercise induced asthma. I would get trouble breathing from just running a couple hundred meters in cold weather and being able to run even a 5k and enjoy it seemed impossible. Therefore it feels extra amazing to actually be able to run now and it makes me super happy.
I signed up for this marathon in January with great plans about training (I had been running a couple 10ks every week for a while and a 30k trail race in the autumn). But I started a new job in February which made it harder to find time for long runs, although I kept up with at least a couple runs every week. Then in April, right as I was about to ramp up the training some more, I fainted after donating blood plasma and twisted my knee. This together with some bad shin splints kept me from running for a few weeks (I tried to keep my cardio fitness up by using the elliptical at the gym instead which honestly is just so boring).
3 weeks out from the marathon date my knee still hurt if I tried running even a little and I thought I would probably not be able to run it at all. Thankfully just as I had all about given up hope my knee miraculously healed itself and even though my training had been very bad I decided that I would at least try running.
The day of the marathon I felt very excited and slightly scared. The first hour felt great, I was running faster than I normally do, with no pain, the sun was shining and the crowds were cheering us on. After running about 15 kilometers my legs started hurting and getting really tired and I realised I needed to slow down, which I did. They kept hurting for the rest of the marathon but it was manageable. I was so happy to even be able to run after everything and when it felt really tough I would remind myself how cool it was that I could even do this at all. As I neared the finish line I started sprinting and saw my friends cheering me on and it just felt so great to actually do it!
The best part of the race though was probably the group dressed as the fellowship from the lord of the rings who I ran next to for a while. It was a pretty warm summer day and they were wearing full on costumes with wigs and all (and a beard for Gandalf and Gimli!). I really hope they passed in the end :)

The idea of butterflies keeps running around in my head. Like anxiety or good butterflies and my mind keeps trying to make me try to see if my past butterflies with boys were anxiety and me not actually liking boys or good butterflies. I'm so pissed off by it. The fact that everything I can say I used to feel for boys can be fucking questioned by shit I see online. I liked guy, I wanted to end up with a guy, I felt excitement and a pull bc of wanting to be near guys I liked. Sure I felt anxious when I was near them, but I didn't want to look like a fool in front of them. Why does every single thing have to be questioned??

I'm staying in Sidemen and about 30 mins north of Tegalagang. I've watched countless youtube videos and traversed the streets on google maps to get an idea of what the roads are like.
To me it seems like the roads are chaos in and 5 mins from the city, but outside of them in more rural areas often times it seems like there's not a single cascooter in sight. Sometimes it picks up a bit and looks like a normal road in a small town we'd find in the UK, particularly near the tourist attractions.
Are the comments from people saying how dangerous it is purely the experience of people who have only stayed/lived in the south? Can someone who has stayed in Sidemen/rural Bali tell me if the roads are a lot safer there? I'm trying to gauge if it's worth me getting a scooter. Being quite far out and on a student budget limits our transport options. FWIW, I'd never consider riding a scooter anywhere near busy urban areas.

I don’t have the beta so I’m wondering if someone who does have it can tell me if there’s 32 players in a lobby like it says on the ps store or if it’s just 8 like the crew 2

Advice - Adult cat & Kitten
I have a 2 year old cat that I’ve had since she was a baby. I recently got a kitten because she was longingly staring out the window at this stray cat that would come around that I’d feed. I figured she wanted another cat companion, also I really wanted one as well!
I adopted this kitten (male) end of March so it’s been about 2-3 months so far. It took her awhile to get used to him but they started playing, she even cleans him, sometimes they will do a little cuddling. Then all of a sudden she will just growl and start attacking him if he does anything remotely close to a ritual she always did with me — go in the bathroom when I’m on the toilet (she immediately gets mad), if she finds him on my bed, if he walks anywhere near the spot she uses to watch the birds outside, if he’s on the couch and I pick her up to get cuddles on my lap and she spots him on there, It’s only becoming a possessive thing with rituals it seems. She doesn’t harm him but growls and gives him a slap with the paw but she gets really stressed out it seems. I will separate them for 10-15 minutes until she calms down. I’m hoping that as he gets older and becomes more chill, she may fancy him more. Any advice or suggestions or am I doomed? I would not like to give either of them away as I love them and am already extremely attached. I just don’t want either of them in stress mode for the rest of their lives.
Thanks in advance!

I spent almost 4 years with my nex until finally leaving. During the majority of the relationship I was treated horribly with things getting worse as the relationship progressed.
At first I tried to kill with kindness in hopes that my good deeds would make my nex feel guilt/bad about treating me so poorly. Eventually I realized this wouldn’t work so I just took whatever they threw at me and kept it to myself.
Near the last year it finally got so bad that I started to lash out verbally during moments where I would snap and blow up.
I feel so horrible and guilty for ever having done this and I don’t know why I can’t put the guilt behind me. I was treated badly almost constantly and my nex felt no guilt so why am I still struggling to not feel bad about how I treated them a handful of times? I’m so sad I ever lashed out at them even though it was always the culmination of months of verbal/emotional abuse with a very major instance finally making me hit my boiling point.

