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I’ve coasted through life just learning the very basics of whatever pertained to my personal life and business. I’m at a point where I want to educate myself to the best of my abilities on everything conducive to growth and success in my financial future. Of course everyone is on different paths but I’m curious what people find to be super important to have a firm grasp on.

I'm a 2020 batch BE CSE graduate. I graduated from a tier 4 local college here. I worked as an Android developer for 8 months till I got covid. From 2021 Jan till now, I've been preparing for various other Govt exams from State PSC to RBI etc. I really hoped that I would clear the dec exams but feel short of a few marks, the next state PSC exam is for the next year, I can't sit idle at home.I tried for various jobs but never got a call back ( in the last couple of months). I am good in Java but not that good in programming ( I can only solve 15% of Medium Level Leetcode problems at best and have not that good in using trees, graphs or complex DS
I have no time or interest to brush my programming skills as well not interested in learning full stack from scratch, hence I'm planning to take a course on Networking or Testing. The company that offers the course say it is a 2 month course and I can get placements through them. Can you please suggest me some other way to get a good job with a package anything beyond 20K ( i need at least 20K for travel, food and paying coaching class fee).
I am fairly good in Java ( completed 60% of Java a complete edition page by page) and have knowledge and experience in front end designing (built basic websites for my friends businesses last year using Netlify, Heorku and React Templates from net). Can i land a job with these skills anytime soon? What should I learn? What should I be learning SQL, testing or should stick to seeking java developer jobs only ? Just to say where I stand - I had partially cleared the Zoho L3 twice last year but never proceeded further as I got only probation offer but was never called for L4. I am extremely good at Quants for a tech job, English and communication are okayish at best.

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Okay, so I have taken I feel like, almost every single mbti test out there. Okay, of course not every one but it’s been a lot. Michael Caloz, keys2cognition, sakinorva, and a bunch of others. The main ones I get is either Entp or Enfp. Though I feel like I relate to both. Here are some things about me they may help, I know you can’t just type someone from this but some feedback may help me.
• I am pretty quiet around people I don’t know that much, but I am very talkative around people I am very close to and comfortable with.
• I don’t like talking on the phone, I find it awkward and I feel like I sound bothered so I prefer text. Even with my closest friend, I try to engage in FaceTime but I find myself being quiet and nervous.
• When I was a kid I was very talkative in school but quiet anywhere else. Now that I have grown up I am quiet skeptical of people.
• I know that socializing is important so I know I have to speak to others and sometimes force a smile. For example, when I’m in Uber I try my best not to seem rude and thank them after ride. I don’t actually care at all but I’ve seen others do it and I want to seem polite.
• I wouldn’t say I am a very organized person but I am also kind of organized? I know that it is better for my well-being to have my desk clean with space, because others may see my messy desk and I find that underwhelming. Though my closet is a mess because I barely use it so, why would I care?
• I hate schedules and to-do list I am not a fan of routine at all. I even skip breakfast a lot because it gets boring. I like to try new things but I don’t like taking risk unless I am sure it will better me. If I do try something new I make sure it has a good reason.
• I enjoy debating, when I was younger I liked to argue just so I could be right. Now since I’m older, I just do it because it’s fun, and I can understand how the person works and gain more insight.

• When I was young I didn’t like conflict, it made me nervous but I always found myself in it and in it passionately. Now, I don’t care, I say what I feel needs to be said.
  
• I know how to give my friend or even a stranger advice if they need help. Someone venting to me isn’t a problem because I don’t get attached so it doesn’t emotionally affect me. I just know that giving them the right advice, logic and empathy is right.
  
• I don’t care about pleasing others, but I hold my self to high standards. I feel the need to present myself better than I actually am because I want some validation? I don’t understand why because I usually can rub people the wrong way at times and it doesn’t bother me.
  
• I care about people , well the ones I am close to. I think deeply about the world, and what the meaning is. I find myself saying life is stupid because one day we will all be forgotten and we are only memories.
  

I am also very analytical and skeptical, but that’s because of maturity I believe so. I actually wish I would let loose more.

