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I am having several concerns in my current relationship and I just don’t know if we’re doomed to fail or if I’m being an asshole or this is just circumstances that will eventually unfold and things will be easier.
First some background we were roommates first, go to grad school together, and were close friends before we started dating. We’ve been together for 2.5 years and have met each others families, though I’ve met hers as a friend because she isn’t actually out yet.
1) the bed death is real but tbh I also just had a major downshift in my sex drive about 3 years ago and while I tried really hard to keep things exciting the first few months I had a flair up of PCOS and my sex drive still hasn’t really rebounded and I’m just constantly exhausted and don’t feel like having sex. This definitely bothers her but i don’t think it’s my attraction to her that’s leading to the low sex drive i think it’s entirely my own feelings towards sex because I’m too tired
2) I think she has a lot of emotional trauma she hasn’t dealt with and this causes her to be super insecure and routinely will ask me if I still love her and tells me I don’t if I say I do. This bothers me a lot and even when I try to do more to show my love or ask her how she needs me to love her so I can better meet her needs (she never has an answer) nothing changes. This whole thing is exhausting and constantly being worried about how she’s feeling because she doesn’t communicate feelings as well is getting old.
3) some days it feels like we are totally in sync and nothing can stop us and other days it’s like we’re totally different people and neither of us are able to meet each other’s needs and when this happens I can be irritable and short tempered and snap at my partner over small things that don’t matter.
4) sometimes i feel like I’m carrying the mental and emotional weight for both of us and I definitely resent that. When I try to communicate that i need more support i don’t often feel like that is heard or respected. I do most chores and house related tasks there is definitely not a 50/50 split and I’m not sure we could successfully get there in this current situation
5) her not being out yet isn’t a huge deal and I understand wanting to wait but it’s also exhausting dealing with some of her family and the stress of that and knowing this is still in the waiting game. Part of me is concerned that we’ll just keep not saying anything for a long time.
6) my biggest concern is that in a few months we’ll be long distance for some time and how will these issues translate. Is this really worth it. I love her I think at times we have an extremely strong relationship its just not as often as i would prefer
When she’s gone i miss her when we have time to relax together I’m happy but i just feel like some of these are issues we don’t need to be dealing with and we need to do more to address it she just isn’t great at communicating or following through on some things and I’m not sure how to work with her to make it functional or if we should just drop it and go our separate ways

I’m 17 almost 18 I say this for a reason my mom and dad got divorced when I was 6. My dad married a lady that he let manipulate, emotionally abuse me and my sibling. I was the eldest so I was the target. Any way I don’t have much memory of my child hood and I’m only now starting to connect dots so I’m reliving. And I’m dramatic it’s not like we were hit I was scared I would get hit but I was never physically hurt. I don’t know what is wrong with me. I don’t know why the way I am it really wasn’t bad. He lives about an hour and some away he gets us every weekend besides the past year he really doesn’t make an effort. With this still he acts or try’s to get us sometimes this causes this overwhelming I can’t do it. I am truly petrified to go or even think about going . It really isn’t the problem of I don’t want to see my dad. But the fact of he lives in that house with that women she Truley makes me feel so scared. And I really don’t know why like yes she is acunt but I shouldn’t be this afraid. I really don’t know why I feel like this, every time the weekend is close even if he hasn’t said anything(witch is usually the case) I feel this overwhelming I can’t do it I can’t take another breath onther thought it’s all that I can’t stop from being in this frozen panic. Every time I go it takes a peace and it takes it slower to come back each time. When I’m there I feel like an animal with my leg caught in a trap and I’m rolling and scratching the ground and thrashing and biting my own leg to get away. It’s dramatic and I know it is.I don’t know what’s wrong with me everyone I try to talk to looks at me like I’m crazy and dramatic and I feel truly helpless like i cant do anything. Like I need to suck it up. Everyone I talk to say I should suck it up I’m almost 18 but that’s my exact point why put myself this much distress for 4 months for no reason.I’m sorry thank you if you read this I just need it out of my head. I’m sorry if it’s hard to read I’m tired