Now to be clear here, I am not referring to people thinking it lacks sufficient content compared to previous seasons, there is an argument to be made there although personally it seems to be just about as complete as the other seasons were just with the exception of a new weapon/grenade.
Overall I think the new events and systems look cool enough to give me some fun while I complete the PP but seasons aren't the reason I continue to play DRG, updates are nice but it's just a fantastic game that even after so many hours feels infinitely replayable compared to any other "Live-service" game I have played.
That said, I think the communities reaction to the season has been completely overblown with it's negativity , in every post giving good, constructive feedback about what is and isn't in the season, we have many many people talking about how it's clear the seasonal model isn't working, that the game must not be getting much attention anymore, and that this will cause players to quit in droves.
1.) The seasonal model is clearly working fine, Plaguefall on launch had the highest concurrent player count of any season thus far, and season 4s "Narrated trailer" has already passed season 2s view count, and is on track to potentially pass seasons 1 and 3.
2.) Let's not forget that the game is a small dev team funded by a $15 optional skin pack every 6 months as well as new greenbeards buying the base game, now I am sure they COULD pump out more meaty seasons if they really wanted to, but GSG also seems to pride themselves on their work culture, they take breaks, they relax.
I also wanted to ask, is seasonal refreshes really the reason you play DRG? SO much so that one lackluster season has so many people talking about leaving or taking a break, as much as I enjoy new seasons, the game for me is always about the damn near evergreen nature of its core gameplay loop, unlike WoW, Destiny, Gw2, etc, I don't need constant content updates because what is already there doesn't really get stale to me. Seasons are just a way to give a nice injection of hype twice a year.
Now, I do think it would be nice to see some more content, not to the extremes I see people asking for (new weapons per season, multiple mission types per season, etc etc) what I think would be great would be if we could alternate a new mission type for one season and a new biome for another, with new gameplay elements added as seen fit for the theme of the season, as missions and zones are the core of the game. Exploring the deep to achieve a goal is DRG, and I think biomes/mission types could be a staple of every season if alternated.
One more thing, I do see people talking about how the devs seem to be too focused on cosmetics/rewards instead of new content, I can see this, but one of the biggest complaints before the seasonal model began was that there weren't many rewards to chase in the game after a relatively small amount of playtime, the seasonal model/PP kind of exists because of how heavy that was mentioned. I do think we could compromise a little bit and maybe halve the amount of seasonal cosmetics in favor an extra pillar of new content, but that isn't for me to decide.
Anyway sorry for my rambling, just been seeing so much complaining it's giving me mmorpg flashbacks, and wanted to say my more neutral-positive piece about the current state of the game.
P.S Season 2 added next to nothing outside the secondaries, the nemesis sucked on launch and phazyonite was pretty useless because of how rare it was. Didn't see the doom and gloom nearly as much then. So lets chillll
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Me and my son's father split almost a year ago. to give some background me and him were very wrong for eachother, he cheated multiple times and was on and off of drugs, he was verbally and physically abusive..and for me I basically stuck with him so that's why I'm wrong. And apparently because I was the reason he did all those things. (I couldn't be because he was that terrible with all his previous ex's)
He told me right away after we broke up and he moved out that he would act right from now on; of course he's already happier than ever and a changed man with his new girlfriend and such. We've been getting along because well we don't talk in between.
I brought up that things will not go the smoothest living 40 minutes apart though, and the way he is he puts work and his life first, making the co parenting schedule we have now every other weekend he gets our son.
At first he was very inconsistent with showing up, and then later down the line for the most part hes been on time, although he's not doing exchanges anymore he has his sister's do them.
Thing that confuses me is he asks for the days he has off work to have our child, yet he's still working on those days. Then complains or asks for a different day at the last second.
I tried not to mind much because I can't have it any other way until we went through court.
I brought up court to him before and he told me not to, and said something like you won't stand a chance in court don't do that to yourself.
He says this because I was diagnosed with depression when I was 17 and I've been on SSI since. I'm almost late 20's now. I've tried to work but I couldn't hold a job due to being in a toxic relationship with him and also not having reliable transportation. I have had my yearly re evaluations hoping they'd see something different but they still say I need the SSI income, and have even raised it.
Thing is I don't find my depression to be that severe, everything I was going through was usually because I was with HIM. I was diagnosed (little TMI) in the first place because my grandma seen me isolate myself after highschool and felt it had something to do with that, having no friends and also because I was a baby born in prison not having my mom ever or my dad. That's not really bothered me though, but being examined by a doctor I'm told I have mental issues.
Then I met my son's dad and had my son and everything was great until he started showing his true self and I just was drained and broke myself down. Then that's when my son's dad started to point out how low of a life I was and that I wasn't capable of ever furthering my life this n that, I'm like I was never like this before him. I was also having anxiety and I wouldn't doubt PPD, he was never emotionally there for me but kept blaming me. I've got passed a lot though, and healed so much, and never once was not able to do something for my son.
Ever since we broke up I've been trying to get my life organized and fully focused on the little one but he believes he has those things against me. That I have depression, and that my income isn't something I can provide enough to my kid, that I don't have a real job and not trying to do anything with my life. Which is something because I couldn't do anything with my life without him saying something or starting trouble.
He's wrong because we've always been able to get everything we need, I like I said put my kid first, of course entertainment and pleasure sometimes is a struggle but everything my kid needs and food wise we've been great with getting. I do plan on working in the near future I've tried applying places but it's been hard finding someone to work with me on what days I'm available.
And it's not fair because he is able to do whatever now because he doesn't have to care for his child everyday. I love this I'm not complaining but yes it would be nice to be able to start living my life without worrying about if I can.
I feel he's just one to talk because he knows if anything he's the one that has a lot on his name..but I don't know if I'll be that confident in court I don't want to start any drama by digging up dirt. But I know he will and I feel he can use those things against me..
Reason I'm needing help with this is because we don't have a court order obviously, but I feel in the near future things need to be settled on something, considering my kid starts school this year and a lot will change and he would need to be more ..there.. if that makes sense. I don't think I'm going to be able to adjust at his every need anymore, he doesn't really seem to care although he plays it like he's dad of the year