• I also love daydreaming, writing, and being creative. I long having someone that truly understands me. I feel misunderstood in life and feel as if no one will understand who I truly am. I barely understand myself.

Thanks for reading this and taking time out of your day. also I know about cognitive functions but not sure how to type myself with it? When I tried I got either enfp or entp as well.

Hello all!
probability has always been a tricky concept for me. Hoping someone in this subreddit can help me determine something, if able.
I was curious about a particular man in crypto currency, Yonatan Sompolionsky. Some claim he might be Satoshi Nakamoto (the creator of bitcoin, who disappeared shortly after creating it, and has gone silent since. He/she or possibly they, are unknown to this date). Yonatan created a project called Kaspa that started development in 2013 that utilizes much of the same tech that bitcoin does, but greatly improves on BTC speed and thus, its scalability. It's basically what BTC would have been if the creator had 5 years worth of hindsight.
Now here's what I find interesting. His name, Yonatan Sompolinsky. Which, you can see is actually a very close anagram of Satoshi Nakamoto. It's definitely not perfect, but minus the H, Satoshi's name can be spelled with letters from Yonatan's name.
Is there a way to determine how likely/unlikely it would be that this is coincidental? To me, it just seems like that would be a VERY big coincidence. But maybe its not as crazy as it sounds. For not just anyone, but someone that is in the same field, and has similar expertise to whoever Satoshi was. Also his Twitter was created the very month Satoshi vanished from public in 2013. And finally, his status message on Twitter says, among other things: "A real imposter" - which could mean anything of course.
Also note that there are 1000s of crypto projects, with many sectors, and varying projects designed to do different things. Only a small handful has endeavoured to be a better BTC, as it is difficult to achieve. Kaspa, in mine and many other opinions, is the best reiteration of Bitcoin. Who else would be better to improve upon BTC but its creator?
I know you can't draw stats or odds from some of this info. But based on all this, namely the anagram, I'm wondering if any stat pros can share their opinion on the likelihood of this being a coincidence, or, of Yonatan possibly being Satoshi. Without the anagram I'd dismiss the idea completely, but that seems very peculiar to me. The probability subreddit didn't seem to be as geared towards questions like this, so I thought this would be a better spot to ask. Thanks for your time.

Today my dad complained to me about how bad trans people are, he had been reading up on the Nashville incident of recent days and decided he would tell me all his thoughts on the LGBT community. I had never seen this side of him before, before now my dad was my hero, my role model and I love him so much. But the things he said to me today not knowing that I myself am trans, made me sick to my stomach. When he left my room I immediately started crying. I'm not even mad at him I'm just so upset that I can't be the kid he wants no matter how much I try to tell myself that he would accept me, I can't stand the thought of disappointing him. My friends have told me that when I transition I should cut ties with him but I could never do that he's my best friend I love him so much. I don't know what to do with myself.

