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Dogs in the Greater Toronto Area
2017.07.25 19:30 muddysneakers4 Dogs in the Greater Toronto Area
This is a subreddit community to talk about dog related information for dogs in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA). Topics include: walking routes, questions about vets and other animal related services, dog friendly attractions hotels and places, and more!
2009.09.15 23:14 Bixie Halifax
Welcome to the subreddit of Halifax Regional Municipality, Nova Scotia, Canada.
2018.01.31 01:12 Xingua92 HFXHalifax
Halifax is in Nova Scotia. Which is in Canada. Which is on Earth. Which is in Canada.
2023.03.21 12:11 jastourism01 Singapore Tour Package for Couple: The Perfect Romantic Getaway
Singapore is a popular tourist destination that offers a unique blend of cultures, modernity and natural beauty. It is a perfect place for couples looking to escape the hustle and bustle of daily life and spend quality time together. With its stunning architecture, beautiful gardens, and diverse culinary scene, Singapore has something to offer for every type of couple. Here is a guide to Singapore tour packages for couples.
Accommodation: The first thing to consider when booking a Singapore tour package for couples is accommodation. Singapore offers a wide range of accommodation options, from budget-friendly to luxury hotels and resorts. For a romantic getaway, consider staying at one of the luxurious hotels that offer stunning views of the city skyline or the sea. Some of the popular options for couples include the Marina Bay Sands, The Fullerton Bay Hotel, and the Shangri-La Hotel.
Sightseeing: Singapore has a lot to offer for couples who love sightseeing. You can start by visiting the iconic Marina Bay Sands, which is a hotel, casino, shopping mall and observation deck all in one. The view from the observation deck is breath taking, especially at night when the city is lit up. Another must-visit attraction is the Gardens by the Bay, which is a beautiful park that boasts futuristic Supertrees and a Cloud Forest. You can also visit the Singapore Flyer, which is the world's largest observation wheel and offers stunning panoramic views of the city.
Culinary Delights: Singapore is a foodie’s paradise and has a diverse culinary scene that offers a wide range of cuisines from all around the world. For couples looking for a romantic dining experience, consider dining at one of the many rooftop restaurants that offer stunning views of the city skyline. You can also explore the famous hawker centers, such as the Maxwell Food Centre or the Chinatown Complex Food Centre, which offer a variety of affordable and delicious local dishes.
Shopping: Singapore is also a shopping paradise and offers a wide range of shopping options from high-end luxury brands to budget-friendly shops. For couples looking for a shopping experience, Orchard Road is a must-visit destination. It is a famous shopping street that is lined with shopping malls and luxury boutiques. You can also visit the Bugis Street Market, which is a popular street market that offers affordable souvenirs, clothes, and accessories.
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Conclusion: Singapore is a perfect destination for couples looking for a romantic getaway. With its stunning architecture, beautiful gardens, diverse culinary scene, and excellent shopping options, Singapore has something to offer for every type of couple. By booking a Singapore tour package for couples, you can explore this beautiful city and create unforgettable memories with your loved one.
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2023.03.21 12:10 RedNUGGETLORD Are dogs naturally afraid of things like sticks or brooms?
A family friend has two dogs that are super scared of any object being in someone's hands which i chalked up to them possibly getting abused, however, recently picked up a broom to clean my dogs shit on the carpet and he hid behind my tv. Is this normal? My dog is a Keeshond if this helps at all.
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2023.03.21 12:09 pascallllllllllll i feel like all i’m capable of is being sad
I have been very sad for a long time and have never really addressed it to anyone. I’ve tried to talk to therapists, but it’s hard for me to express myself and I haven’t stuck with any of them. How I feel is hard to talk about with others, because I feel so ashamed about it. But even though it’s hard to talk about, I still really just want to feel listened to.
Life just feels so hopeless. There’s no reason for why it does. Logically I know that my life is OK and things are fine, and still I cry every day and feel so worthless. I am a full time university student and until recently I had worked two jobs. I live with my mum and I have my own money and I have a cat that I love. I am graduating with honours and I’m the first person in my family to graduate from university. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our one year anniversary. There are so many good things in my life that I can recognise, but I don’t feel any joy from them. Instead I just constantly feel so overwhelmingly sad. I cry on the commute to school and to work. I cry on walks with my dog. I cry instead of going to bed. My boyfriend knows that I feel down a lot of the time, but I haven’t told him how severe it is. I quit one of my jobs and have considered so many times dropping out of school. I do really well in school but I just hate being there. I hate being anywhere.
Sometimes there are happy moments, but they are always interrupted by my feelings. It’s like whenever I actually feel something good, my brain reminds itself that I’m just going to be sad later, and so the good stops and sadness comes back early.
I have contemplated dying in the past but never went through with it. I had one close attempt, but I got drunk first, and my family came home before I could. They joke about that now because they see it as a funny moment, and I don’t have the courage to tell them what I was planning to do. Although I haven’t told them, it still really hurts me when they laugh about it. Once I called the crisis hotline and got put on hold. I didn’t talk to anyone because I hung up.
My family has always been a very emotionally stunted family, which is why I feel it is so hard to talk. I journal a lot and express myself there, but I can’t say what I feel aloud. I have tried to, but I can only do it indirectly, and no one gets what I mean. I feel like journaling doesn’t even help because all it does is give me books and books of proof of how miserable I am. I tried for awhile to only write about good things and happy moments that I feel, but that made everything so much worse, because even after months it only had a few entries.
I’m venting here now because I got the closest I’ve ever gotten to opening up today, and still no one got it. I told my mum and my brother that I cry every day. I think if someone told me that, I would be really worried about them. But they didn’t react at all. It makes me frustrated, to think they thought I wasn’t serious. It makes me really sad, to then think of what it would take to get them to know that I’m serious. I love my mum but she has a habit of making everything a contest. Like sadness can be competitive. The way she reacted just made my feelings seem so insignificant and worthless compared to hers.
I don’t know where to go from here. All I ever do is keep moving forward because that’s all I know how to do, but I am feeling so exhausted. I don’t know how my life can be relatively good and still I can feel so miserable all the time. I feel like a failure of a human being for not being able to work right, because everything else is working right, and it’s just me that’s wrong. Even when I was little I felt like everyone else must be robots or something, because everyone seemed able to tune into something that I just couldn’t. Is this what it feels like for other people? Is everyone else just good at managing it? I went on a three hour walk in the night the other day and layed down in the snow and cried and thought about how much I wanted to die. I told a friend about the walking and laying part, and he just thought it was funny.
Even now in just trying to post this, I kept getting an error and cried about it, like it’s a sign to just not talk about anything and shut up. I feel so isolated in how sad I am and that it consumes everything that I do.
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2023.03.21 12:00 lemonpiespecial A messy, long yet quite interesting story of a very sad & lonely girl.
Trigger warning: grooming, narcissistic abuse. Bare with me a little, I know it's messy but I needed to put his all out.
I really wanted to share a little bit of my story cause I feel so overwhelmed and I do not know what to do with my life anymore. I'm so lost. And I've never felt lonelier.
I'm sitting at my computer after waking up with my "situationship'' person next to me (thats a whole another story, but we do have feelings for each other, yet we don't think we should be in a relationship together at this time in life). He asked me how I was this morning and I just burst into tears. I am not ok. That's all I could say and cry.
I took a sick leave from work because I can't motivate myself to work. I feel discardable and unimportant. I work in a very close knit office in a very specific company for 5 years, we are around 10 people in the office and I feel like my colleagues are not interested in me as a person. I feel so worthless and like nobody cares if I open my mouth to say anything. But I also don't care about being involved in the same old repetitive jokes, pretending I care about my colleague's child cause thats the only thing the conversation revolves around (and the same 5 stupid jokes that get repeated every single day). Now I can imagine you saying: well of course you feel like it, you get what you give .... However, would anyone care that I'm struggling daily with suicidal thoughts? Would they care I have found spirituality to search for purpose? Would they care that the salary I receive that 60-70% goes to bills and I can't afford to eat ? NO. As long as it's not small talk bullshit, they don't care or know how to respond. Yet, that's the main thing I'm concerned about. Not about their children's problems with their testicles (yes, the whole office knew that) or how another colleague is going shopping every week and planning her next trip to Italy cause she lives with her parents and can spend her money without paying the same amount of bills a single woman does living alone in the centre of the biggest city in the country (Eastern Europe). I've talked to my boss about a raise cause after 5 years, still living with less than a 1000 euro each month and the prices rising so much ... I can't live with that kind of money anymore. It's funny. All my boss says is: manage your finances better ...
In the past years I've lost most of my friends. My best friend was in love with the guy she set me up with (that's the situationship guy from the beginning) and around 10 months ago she said: "I can't look you in the eye anymore", cried how all she thinks about was the guy she set me up with and we came to a conclusion that this friendship is dead and she does not want to see me again. I said I'll wait for her cause I love her... and today is her birthday, she turns 28. We were best friends for 11 years and even got a stupid matching best friends tattoo back in the day. I still sleep with the teddy bear she gave me on my 19th birthday. When I found her in high school I thought finally ... a friend just for me. Our school mates thought we were lesbians. And we were a team for a while. But before her, for some reason, I've had difficulties to be and feel accepted in the friend group. Before high-school it was always a girl friend group who had a leader and the rest were her pawns. I got sick of being a soldier with no brain and I really wanted an equal part and respect with the whole group. Cause I thought and still think that I'm: real, honest, reliable & loyal af. All they saw was the friend who is not good enough cause I did not want to do always what they did, pursue the same stuff as them, be outside of the box they were putting themselves into. I always was that friend to start hating randomly... cause I let them? I'm not sure.