I made some terrible financial decisions and I feel the anxiety consistently so no need for the shame. Just trying to rectify it and move towards a brighter future. I've paid off one of my credit cards and gotten rid of them, haven't used any of the others in 3 months. Recently started saving 20% of my income to a savings account for an emergency fund and using the remainder of my income to pay down credit card debt with the snowball method. I'm at 97% utilization rate on those cards and credit score is at 630~ so not worth consolidation loans.
Aged 26, single, no kids, don't own any assets.
Income After Tax & Health Insurance: $4,976/mo
Rent: $850/Mo
Utilities: $200/mo
Additional Living Expenses (Laundry, groceries, phone, etc): $450/mo
IRA: $732
Savings: $2,600
Credit Card Debt: $13,000 total of 5 cards all around 20%+ interest rates
Now facing $8k in taxes I need to put on a payment plan to pay.
I've cut the poor habits that got me into this position and feel like I'm in on a better track than even 6 months ago but feels like such an uphill battle I want to make sure I'm doing it it the most effective way. Is part time service work even worth it compared to maybe getting a side gig in sales? I don't have a car so additional income sources would primarily need to be WFH.
What would you recommend the next few steps should be to tackle this debt so I can begin to finally invest and build a retirement?

I'm preparing for housing drama, and I'm looking for insight. I've lived in an RSO back house for five years in LA. Technically, I am a month-to-month sub-leaser. The primary resident, the person I rent from, lives in SF. He has just surrendered his tenancy after the LL had him followed by a private investigator to prove that he no longer resides in the house where I live. The pertinent information is as follows:

• The landlord knows I live here alone, and that I have for years
  • I have text messages proving this, including repair requests
• I pay rent to the primary tenant and utilities directly the utility providers, monthly
• The primary resident just sent me a notice about him surrendering his tenancy
• Covid protections are over

I'm trying to figure out if I have any rights. What should I expect, next? How can I prepare? I haven't received any formal eviction paperwork, yet.
Thanks.

https://imgur.com/a/l82ZzJZ and https://imgur.com/a/YKQOJEc - grew up in Mississippi
He was my maternal grandfather.
My mother has always suggested that he was abusive when she was a child (that he was physically abusive toward my mother and her older sister, used to beat them - my mother showed me a bruise when I was little.) He apparently once slapped my brother for standing in front of the television set whilst he was watching it, and then apologized. However, he never did hit me, and never hit my brother again.
He had mentioned being a news reporter when my mother was young, as had my mother. I remember she suggested that the family had money sometimes, and other times did not have much. She had mentioned that apparently, he and my grandma actually had a dynamic that was fairly unusual for the 1970s and 1980s wherein my grandfather stayed home with my mother whilst my grandma worked (for some period of time, I had assumed this was when my mom was in elementary school.)
I remember that he and my grandmother lost the lovely home they’d had as they failed to pay something (I can’t quite remember what.) I remember that during the last few years of my grandmother’s life, they were living from hotel to hotel. My mother blamed my grandfather for stressing my grandmother out (he honestly most likely did.)
He apparently had cancer, and knew that he did, but didn’t see a doctor until he was in the very late stages of it due to not liking actually seeing the doctor (my mother mentioned he used to give her herbs or make her take them when she was sick when she was a child - I don’t know whether or not she and my aunt saw the doctor consistently, but I know that my mother really doesn’t like going to the doctors.)
I remember that when I was maybe in late elementary school or middle school, he actually acknowledged in conversation that my mother had not turned out well, and that he played a part in this. However, he did not say this like he cared, or like he felt very guilty about it - he simply said this as though he were stating a fact (and indeed, my mother did not turn out well. I had the impression that he was referring both to her mental health/general disposition, and most likely her weight too - she became overweight like my grandmother due to bad eating habits, although he never actually left her in spite of this fact.)
He apparently performed “reverse colorism” (we are black, and the way he was treated during Jim Crow contributed to his problems) and was harder on my aunt because she was lighter between the two (he apparently once punched her in the face.)
I remember that he did not strike me as being “dumb” in spite of the fact that he did not ultimately end up in a good position in life (when he and grandma had to go from hotel to hotel after they were out of their home, mom wouldn’t let them stay because she feared he would argue with our building manager and get us all put out, or hit one of us.) I remember he tended to sound like he knew what he was talking about or had an understanding of what he was talking about. He spent years trying to get the house back or saying he was in court and that they would (but no one in the family really thought this would happen, and it didn’t.)
Not terribly long before he passed away, I remember that he was staying in a nicer place (he was a veteran, so he was able to receive military benefits.)
Other than not getting treatment for cancer even though he knew/suspected he had it, he did take good care of his health. He was skinnier than my grandmother by the time that they were old, and was not bad looking for a man in his age group (I’ve been told he looked like Morgan Freeman, and he was apparently told this before, too.)
He and my grandmother married in spite of the fact that my grandmother’s mother disapproved of him.
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So I live and work in Arlington making $97k. But I received an offer with the Federal government in DC making around the 80% MFI range. Looking to take the job and pay cut for a change in industry. Would I still be eligible for the IZ program (buy a condo)? Was confused as they required tax returns and such. Plan to live in the area basically forever and was looking to purchase a unit outright as if my income goes over the limits, I still own my house.