Me [19f] and my ex [20m] had been dating for nearly 7 years . We got together at 13/14 and the early years of our relationship were nothing but pure bliss. We were often referred to as “end game” and our peers, family and even teachers would often command us for being able to maintain such a solid and consistent relationship at our young age especially in todays day and age. Going to the same school, having the same friend group and sharing the same hobbies were in my opinion, the things that attributed to our relationship being able to last for so long. Though young and naive , him and I would always express how we felt like God brought us together and that our relationship was uniquely important. We would spend all night chatting and pouring our hearts out , we went on adventures and dates and he knew that ANYTIME he needed ANYTHING I was a phone all away . I would do anything to see him smile and I would give my life if that ment that he would survive. I wasn’t only I love I genuinely felt obsessed with him. As we got older , our relationship began to change and his eyes started to wander . Social media came into play and hormones began to rage more than ever . Eventually he ended up cheating on me with someone he claimed to be “just a friend” which ended up shattering my heart and our relationship. In an effort to convince me otherwise , he got down on his knees and started to cry like I had never seen before and kept repeating that “he only loved me” blah blah blah . We broke up for a few months after I found out but ended up getting back together soon after. Ever since , he would “conveniently” end up in situations where he would have to work with her or was around her. He’d constantly make me feel bad to doubting his loyalty even after he cheated on me after being together for so long . We would constantly argue over him adding her back on social media after swearing that he would never or him texting his sister asking about her and her family. I always felt as though I was the side chick in my own relationship. About a year after he cheated , his childhood best friend [17m] , which he still was extremely close with , got into a tragic accident while on his way home from school . An ambulance hit him and rolled over his body and he died on impact. The news absolutely destroyed my boyfriend and our school. The night of the accident my boyfriend laid up all night crying and pacing up and down . The days following the accident were extremely tough for my boyfriend and he spent hours trying to rationalize his best friends death through many hours of tears. My heart broke for him and his classmates, as his best friend was in his class. The night of the viewing came and my boyfriend attended without me. One of my friends texted me during the viewing and told me that the girl that he had cheated on me with was crying and he went over to hug her . Apparently they were sobbing and embracing each other for a good 10 minutes, he wiped her tears and rubbed her back and vice versa. Though in hindsight , the embrace was justified being that they were both grieving a good friend , the news infuriated me and I felt like I needed to talk to him when he got home . I expressed how the embrace made me feel uneasy and uncomfortable and how I felt as though many other people could’ve comforted her ie her close girlfriends and parents so why did he have to ? Again he put on a whole performance and cried and begged me to just relax because although he cheated they were “just friends” and that the hug meant nothing. Given the circumstances I decided to leave it alone and believe him. I still felt uneasy about the funeral the next day but I shut my feelings off and focused on the real matter at hand ; my boyfriend about to burry his best friend in less than 12 hours. He did assure me that he would stay far away from her at the funeral. The day of the funeral came and I spent the entire morning praying with my boyfriend, wiping his tears and trying to do all that I can to make him happy. I had brought breakfast and hot coco to his house and even ironed his tux for him . I did not go to the funeral myself because I struggle with extreme social anxiety but I was going to watch the funeral online . My boyfriend understood and told me that he appreciated my efforts to support him even though I wouldn’t be there in person. He left and I went back home so that I could watch the funeral . The funeral was beautiful but the entire time I couldn’t stop worrying about him and her. I tried to pan the audience and hoped that the camera would glance over to where he was seated but it didn’t . Finally , 30 minutes before it ended I spotted him on the camera . Seated right next to her … with his arm around her I quickly texted him a long and detailed message with very colorful language. I blew up his phone and threaten to leave him if he didn’t move away from her . He ignored my texts all day and I continued to curse him out and call him constantly. When he got home he said that I could go to hell and told me that I was an ass for blowing up at him on the day of his best friends funeral . We dated for a couple more years and he continued to “conveniently” be around her and every time I would confront him he would tell me to get over it and bring up how I wasn’t there for him on the day of the funeral while she was… needless to say we broke up . But still to this day I wonder AITAH for starting an argument on that day ?