My family life ... I'd say my closest family is only my grandma and my cousin.. the two people i can actually be real with. I do have a mother, a stepdad and a half-brother 15 years younger. My mother is a covert narcissist. I do not know my biological father. I had a different dad growing up than my younger step-brother. I thought the dad that raised me was my biological father for a very long time until I found out all by myself at 9 y/o that my mother was married with another man that had my last name and voila! The dad that I thought was my real dad adopted me officially after he married my mom. His name is in my birth certificate. I only found that out when I was 20 (thanks again mom). My dad and my mom did not tell me they divorced when i was around 11 ... again, I found it out only by myself cause I was a curious kid. My mother changed boyfriends and then found my stepdad and to gain his house she had to give birth to a son... where my step-brother comes in. I was 15 y/o in the summer I got my step-brother ... and then at the end of the summer I lost my dad in a motorcycle crash. He was my buddy. The one who told me about his adventures on his bike while drinking a glass of light beer and playing cards. We watched movies, listened to music. He was really involved in forming who I am now. He was not perfect but I really felt the fatherly love from him. While my mom ... she only gave a shit when she got something out of me. That I got good grades, she boasted it was because she was smart. When I had my birthday, she celebrated her being so young and still looking so young cause she birthed me when she was 20. She wanted me to be her doll, looking perfect, with clothes she liked and she did not let me play around outside as a kid if I had the pretty clothes on. When I didn't do something she wanted to be done but she didn't ask nicely, just expected it to be done, she stood in the door frame of my tiny room screaming and shouting at me for 40 minutes straight and if i dared to even try to say something, just barely moving my mouth, I got yelled at louder and harder... and then I learned to disassociate. However, after my brother was in the picture, she just didn't give a shit about me as a child with needs. She stopped providing me with clothes and my grandma started helping... after that she said I looked ugly and that nobody would like me. She offered me (offered is a generous statement here, I had no choice) to pay to be a nanny for my brother my whole summer break from school. Yeah, I get it, I got some money, but you have to undertsand, she would give me such little pocket money, I could not even buy a decent lunch at school. I had to be alone with a 1/2 y/o for the whole summer. Every work day. When I should have been outside doing something with friends or making them in the least. People thought my younger brother was my son when I went out with him. Since those 2 summers I decided I will not have children of my own.
After those 2 summers I met my (now ex) boyfriend. We met on omegle (yikes) when I was 17 (yikes) and he ... was 27 (bigYikes). I was lonely, freshly without a dad, without good long-term friends, my parents paid no attention to me. I was drinking vodka with orange juice in my room alone while searching for friends online. Mostly they were men. But... context is important here. I was a very horny teenager. Like any guy is horny while being 16/17 ... this girl was a pedo's dream. I was very into Lolita aesthetic, I had just freshly read the book too. I'm not gonna lie, I was into older guys cause at that age, no boy who I liked and who was my age paid attention to me. I thought I was ugly. My parents didn't get me braces cause they were too expensive (yet my mom could buy fur coats and go to nice trips) and I felt very insecure with my smile. Yet ... one evening on omegle was what changed my life. I found a chat, the camera was off for him but on for me. He complimented my smile, how I looked. I never got that kind of attention. Then I found out we had our birthday on the same date which felt like a sign. Then we started skyping. After a week I saw his face. TBH, not the most handsome guy but it is not that important for me. He said he got jewellery for me. He also had a girlfriend from my country before which I thought was cool cause he knew the culture then. After a month of chatting and sexting he came to see me. I lied to my mom that I 'd be staying at my friends place for a weekend cause there was a party but I actually went to met him and we were staying at a hotel not too far from my home. The first thing we did was fuck. We did that the whole weekend with a few breaks of going to the movies, to eat and see the old town. After a month he offered me to go to him ... I explained the situation to my mom like this: I met someone, on the internet, he lives in West Europe and wants to invite me to visit. My parents agreed. Imagine that. My mother fucking sold me. At least that's how my grandma calls it. But you know, I didn't think like that when I was 17... I thought I was IN LOVE. But you know why my grandma said my mother sold me? My mother relied on HIM now to get me everything I'd need. Clothes, phones... etc etc. She gave me a symbolic 2 euro pocket money a few days in the week, how generous of her. You know, that's not even the best part yet ... because my dad had died and I was officially his child I got his pension but because I was not 18 y/o my mother got all the money and told me that only like 5 months before I turned 18. The pension was decent. Decent enough for me not to ask anyone for money anymore. Or start saving for university ... my mother spent it all until she decided to tell me she got the money since he had died. And for those few months I knew she could give me maybe 1/3rd of what she got. After I turned 18, I'd get it all then. Well, while she was trying to start a new family, her 17 y/o daughter was fucking a pedo. You gotta understand about me, when I was 17, I did not look like a young adult, I still looked pretty much like a child. I still got the chubby cheeks, I was very slender, barely any womanly features, natural hair. A dream for a guy like that. And the worst part is, I was completely under his spell. I thought finally I'm getting the life I thought I deserved. I saw so many countries and places I only ever dreamed of seeing as a poor Eastern European girl. I finally got that fatherly figure in my life who takes care of me. All of his friends were happy for him to be with such a young and cute girl. I finished high-school while planning going to universities where he lived. I got totally put in a trap where the only person important in my life was him. I worked very hard to arrange everything and to apply for those universities while my best friend, who I mentioned at the start, started ditching school and she partied and started working cause she was also not that well off and I spent my last year of high school basically all alone and later she blamed me for ditching her while I was living with him across Europe. I got into the university. He bought us a place to live between the city of my uni and his work. It was still 2h going in 1 direction 3-4 times a week. I was isolated from my course mates in university. I did not live with them. My only close friend there was him. Besides my bff who barely finished high-school I had no close friends at school. I had tops 2-4 other friends besides her. Rest of my year called me a weird lesbian for some reason. One guy even asked my BFF why I was so weird. I never understood why I was thought of as weird at school. Because I did not have rich/well off parents? Because I did not have the perfect smile? Because I was a bit introverted? I realise now as I am getting older maybe I am on the autism spectre and I do have some problems with maintaining eye-contact but I am not that far on the spectrum I'd say to be impaired really in my communication. Bu that is a side note to this all. I just got perceived as weird for some unexplained reasons. After being in a relationship with him ... a lot of bad stuff emerged. He was a compulsive liar. He chatted with his exes, with other girls he met online all over East-Europe. I found e-mails he sent to other women being signed "Love, forever yours" and said that's how he talks to his friends. The jewellery he got me at the start? He stole it from his mothers (or asked, I'm not sure what was right). He gaslit me to a point where I was paranoid I started snooping every single thing he owned. I checked his amex bills if he was not seeing other women, I saw he was registered in different dating apps. And the crown to this all is: A TEENAGE BOY HE TRAINED IN FOOTBALL ACCUSED HIM OF ASKING FOR SEXUAL FAVOURS IN EXCHANGE OF GOODS. It ruined his reputation, he got raided by the police, his family did not trust him anymore, he got shunned. And I stuck to him 100%, that's how blind I was. Of course I had my questions yet I trusted him so much cause I did not have anyone else. He got a court case, he got public service as a punishment cause they found a weird deleted pic on his computer (that is what he said to me). Furthermore, my friend told me he was chatting with her and her friends behind my back and told them to not tell me... And that was right before I had to move in with him to go to my university. I did it anyway. I did not finish the year in uni. I was burned out from the 4h spending every day in public transport, dealing with his emotional abuse and trying to do all of my uni work which was completely overwhelming. We even got into couples therapy cause I did not know how to trust him anymore. The therapist told me: D, you know what to do by now. And I did. I had to go back home.
That summer we drove back home. I drove back home to a mother who had sold the apartment that was supposed to be mine when i was 18 cause my dad who raised me bought it for my mother and later to be left for me. I had nothing. Just a room in my step-dads family house. He was not my family. However, my mother wanted me to feel that, I did not. I could not. I was too old for that. He knew we did not drive here just for a vacation. He knew that when he drove back alone and I did not come with him to spend more time back home, I would not return later. After 3 weeks of being home without him. I left him. I started to work as a barista. Finally, making some friends, starting new relationships. Doing what I should have been doing. Started to live with my BFF cause I could not stand my mother. I could not stand looking at her treating my brother like he deserved everything he wanted. I am still sick of looking how she coddles him and I am constantly reminded how she could have been like that with me but she just did not see me as a child that needs love from her.
For now, thank you for reading. I feel I lost my point a little. I just really really wanted to share something to the world from my life cause I sit here every day alone smoking too much weed and trying to cope. I do not know if that works anymore. I feel lost & aimless. If you have any questions about me and my life I'll gladly answer them. And I am sorry for the ramble but there is so much I still did not write here. Maybe one day my life will make an interesting book.
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2023.03.21 11:57 Wopeki Mafuyu's Mom is Worse than I Thought - Translated Conversation Between Kanade and Mafuyu's Mom in Chapter 8
Mafuyu's Mom ask Kanade to meet up in a hotel lobby to talk about Mafuyu
- Mafuyu's Mom : Thank you for being friend with Mafuyu
- K: (This is no good...! At this rate...)
- K: Mafuyu...there was a time when Mafuyu said she want to disappear
- Mafuyu's Mom: She want to disappear?
- K: Yes, and she said she didn't know what she wanted to do, but...
- K: Mafuyu told us that she wanted to do music with us
- K: I know that her study is important, but can you please let her continue her activity with us?