I am looking for a first car, something fun and reliable. Budget around 15000 CAD (11000 USD). On facebook marketplace there is a 2012 golf gti with 130000 kilometres on it for 14000$ CAD. Clean title and looks like it’s in great condition. I am a little concerned because this vehicle has been for sale for months, now a days if there is a good deal it’s gone within days. Please let me know what I should do. Thanks

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So my Fiancee BP1 is off of her psych med Vraylar. Today will be day 3 and her Dr appointment is Friday and no pharmacies carry the script in house as its an $1800 uncommonly new antipsychotic.
Usually she doesnt snap at me or get angry without the Vraylar, usually that only happens when theres a lapse in depokote, but thankfully we have that up the ass as she would 100% need immediate psych treatment and heavy sedation without that
But she snapped at me and twisted everything little thing I said last night and it was only a few damn sentence over 6 hours
And its all my fault because I manage her meds at least according to her. Well yes I manage the meds because if I didnt they would not get taken and appointments would never be made. She said if she was handling it shed get a "bridge script" from the pharmacy in lieu of a real one from the dr which the appointment isnt until Friday. I told her 4 days before they ran out that 1 I didn't know how to ask about that as the last time there was an issue with Vraylar our pharmacy told me that they needed the DR approval and I had already had the pharmacy call her DR to renew the script before it ran out. We use CVS and you can request that they automatically call the DR on your behalf for a new script request. And the DR just never got back to them. So if she thinks she could have done it herself she should have. She had all the info.
Now on top of this in January she came back from visiting her mother and since its far away and she cant drive long distances alone she had a friend drive with her. This friend was supposed to stay a few days and go home, but the day they arfived her friend got a text saying she was being kicked out. 3 months later that friend is still living with us and she sees my fiance as mom as theres a 17 year age gap. Oh and this 26 year old has the intellect of a high-schooler and the emotional intelligence of a kindergartener.
So not only am I dealing with my fiancee which honestly in a vacuum is second nature at this point, but this new element is wearing me down and I told her that I would the first day we found out her friend had no where to go. But she doesn't understand that even though I am not the one dealing or interacting with her friend I am responsible financially and have extra stress from the fact that even though she loves this person like a daughter it stresses her out at times and makes her illness worse which again all falls to me. She cant see that her taking on too much doesnt just effect her, but me equally if not more so because I didn't choose this it was chosen for me.
And then in february we all got covid and she has COPD and it was bad, but ya know what it was kinda a repreve because even if she was unmedicated during covid(she wasn't) when shes ill shes too sick to be angry or psychotic. But immediately after we recover she became the healthcare proxy to a friend she met online and really doesn't know all that well, so shes been stressed about that because this friend was in the ICU recently so weve been spending all of my days off since Feb 11 I think driving 4 hours and staying at hotels to visit her friend in the hospital.
Ive been working and dealing with everyone elses shit for three months when it was just supposed to be me and her and im tired. Ive tried repeatedly talking to her about this over the course of all of it and she doesn't understand or care, cause if she did she wouldn't add all this to our lives . And im all for helping others, but not at the vost of my or my loved ones sanity. So I dont know if I dont mean shit to her or she just doesnt get it or that her need to help overrides everything because she was fully medicated the last 3 months save 2 days ago.
I haven't felt like Ive had my partner, my best friend in months and its getting to me. And I feel like shit because I promised to take care of her and right now I cant do it, I cant handle, work, her and the two other people that have been roped into our lives. But I feel helpless and trapped. Ill never leave or give up, shes the love of my life, but if I can't take care of her like she expects, which I only cant do because of shit she decided that I repeatedly told her was taking on too much, she may very well leave me. Aren't those threats so fun???