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I’m going to give a cluster f#ck of a back story. Keep in mind all this is in my point of view and please don’t bash my husband I don’t think he’s done anything wrong.
My husband and I met on October 6, 2021. He was my manager at McDonald’s, and for some reason I always felt drawn to him he was so sure of himself so masculine. When I first met him he introduced himself as gay and as we got to know each other I just felt like I knew him my entire life, he felt like my missing piece.
Very quickly, I realized I was starting to catch feelings for him, because of how close we have gotten. I never told anyone my whole truth except for him. He made me feel so safe, like I could be my whole self. What attracted me to him is he didn’t have fragile masculinity he wasn’t afraid to wear make up or put on a dress I just loved that he can be himself. I knew he was gay, so I really didn’t let my feelings go further.
After I realized I had feelings for him, he told me he had feelings for me, which confused me because I thought he was gay. We talked about it, and he told me that he was actually bisexual, but he just prefers men over women so he tells people he is gay. We acknowledge that we had feelings for each other, but we didn’t really do anything about it except for hanging out every single day.
One day when I was laying across his bed he came into the room from the kitchen and looked at me and smiled. I was laying across his bed with my head hanging off the side and he bent down and kissed me. The kiss only lasted a few seconds, but it felt like hours I felt like the whole world stopped spinning, and in that moment it was like he was my everything and I couldn’t breathe without him. When we stopped kissing and he told me I was his girlfriend and I loved that he didn’t ask. It made me feel like he knew exactly what he wanted and what he wanted was me. (Quick pause this takes place October 23, 2021)
Fast forward a couple days and I lose my virginity to him. As I am looking back at the dates, things did move really fast between us. Fast forward a couple weeks he introduced me to his mom fast forward another week he proposed, and we went to the courthouse and got married. (Please don’t judge me this takes place November 30, 2021)
We promise to continue getting to know each other for the rest of our lives and vowed to always be honest with each other and be best friends before anything. If we can’t talk to each other, how are we going to spend the rest of our lives with each other?
I moved in with him, had to quit my job for personal reasons. he was very supportive of everything. The first few months of our marriage everything was perfect. I still hadn’t found a job but he told me he didn’t want me too so I didn’t. I was a housewife. I’m not gonna lie. I hated it because I was always stuck at home I hated that he took care of all the bills by himself. I felt like a burden.
He started getting exhausted and frustrated, and then distant. We talked about it, and he said it was starting to get hard for him to take care of all the bills by himself, but because this is what he wanted, he didn’t know how to tell me. I confessed the only part of being a housewife I enjoyed was making him dinner. After we talked, I got a part-time job very close to home and everything was fine again. Since then, we have always communicated with each other and told each other how we were feeling.
A few months go by and I notice somethings different. I bring it up to him but he says he’s not ready to talk about it yet. When he comes to me, he tells me he thinks he might be poly. He didn’t want to be with any other woman except for me but he wanted to be with men. We talked about it for weeks. I felt so insecure and I didn’t understand why I felt this way. I said that I was ok with him being poly but he didn’t believe me so he dropped it. I feel like such a terrible person, but I was relieved. I don’t think I was ready for that conversation. I search for him for so long and I just wanted him all to myself. I didn’t want to share.
After about a month or two, I bring it up again. I’ve been chewing on it in the back of my mind for so long. It didn’t sit right with me that he was repressing himself so I forced myself to be ok with it and I repressed my feelings about it. He still didn’t believe me and didn’t talk about it.
After a while, I really did start being ok with it but I was a little jealous I was jealous of anyone who got his attention. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. After that, I got really clingy towards him. He was my everything. I just wanted him and only him I feel like he was mine and only mine.
Over the course of five months giver or take I had two more miscarriages. It hurt really bad I didn’t understand why my body continued to fail me. I was happy for my friends when they got pregnant but still jealous because I felt like that should be me. I started getting jealous of anyone who had his attention because I wanted him all to myself, and I was afraid to lose him to.
I realize this was toxic so I told him how I had been feeling. After some therapy and long deep conversations with him, I realized I was having ownership issues. I am deeply ashamed of this but I felt like since he was my husband that meant he was my property. It’s sad I needed help realizing this, but he’s his own person. He is allowed to have his own friends he’s allowed to spend time with other people. Just because we are married does not mean we belong to each other. Our marriage is a choice that we make every single day. We are choosing to live our lives with each other. That doesn’t mean we share one life.
It was really hard for me to except that for some reason. After that, I was truly ok with him being poly not because I needed to be ok with it but because he’s his own person and I love him therefore, I am choosing to love every single thing about him. Just as I had fell in love with him when he was gay I am still in love with him maybe even more now that he’s poly.
We have currently been married for a little over a year I fall in love with him more and more each day. I’m slowly introducing him to my family, because they are crazy and I don’t really want them in my life but he wanted to meet them. Marriage has its ups and downs as you can tell we have had many. During this time, we also moved to an entirely different state it’s been a crazy adventure, but we’re having fun.
Now that you have this long ass backstory let’s get into it. We just got over a dry spell and during that dry spell, I invaded his privacy. I am deeply ashamed of it and I’m hating the person I reverted back to. I went through his phone and found out he has slept with five people since the first time he told me he was poly. Though I don’t consider this cheating. I was still a little hurt by it.
I don’t want to tell him what I did, but I need to. I vowed to him to always be honest and I intend on keeping my promise. I invaded his privacy therefore, breaking his trust. How do I ask for his forgiveness? Do I even deserve it?