- K: Please...! If you took music from Mafuyu now, Mafuyu would...
- Mafuyu's Mom: I see, so that's what's going on
- Mafuyu's Mom: She is really an upstanding and honest kid
- Mafuyu's Mom: Thank you Yoisaki-san. Thank you for being such a supportive friend to her
- Mafuyu's Mom: From now, i will try to listen to her story too
- K: Really...? If so, please talk to Mafuyu about her true feeling, and what she really want to do. And also, about why Mafuyu is suffering right now...
- Mafuyu's Mom: I see...
- Mafuyu's Mom: I got it. Thank you very much Yoisaki-san
- Mafuyu's Mom: You're right, I have to have a proper talk with Mafuyu and listen to her feeling
- Mafuyu's Mom: But I need you to understand that becoming a doctor is better for Mafuyu than being in your group making music
- Mafuyu's Mom: If I'll talk to her properly, I'm sure Mafuyu suffering will disappear
- K: ...
- K: (This person...)
- K: (Isn't thinking about Mafuyu at all...)
Flashback to kid Kanade with her mom. In summary, her mom want Kanade to make songs like her dad. But, if Kanade stay true herself and be happy by doing whatever she want, then Kanade's mom is also happy too. End flashback
- K: (At the time, my mother always thought of me first...my happiness, and my feelings)
- K: (But...this person is different)
- K: (She don't think about Mafuyu feelings at all)
- K: Excuse me, but, you're wrong
- Mafuyu's Mom: Oh, wrong about what?
- K: You, don't seem to be thinking of Mafuyu's feeling at all, rather, it seems you surpessing it
- Mafuyu's Mom: Ah, that's vexing. I wonder, why would you think that?
- K: ...
- Mafuyu's Mom: Mafuyu is very precious to me
- Mafuyu's Mom: She has been very kind since since she was little, and she is always good and honest. I just want her to be the happiest girl in the world!
- Mafuyu's Mom: It's sad that it seems you misunderstood me, but I want you to know that I am caring of her feelings
- Mafuyu's Mom: Because I'm her parent
- K: (But...Just because you're a parent, that doesn't mean that it's always the case)
- K: (It's no good, at this rate, Mafuyu will be destroyed by this person)
- K: (Killing her own feelings and try to fulfill her mother's wishes...)
- K: (At this rate...Mafuyu...)
- K: I don't know how to express what I feel right now
: K: Before I came here, I thought you were trying to stop Mafuyu from pursuing music because you were worried about her
- K: But, that isn't the case
- K: No matter how much I listen to you, even if you are Mafuyu's mother
- K: I don't trust your words
- K: So, now I have decided
- Mafuyu's Mom: ...
- K: No matter what you say, I will never leave Mafuyu side
- Mafuyu's Mom: It's a pity
- Mafuyu's Mom: I thought that you would understand if you truly cared about Mafuyu, but it seems that's not the case
- Mafuyu's Mom: I should go home soon, it's getting late
- K: I understand
- Mafuyu's Mom: Thank you for today Yoisaki-san. It was nice talking to you
- Mafuyu's Mom: But let's keep our meeting a secret to Mafuyu
- Mafuyu's Mom: I don't want this to interfere with her studies
- K: I also don't want to worry her too much, so I'll also keep this conversation a secret
- Mafuyu's Mom: I'm glad, goodbye
- Mafuyu's Mom: Ah, one last thing, speaking as an older adult with experience, you should really think about your future carefully so that you won't have any regrets later on.
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2023.03.21 11:55 lemonpiespecial A messy, long yet quite interesting story of a very sad & lonely girl.
Trigger warning: grooming, narcissistic abuse.
I really wanted to share a little bit of my story cause I feel so overwhelmed and I do not know what to do with my life anymore. I'm so lost. And I've never felt lonelier.
I'm sitting at my computer after waking up with my "situationship'' person next to me (thats a whole another story, but we do have feelings for each other, yet we don't think we should be in a relationship together at this time in life). He asked me how I was this morning and I just burst into tears. I am not ok. That's all I could say and cry.
I took a sick leave from work because I can't motivate myself to work. I feel discardable and unimportant. I work in a very close knit office in a very specific company for 5 years, we are around 10 people in the office and I feel like my colleagues are not interested in me as a person. I feel so worthless and like nobody cares if I open my mouth to say anything. But I also don't care about being involved in the same old repetitive jokes, pretending I care about my colleague's child cause thats the only thing the conversation revolves around (and the same 5 stupid jokes that get repeated every single day). Now I can imagine you saying: well of course you feel like it, you get what you give .... However, would anyone care that I'm struggling daily with suicidal thoughts? Would they care I have found spirituality to search for purpose? Would they care that the salary I receive that 60-70% goes to bills and I can't afford to eat ? NO. As long as it's not small talk bullshit, they don't care or know how to respond. Yet, that's the main thing I'm concerned about. Not about their children's problems with their testicles (yes, the whole office knew that) or how another colleague is going shopping every week and planning her next trip to Italy cause she lives with her parents and can spend her money without paying the same amount of bills a single woman does living alone in the centre of the biggest city in the country (Eastern Europe). I've talked to my boss about a raise cause after 5 years, still living with less than a 1000 euro each month and the prices rising so much ... I can't live with that kind of money anymore. It's funny. All my boss says is: manage your finances better ...
In the past years I've lost most of my friends. My best friend was in love with the guy she set me up with (that's the situationship guy from the beginning) and around 10 months ago she said: "I can't look you in the eye anymore", cried how all she thinks about was the guy she set me up with and we came to a conclusion that this friendship is dead and she does not want to see me again. I said I'll wait for her cause I love her... and today is her birthday, she turns 28. We were best friends for 11 years and even got a stupid matching best friends tattoo back in the day. I still sleep with the teddy bear she gave me on my 19th birthday. When I found her in high school I thought finally ... a friend just for me. Our school mates thought we were lesbians. And we were a team for a while. But before her, for some reason, I've had difficulties to be and feel accepted in the friend group. Before high-school it was always a girl friend group who had a leader and the rest were her pawns. I got sick of being a soldier with no brain and I really wanted an equal part and respect with the whole group. Cause I thought and still think that I'm: real, honest, reliable & loyal af. All they saw was the friend who is not good enough cause I did not want to do always what they did, pursue the same stuff as them, be outside of the box they were putting themselves into. I always was that friend to start hating randomly... cause I let them? I'm not sure.
My family life ... I'd say my closest family is only my grandma and my cousin.. the two people i can actually be real with. I do have a mother, a stepdad and a half-brother 15 years younger. My mother is a covert narcissist. I do not know my biological father. I had a different dad growing up than my younger step-brother. I thought the dad that raised me was my biological father for a very long time until I found out all by myself at 9 y/o that my mother was married with another man that had my last name and voila! The dad that I thought was my real dad adopted me officially after he married my mom. His name is in my birth certificate. I only found that out when I was 20 (thanks again mom). My dad and my mom did not tell me they divorced when i was around 11 ... again, I found it out only by myself cause I was a curious kid. My mother changed boyfriends and then found my stepdad and to gain his house she had to give birth to a son... where my step-brother comes in. I was 15 y/o in the summer I got my step-brother ... and then at the end of the summer I lost my dad in a motorcycle crash. He was my buddy. The one who told me about his adventures on his bike while drinking a glass of light beer and playing cards. We watched movies, listened to music. He was really involved in forming who I am now. He was not perfect but I really felt the fatherly love from him. While my mom ... she only gave a shit when she got something out of me. That I got good grades, she boasted it was because she was smart. When I had my birthday, she celebrated her being so young and still looking so young cause she birthed me when she was 20. She wanted me to be her doll, looking perfect, with clothes she liked and she did not let me play around outside as a kid if I had the pretty clothes on. When I didn't do something she wanted to be done but she didn't ask nicely, just expected it to be done, she stood in the door frame of my tiny room screaming and shouting at me for 40 minutes straight and if i dared to even try to say something, just barely moving my mouth, I got yelled at louder and harder... and then I learned to disassociate. However, after my brother was in the picture, she just didn't give a shit about me as a child with needs. She stopped providing me with clothes and my grandma started helping... after that she said I looked ugly and that nobody would like me. She offered me (offered is a generous statement here, I had no choice) to pay to be a nanny for my brother my whole summer break from school. Yeah, I get it, I got some money, but you have to undertsand, she would give me such little pocket money, I could not even buy a decent lunch at school. I had to be alone with a 1/2 y/o for the whole summer. Every work day. When I should have been outside doing something with friends or making them in the least. People thought my younger brother was my son when I went out with him. Since those 2 summers I decided I will not have children of my own.