When I was 18(F) I was still in college and worked part time after class so most days I was out of the house from 5am until 9pm, during one of those days my mum had gone into my room and stole my passport and provisional driving licence to apply for 4 credit cards in my name (At the time it was only me and my mum in the house). fast forward a couple of years I had started uni and moved away I became aware of the credit cards when I had gone to apply for a phone contract and was rejected. After a credit I see four cards under my name all in arrears from when I was 18. I contacted my mum wanting an explanation she explained she did it when we was struggling financially. But that she was doing better and was paying them off. I stupidly believed her at the time and took pity on her. A few months passed and it shows she was paying them off. About 5 months after my brother (M23) moved in I decided to go and spend the weekend, whilst I was there two letters came in my name, I opened them to find two debt collection notices for unpaid credit cards. I confronted my mum who broke down in tears apologising promising to pay them blaming hard times, I collected my belongings straight away and went back to uni. I was contacted by my brother afterwards I explained that the whole situation wasn’t good and that I had come to the decision to call the police to get my mum done for identity theft and fraud. He went and told my mum what I planned to do who then freaked out and contacted me straight away freaking out down the phone promising threats of harm against herself and my brother. recently when I began to look for flats for after I finished university, every letting agency I went too refused to rent to me due my credit rating. I was convinced that enough was enough.I reported her for identity theft and fraud yesterday when my brother contacted me, he called me selfish saying I had ripped the family apart and that I had ruined his life as now he was facing having to pay for a house he couldn’t afford I should have sorted it out as a family matter instead of going to the police as now I had damaged the family and his mental health. AITA?

Schiit Asgard 2 for sale. Timestamps - https://imgur.com/a/cQoqSXp
In good condition, just don’t use it much. Will come with the power cable. Missing 2 of the 4 feet as shown in last photo. Probably stuck somewhere due to the heat this Class A amp generates.
Asking $115 shipped and inclusive of PP G&S.

please read my first post to experience the full nightmare
I decided to let MIL come to the house one day when she was done work so she’d by helping 2 hours tops. I thought this would be a good trial run to see if she’d actually be helpful or not. Lord have mercy.
To start, I have taken the week off to do repairs, paint the house and get it ready for move in on Saturday. My boyfriend has not and has been coming after work which isn’t worst case scenario because he’s done at 2:30. During the day I have had my dad help me. My dad is a professional contractor so he has been amazing guiding me in these things I’ve never done before. We’ve been doing things diligently and have been doing things right so we aren’t cutting corners and doing shitty work.
I kid you not that MIL was a freaking disaster. She brought over some of my boyfriend’s stuff without even asking us first. There’s no room in the house for things right now. We need space to renovate! She brought a change of clothes instead of just showing up in her painting clothes. She spent like 20 minutes talking to my dad to find out what he wanted done because my dad needed to leave so was leaving me alone with them. As soon as my dad left she was a nightmare. She didn’t even do half of what my dad asked us to do. I needed help cutting paint in rooms, I was to do bottoms, her tops and she ditched the fucking project to go wander around the house and move things around and throw stuff out without even asking. She was putting light fixtures in the tub, like wtf do not damage my tub. She broke a tile on the stairs and said “oops sorry”. And when she came back she said her paint was all clumpy and needed more paint. I told her there would be a film on top if it dried and she continued to argue with me about it. So I stuck my finger in the paint and showed her it was still fine and said “use it, it’s fine, we can’t be wasting paint it’s too expensive” and separated myself. My boyfriend then said we’re both hard headed since we’re not agreeing on things. She didn’t do half of what we asked and did stuff that didn’t need to be done, like clean the floors and assemble a piece of furniture I didn’t want assembled and dented the walls moving all the pieces. She even painted a wall I told her not to paint because it was going to be a different colour. She also wouldn’t leave and I had been there since 9am and wanted to go home so I went up to my boyfriend and said “is this wrapping up soon because I want to go home it’s 8:15pm” he then told his mom to not start anything new and she said “but why”. She was never going to leave. The place looked like a bomb went off solely because of her. My dad will be pissed when he sees what she did. When I was putting brushes in plastic bags for the next day she kept handing me drop sheets to shake out outside. Like can you not see I’m doing something?? Also ask your husband who’s standing there with his hands in his pockets to do it. Should mention he came too to change light fixtures (that she bought even more of without asking) without tools and just snooped through all my dads tools he left without asking. That’s why I felt I couldn’t leave til they did, I do not trust anything left alone with them. I’m just so mad that she respected my dad enough to listen to him but completely ignore everything I say when NEWS FLASH: I’ve been doing all the work thus far. BACK THE FUCK OFF. There’s so many other annoying things she did in the span of 2 hours but these were just the highlights.
I am so beyond peeved at this whole scenario. How do I tell her she’s “fired”?