aka your children the classes of 24, 25, 26, and onward!
We can't believe that the year is already drawing to a close, and that you're already facing the biggest milestone in high school, with only a few days left of decisions. It's been nervewracking watching you, knowing that our turn is coming while people like you who we look up to and are cracked in our eyes are getting turned down left and right.
But no matter what happens as March draws to a close, we want you to know that we are all behind you. As much as we're excited for you, it truly makes us sad that you're leaving us so soon. Thank you for all of your support, your care, and your advice. Thank you for laughing at that cringy joke even though it was horrid. Thank you for giving us tips when we landed on that bad class and teacher. Thank you for adopting us. Thank you for being the most ingenious peers, the most caring friends, and the best family - you truly are an inspiration to all of us that you're leaving behind. How dare you be such amazing people and then have the audacity to leave us after such a short time?!
So if you are to get some Very Important Decisions these next few days, know that we will have your back no matter what happens - we'll celebrate and scream with you if your dreams come true, or likewise, we will hug you and cry with you if the worst happens. It doesn't matter; we want to take care of you like you took care of us. Keep your chin up, and be proud of all that you've left on our high school - including us!
For my fellow non-seniors reading this, enjoy the time you have left with your favorite seniors and let them know that you are endlessly proud of them.
TLDR; we love you and are so proud of you seniors <3

Hey, so working with EVA foam for the first time. So far I have

• Cut my EVA foam to size
• Attached the pieces with Contact Cement
• Sanded down the pieces into a curved shaped like I want
• Plastidipped the piece with 3 coats of plastidip spray

This is where I'm a little lost. Most of the advice I have found online says this is the best way to prep for hand painting or spray painting with acrylic. But, I'm finding that this takes a TON of coats to get even a color like red to be correct on my test piece. I would assume white is out of the question.
Should I be spraying the plastidip with a primer paint first before doing acrylic? I kinda thought that that plastidip advice was kind the "primer" to make the EVA foam paintable but I guess the rubber is not very absorbent of my paints at all (which in hindsight I should have expected). Did I find bad advice online? How can I save this? My main peace is still untouched with plastidip. I made a test piece to follow along at each stage and the acrylic paint is taking 5+ coats to look even close to the red color I want.

I just read this story and automatically jumped to imagining John tell it in his west. There are some twists, including thinking those charged with the murders were wrongfully convicted (not mentioned in this link, but elsewhere). Also, this writer throws in a supernatural twist with Karen and Glenda, two apparent psychics that gave detectives their best leads via remote viewing and spirit channelling, although I’m not sure if that’s made up or not by this writer because I couldn’t find anything else on the two women.
https://truecrimedetective.co.uk/a-deadly-case-of-mistaken-identity-the-slaughter-at-lake-waco-a2da6dde2416