After those 2 summers I met my (now ex) boyfriend. We met on omegle (yikes) when I was 17 (yikes) and he ... was 27 (bigYikes). I was lonely, freshly without a dad, without good long-term friends, my parents paid no attention to me. I was drinking vodka with orange juice in my room alone while searching for friends online. Mostly they were men. But... context is important here. I was a very horny teenager. Like any guy is horny while being 16/17 ... this girl was a pedo's dream. I was very into Lolita aesthetic, I had just freshly read the book too. I'm not gonna lie, I was into older guys cause at that age, no boy who I liked and who was my age paid attention to me. I thought I was ugly. My parents didn't get me braces cause they were too expensive (yet my mom could buy fur coats and go to nice trips) and I felt very insecure with my smile. Yet ... one evening on omegle was what changed my life. I found a chat, the camera was off for him but on for me. He complimented my smile, how I looked. I never got that kind of attention. Then I found out we had our birthday on the same date which felt like a sign. Then we started skyping. After a week I saw his face. TBH, not the most handsome guy but it is not that important for me. He said he got jewellery for me. He also had a girlfriend from my country before which I thought was cool cause he knew the culture then. After a month of chatting and sexting he came to see me. I lied to my mom that I 'd be staying at my friends place for a weekend cause there was a party but I actually went to met him and we were staying at a hotel not too far from my home. The first thing we did was fuck. We did that the whole weekend with a few breaks of going to the movies, to eat and see the old town. After a month he offered me to go to him ... I explained the situation to my mom like this: I met someone, on the internet, he lives in West Europe and wants to invite me to visit. My parents agreed. Imagine that. My mother fucking sold me. At least that's how my grandma calls it. But you know, I didn't think like that when I was 17... I thought I was IN LOVE. But you know why my grandma said my mother sold me? My mother relied on HIM now to get me everything I'd need. Clothes, phones... etc etc. She gave me a symbolic 2 euro pocket money a few days in the week, how generous of her. You know, that's not even the best part yet ... because my dad had died and I was officially his child I got his pension but because I was not 18 y/o my mother got all the money and told me that only like 5 months before I turned 18. The pension was decent. Decent enough for me not to ask anyone for money anymore. Or start saving for university ... my mother spent it all until she decided to tell me she got the money since he had died. And for those few months I knew she could give me maybe 1/3rd of what she got. After I turned 18, I'd get it all then. Well, while she was trying to start a new family, her 17 y/o daughter was fucking a pedo. You gotta understand about me, when I was 17, I did not look like a young adult, I still looked pretty much like a child. I still got the chubby cheeks, I was very slender, barely any womanly features, natural hair. A dream for a guy like that. And the worst part is, I was completely under his spell. I thought finally I'm getting the life I thought I deserved. I saw so many countries and places I only ever dreamed of seeing as a poor Eastern European girl. I finally got that fatherly figure in my life who takes care of me. All of his friends were happy for him to be with such a young and cute girl. I finished high-school while planning going to universities where he lived. I got totally put in a trap where the only person important in my life was him. I worked very hard to arrange everything and to apply for those universities while my best friend, who I mentioned at the start, started ditching school and she partied and started working cause she was also not that well off and I spent my last year of high school basically all alone and later she blamed me for ditching her while I was living with him across Europe. I got into the university. He bought us a place to live between the city of my uni and his work. It was still 2h going in 1 direction 3-4 times a week. I was isolated from my course mates in university. I did not live with them. My only close friend there was him. Besides my bff who barely finished high-school I had no close friends at school. I had tops 2-4 other friends besides her. Rest of my year called me a weird lesbian for some reason. One guy even asked my BFF why I was so weird. I never understood why I was thought of as weird at school. Because I did not have rich/well off parents? Because I did not have the perfect smile? Because I was a bit introverted? I realise now as I am getting older maybe I am on the autism spectre and I do have some problems with maintaining eye-contact but I am not that far on the spectrum I'd say to be impaired really in my communication. Bu that is a side note to this all. I just got perceived as weird for some unexplained reasons. After being in a relationship with him ... a lot of bad stuff emerged. He was a compulsive liar. He chatted with his exes, with other girls he met online all over East-Europe. I found e-mails he sent to other women being signed "Love, forever yours" and said that's how he talks to his friends. The jewellery he got me at the start? He stole it from his mothers (or asked, I'm not sure what was right). He gaslit me to a point where I was paranoid I started snooping every single thing he owned. I checked his amex bills if he was not seeing other women, I saw he was registered in different dating apps. And the crown to this all is: A TEENAGE BOY HE TRAINED IN FOOTBALL ACCUSED HIM OF ASKING FOR SEXUAL FAVOURS IN EXCHANGE OF GOODS. It ruined his reputation, he got raided by the police, his family did not trust him anymore, he got shunned. And I stuck to him 100%, that's how blind I was. Of course I had my questions yet I trusted him so much cause I did not have anyone else. He got a court case, he got public service as a punishment cause they found a weird deleted pic on his computer (that is what he said to me). Furthermore, my friend told me he was chatting with her and her friends behind my back and told them to not tell me... And that was right before I had to move in with him to go to my university. I did it anyway. I did not finish the year in uni. I was burned out from the 4h spending every day in public transport, dealing with his emotional abuse and trying to do all of my uni work which was completely overwhelming. We even got into couples therapy cause I did not know how to trust him anymore. The therapist told me: D, you know what to do by now. And I did. I had to go back home.
That summer we drove back home. I drove back home to a mother who had sold the apartment that was supposed to be mine when i was 18 cause my dad who raised me bought it for my mother and later to be left for me. I had nothing. Just a room in my step-dads family house. He was not my family. However, my mother wanted me to feel that, I did not. I could not. I was too old for that. He knew we did not drive here just for a vacation. He knew that when he drove back alone and I did not come with him to spend more time back home, I would not return later. After 3 weeks of being home without him. I left him. I started to work as a barista. Finally, making some friends, starting new relationships. Doing what I should have been doing. Started to live with my BFF cause I could not stand my mother. I could not stand looking at her treating my brother like he deserved everything he wanted. I am still sick of looking how she coddles him and I am constantly reminded how she could have been like that with me but she just did not see me as a child that needs love from her.
For now, thank you for reading. I feel I lost my point a little. I just really really wanted to share something to the world from my life cause I sit here every day alone smoking too much weed and trying to cope. I do not know if that works anymore. I feel lost & aimless. If you have any questions about me and my life I'll gladly answer them. And I am sorry for the ramble but there is so much I still did not write here. Maybe one day my life will make an interesting book.
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2023.03.21 11:50 Defiant-Tell-6086 I’m (20m) in a weird situation with my gf (20f)
I don’t understand supposed to do
So, my girlfriend (F20) and I (M20) have been dating for about a year, and everything has been fine. We’ve had some ups and downs like all relationships. Previously, I had asked her to remove all guys that have liked her from Snap and Insta, and she did to my knowledge. For example, a guy she had a “hoe phase with” (just talking and snapping), she had sent him exclusive pics, and I was checking who was talking to her when I saw he had saved pics of her when they were talking. That’s when I asked her to remove all the guys she’s ever dated or had a talking stage with. Everything has been fine since she removed him, but today I saw a new guy she was messaging, and I asked her who he was. She told me he was a “gaming friend.” Adding new guys while in a relationship is something I kind of have a problem with, but I can talk about that later.
Then I saw a guy who I don’t remember seeing before, but she’s had streaks with him for over 100 days. I asked who he was, and she said he was another gaming friend. I asked to see his profile on Snap so I could see what he was like, and I noticed the guy would save snaps of her in chat. Not funny snaps of her dog or her doing a dumb face. It was all particularly of her in a crop top and in skirts and like more attractive and intimate-looking pictures. I said to her that’s weird, and I went quiet because I didn’t want to say anything to upset her. She said it’s weird that I do that, and I replied with, "It’s weird that I don’t want guys to flirt or save more attractive pics of my gf???" I just didn’t feel good about being called weird for having boundaries. She then said sorry she didn’t mean weird, it was just the first word that came to her head, and I don't know what to do.
I expressed to her that I feel like a second choice at times because she’s previously made it clear that between her “friends” and me, she will choose her friends over me. She said it’s different because she’s “known these guys for longer than me.” I don’t not trust her; she has shown me her loyalty on countless occasions. I just don’t trust these guys, and she has this habit of not being able to tell when a guy is flirting with her or likes her. I don’t know what to do about this because I can’t be feeling like if it came to it, she would choose her guy friend over me or her friends when I am her significant other or partner or boyfriend, whichever you want to call it.
For me personally, I don’t talk to any girls out of respect for her and to make it clear to her that she is the only girl I want to talk to, and she is my priority. I would do almost anything if it means my gf is comfortable at the end of the day.
tl;dr My girlfriend (F20) and I (M20) have been dating for a year and have had some ups and downs. Recently, she saw a new guy she was messaging and told me he was a "gaming friend". I noticed he would save snaps of her in chat, particularly of her in a crop top and in skirts. I expressed to her that I don't trust these guys and she has a habit of not being able to tell when a guy is flirting with her or likes her. I don't talk to any girls out of respect for her and to make it clear to her that she is the only girl I want to talk to.
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2023.03.21 11:49 Bartoni17 One wild ride of an interview with Polish NT goalkeeper Łukasz Skorupski from Bologna. He jokingly asked prime minister for 10 million PLN bonus and he accepted it.
Recently Łukasz Olkowicz from Przegląd Sportowy made an interview with Łukasz Skorupski. Here's original:
https://przegladsportowy.onet.pl/pilka-nozna/reprezentacja-polski/wszystko-wyplynelo-tak-sie-klocilismy-o-premie-ze-nie-gadalismy-z-pewnymi-zawodnikami/ys6v8bj And here’s translation:
Łukasz Olkowicz: You know what interests people.
Lukasz Skorupski: Bonus?
Bonus. Didn't it occur to you that people would be furious when they found out about it?
Łukasz Skorupski: We knew. We were talking to each other and we knew they could be fucking furious.
And that didn't stop you?
Łukasz Skorupski: It wasn't our idea. The prime minister promised a bonus. In words, nothing on paper.
But you agreed.
Łukasz Skorupski: There was a chat between us: We'll get it - nice. We'll not get it? We didn't go crazy about it. You understand? The bonus was too much because it was too big.
You negotiated part of it yourself. At dinner with the prime minister, you got ten million more.