When you dry-clean your clothes, they may turn out better than they should. This can happen for many other reasons, including relocation, job loss, forgetfulness, or divorce. Some of the abandoned assets reportedly cost the dry cleaning industry 2% of its annual sales.
Luckily, there are specific steps you can take to get your clothes back. Your clothes are often specially sorted and labelled by each dry cleaner. To correctly track the process, each garment is assigned a number. Each garment has a unique identification number that is sewn in and stays there through the wash. Dry cleaners carefully inspect each garment before starting the wash process in London.
They look for tears, loose buttons, and missing buttons. A solvent is used in dry cleaning. To dissolve other molecules, chemicals are called solvents. Although not water-based, some solvents are silicone based or organic. The detergent used for dry cleaning is called perchloroethylene (Per).
Dry cleaning is different from regular washing. We use solvents that do not damage sensitive materials. The equipment used for dry cleaning is also similar to what you have at home.
Despite this, dry cleaners have extensive training and years of experience in the industry. Organisations such as the Dry-cleaning and Laundry Institute also offer vocational training.

A handyman was doing some work at my house that included fixing up a wall in a room that's about to be my daughter's nursery. He sprayed that orange peel wall texture on the wall.
A little bit got on the floor and some furniture. Not enough to notice unless you're really looking for it, but my concern is whether there's any danger since I can't paint over it on the furniture and floor, unlike how I can seal in the texture spray by painting the wall. I tried scraping it off but can't seem to get all of it.
The bottle has all these warnings on it about breathing it in or touching it, but I'm hoping since it's already sprayed and it's a small amount, it won't cause any harm if left unpainted, even for a baby?

LPI (LP Information)' newest research report, the “Hydrogen for Fuel Cells Industry Forecast” looks at past sales and reviews total world Hydrogen for Fuel Cells sales in 2022, providing a comprehensive analysis by region and market sector of projected Hydrogen for Fuel Cells sales for 2023 through 2029. With Hydrogen for Fuel Cells sales broken down by region, market sector and sub-sector, this report provides a detailed analysis in US$ millions of the world Hydrogen for Fuel Cells industry.
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The main participants
Linde Group
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Grand Theft Auto V is still going strong nearly eight years after it first debuted on the PlayStation 3 and Xbox 360 (remember those?), followed by a slightly newer re-release on Windows PCs and the the PS4 and Xbox One. To date, publisher Take-Two Interactive has sold over 150 million copies of GTA V on various platforms.
The publisher revealed the impressive sales stat as part of its earnings report for its fiscal first quarter of 2022. Looking at the data from the previous quarter, it means T2 sold an additional 5 million copies in the past three months. Not too shabby, given that GTA V is far from a new game at this point. That is not the end of it, either.
T2 plans to launch an "expanded and enhanced version" for the latest generation game consoles, those being the PlayStation 5 and Xbox Series X/S, on November 11, 2021. Developer Rockstar Games had previously said the updated version will bring "new features and more" to the table, but the details are still largely a mystery.
"The new generation versions of GTAV will feature a range of technical improvements, visual upgrades and performance enhancements to take full advantage of the latest hardware, making the game more beautiful and more responsive than ever," Rockstar Games said last year.
We presume the retooled version of GTA V will tap into the fast storage capabilities of modern consoles, to drastically reduce game load times. It will also leverage the newer hardware in the latest gen consoles, namely the custom SoC based on AMD's Zen 2 CPU cores and RDNA 2 graphics.