THE SECRETS OF A GOOD LIFE!!!
In my 60 years of a blessed life , I would like to share the few things I know that sure have worked for me, and helped me help myself when I didn't think it was possible. I hope you find a crumb in here somewhere that nourishes your soul. Now
I didn't write all this, a lot but mostly I just compiled and saved all the best advice I have heard from some of the wisest people I know, simplified it into understandable English and I think it can apply to just about everyone. This message does not care what color you are, where you come from, or who's your God, or political party affiliation. It all just makes good sense to me.
So let's get Started...
Start spending time with the right people. – These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways. They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally.
Start facing your problems head on. – It isn’t your problems that define you, but how you react to them and recover from them. Problems will not disappear unless you take action. Do what you can, when you can, and acknowledge what you’ve done. It’s all about taking baby steps in the right direction, inch by inch. These inches count, they add up to yards and miles in the long run.
Start being honest with yourself about everything. – Be honest about what’s right, as well as what needs to be changed. Be honest about what you want to achieve and who you want to become. Be honest with every aspect of your life, always. Because you are the one person you can forever count on. Search your soul, for the truth, so that you truly know who you are. Once you do, you’ll have a better understanding of where you are now and how you got here, and you’ll be better equipped to identify where you want to go and how to get there.
Start making your own happiness a priority. – Your needs matter. If you don’t value yourself, look out for yourself, and stick up for yourself, you’re sabotaging yourself. Remember, it IS possible to take care of your own needs while simultaneously caring for those around you. And once your needs are met, you will likely be far more capable of helping those who need you most.
Start being yourself, genuinely and proudly. – Trying to be anyone else is a waste of the person you are. Be yourself. Embrace that individual inside you that has ideas, strengths and beauty like no one else. Be the person you know yourself to be – the best version of you – on your terms. Above all, be true to YOU, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.
Start noticing and living in the present. – Right now is a miracle. Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. So stop thinking about how great things will be in the future. Stop dwelling on what did or didn’t happen in the past. Learn to be in the ‘here and now’ and experience life as it’s happening. Appreciate the world for the beauty that it holds, right now.
Start valuing the lessons your mistakes teach you. – Mistakes are okay; they’re the stepping stones of progress. If you’re not failing from time to time, you’re not trying hard enough and you’re not learning. Take risks, stumble, fall, and then get up and try again. Appreciate that you are pushing yourself, learning, growing and improving. Significant achievements are almost invariably realized at the end of a long road of failures. One of the ‘mistakes’ you fear might just be the link to your greatest achievement yet.
Start being more polite to yourself. – If you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend? The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will.
Start enjoying the things you already have. – The problem with many of us is that we think we’ll be happy when we reach a certain level in life – a level we see others operating at – your boss with her corner office, that friend of a friend who owns a mansion on the beach, etc. Unfortunately, it takes awhile before you get there, and when you get there you’ll likely have a new destination in mind. You’ll end up spending your whole life working toward something new without ever stopping to enjoy the things you have now. So take a quiet moment every morning when you first awake to appreciate where you are and what you already have.
Start creating your own happiness. – If you are waiting for someone else to make you happy, you’re missing out. Smile because you can. Choose happiness. Be the change you want to see in the world. Be happy with who you are now, and let your positivity inspire your journey into tomorrow. Happiness is often found when and where you decide to seek it. If you look for happiness within the opportunities you have, you will eventually find it. But if you constantly look for something else, unfortunately, you’ll find that too.
Start giving your ideas and dreams a chance. – In life, it’s rarely about getting a chance; it’s about taking a chance. You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work. Most of the time you just have to go for it! And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should be. Either you succeed or you learn something. Win-Win.
Start believing that you’re ready for the next step. – You are ready! Think about it. You have everything you need right now to take the next small, realistic step forward. So embrace the opportunities that come your way, and accept the challenges – they’re gifts that will help you to grow.
Start entering new relationships for the right reasons. – Enter new relationships with dependable, honest people who reflect the person you are and the person you want to be. Choose friends you are proud to know, people you admire, who show you love and respect – people who reciprocate your kindness and commitment. And pay attention to what people do, because a person’s actions are much more important than their words or how others represent them.
Start giving new people you meet a chance. – It sounds harsh, but you cannot keep every friend you’ve ever made. People and priorities change. As some relationships fade others will grow. Appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.
Start competing against an earlier version of yourself. – Be inspired by others, appreciate others, learn from others, but know that competing against them is a waste of time. You are in competition with one person and one person only – yourself. You are competing to be the best you can be. Aim to break your own personal records.