Łukasz Skorupski: I was talking about something, but it was for funnies. And the prime minister accepted it. In my opinion, at such tournament, we should not talk about the bonus at all, everything should be settled on paper before the World Cup. There was little we could do. They told us about it just before leaving to Qatar, we were goiing to the airport right away. Normally, we would have arranged this beforehand.
When did you start talking about the bonus in Qatar?
Łukasz Skorupski: After promotion from the group. Some things journalists wrote were true, some things not. Arguments started between us, talks with the coach. We've all been so excited in the team, I'll be honest: bonus, bonus, when is the bonus?
And you know what's best?
That you didn't get it?
Łukasz Skorupski: No, that the team had a great atmosphere at the tournament. For example, we would come back from training and sing songs. We laughed that we are like Brazil. Because this Brazil was having fun after each training on drums, and we would come back and sing songs from the 90s, 2000s. We had our loudspeaker in the back, everyone chose, and then the rest picked up. Great stuff. Same music at the gym. It was fucking awesome, really. After the games we went out for dinner, we took care of the atmosphere. We were a good group, we were close. The atmosphere was fantastic and then it all went downhill.
Money ruined it. You had an argument over the distribution of the bonus.
Łukasz Skorupski: We are promoted fromt the group and instead of being happy, we suddenly started arguing about this bonus. You'll have so much, others so much. But we were arguing so much that we didn't talk to certain players. And the day before we sang together. The match against France was approaching. "Lewy" says, the team council: "Gentlemen, let's make a deal. We can't think about the bonus, only about the match." We agreed not to talk about this bonus anymore. With all due respect to money, but no one on the team lacks it. Calm came back, we played the game.
The best in the tournament.
Łukasz Skorupski: And then the story began in the newspapers.
Did you follow this?
Łukasz Skorupski: I read something, but you know more... They promised us an exaggerated bonus, but instead of being happy that we were promoted from the group, they started to shit on us.
You have exposed yourself. Wouldn't you be better off if you said, "We got lost in this, we lost our heads for a moment"? You said yourself the bonus was exaggerated.
Łukasz Skorupski: The media live off such information.
The media mainly shot at Czesław Michniewicz (NT coach) because of the bonus.
Łukasz Skorupski: I'll tell you that I felt a bit sorry for him. I had a good relationship with him.
Why didn't you answer?
Łukasz Skorupski: To whom?
To journalists. In his defense, if you wanted him to stay.
Łukasz Skorupski: We have agreed internally that we do not talk about it with the media. I guess "Lewy" later gave an interview about it, right?
And Grzegorz Krychowiak. Łukasz Skorupski: Later, when we got along and the match against France was over, we sat down for dinner, drank some wine and everyone got over it.
Has the tension released? Łukasz Skorupski: We didn't talk about the bonus anymore. A lot of people left immediately after the game. But let me tell you in general - the atmosphere was great. It was beautiful in that respect. Beautifully.
Have you heard discussions from Poland about the style of the national team's play? That people have doubts?
Łukasz Skorupski: We sometimes talked among ourselves that the style was average.
The team was successful, but people turned up their noses. Did you understand the criticism? Objections from fans and journalists?
Łukasz Skorupski: We understood, but we kept telling ourselves that the result is the most important thing. And the results were good?
Were.
Łukasz Skorupski: The game wasn't beautiful, everyone said it was ugly, but it delivered results. Why are you looking at me like that? We advanced from the group? We advanced.
Did you like this game?
Łukasz Skorupski: Damn... I don't want to criticize Czesio like that either. The coach sets the tactics. He wanted us to play that way, so we did what he told us.
Did you believe in this tactic?
Lukasz Skorupski: What? It woked. We advanced from the group. At the club you play quite differently, more football. On the other hand, I understand Czesio a little. When was he supposed to train it? Like in the World Cup, we played every three days.
Others played differently.
Łukasz Skorupski: Fuck, who were we playing with? With Argentina. They are the best players in the world, they set their own tactics.
And with Mexico?
Łukasz Skorupski: And what, did Mexico play well with the ball? Better than us?
You and they played not to lose. There wasn't too much risk.
Łukasz Skorupski: After all, we wanted to win. If we had scored a penalty, we would have won. What... We played so poorly?
The match against Mexico was considered the worst at the World Cup. Skorup, teeth hurt.
Lukasz Skorupski: Really? I do not know what I can say. But what, in total we drew 0-0. Should I criticize the coach now?
No, just don't get off topic. Tell me how did you react?
Łukasz Skorupski: We were aware that the fans were attacking us. On the other hand, such a tournament is the biggest in life, you don't want to spoil anything. And you can't go wrong. You understand? One mistake and it's over. You know you can't lose the first game. You play tournaments differently than you play qualifying. We wanted to leave this group, for us it was a success, wasn't it? When was such a success last time?
36 years ago.
Łukasz Skorupski: And why is it not talked about at all? There was talk about the bonus and style, and the fact that Poland went to the World Cup and left the group after 36 years and there was silence. Did we play badly against France?
Well. Lukasz Skorupski: You see. We lost, but individually we were blown away by players who are the best in the world. Why do you think we played like that in Qatar?
Because that's what the coach chose. I think he thought the result would cover everything. It did not cover. The first such a long discussion about style has begun in Poland, in which both sides have arguments.
Łukasz Skorupski: Exactly, everyone has their own opinion. I'm interested in winning matches, points. I'm out for the rest. For me, the most important thing is the result.
You don't care about style?
Lukasz Skorupski: No. I don't care when someone says that the national team or Bologna play badly. There are three points? There Are. Thank you. Who will remember in ten years how we played. They will remember our results.
Or that in the match against Argentina you ran to survive and lose as little as possible.
Łukasz Skorupski: It was our match for everything. It is known that this Argentina eats us with talent, right? We were there more with such working our assess off, we chose the simpliest football. We were tried to stay in the tournament. We couldn't risk anything. Nothing. That's the truth.
But then it goes out into the world that one of you ran around asking them not to shoot again.
Łukasz Skorupski: But is it true?
You tell me.
Łukasz Skorupski: I don't know if anyone asked for it. Any Argentinian could say that. Honestly, I haven't heard anything like that.
You are the goalkeeper. Don't you think outfield players want to have some fun with the ball so it doesn't fly over their heads?
Lukasz Skorupski: Points. Result. That's the most important thing for me.
Maybe you don't get tired, but such Piotr Zieliński for sure.
Lukasz Skorupski: Ha, ha. Well, I think he was struggling in Qatar. He played somewhere on the right or left side. We used "Zielu" wrong, and he has such skills.
What is the problem?
Łukasz Skorupski: See how he plays for Napoli. You pass him the ball, he has three players on his back and he won't lose it.
Why can't this be applied to the national team? Not only with Michniewicz, it was there before.
Lukasz Skorupski: I don't know. I think the defenders and the goalkeeper also have to play well.
We don't have players so weak to play so badly.
Łukasz Skorupski: Well, no, I think the same. It'll be all right.
With Santos?
Lukasz Skorupski: I don't know him. I mean I know him as a coach, but I don't know what the style will be.
He said defense is the most important thing.
Łukasz Skorupski: Do you know what Allegri was saying? You know what Chiellini and Bonucci were talking about? That the Italian championship is won by those who concede the fewest goals.
In the national team, you got in touch with Jacek Góralski. You have a similar past.
Łukasz Skorupski: Maybe he has even worse.
Downtown. Bydgoszcz.
Lukasz Skorupski: Oh Jesus. We talked about it. He told me a lot, had a few actions.
Did you like each other right away?
Lukasz Skorupski: Right away. "Góral" is direct. Fucking great dude.
Dude, buddy or friend?
Lukasz Skorupski: A friend. From the national team he and "Zielu". The best.
But with Piotr Zieliński, you are fire and water.
Łukasz Skorupski: We get along. He is also so…
What?
Łukasz Skorupski: Not as much of a psycho as me, but a similar mentality.
What do you mean?
Łukasz Skorupski: Also such a fox, he had some actions when he was young.
I've seen his posts on the internet.
Lukasz Skorupski: Not that. Some fights, no fights. "Zielu" is fucking great. First of all, helpful, if you need something, it's right away. You know, he plays for Napoli, the Champions League and doesn't try to be a star at all.
In the movie "Transsiberian" one of the characters utters the phrase: "Do not kill my demons, because the angels will die too." What about your demons today?
Łukasz Skorupski: Sometimes they are… But I hide it well. In Italy they don't even know I'm like that.
Are you or have you been?
Lukasz Skorupski: I was. I don't want to go back to that life at all.
Do you control your demons?
Lukasz Skorupski: I control. I am 31 years old, I have a child, a wife. I play football professionally, for ten years in Serie A. I earn good money, damn. You know how it is. I can't be stupid anymore.
Do you think you're securing the future right now? Not only yours.
Łukasz Skorupski: I'll make a living from it, so I have to make the most of it. I have to. I can't play the clown, risk to go out or something. I'll tell you, I don't even want to anymore. See how cold it is in Bologna today.
Minus one.
Łukasz Skorupski: In such weather, when I was 20, I would put on a T-shirt, a leather jacket over it and go to the city.
Now you're constantly complaining that you're cold.
Łukasz Skorupski: You don't even want to leave the house. Do you understand how it all changes?
You said yourself you'd rather invite your friends over to your house than spend the night at a party.
Łukasz Skorupski: The family is there, the kid is here. Everything worked out well. And I really prefer the way we sat down yesterday - we talked, watched the match, drank a glass of wine. Why the fuck would I go somewhere. Everyone knows each other in Bologna, right.
I think even if they didn't know you, you wouldn't go out.