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Me [19f] and my ex [20m] had been dating for nearly 7 years . We got together at 13/14 and the early years of our relationship were nothing but pure bliss. We were often referred to as “end game” and our peers, family and even teachers would often command us for being able to maintain such a solid and consistent relationship at our young age especially in todays day and age. Going to the same school, having the same friend group and sharing the same hobbies were in my opinion, the things that attributed to our relationship being able to last for so long. Though young and naive , him and I would always express how we felt like God brought us together and that our relationship was uniquely important. We would spend all night chatting and pouring our hearts out , we went on adventures and dates and he knew that ANYTIME he needed ANYTHING I was a phone all away . I would do anything to see him smile and I would give my life if that ment that he would survive. I wasn’t only I love I genuinely felt obsessed with him. As we got older , our relationship began to change and his eyes started to wander . Social media came into play and hormones began to rage more than ever . Eventually he ended up cheating on me with someone he claimed to be “just a friend” which ended up shattering my heart and our relationship. In an effort to convince me otherwise , he got down on his knees and started to cry like I had never seen before and kept repeating that “he only loved me” blah blah blah . We broke up for a few months after I found out but ended up getting back together soon after. Ever since , he would “conveniently” end up in situations where he would have to work with her or was around her. He’d constantly make me feel bad to doubting his loyalty even after he cheated on me after being together for so long . We would constantly argue over him adding her back on social media after swearing that he would never or him texting his sister asking about her and her family. I always felt as though I was the side chick in my own relationship. About a year after he cheated , his childhood best friend [17m] , which he still was extremely close with , got into a tragic accident while on his way home from school . An ambulance hit him and rolled over his body and he died on impact. The news absolutely destroyed my boyfriend and our school. The night of the accident my boyfriend laid up all night crying and pacing up and down . The days following the accident were extremely tough for my boyfriend and he spent hours trying to rationalize his best friends death through many hours of tears. My heart broke for him and his classmates, as his best friend was in his class. The night of the viewing came and my boyfriend attended without me. One of my friends texted me during the viewing and told me that the girl that he had cheated on me with was crying and he went over to hug her . Apparently they were sobbing and embracing each other for a good 10 minutes, he wiped her tears and rubbed her back and vice versa. Though in hindsight , the embrace was justified being that they were both grieving a good friend , the news infuriated me and I felt like I needed to talk to him when he got home . I expressed how the embrace made me feel uneasy and uncomfortable and how I felt as though many other people could’ve comforted her ie her close girlfriends and parents so why did he have to ? Again he put on a whole performance and cried and begged me to just relax because although he cheated they were “just friends” and that the hug meant nothing. Given the circumstances I decided to leave it alone and believe him. I still felt uneasy about the funeral the next day but I shut my feelings off and focused on the real matter at hand ; my boyfriend about to burry his best friend in less than 12 hours. He did assure me that he would stay far away from her at the funeral. The day of the funeral came and I spent the entire morning praying with my boyfriend, wiping his tears and trying to do all that I can to make him happy. I had brought breakfast and hot coco to his house and even ironed his tux for him . I did not go to the funeral myself because I struggle with extreme social anxiety but I was going to watch the funeral online . My boyfriend understood and told me that he appreciated my efforts to support him even though I wouldn’t be there in person. He left and I went back home so that I could watch the funeral . The funeral was beautiful but the entire time I couldn’t stop worrying about him and her. I tried to pan the audience and hoped that the camera would glance over to where he was seated but it didn’t . Finally , 30 minutes before it ended I spotted him on the camera . Seated right next to her … with his arm around her I quickly texted him a long and detailed message with very colorful language. I blew up his phone and threaten to leave him if he didn’t move away from her . He ignored my texts all day and I continued to curse him out and call him constantly. When he got home he said that I could go to hell and told me that I was an ass for blowing up at him on the day of his best friends funeral . We dated for a couple more years and he continued to “conveniently” be around her and every time I would confront him he would tell me to get over it and bring up how I wasn’t there for him on the day of the funeral while she was… needless to say we broke up . But still to this day I wonder AITAH for starting an argument on that day ?