So I was having a discussion with my friend about dating insights, including avoiding men who watch porn (from hard porn on pornhub to soft porn on Instagram)
She agreed that porn has harmful effects but said it would be impossible to find a man today who doesn't watch porn on an everyday or casual basis. Even if there are men who don't watch porn, their numbers are extremely limited. This would narrow your dating pool to a handful and it's not even guaranteed that those handful of men are of any interest to you (and vice versa), share the same values, etc.
And honestly, I have to agree: simply, men who don't watch porn are rare. At least in my experience.

1. How does one navigate the dating world knowing this?
   
2. Where do you find men who don't?
   
3. Also, how would you know if someone watches porn before getting into a relationship with them? Do you just bluntly ask?
   

Nearly every day I hear a story that goes like this: “I made my boundaries clear with my partner about porn from the beginning. he holds the same values around it that I do and enthusiastically agreed to my boundaries. years later I find out he’s been watching porn since the beginning of our relationship. i never would have expected this is a million years.”
Well I’ve made my boundaries clear with my boyfriend. He holds the same values as me around it and has agreed to my boundaries. there is literally nothing stopping me from telling that story. every time i hear a story like that i become more convinced that the exact same thing is going to happen to me.
I only date porn free men but I'm becoming convinced that they don’t exist. and if they do they are lost in the sea of men who are fantastic at pretending to be porn free so they can get laid 🙃
I see this come up as a topic in the relationship thread a lot and thought maybe it should be it's own thread.
So as a straight woman if you don't want to die alone you will eventually have to have to try to find a man who isn't totally disgusting, which is extremely hard. One of the most important qualities a man needs to have is not watching porn. So here are some questions to discuss:

1. How do you find a man who doesn't watch porn?
2. Is it possible or impossible?
3. Can you convince a man to give up porn for you?
4. Do you think a man can give up porn forever?
5. How do you trust a man not to watch porn?

Personally I think that a man will probably never quit using porn fully. I have had two relationships with men who told me they won't watch porn because it hurts me and I consider it cheating. The first one I straight up caught watching porn, the second one I found out was trying to skirt around the rule of "no porn" by not considering things like gifs of women doing a sexy dance or still images of naked women as porn. He'd also listen to women doing ASMR and I think he was also watching porn whenever we had a fight and he was angry at me. At this point I don't think it's possible anymore.

Are the small fruit snack cups of like chopped pineapple, strawberries, discontinued? I always got them on my break but 2 publix’s near me don’t have them anymore? i noticed this about 2 weeks ago i think.