Start cheering for other people’s victories. – Start noticing what you like about others and tell them. Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those who are making progress. Cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you.
Start looking for the silver lining in tough situations. – When things are hard, and you feel down, take a few deep breaths and look for the silver lining – the small glimmers of hope. Remind yourself that you can and will grow stronger from these hard times. And remain conscious of your blessings and victories – all the things in your life that are right. Focus on what you have, not on what you haven’t.
Start forgiving yourself and others. – We’ve all been hurt by our own decisions and by others. And while the pain of these experiences is normal, sometimes it lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over and have a hard time letting go. Forgiveness is the remedy. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life.
Start helping those around you. – Care about people. Guide them if you know a better way. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you. Love and kindness beget love and kindness. And so on and so forth.
Start listening to your own inner voice. – If it helps, discuss your ideas with those closest to you, but give yourself enough room to follow your own intuition. Be true to yourself. Say what you need to say. Do what you know in your heart is right.
Start being attentive to your stress level and take short breaks. – Slow down. Breathe. Give yourself permission to pause, regroup and move forward with clarity and purpose. When you’re at your busiest, a brief recess can rejuvenate your mind and increase your productivity. These short breaks will help you regain your sanity and reflect on your recent actions so you can be sure they’re in line with your goals.
Start noticing the beauty of small moments. – Instead of waiting for the big things to happen – marriage, kids, big promotion, winning the lottery – find happiness in the small things that happen every day. Little things like having a quiet cup of coffee in the early morning, or the delicious taste and smell of a homemade meal, or the pleasure of sharing something you enjoy with someone else, or holding hands with your partner. Noticing these small pleasures on a daily basis makes a big difference in the quality of your life.
Start accepting things when they are less than perfect. – Remember, ‘perfect is the enemy of ‘good.’ One of the biggest challenges for people who want to improve themselves and improve the world is learning to accept things as they are. Sometimes it’s better to accept and appreciate the world as it is, and people as they are, rather than to trying to make everything and everyone conform to an impossible ideal. No, you shouldn’t accept a life of mediocrity, but learn to love and value things when they are less than perfect.
Start working toward your goals every single day. – Remember, the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Whatever it is you dream about, start taking small, logical steps every day to make it happen. Get out there and DO something! The harder you work the luckier you will become. While many of us decide at some point during the course of our lives that we want to answer our calling, only an astute few of us actually work on it. By ‘working on it,’ I mean consistently devoting oneself to the end result.
Start being more open about how you feel. – If you’re hurting, give yourself the necessary space and time to hurt, but be open about it. Talk to those closest to you. Tell them the truth about how you feel. Let them listen. The simple act of getting things off your chest and into the open is your first step toward feeling good again.
Start taking full accountability for your own life. – Own your choices and mistakes, and be willing to take the necessary steps to improve upon them. Either you take accountability for your life or someone else will. And when they do, you’ll become a slave to their ideas and dreams instead of a pioneer of your own. You are the only one who can directly control the outcome of your life. And no, it won’t always be easy. Every person has a stack of obstacles in front of them. But you must take accountability for your situation and overcome these obstacles. Choosing not to is choosing a lifetime of mere existence.
Start actively nurturing your most important relationships. – Bring real, honest joy into your life and the lives of those you love by simply telling them how much they mean to you on a regular basis. You can’t be everything to everyone, but you can be everything to a few people. Decide who these people are in your life and treat them like royalty. Remember, you don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of.
Start concentrating on the things you can control. – You can’t change everything, but you can always change something. Wasting your time, talent and emotional energy on things that are beyond your control is a recipe for frustration, misery and stagnation. Invest your energy in the things you can control, and act on them now.
Start focusing on the possibility of positive outcomes. – The mind must believe it CAN do something before it is capable of actually doing it. The way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful. Listen to your self-talk and replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Regardless of how a situation seems, focus on what you DO WANT to happen, and then take the next positive step forward. No, you can’t control everything that happens to you, but you can control how you react to things. Everyone’s life has positive and negative aspects – whether or not you’re happy and successful in the long run depends greatly on which aspects you focus on.
Start noticing how wealthy you are right now. – Henry David Thoreau once said, “Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” Even when times are tough, it’s always important to keep things in perspective. You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night. You didn’t go to sleep outside. You had a choice of what clothes to wear this morning. You hardly broke a sweat today. You didn’t spend a minute in fear. You have access to clean drinking water. You have access to medical care. You have access to the Internet. You can read. Some might say you are incredibly wealthy, so remember to be grateful for all the things you do have.
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