Łukasz Skorupski: Well, I don't want to anymore. I guess it's age, huh?
I already told you. We are getting older.
Łukasz Skorupski: When I think about what I did in Górnik… Parties until eight in the morning, and training at nine. The body has changed too. If I did that now, I'd be walking backwards for three days. No discos at all. I will go out with my wife to a restaurant for dinner, sit, talk and go home. Where should I go? Of course, I can afford more during the holidays, then you can make something.
I like the custom in Italian teams that you and your teammates go out for dinner every week.
Łukasz Skorupski: They have, We have such a custom in Italy.
In Empoli you went out on Wednesdays.
Łukasz Skorupski: And today Stefan Posch was punished for being late for training. We were already training and he came in after ten minutes. The day before we came back late from the match, he couldn't sleep, and in the morning he overslept. The punishment was to buy dinner for everyone. He paid today. It might have cost him a bit.
At least the team is connecting.
Lukasz Skorupski: Yes, yes. There's a punishment or something and a supper.
Did you pay fines in Bologna?
Łukasz Skorupski: It wasn't a punishment, but after signing a new contract with Bologna, I bought dinner for the whole team. I'm not getting fines now. I'm not late, never happened to me. Sorry, I came too late at Nawałka's (former Polish NT coach and Skorupski's coach in Górnik) once.
In Górnik or in the national team?
Łukasz Skorupski: In Górnik. Imagine that we went to a party after practically every game. Once we lost to Polonia Warszawa 0:4. I don't know if you remember this game.
No.
Łukasz Skorupski: We lost and I say: "Fuck it, I'm not going anywhere". I didn't go and… I overslept. Dropping in for briefing, man... 10,000 fine from the coach.
He probably thought about Katowice at night.
Łukasz Skorupski: I didn't even say anything to him, I didn't explain myself. He wouldn't have believed it anyway. And that's the only time I haven't gone anywhere and I've missed my check-in. Jesus. That's how it stuck in my head that I've been vigilant ever since. Coach Nawałka used to look deep into your eyes. He greeted us, passed his hand and approached within five centimeters. Do you know why?
Did he want to emphasize his sincerity?
Łukasz Skorupski: He was getting closer like this, give me your hand, the left one, because my right one hurts. He brought his nose close to your face and sniffed. He knew some people were drinking.
Ha, ha.
Łukasz Skorupski: Well, I promise you.
I was told by the players of Świt Krzeszowice, the first club where Nawałka started as a coach, how he checked them to see if they had drunk anything. During the camps he visited them in their rooms. "What's up gentlemen?" How do you feel? - He was asking. "All right, coach," they replied. - Oh, I found some lint - he picked up a crumb from the carpet and carried it to the bin. He looked for beer caps.
Lukasz Skorupski: You see. With us, he would look at you and say, "Okay? Are you okay? Are you ready?" He knew that when there was a match, there could also be a party. He is sly. He wanted to introduce professionalism to Górnik. Because in order to achieve something with the team he had, he had to do it.
If you hadn't met Nawałka, would we be talking in Italy now?
Lukasz Skorupski: I don't think so. I'm afraid that I would not play in Italy and I would stay in Poland and play in Ekstraklasa. I had talent, but without the discipline and working us to the ground he unleashed in me, I wouldn't have excelled.
The perfect coach at that moment for someone as defiant as you?
Łukasz Skorupski: I was tough, I had it in me, because it's family with us. We don't cry, we don't feel sorry for ourselves. Something really serious had to happen to go to the doctor. If you cut something, it's no big deal. For them, it was such a shame to cry at the doctor's office because something hurt. We grit our teeth and say hello. That's my whole family. What, I also did not go to coach Nawałka with such trifles. It was so with him that if there was a foul in training and someone was lying down, he would approach with a clear message: "You get up or it's time to leave training". Really. He was still asking. "What, an ambulance?! An ambulance?! Are we calling an ambulance or are you getting up?" And suddenly everyone got up. "And yet it doesn't hurt," he triumphed.
Did he end pretending?
Łukasz Skorupski: Everyone in the team finished. You know, when there was a perfidious tackle, then the coach would get angry and admonish: "Too much." But some kind of slide, a sharp entry, without crying. And man, at one point, no one cried anymore. Everyone got up immediately and developed a character on it. We were fucking going and we rode this rhythm. We walked like soldiers. I really appreciate it. Thiago Motta in Bologna also has such a character. It's like, "Something hurts? Okay, then get off the field." He doesn't care if it's me or someone else. For him, the most important thing is who works in training.
Once I talked to the referees, they said that Górnik was the easiest to ref. Because the players did not pretend, they did not argue with the referees. There was a ban from the coach.
Łukasz Skorupski: The coach threatened that if we get a yellow card for talking, we will be punished immediately. I'll tell you he was right about that. He showed how important details and discipline are. He gave me my debut in Ekstraklasa in Wrocław with Śląsk together with Milik and Olkowski. I owe him a lot, he developed my character, he taught me discipline.
And hard work in training.
Łukasz Skorupski: He was famous for working hard.
Only four workouts a day.
Łukasz Skorupski: Just so you know that we really at the camps practiced three or four times a day. I remember the camp in Grodzisk Wielkopolski, where we started at six in the morning - oxygen, i.e. running. Honestly? I'll tell you, we complained, complained, and now I appreciate it. I'm in Italy and I'm not at all scared of their work here.
Thanks to working with Nawałka, was it easier for you to find yourself in Serie A?
Łukasz Skorupski: The approach I got to know thanks to him in Górnik, I met after coming to Italy. In my opinion, it has been abroad for a long time, but not yet in Poland at that time.
You said that you and Nawałka keep in touch and write text messages.
Łukasz Skorupski: Sometimes the coach will talk after the match. At the World Cup, he wrote to me in his style: "Congratulations, we keep fighting." When I defended against the Netherlands or Chile, he texted me that it was a good match.
You sent back longer responses to show him you'd changed. No "Thank you", but a few lines.
Łukasz Skorupski: I have to let him know that this is another Łukasz Skorupski. Because you know, I changed with him, I was a bit of a boor. I grew up with Górnik fans, we were all the same in Zaborze.
Were you rude?
Łukasz Skorupski: You know that, well... When I met Nawałka in Górnik, man, he also started teaching me such kindnesses. "Thank you, please, why don't you talk like that?" he pointed out. And so to all players, not just me. Thank the lady at the laundry. Thank the lady in the kitchen.
"Good morning" must be said.
Łukasz Skorupski: I didn't always say before. I will remember coach Nawałka well. In national team we talk about him a lot.
And what are you talking about?
Łukasz Skorupski: That "Nawala" was fucking awesome. Everyone knows that we worked hard and everything was arranged like in the army. But man... There was no money in Górnik, but he was able to arrange everything in such a way, to wind up the president of Zabrze that she paid us salaries every month. Because earlier in Górnik they paid once every six months. The coach came and we came to him to help with these payouts. He met with the president and they started paying monthly. We didn't have rarities, but some fruits appeared after training.
The fields had to be even.
Łukasz Skorupski: Bartek Spałek, our masseur, I remember that he took creatine, some other supplements, conditioners. Everything was coming in.
Was it Nawałka who introduced it?
Lukasz Skorupski: Yes! Earlier, come on, and he introduced such a greater professionalism - breakfasts in the club, dinners in the club. He was trying to put it all together. Although I remember, honestly, that sometimes we complained about it.
You called him Fidel.
Łukasz Skorupski: It was like that, we were exercising at the gym. He was looking one way and you did eight reps instead of ten. Right away he would be angry with you: "How much have you done?! Eight! Two more!". I don't know how he saw it, but he didn't miss a thing man, he saw it all. At one point, the team thought, "Well, there's no resisting and there's a ride. We're going this way." We didn't have any outstanding players, and we were standing well in the table, even in sixth place.
And many got promoted: you, Paweł Olkowski, Arek Milik.
Łukasz Skorupski: Each of us has gone abroad. It was so that when Nawałka started, I did not believe in such things at all. He brought Remek Rzepka to the club, I think he studied in America. And he introduced what the entire Ekstraklasa is doing now. And yet we are talking about what happened ten years ago in Poland. They were the first to introduce rollovers.
How did you react?
Łukasz Skorupski: I did it, but with the thought - what the fuck is this? Shall I roll some muscles? Some rubber, extra work? Give me the ball and the games. And they began to notice that motor skills are improving, that injuries are prevented. In Górnik, everyone had to be at the gym half an hour before training.
And you are doing it in Bologna now.
Łukasz Skorupski: It's normal abroad. In Poland, it came with coach Nawałka. You know how it was in Ekstraklasa. Earlier, probably with coach Wieczorek... Although I don't remember. Okay, never mind. I was already playing in the first team, and I would arrive at the club at 10:50. Five minutes to get changed and at 11 I left for training. End of training, bath and departure.
This would not work for Nawałka.
Łukasz Skorupski: You had to be in his locker room 45 minutes before training. Let me tell you, I really appreciate it now. The best coach I had in Poland. I always talked when I was playing for Górnik that coach Nawałka should join the national team. He's gonna make all these rules, damn it. And you see - he did some result.
Quarterfinals of the European Championship.
Łukasz Skorupski: Damn, well... But let me tell you that at the national team it was a bit different. Lighter.
At the first team training camp in Grodzisk Wielkopolski there was also a similar drill, only the players told him to let it go.