Id like to first say that this is my first Reddit post and i never thought i would have to make one but here we go. Basically guys i need some outside help/assistance with everything that I’ve been going through. If anyone can relate or understand even a little bit of what’s been going on with my body i will greatly appreciate it.
I am a 21 year old male. Had a fairly normal life until age 13.Had my first panic attack, suffered from GAD (Generalized anxiety disorder) for a while, finally got put on meds after some trouble with them (Zoloft) that worked. Age 16 (10th grade in HS) I start having no energy and no motivation randomly, in hindsight my parents think that it was because of my dog passing away but I think it just randomly occurred. My depression started, lasted for 2 years, tried countless meds with no help, multiple suicide attempts, got put into a treatment facility, hated it there, faked how I felt to get out because my parents wouldn’t let me out, and left that facility at age 18 after being in there for 2 months. Afterwards my depression ceased which I think was due to me faking how I felt in the facility which ironically made me better. Got diagnosed with MDD (major depressive disorder) but haven’t been depressed anywhere near that since then which has been 4 years now almost. However, even though my mental state finally got under control after 5 years and me dropping out of high school (I got my GED last year) the physical symptoms started. During my depression I was very isolated and mostly layed in the same position most of the day for multiple years, after my depression until now (6 years now) those habits have stayed. I am in so much physical pain, numbness, tightness, discomfort, i don’t know what to do and I need outside help. These are my full list of symptoms I have:
Pain and pressure in the breast bone and chest. Discomfort and tightness in the breast bone and chest. Chest Pressure, pain, discomfort, and tightness hurts and can last a while, it randomly occurs, worse when laying down. Pain and discomfort under left armpit (feels like swollen lymph node maybe, is on and off). Persistent fatigue that is constant 24/7 and never gets better with rest, makes me feel like I have no energy or motivation. Debilitating lower back pain. Burning in my chest and throat. Heart burn. Difficulty swallowing especially when eating food, (i have to drink water first 95% of the time before eating something or else i get the feeling of the food slowly going down my esophagus and it hurts very bad). Horrible throat pain feels like it’s burning or inflamed. Feeling of bloating or feeling full after eating sometimes. A period where i can go months with having no appetite and months with an appetite. Random bouts of sweating that occur out of nowhere. Anxiety that can get worse if i don’t get it under control which can trigger my GAD (generalized anxiety disorder). Frequent gas and burping (sometimes i could fart hundreds of times per day, same with burping it just depends). Lots of muscle and joint pain and weakness and numbness) face, head, neck, shoulder, back, arms, feet, pretty much my whole body). Feeling that something is stuck in my throat. Shortness of breath/hard to breath. Tingling and numbness in hands and feet. Floaters and dark spots in vision. Visual snow/millions of white dots in my field of vision. Frequent flashes of light in my eyes. Constipation, and really bad smelling poops and farts. (Had heart palpitations a couple years ago for a few months). (Went to the ER multiple times over the last couple years due to debilitating burning in my chest that would radiate throughout my whole body. (Had this feeling in or near my heart where if i move a certain way to fast i have this random sensation of feeling/pressure/weight for a second that would then go away). Facial numbness and hot and cold flashes. More frequent urination the last month or so. Random awful pain that occurs above my genitals. Feeling out of it/brain fog. Forgetfulness and bad memory. Slurred speech. Inability to exercise (feel worse from exercising). Light sensitivity. Heat intolerance.
This is destroying me and ive been trying to fix myself and get better physically and i can’t do it. It’s making my anxiety come back which causes its own symptoms which makes everything worse. I’m staying strong through this thanks to my parents support but i need outside help, if anyone has any idea of what this could be or multiple things it could be please let me know thank you.
Here is the list of the current things I’m diagnosed with already if anyone is curious:
All Disorders/Problems that I have: Major Depressive Disorder. Generalized Anxiety disorder. Nearsightedness. Floaters. Upper Lordosis. Lower Lordosis. Flat feet. Prolonged bed rest for 6 years. Lumbar Spinal Stenosis (just got a CT scan done of my lower back, showed signs of narrowing of my spine, got referred to a spine surgeon, doing physical therapy for 6 weeks then a mri).
I have a ton of appointments scheduled and ones I’ve already been to, including new appointments I have to schedule. I’m seeing my psychiatrist in July, (saw her multiple times within the last months for anxiety cause I went off my Zoloft due to bad side effects) saw a gastroenterologist in may and have a upper endoscopy on june 7th, have a new physician appointment on june 9th because my old one moved over a year ago and ive had to wait over a year to see a new one. I saw the spine surgeon last week, and I’m going to make a rheumatologist and neurologist appointment on Monday as I was recommended to by the spine surgeon PA.
If anyone has got this far and read all this thank you so much for listening to my story, i tried to include everything and summarize everything the best I could, if anyone has any questions about anything please feel free to ask and I will answer. If anyone also has any feedback or potential cause to some of these issues please let me know as well, i just want answers so badly so I can finally move on to the path of recovery. Thank you so much again for reading i really appreciate it.

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