Łukasz Skorupski: I wasn't there yet. He was so much more laid back after that. And you can't go like that during training sessions with the national team, because you play two matches a week. You come prepared from the club, you work on tactics without great strength and so on, because the match is coming soon. This is what it looks like in the national team. More could be done when it was EURO, where we had two weeks of preparation. Now at the World Cup, we didn't live in training either. All the time tactics and matches. But, you know, you've been in form because you're coming mid-season.
I always remember Coach Nawałka well. I don't know how he did it, because there was poverty in Górnik, but at some point we had everything I said - nutrients, some fruit after training. We were paid our salaries every month. We went to Zakopane for the camp. Oh Jesus. We stayed in one of the best hotels. And what the fuck, how much we ran. But let me tell you - I have respect for the fact that he developed such a character for me.
A lot of coaches could kick you out of the club for "Lorneta and Medusa", where you fought with other customers and trashed the place.
Łukasz Skorupski: Well fuck, that's why I'm telling you. He gave me a second chance, he did a great job. After it happened, I had a meeting with him at the club. I entered the coach room without knocking. I sat down on the sofa right away, I remember that. The coach looked at me strangely: "What are you doing?! Get up, leave and come back like a normal person." So I went out, this time I knocked. I sat down and told him everything how it was.
How did he react?
Łukasz Skorupski: Nice, because he said that he also did stupid things in his youth. It happens to young people, you know you have to go crazy. The most important thing for him was not to do it again. And I didn't repeat it. I didn't play in the first match after this action, but in the next round I was again in the lineup. I had a good season, my best in Ekstraklasa. Because you know, damn, I wanted to repay him a little.
Well, but he gave up on your brother.
Łukasz Skorupski: Not him, but club's board.
Michał was after a serious injury and trained as a guest with the first team of Górnik. He had a chance to stay.
Lukasz Skorupski: Exactly. He was injured, he did not have a contract with Górnik, but he could train with us. We just did this action in "Lorneta and Meduza" and they thanked him right away.
As the first.
Łukasz Skorupski: Earlier there was an idea to offer him a contract. I got a penalty, Olo Kwiek got a penalty, Adam Danch got a penalty.
How did the 20-year-old, promising player in Ekstraklasa felt arrested?
Łukasz Skorupski: Four of us were in arrest - me, Adam Danch, Olek Kwiek and my brother. Each in a different cell. And man, what's going on down there? You sit and sleep with a break for food.
Although good?
Łukasz Skorupski: A piece of bread and tea in a metal mug. Jesus. The worst days of my life. I promise you. The worst three days of my life! I had everything ruffled, you're lying in the same clothes. Nor bathe, only pee somewhere next to people.
Who were you sitting with?
Łukasz Skorupski: With a guy who sold drugs to someone else who died. You understand?
With a dealer.
Lukasz Skorupski: Yes. Life is like that. I don't know how in Italy they will read it and ask: what the...? Even though it was ten years ago, write that it was ten years ago.
You had a black eye then.
Łukasz Skorupski: We sat in the same clothes and waited for them to take us out. We left after three days. We were pulled out by the late Krzysiu Maj with Bartek Laburda. Before that, there was also a sobering-up room. You go, you strip down to your panties and you sleep like that. Just so you know, because there are some psychos... They take their belts off, everything. You are lying on a mattress on the ground, and the worst thing is that there are twenty people in the room and there is no toilet.
How did Matilde react to all this when you told her what you were like?
Łukasz Skorupski: Well, she was in shock. But she also knows that I have changed. Also thanks to her. She appreciates that I was able to leave Zaborze and take care of myself, and you know what a difference it makes.
Big?
Łukasz Skorupski: Man, no... Compared to my life in Poland, it's a gulf. She appreciates that I was able to adapt to another. This in Italy. You know how they live here, you've seen it - coffee, cappuccino. Although there is also crime in Italy.
You, for example, were robbed in Bologna.
Łukasz Skorupski: Sometimes when I think about it, it still makes me furious. We lived on the ground floor in an apartment with a garden. I was playing at home against Napoli, Matilde left the house half an hour after kick-off. They had to watch her. After the match with my young and "Zielu" we still kicked the ball in the gym at the stadium. Leo knows his uncle, likes him. Everything's fine, we go home, and there's like a bomb went off. Everything is broken, lying on the ground. I felt fucking bad.
Matylda was in Zaborze?
Lukasz Skorupski: She was.
Did she like it?
Łukasz Skorupski: These were our beginnings, and you know how it is in a relationship - deeply in love, you won't say anything bad. Today, as she recalls that visit, she admits that she was shocked.
What shocked her the most?
Łukasz Skorupski: That Silesia is still so gray. And she's from Sardinia. For her, the strangest thing was that every block in Zaborze is the same. Only the number changes. She shook her head: "All the blocks are the same. Only the hospitals are different, and there is no difference." And what, well, I took her to Auschwitz, I remember. She insisted on going there. For Italians, this is a moving story, they take the history of the concentration camps seriously. She wanted to see, so we went. Today, when Matilde is in Poland, we mainly visit my family in the countryside. We will also go there this June.
Where?
Łukasz Skorupski: To my mother. It's a village, 50 kilometers from Brodnica. It takes an hour and a half to get to Toruń. Lakes, we have a boat, fish, bonfires in the evenings. It's fucking great there. Matilde likes it too, she loves nature. Boy, we're walking somewhere in the fields, and she raves about the cows. She's in love with animals, right. Cows, chickens, it doesn't matter.
The whole family from mother and father - cousins, aunts - lives there. They all live 15 kilometers next to each other. One family from mom, the other from dad. Here is one village, here is another, and there was a disco between them. My parents met there. Later, my father went to Silesia to work in a mine, and my mother with him.
Your dad wasn't interested in football.
Łukasz Skorupski: He was from the countryside, he had nothing to do with football. He didn't play it at all. The old man was a boxer. You know, he trained himself and boxed himself.
Did he go to your games?
Lukasz Skorupski: No. Rarely. I don't blame him. I never wanted to be daddy's boy. When I was young, he used to come to a game.
And when have you already played in Ekstraklasa?
Łukasz Skorupski: I don't think he came to Ekstraklasa even once. My old man wasn't a Górnik. He watched on TV.
When I started training in Zaborze when I was young, I jumped over the fence and was already on the pitch. Nobody had to see me off. When I was ten years old, times were different, I would get on a tram and drive an hour to training. Two transfers from Zaborze and you had to walk there too.
You were ten years old and you were already driving alone?
Łukasz Skorupski: We traveled from Zaborze in two or three. We had a training group where parents of other coaches licked ass, and I was always alone. I don't blame the old man for not coming. I know he worked hard and had to rest after the mine. Those who had more money, some business of their own, could come to their son whenever they wanted. They were sucking up to the coaches, giving gifts so that only the kid would play. I was the only one who didn't care about it. I was fucking great keeper in the youngsters and the coach loved me. His name is Jerzy Urban. Write it, write it, he will be happy. Sometimes we text each other. He treated me fairly even though I came without my parents and I didn't suck up to anyone. I was good and that was it, and he let me play. Other parents were furious: "Why doesn't my son play, I bought shirts for the team." The coach liked me so much that he would take me home after training and drink tea with the old ones.
Two years older brother, Michał, also played football.
Łukasz Skorupski: I think that as a goalkeeper I feel so good and agile because I had a different childhood. I would go outside with the boys and jump from tree to tree, doing some flips in the bushes. And train to add to that. Mom would let us out at nine o'clock in the morning, we would come back at 11 pm, when she was screaming from the window: "Come home!". That's how I grew up, huh.
I would never trade my childhood for anything. I went crazy. Jesus, you went to the lake, no matter if the water was warm or cold. When I was young, I spent my summers in the countryside. We drove tractors, I went to work to pick strawberries or potatoes.
Did they pay well?
Łukasz Skorupski: Tenner in an hour. We earned about 50pln a day. In the evening we met at the fire station and played a match, and at the end a shop and ice cream. The next day the same. Oh, I slept in the barn too.
Idyllic, carefree.
Łukasz Skorupski: Like in the countryside. It was a little different in the city. Although I played football everywhere - in the countryside and in the city.
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2023.03.21 11:47 Wraith_hunt 22m [friendship] [Group] Irish guy looking for friends
Howdy !!!
How is everyone? I hope you are all well and had pizza recently, we love pizza !
Today I’m on the search for friends! Cool people, weird people, every type of people !! And I would love it if you would be interested in joining a group of other amazing people who love pizza !
So I guess your all wondering who I am well I am wraith! Please to meet you ! I am Bachelor of Arts of student who is studying History, psychology and Anthropology. I’m a huge nerd, my favourite fandoms are Warhammer, Star Wars, Lord Of the Rings, and the Soulsborne series. I have two tattoos and I’m getting my third soon ! Massive fan of Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul I have a cute dog named Cooper! Oh and I’m from the beautiful Emerald Isle known as Ireland, great place, great drink, fun place to visit !! Well thank you for reading, I hope to hear from someone soon !!
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2023.03.21 11:47 Wraith_hunt 22 year old Irish guy looking for friends!
Howdy !!!
How is everyone? I hope you are all well and had pizza recently, we love pizza !
Today I’m on the search for friends! Cool people, weird people, every type of people !! And I would love it if you would be interested in joining a group of other amazing people who love pizza !
So I guess your all wondering who I am well I am wraith! Please to meet you ! I am Bachelor of Arts of student who is studying History, psychology and Anthropology. I’m a huge nerd, my favourite fandoms are Warhammer, Star Wars, Lord Of the Rings, and the Soulsborne series. Oh I love Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul I have two tattoos and I’m getting my third soon ! I have a cute dog named Cooper! Oh and I’m from the beautiful Emerald Isle known as Ireland, great place, great drink, fun place to visit !! Well thank you for reading, I hope to hear from someone soon !!
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2023.03.21 11:44 meangirls1986 You can’t eat at dog owners houses
I’ve seen so many examples of poor hygiene from friends and family. Feeding a dog with bare fingers, allowing it to lick the food off the fingers, and then not washing hands before preparing food. Using the same washing up brush for the dogs bowl and human plates/cutlery. Dogs shaking clouds of hair in the kitchen, and watching them slowly settle on the food.
I’ve also seen TikTok’s of “cute moments” where dogs lick the cheese off a plate; grab a pizza; people handing a plate with gravy on for the dog to ‘clean’, dogs going into fridges to get food…
It’s all so disgusting. I’ve learnt a long time ago not to eat at a house if there is a dog nutter in it.
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2023.03.21 11:43 Late-Focus4056 Rehome Cat
Looking to re-home a beautiful Siamese cat. He was a stray and one of my friends found him and then threw him onto me. I would keep him but I already have a dog and they don’t seem to mesh well. He is very sweet and good with kids. He does need to be fixed still. I rather find someone on here then putting him in a shelter. His name is Jinx, I don’t know much or anything about his medical history but he seems healthy and maybe around 2? I’m sad to see him go but my hands are already full. Message for more info, thank you!
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2023.03.21 11:43 DeadFishCRO [H] Humble bundle/ Fanatical leftovers [W] Game offers, paypal (EU)
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2023.03.21 11:42 coconutgonzales My partner broke up with me and I discover that I'm pregnant. If I found out a day earlier, we'd still be together. He said we were forever just a week ago...
I'm just in a state of disbelief and fear. My heart is shattered & I feel so abandoned. My partner of 1.5 years traumatically dumped me the other day via text. A day after it ended, I took a test. My period was late, and I realised that my last "period" was actually just implantation bleeding. I’m absolutely getting an abortion. Literally a week before, my partner was saying things like “We’re forever,” “I want to grow old with you,” “I want a life with you,” “I want to move in with you,” “I don’t want anyone else.” A week later, BAM, discarded. I know 100% for sure that if I found out I was pregnant a few days earlier, he’d be there for me, he'd probably be lying next to me right now. Literally just a day before, there's no way he would've left me - I know him. We would've worked through it and our other issues would be so minor. Even if people would say he'd leave me in the future anyway, at least he'd be there for me now as a partner, not a guy who's going to go "no-contact" with me when it's over. This is one of the scariest , traumatising moments of my life & he’s just up and left. From professing his love to me and asking to move in with me to now sending robotic auto-generated texts like “I’m sorry you’re feeling this way.” I know we aren’t together but what on earth is this? How can you go from extreme love to absolutely nothing in a week, especially considering I’m pregnant with HIS child. He’s been so hot and cold. So black and white. Yet, he calls me these things all the time. I can assure you, nothing horrible happened between us. The dumping was triggered because he liked a revealing photo of his friend who he had let sleep in his bed prior and I expressed my anxiety about this, calmly.
We've gone through an abortion before - also during the midst of a breakup (OFC this happens to me!!) and he was immensely supportive, loving, kind, was calling me, messaging me, booked a hotel room for it, held me, kissed me and decided to give it another shot - I literally didn't expect this. This time round he is a different person.
I feel petrified, empty, scared, just a million things. I wish, I wish I knew before - a week before, a day before. This past month was CHAOTIC as hell - my moods were all over the place and I felt like absolute shit which significantly strained the relationship. NOW I know why. I was so confused why I was acting so much more reactive & emotionally. If I had taken a test earlier, we'd both realise this and work through it all. Now it's over, he's just going to leave after the abortion and it's going to feel even worse. Instead, I am alone, and he gets to live life scot-free whilst I suffer. It's shit, it's so shit. WHY did this happen? Why now! He’s off to the gym everyday, can work, hangs out with friends, can eat. I’m lying in bed, haven’t eaten a meal in a week, taking time off work, isolated and devastated.
Everyone is supporting me and would do anything, but him. I know we’re not “together”, but considering he plays a role and said he wants to be with me forever to a sudden “no-contact” hurts me more than anyone has. Having BPD, this makes it all the more worse as the abandonment is HELL as my primary relationship is over full stop. Just like that.
The butterfly effect. Everything happens for a reason. Karma. Fate. I don't know. Why did this happen?
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2023.03.21 11:35 jwz16436 Applying for a Tourist (L) Visa Early and Changing Itinerary Later
Hi everyone!
I'm a citizen of country A legally residing in country B, but I plan to visit China for a month and enter from country B. I then plan to travel from China to country C.
As you can see, it's quite a complicated itinerary and I feel like it would be risky to apply without round trip tickets. I will also be travelling to different cities within China, staying with a friend for some portions of the trip, so I don't want to have to show hotel bookings and other flight receipts for within China.
As far as I'm aware, once issued, an L visa only mentions that you must enter before it's date of expiry, and it's not directly linked to the itinerary you submit.
I was wondering if it's possible, or if anyone has every done so before, to apply for an L visa months in advance using fully refundable round trip plane tickets/hotels booked for a week trip or so, but only for the sake of getting the visa? After which, I would cancel those flights and hotel reservations, and book a new flight for China for the date that I had originally planned.
I hope this isn't too confusing! Thanks in advance for your advice.
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2023.03.21 11:28 PrinceOfBeauty Colegii de apartament
Salut,
Sunt intr-o situatie mai ciudata si nu stiu cum sa procedez. Eu am o parere, colegii mei alta.
Suntem 4 persoane intr-un apartament de 3 camere. 2 persoane, cuplu, stau in aceeasi camera. S-a ajuns aici intrucat baiatu' venea des si am zis ca daca tot vii si stai aici cat ai chef, contribuie la plata facturilor si cu chiria te intelegi cu proprietarul (in final nu plateste chirie) (am fost un dragutz :), sa-mi fie invatatura)
Acum, o persoana e acasa de 1 an, timp in care nu a contribuit la plata facturilor. Totul a fost impartit la 3.
De cateva luni, si cuplul a plecat pentru a face economie cica (desi chiria se plateste in continuare) si nu prea este de acord sa contribuie la facturi.
Am ramas singurul care se pare ca ar trebui sa plateasca facturile. Ok, inteleg ca trebuie sa platesc singur gazul, curentul ( desi e un frigider la comun care merge mereu:)), sa zicem ca nu l pun la socoteala), m3 de apa. Mi se pare corect, cat am consumat singur, atat platesc de unul singur.
Dar faza e ca internetul, gunoiul, ce alte minunatii mai vin de la asociatie pe langa pretul/m3 apa (de ex lumina pe casa scarii, salarii, deratizare etc), NU mi se pare corect sa le platesc singur.
Ne-am inteles ca stam 4, dupa parerea mea trebuie sa impartim la 4. Chit ca tu stai acasa 2-3 saptamani sau 2-3 luni.
Asa si eu am stat 10 zile in februarie si 2 saptamani in martie acasa. Pentru aceste zile cine ar trebui sa plateasca dupa logica lor? Bau-Bau?
Daca stai in chirie undeva, ai responsabilitati, e casa ta practic. Vrei sa platesti pt cate zile stai efectiv, du-te la hotel fratioare ce naiba.
Sau elibereaza naibii camera si o sa vina altcineva, eu am vrut sa stau cu mai multe persoane pentru a economisii si eu, pt a nu plati singur totul. Asa, cum stau acum si dupa cum zic ei ca tebuie sa platesc tot, mai bine stau singur si am siguranta ca nu ma trezesc cu nimeni dupa cum are chef la mine in casa.
Gresesc eu cumva, undeva? Ce ma sfatuiti sa fac?
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2023.03.21 11:20 NaughtySoloPrincess My Friends Ate All The Corned Beef, Help?
I had a group of friends over on Saturday and made plenty of corned beef and cabbage to go around, but we were left with a small amount of beef (that we ate in our customary bowl of leftovers) and a ton of vegetables (cabbage, potatoes, carrots, turnips). Are there any recipes we can use these in? I've already given the dog a healthy serving of cabbage and I really don't want any of these veggies to go to waste, but also don't want to make another corned beef.
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2023.03.21 11:15 cotocoo Rehoming - two year old pup
My husband and I are in need of rehoming our dog Benny (Benito). We are looking for a forever home for him.
Benny was born Oct. 5th, 2021, at a small pig farm in Colima, Mexico. His mother is a rescued mutt and father, we are unsure. He is a healthy neutered male with a lot of energy. He won't get any bigger and currently weighs about 35 lbs.
The ideal forever home would have the following characteristics: - loving dog parent(s) - Dog parent(s) who love to walk, run and/or hikes - Frequently - someone with patience and time - large back yard (fenced preferably)/farm possibly - no other animals, especially no small animals. - commitment to dog life long updates
A little bit more about Benny: - He's leash trained. Went to boarding school for two months. Was trained with German collar. - Knows commands like sit, stay, come, down, paw, and cage. Sometimes too excited to follow them. Potty trained as well. - Friendly, but very curious, anxious and sometimes other dogs make him uncomfortable. Not the best with small dogs. - Does not have experience with or around children. - Some behavioral issues - loves to sleep in bed but also likes the floor - Is very loving, loyal and unconditional. - Likes to play fetch, but bad at sharing. - Loves belly rubs, pets, shadows and lots of attention
My husband and I will be traveling up to Whatcom county at the end of the month (March) please message me if you are interested.
Please note: Rehoming fee applies. Serious inquiry only.
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